Not As We Planned
Episodes
34. Buy Me a F****** Meal First Hun
07 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
We answer some intrusive questions we always get asked… also sharing our biggest icks, green flags and teaching men what women really likeProducer: ...
33. Lydia Bright: The Single Mum Club
29 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
We talk about becoming single mums and the highs and lows as well as dating, fostering and Lydia shared her new and exciting venture with us!Producer:...
32. Hindsight Is A Wonderful Thing
22 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
This week we talk about setting those boundaries, learning lessons from past relationships and not staying in those toxic envoirnments.Producer: Trist...
31. Babe... He's Married!
15 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
A man whose most certainly married, whether you should go back to your maiden name and being submerged in balls….Talking about it all this week!Prod...
30. What Would You Rather??
08 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Valentine’s Day might be approaching but we aren’t talking all roses and sunshine’s this week. We share your date fails, terrible valentines sto...
29. You Made a Lucky Escape
01 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Should you tell your kids about infidelity? Do you admit to having children when dating and how to cope with feeling insecure. We discuss it all on th...
28. He Actually Spent the Evening In a Motorway Hotel
25 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
From the obvious red flags to the in law dramas we share your stories and continue to give our opinions to your questions. And don’t worry the confe...
27. We Broke Up
18 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
January seems to be a hard month when it comes to break ups and separation. We talk about this raw topic as one of us goes through the motions of a br...
26. Jessica Hayes: An Honest Chat About Being a Single Parent
11 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
We talk to Love Island star and influencer Jessica Hayes about becoming a single parent, loss and navigating coparentingTrigger Warning: Baby LossProd...
25. A Fresh New Year
04 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
This week we talk all about resolutions, lessons learnt and focuses for the year ahead.Producer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | ht...
24. He Was Cheating on Me With 4 People
21 Dec 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Hearing and sharing your dilemmas and experiences with some shocking stories and giving you our advice the best way we can. We love hearing from you s...
23. That’s Triggering
14 Dec 2023
Contributed by Lukas
This episode we talk about discovering triggers following trauma in past relationships and what we’re doing to work on themProducer: Tristan HehirCi...
22. Shelley J Whitehead: Healing your Heartbreak
07 Dec 2023
Contributed by Lukas
We talk all about fixing relationships, how to leave bad ones and learning more about yourself in order to make your relationship successful.Shelly's ...
21. Tis the Season
30 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
We talk about the anxiety surrounding Christmas as a single parent, elf on the shelf and a cheeky surpriseProducer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostr...
20. The Legal Queen: The Knowledge of all Things Divorce
23 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Helping understand the financial battles, how to split the children and all those questions surrounding divorceProducer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by G...
19. Daniel Chidiac: His Take on Relationships
16 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
We are so excited to have our first guest Daniel Chidiac chatting to us all about relationships. He’s an Australian author with two amazing books wh...
18. Reasons to Stay or Leave
09 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
We talk about what we believe to be the key reasons to leaving or staying in a relationship. Of course no relationship is perfect but we feel like the...
17. Trying to Parent With Your Ex
02 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Sharing your children and parenting with someone you’re trying to move on from can be a challenge to say the least. We share both ours and your expe...
16. The Downside of Social Media
26 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
This week we talk all things social media. Including the impact it has on mum guilt, pressure, comparisons and the list goes on ... Producer: Tristan ...
15. Mum Guilt... But has Anyone Heard of Dad Guilt?
19 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
It’s like the minute you become a mum you feel guilty for everything? You can’t win because even if you don’t feel guilty you feel guilty for no...
14. He Asked Me If I Wanted to Be Spanked and Whipped
05 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Let's talk about sex fetishes. The sexy, the dirty and the downright weird.Producer: Tristan Hehir City Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://sound...
13. Friends… some you gain and some you lose
28 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
This week we talk all things friendship; how it changes with motherhood, going through different situations and how they can serve different purposes ...
12. Continuing the Healing Journey
20 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Discussing more into our healing journey, our biggest fears of ending our relationships and how it can impact new relationships.Producer: Tristan Hehi...
11. Becoming a Mother
14 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Trigger WarningWe chat all about our first experiences becoming mothers, explaining those overwhelming feelings and sadly some births not going as pla...
10. Dating in your 30s
07 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Let’s delve deeper into dating in your 30s, talking about those first date rules and sharing your good and bad experiences as well as ours.Producer:...
9. Manifesting a positive mindset
31 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
We share in more detail our healing processes through journaling, manifesting and vision boards. The perfect way to make change and you can start now....
8. Second Chances
24 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Second chances… do you believe in them? With different opinions, we share our experiences and your stories that you’ve sent in to give you an insi...
7. Let’s Talk Dating Apps
17 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
It’s time to start dating again and we are here to talk all about dating apps, things to avoid on those first dates and knowing when you’re ready ...
6. Our First Holiday As Solo Parents
10 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Going on holiday with your children is hard enough but going without your partner was definitely a new challenge for us both in different ways. Also c...
5. Trusting Again After Heartbreak
03 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
When trust is broken it’s hard to believe you will ever get it back. We share our experiences as well as some of yours and what we feel are the next...
4. Red Flags
27 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Talking about those red flags in relationships that we might be aware of but choose to ignore, or just find it hard to notice when we are living with ...
3. New Beginnings
20 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Episode 3 - Finding our feet with our new solo parenting journey and discussing the highs and lows of coparenting. Giving advice on how to tell your c...
Motherhood:Not As We Planned (Trailer)
13 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
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2. Having your psycho moment
13 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
We are talking all about healing and trying to move on from a break up.Learning that this stage isn't linear and hearing some of your stories about th...
1. It's Over
13 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
When two single mums come together to talk about the realisation of their marriages ending. Chatting all about the new challenges and changes one goes...