Nobody Should Believe Me
Case Files 06: Jesika Jones Part 1 with Detective Mike Weber
Wed, 27 Nov 2024
This week on case files, Andrea is joined by Detective Mike Weber, a crimes against children investigator and long-time friend/contributor to the show, to discuss the Jesika Jones case. Detective Mike is called onto this case in mid-2022 after Jesika brings her 4 year old daughter into Cook Children’s Hospital multiple times for an alleged seizure disorder. As the case evolves, Mike learns just how compulsive an offender who is allowed to walk can truly be. *** Links/Resources: Preorder Andrea and Mike’s new book The Mother Next Door: Medicine, Deception, and Munchausen by Proxy Click here to view our sponsors. Remember that using our codes helps advertisers know you’re listening and helps us keep making the show! Subscribe on YouTube where we have full episodes and lots of bonus content. Follow Andrea on Instagram for behind-the-scenes photos: @andreadunlop Buy Andrea's books here. To support the show, go to Patreon.com/NobodyShouldBelieveMe or subscribe on Apple Podcasts where you can get all episodes early and ad-free and access exclusive ethical true crime bonus content. For more information and resources on Munchausen by Proxy, please visit MunchausenSupport.com The American Professional Society on the Abuse of Children’s MBP Practice Guidelines can be downloaded here. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Chapter 1: What is the Jesika Jones case about?
True Story Media. Hello, it's Andrea and we are bringing you this week's episode one day early in case you have a long drive ahead of you or just some extra downtime this week. Happy Thanksgiving to those who celebrate and while I'm at it, thank you for all of your support. It is the fact that you keep tuning in that lets me keep doing this work and I'm very grateful.
Today, we are sharing the first episode in our new Case Files miniseries about the Jessica Jones case out of Texas. This week, we're on with Detective Mike Weber, friend of the show and frequent contributor, and we will also be talking to the father in this case. This is a harrowing story, but there is a lot to be learned from it.
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You are a longtime friend of the pod and you are also my co-author on our upcoming book, The Mother Next Door, which is coming out next year. So we're doing- Finally, finally. Finally, yeah. We've been working on it for a while, a couple of years, but it's like been a couple of long years. A lot has happened. So we will surely be seeing you again soon.
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Chapter 2: How did the investigation into Jesika Jones begin?
Just to clarify, because in fact, seizure disorders are the reason I know this is because seizure disorders are one of the most common things that are presented with children in Munchausen by proxy case. But unless you're unless you're actively having a seizure, it won't necessarily show activity regardless of whether you have a seizure disorder or not. So it is a bit difficult to pin down.
Right.
But in this case, it sounds like she was actively having symptoms that her mother was attributing to a seizure. So it appeared that she was having an episode, but the EEG machine was not picking anything up.
Right, again, after she went into the bathroom, an hour later, this child was shaking, could not stand, and was clearly having symptoms that the doctor, knowing that they just had the blood test come back, felt that was suspicious for Benadryl poisoning. And at that point, they placed them in the covert video room. Okay. And they contacted me at that point. I spoke with Dr. Kaufman.
And that's Dr. Jamie Kaufman, another friend of the show. She is the child abuse pediatrician at Cook Children's.
Correct. You know, you have to balance on this between stopping the abuse permanently and and risk to the child. And we made the decision right or wrong to leave the child in the video recorded room overnight with everyone know what was going on to try to see what else would happen. And sure enough, there were two episodes in the video room. One where mom said the child threw up,
And Jessica later told me in a subsequent interview that the child threw up in the bed, which obviously never happened. It's not on video ever happening. And then another episode that Jessica reported that the child was shaking, but the video was a little bit less clear on that because the lights were out, but we never saw the victim move. It was like 5 a.m.
in the morning when she reported it, and the victim appeared to be asleep the whole time. So, you know, with that additional evidence, I felt it was something that I could confront her with in an interview and maybe get some admissions.
So with the evidence of you have a videotape where the symptoms are not happening, that she's reporting happening, is that what you're talking about?
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Chapter 3: What were the alarming symptoms presented by Jesika's daughter?
Right. And you could have evidence that the hospital lets you leave.
Okay, so you go to the hospital to confront this mom, Jessica, and what was that initial meeting like?
So they had an empty hospital room that I could use, and we had body cameras so I could record it. And they escorted her, whatever reason they gave her, and she agreed to come into the room. She agreed to talk to me. She was free to leave. She had clear access to the door. Again, cops out there don't block their pathway. Told her she was not in custody.
And unlike CPS in my state, I do not have to read them their rights if they're not in custody. By the way, that's crazy. We'll get in, we can talk about that later. But CPS has to read offenders a full page of rights, even though they're not police, even though their investigation is completely separate from ours.
Chapter 4: What evidence led to the suspicion of abuse?
Anyway, so when she came in, I talked with her, asked for a complete medical history of all of her children, which took some time. And, you know, after that, and have, you know, having her tell me, no, yeah, she threw up and, you know, all these things. And no, I haven't given, she said she hadn't given her Benadryl. She hadn't given her Benadryl before the hospital, coming to the hospital.
She hadn't given her Benadryl in the hospital. And then I was able to start, you know, kind of laying out the evidence that I had, which led to her making admissions.
So you are confronting her on here is what your child's blood tests have shown. Here is what this sort of history shows. And what did she how did she explain that?
She initially denied. Right. And again, this is every offender interview in any type of child, sexual, child, physical abuse, any other types that I've ever done. They present no different in an interview room. Another point to drive home to police. She initially lied and said, no, I didn't, I didn't do that.
And then, you know, I roll out the evidence slowly to her and she says, well, okay, I gave her one. Okay, well, I gave her two. And as I just keep rolling out the information, she makes more and more admissions.
Um, and so this is kind of, as you said, this is like a pattern that you see where it's like first denied, then kind of minimize. Oh, it was, I think something I've heard over and over again in these interviews is it was just one time. It was just one time.
Yeah, and you know, that's not even specific to child abuse. That's every criminal offender ever. Right, it was just the one.
The time I got caught for was the only time I ever did that thing.
Only time I ever did it. Right, yeah, this is not a string of behaviors, yeah. And also, I'm speaking specifically of denial. You know, deny the accusation. You get hit with some additional information. You make admissions, but you never tell the whole truth. That's every criminal offender, pretty much in any criminal offense.
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Chapter 5: How did Detective Weber confront the mother?
Yeah. So it's also important to point out to people this can be done a lot of different ways. This this form of abuse. Right. I mean, this is over the counter Benadryl. She didn't have any nursing experience. We'll get into that later. No matter what she claims.
Sorry, we're talking about the offender in this case.
Yes. I'm sorry. Yes. Yes. Back to Jessica Jones. Jessica had no no nursing experience or anything, but it's over the counter Benadryl. Right. So I knew I was dealing with a serious bodily injury case. I knew this was going to be a first-degree felony, all that. And I'm still going through the interview with her. She starts to make admissions.
She ups it to, instead of one or two, she eventually says three or four. Again, adult strength, 25 milligrams per pill. So 100 milligrams of Benadryl into a four-year-old. At some point, I switch gears with her and I tell her, we know this has happened. We just need to know why. Why do you do this? And that's when she tells me, I don't know. I'm an habitual liar. I'm tired of living life this way.
I'm tired of hurting my family. I'm tired of hurting my kids medically.
Wow. How unusual is that kind of statement in one of these interviews?
It's only unusual because police rarely interview these offenders. Again, they present no different. You're liable to get admissions from these offenders as you are any other offenders. I know that probably goes against some literature, but that literature is written by psychologists, not by police officers, because we just... Unfortunately, not a lot of us interview these offenders.
Again, they don't present to me, and I've interviewed a lot of them, any different than anyone else. Now, I don't get confessions. Let me clarify. I don't get admissions. This is not a confession. This is an admission. She didn't admit her whole entire course of conduct. I don't get admissions from everyone I interview in any type of abuse situation.
But the rate's about the same this for it is child sexual abuse, child physical abuse.
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Chapter 6: What was the father's reaction to the allegations?
upon that confrontation, be able to change course, especially if it's not as severe of a situation where they didn't put their child in a life-threatening position, that there are some sort of small number of offenders that upon confrontation, like in this situation, upon being held accountable, might be able to improve. I mean, what's your opinion on that?
And I mean, again, there's sort of a segment of these people that are ever going to end up in front of you, I think, is the other sort of factor here.
Right. I mean, I'm mainly dealing with advanced offenders. And maybe for the offenders who are not as advanced, right, who are exaggerating, maybe mildly falsifying, that treatment may be helpful. When you get to the point of induction... I don't think, and as when we get through this, as you'll see with Jessica Jones, those who induct, they're a lot like pedophiles. They don't stop.
They keep going. The scary thing is what we don't know is if someone's falsifying. We don't know unless we catch it. We don't know if they're inducing or not. Right. It can be anywhere on that scale at any time. It can be all three at the same time. It's not necessarily a step letter where you go from exaggerating to falsifying to inducing. You can be doing all of it at once.
So you just you have to deal with the facts of each case that come in. And, you know, number one, exaggerating that I'm not going to have a criminal charge.
Someone who's just been lying about their kid's health on social media, for example, or, you know, playing it up at the doctor or, you know, for whatever reason, or just is a person that like, which I think like there's a lot of people who are like this and a lot of people and a lot of us can sort of be somewhere on the spectrum of like,
needing a little more attention for being sick or really like sort of, you know, oversharing on social media or like there's there's sort of a spectrum of behaviors that fall within normal and like none of those people are going to end up in this situation. And I think that's important to point out because,
You know, as we know, there is a lot of misinformation about this and in this sort of medical kidnapping narrative that we're unfortunately stuck in. Thanks to some of my colleagues on the media side. It makes it sound as though, oh, man, one. Facebook post that's TMI about your kid and you're going to be hauled off to jail, right?
Like one, if you just, if you question the doctors too much, if you are a stinker in a, you know, hospital situation and that doctor just wants to teach you a lesson, like you're going to end up in Mike Weber's office. Like, no, that's not, I mean, it could not be further from the truth. It can be so daunting to make an appointment for something.
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Chapter 7: How does Munchausen by Proxy manifest in this case?
She's not telling that you're correct, but she's not telling the whole truth. She's still minimizing. And, you know, as I got further into the investigation, talk to people around her, it became pretty clear that she was the one thing. that she was completely honest about is that she was a habitual liar.
Right. I mean, you know, that's, it's so reminiscent to me of the conversations. And there was a lot about this that reminded me about the Hope Yabar case, because typically there's a lot about these cases that all remind me of each other, right? I mean, I think that has been the helpful thing about talking about so many, many of these cases side by side, you just do see such strong patterns of
In both the abuse itself and in the sort of, you know, behaviors that accompany it both in the area of with their children and also just kind of the rest of their life in terms of their career and their other relationships. But, you know, the reason this podcast is called Nobody Should Believe Me is that that is the one true thing that I think Hope Ybarra ever said.
Um, and it's like, if someone tells you I'm a habitual liar, okay, well, they're telling you like, then everything else that comes out of that person's mouth has to be in that context. And it's, it's almost, there's almost an irony to a habitual liar being honest about being a habitual liar.
But I think then it's like, okay, well, that is sort of that old adage, you know, if people who tell you who they are, listen, right? Yeah.
Yeah.
Right.
Awful lot of fake nurses running around in these cases.
Well, and I told him, you know, if she, no matter what she tells you, no matter how true it sounds, you've got to verify it. Basically, if she tells you the sky is blue, go outside and look up.
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Chapter 8: What psychological impact does this abuse have on families?
Yes, they were married, and I guess it was a placement, right? But it was a safety plan that mom would not be around the kids and have no contact with the children. Gotcha, so with any of her children, right? Yes. Yes. With any child, basically.
Okay. So then tell us about dad in this case. When did you speak to dad? What did we learn about dad during this whole initial piece of things?
I spoke with dad several days later after CPS had interviewed dad. He appeared initially to be protective. And, you know, this is a lot. I mean, this is the woman you love. You thought your kids were... very, very sick. Now you're being told they're not and that she caused it. And to his credit, he protected his children. And as you know, that is not always the case.
And it's usually more times than not that the dad falls in line right behind mom. Derek did not. I give him a lot of credit for that because it's a pretty shocking thing to see. But we had some evidence on this case. And normally, am I gonna tell a dad the evidence I have? No. But in these cases, and it's like I tell police, these cases are different.
And I shared some of the evidence that we had with Derek.
And what's the rationale for like a case, like maybe a child abuse case that's not this form of abuse where you wouldn't share evidence and then a case where, why do you share evidence with the other parent in these cases? Yeah.
If the parent appears to be protective, I share the evidence so that they will know that they're doing the right thing, right? So that they feel a little bit better about abandoning, basically cutting off their spouse from their children. And I'm sure anyone listening, think about if this happened with your spouse, how are you going to react? You're going to be protected.
You should be protective of your spouse, right? So that's why it's important to let them know because family court, CPS, they're just, you know, CPS in my state has no policies on this abuse. They provide no training to any other investigators on this abuse, no mandated training. And they're often are lost. They're Obviously better on induction cases with proof like this case.
This is not a hard case. Right.
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