Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships
Episodes
087 - Five Mistakes Polyamory N00bs Make
04 Oct 2016
Contributed by Lukas
For a long time there haven't been many public role models to demonstrate healthy, high-functioning polyamory, in contrast to the many demonstrations ...
086 - Sustainable Relationships
27 Sep 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Sustainability means making decisions that address the needs of the present without compromising the needs of the future. The term is most often appli...
085 - Meeting Your Metamours
20 Sep 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Having a positive relationship with your metamours can dramatically improve the quality of your relationship landscape. In this episode we cover the w...
084 - Zen and the Art of First Dates
13 Sep 2016
Contributed by Lukas
If you are new to poly or just opening up your relationship, you may come to a realization that is exciting for some and terrifying for others: time t...
083 - The Triforce of Communication
06 Sep 2016
Contributed by Lukas
It's dangerous to go alone...take this! It's the Triforce of Communication!What is that, you ask? The Triforce of Communication, other than being a ne...
082 - Multiple Attachment Styles for Multiple Partners
30 Aug 2016
Contributed by Lukas
This week we are discussing the theory of attachment in adults. That may sound daunting, but it's actually quite simple. Your individual attachment st...
081 - Multi-versary: The Sequel
23 Aug 2016
Contributed by Lukas
The Multiamory podcast just turned two years old! Welcome to the terrible twos, baby! On this episode, we give a recap of all the things we've accompl...
080 - Multiple Love Languages, Multiple Lovers
16 Aug 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Your love language is the way in which you express love and prefer to receive love from your partners. Each person has a unique combination of love la...
079 - Polyamory and Spirituality
09 Aug 2016
Contributed by Lukas
OmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmWelcome and namaste! This week we are talking about the spiritual side of alternative relationships. Polyamory has long been ...
078 - Gender, Bisexuality, and Fairness
02 Aug 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Sexual orientation and gender identity are currently hot-button topics. The non-monogamous community attracts many people who are exploring alternativ...
077 - Life Changes and Polyamory
26 Jul 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Ch-ch-ch-ch-changes! Change is an unavoidable part of life but that doesn't keep it from being scary sometimes. We have a lot of personal experience w...
076 - Emotional Abuse and Polyamorous Relationships
19 Jul 2016
Contributed by Lukas
It isn't easy or fun to talk about abuse. Abusive relationships come in many different iterations, and non-monogamous relationships are not exempt fro...
075 - Primary Partners and Priority in Polyamory
12 Jul 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Whew, that's a lotta P's! After many discussions inspired by our solo polyamory episode a few weeks ago, we decided to revisit the topics of hierarchy...
009 - Fundamentals: Attachment Theory and Polyamory
02 Aug 2015
Contributed by Lukas
We're joined by Jessica Fern, author of the upcoming book Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma, and Consensual Non-monogamy. She is also a psychotherapist, ...
008 - Fundamentals: Demon Dance Battles
05 Jul 2015
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're taking a look at EFT creator Sue Johnson's concept of "demon dialogues," or the choreography we tend to fall in to when fighting or ar...
007 - Fundamentals: SHOP: How to Repair After a Fight
07 Jun 2015
Contributed by Lukas
Have you gone to the repair SHOP? We've talked about how to disagree effectively and what to do during arguments, but what about afterwards, or with s...
006 - Fundamentals: Polyamory - The Most Common Questions
03 May 2015
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we're getting back to our roots! The Multiamory crew was interviewed about the basics of polyamory and our personal experiences for a...
005 - Fundamentals: Rules vs. Agreements (ft. Boundaries)
05 Apr 2015
Contributed by Lukas
This week, we discuss the differences between rules, agreements, and boundaries, and how sometimes they can hurt a relationship more than help one. We...
004 - Fundamentals: The Basics of Boundaries
01 Mar 2015
Contributed by Lukas
Let's look at the fundamentals of boundaries. Boundaries are one of the most powerful and important tools for having healthy relationships, but it’s...
003 - Fundamentals: Relationship RADAR: Scrum 2.0
01 Feb 2015
Contributed by Lukas
After a whole year of experimenting with applying agile scrum to relationships, the Multiamory crew is proud to present our new and improved relations...
002 - Fundamentals: The Triforce of Communication
04 Jan 2015
Contributed by Lukas
This is one of our favorite communication tools, and this week we're revisiting it with much more knowledge and experience using it in our daily lives...
001 - Welcome to Multiamory
01 Aug 2014
Contributed by Lukas
We believe in looking to the future of relationships, not maintaining the status quo of the past. We value ethics over tradition, and we believe that ...