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MrBallen Podcast: Strange, Dark & Mysterious Stories

The Preacher's Fiancée (PODCAST EXCLUSIVE EPISODE)

26 Jan 2026

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Chapter 1: What happened on May 22, 1993, that shocked a community?

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On May 22, 1993, a man named Kurt was carrying some boxes into his new home. He had just moved into this two-story house, along with his fiancée, whose name was Kem. Kurt went into the house, and he dropped the boxes in the foyer, and then he turned back to head back down to the car to get another load. And as he walked down the steps, he passed his fiancée, Kem, and they smiled at each other.

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She was making her way up, he was making his way down. But seconds after they passed each other, right as Kurt got back to the car, he felt this incredible pressure and blast wave hit him in the back that almost sent him flying. And then when Kurt turned around, he could not believe what he saw.

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But before we get into today's story, if you're a fan of the Strange, Dark, and Mysterious delivered in story format, then you've come to the right place because that's all we do. So if that's of interest to you, please sneak into the Follow Buttons house and replace their toothpaste with numbing cream. Okay, let's get into today's story.

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On the evening of Friday, May 21st, 1993, a 29-year-old woman named Kem Wenger clapped her hands together in front of her with happiness in the basement of the Golden Congregational Church in rural Iowa.

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Her closest friends had gathered here to throw Kem and her fiancé, 32-year-old Kurt Simon, a combination wedding shower and goodbye party, and now they were presenting the couple with their gift. It was a money tree planted in a little yellow coffee can with envelopes full of cash hanging off of it.

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Cam and Kurt both smiled and began making their way through the crowd to give everybody a big hug and to say thank you. Tonight was a big night for them. All their plans were finally falling into place.

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Tomorrow, they would pack all of Kurt's belongings into their car, and they would drive 230 miles south from the place where he had been living in Iowa to the city of Bloomington, Illinois, just outside of Chicago, where Kem already lived. And in Bloomington, they would begin their new life together as a soon-to-be-married couple, raising Kem's two children from previous relationships.

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It had been a whirlwind eight months since they had first met on actually a blind date. Cam had known almost immediately that Kurt really was something special. But it hadn't been easy for them to get to this point. They both had almost no money. Kurt was studying to be a Presbyterian minister and living in Iowa to finish seminary school.

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And Cam was a single mom living in Bloomington who had just recently quit her office job because her co-worker was sexually harassing her. She'd taken on off-the-books work as a hairdresser and house cleaner, but she still had to rely on public assistance to make ends meet. The long-distance relationship itself was also just exhausting, with all the driving back and forth.

Chapter 2: Who were Kem and Kurt, and what was their relationship?

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And outside, the street was chaos. There were all these people who Shepard guessed must be neighbors shouting and running around. And there was debris everywhere. Broken glass and splintered pieces of wood and chunks of metal that had basically been blown out of the house out onto the street.

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In the driveway of this home, Shepard could see there was a man who had his hands on his head and he looked frantic. And he was yelling the name Kem over and over again as he looked towards the destroyed house. And it was at that point Shepard realized there must be someone or multiple people inside of the house. And he really couldn't wait for backup to go find them.

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So he and his partner shouted for everyone to stay back. And then they raced up the stairs into the smoke. Once Shepard was inside the front foyer, he could tell there was no active fire, just lots of smoke kind of hanging in the air. And he looked around and he saw there was a six inch hole on the wall right near the front door. And there was another hole right in the floor of the foyer.

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But even though he saw those things pretty quickly, his attention quickly snapped to the body of a woman who was on the ground. And it was immediately clear that there was nothing they could do for her. Literally half of her head was just missing. In his entire career, Shepard had never worked a murder case where the weapon was a bomb.

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But standing in this blackened, destroyed foyer over the charred body of this woman... Shepard felt sure that that is exactly what he was looking at right now. Around this point, the officers from the other squad car had now come up the stairs and into the house. But Shepard told them to get back, go back outside, because the scene was not safe to process yet.

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They needed the fire department here, and they needed the bomb squad, because there could be more explosives. Not long afterwards, Shepard and the other officers stood on the front lawn as members of the fire department and the state police bomb squad combed through the scene. By this point, Detective Shepard had learned a bit more about what had happened.

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The dead woman was Kem Wenger, and the man he had seen screaming in the driveway was Kem's fiance, Kurt Simon. Neighbors said the pair had arrived around 10.30 p.m., and a couple of the neighbors had actually noticed them before the blast went off when they started unloading their car.

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These neighbors said that they saw Kurt be the first one to go inside the house, and when he did, he went in carrying a box that he had pulled from the back of the car. And then these neighbors said they saw Kurt come out again empty-handed, but he went down to the back of the car again, and he appeared to put something in the trunk.

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And at the same time, Cam had grabbed a box from the car, and she went into the house by herself, and that's when the explosion happened. Shepard was troubled by these accounts. He thought it was suspicious that Kurt had been able to walk into the house without getting hurt. And then just seconds later, Kem goes in and her arrival seems to have triggered the explosion.

Chapter 3: What challenges did Kem and Kurt face before the explosion?

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And he said that Kem's estranged mom, Wilma Lewis, who everybody called Cricket, was, quote, every kind of evil. But Kurt had seemed to have no information to offer about what he had actually witnessed before the explosion. He had stuck to a story that he had not seen anything suspicious at all in the foyer. which Shepard found hard to believe.

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Kurt also had no explanation for why the bomb exploded on Kem and not on him, and he also denied knowing anything about the bomb-making materials that had been found in Kem's basement. Kurt also said he hadn't put anything back in his trunk around the time of the explosion, but he couldn't explain why the neighbors said he had.

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Shepard ultimately thought Kurt was either the most unobservant person alive or he was lying. And on top of all that, Kurt had refused to take a lie detector test. However, Shepard still had to let him go home. The detective just didn't have anywhere near enough evidence to arrest Kurt, at least not yet.

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At this point, the bomb squad was actually still searching the house for any additional bombs. So the crime scene techs had not gotten in yet to begin to start looking for forensic evidence. They actually hadn't even been able to remove Kem's body yet. Shepard knew the day ahead was going to be very busy.

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Other members of his team had spent the entire night canvassing the neighborhood and notifying and questioning Kem's family members. And now Shepard was sure there was going to be quite a few interrogations for him to conduct. He'd already been awake for 24 hours by this point, but he knew there was not going to be any sleep soon.

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So he walked to the office coffee pot and poured himself a cup of coffee and stood there drinking it and thinking about how he was going to nail Kurt Simon for murder. Meanwhile, the bombing itself was making huge news all across Illinois. By about 9 a.m.

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on Sunday morning, so less than 12 hours after the explosion, there were all these reporters milling around the front entrance of the police station and some were even going in and out of the lobby trying to talk to people and get any information.

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And Detective Shepard knew this story was only going to get bigger because the Illinois State Bomb Squad had just called in the Federal Bureau of Alcohol, Tobacco, and Firearms, or ATF, to help them process the scene. And all that meant there was going to be an enormous amount of pressure on Shepard, who was leading the investigation.

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And this pressure was especially stressful this morning because... because the case he'd thought he'd had against Kem's fiance, Kurt Simon, was starting to fall apart. In all their interviews with Kem's friends, everyone had said Kem and Kurt had a good relationship and were excited to start their life together.

Chapter 4: What led to the explosion at Kem's house?

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They knew this neighborhood very well, and everybody in this neighborhood knew them, and they would not find it suspicious at all to see them there. Plus, they knew they would have an alibi for the time period when the bomb actually would go off. Once the bomb was mostly assembled, the killer gathered up most of their things.

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They left behind some random supplies in the basement, but figured it didn't really matter since the explosion would take care of everything. Feeling very confident in their workmanship so far, the killer walked back upstairs and placed the nearly completed bomb on the floor in the foyer.

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And then as they completed the final steps, they could feel sweat beating on their forehead because if they did anything wrong, the bomb would go off. But the killer got it all done and they stood up very slowly and carefully and walked back out through the front door. But before they could get in their car and drive away, they saw one of the neighborhood girls playing in the yard next door.

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And the girl looked at them and waved and said hello. And the killer, who felt like they belong there and no one will remember me, they waved back. Well, the little girl remembered that interaction, and she would tell Detective Shepard who she saw leaving Kem's house. It was none other than Kem's ex-boyfriend and the father of her son, Dale Fostick.

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Dale was very upset that Kem had broken up with him and was now seeing Kurt. He had also heard from Cricket, who he was still very close with, that Kurt had talked about adopting his own son, and this enraged him. He couldn't stand the idea that his own boy might grow up calling another man dad.

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So he used the electronic skills and the tools he'd acquired from his hobby of building model airplanes to build a pipe bomb. And so ultimately, Dale was caught because of his entitlement to feel like he could just stroll into Kemp's house anytime he wanted. Because he did that all the time, despite her saying not to, he became a familiar face in the neighborhood.

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And that's why that little girl remembered him. After months of forensic work that tied Dale even more closely to the bomb, he was finally arrested and found guilty of first-degree murder and sentenced to 61 years in prison. But he would only serve 14 of those years because in 2010, while still behind bars, Dale died of a sudden illness.

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A quick note about our stories, they are all based on true events, but we sometimes use pseudonyms to protect the people involved, and some details are fictionalized for dramatic purposes. The Mr. Ballin Podcast, Strange, Dark, and Mysterious Stories, is hosted and executive produced by me, Mr. Ballin. Our head of writing is Evan Allen. Our head of production is Zach Levitt.

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Produced by Jeremy Bone. This episode was written by Zeth Lundy. Research and fact-checking by Shelley Hsu, Samantha Van Hoose, Evan Beamer, Abigail Shumway, and Camille Callahan. Research and fact-checking supervision by Stephen Ear. Audio editing and post-produced by Whit Lacascio and Cole Lacascio. Additional audio editing by Jordan Stidham. Mixed and mastered by Brendan Cain.

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