Breakups are hard for everyone. But for women with ADHD, they can feel all-consuming. Dr. J unpacks why heartbreak hits harder when you have ADHD — and how your brain’s reward system, emotional regulation, and executive functions all get thrown off balance. You’ll learn science-backed strategies to stop the mental replay loop, manage impulsivity, and start healing with compassion. If you’ve ever felt “too much” after a breakup, this episode is for you.For more on this topic: Listen: Dr. J’s breakup playlistListen: ADHD and emotional regulationListen: ADHD and dating: Why crushes feel so intenseListen: ADHD and dating: Why casual dating never feels casualTimestamps: (00:47) Why heartbreak feels like withdrawal for ADHD brains(01:26) How emotional intensity and slower recovery amplify grief(02:54) The science behind stress, distraction, and impulsivity(06:24) Practical tools to interrupt mental replay and reclaim focus(09:48) Using your ADHD traits to support recovery and renewalFor a transcript and more resources, visit MissUnderstood on Understood.org. You can also email us at [email protected]. Understood.org is a nonprofit organization dedicated to empowering people with learning and thinking differences, like ADHD and dyslexia. If you want to help us continue this work, donate at understood.org/give Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

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