Off the Cuffs: a kink and BDSM podcast

392.5 - Not Quite Doomsday

21 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

This week Dick takes a trip to the hospital and records a short solo update episode. Also, they're aware they "pulled a max" and said the wrong number...

392 - Peacock-blocking at the Zoo

12 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with Dominic to discuss needles and rope, as well as the importance of attending queer only events, and the delicious "getting a...

392 - Never Apologize to ME for a Dick Joke

01 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with nubbicorn to discuss slime fetish and pony play! TOSS US A FEW BUCKS AND HELP SUPPORT THE SHOW (PayPal, Cashapp, Venmo, Pat...

391 - Boop is my Ayyye

26 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with Matty to discuss being a eunuch, and a bit about their Mommy/little relationship. TOSS US A FEW BUCKS AND HELP SUPPORT THE ...

390 - Morning Madness

12 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with StarlightLily and ExposedandSwitch to discuss CBT, diapers, and scat play! TOSS US A FEW BUCKS AND HELP SUPPORT THE SHOW (...

389 - Redhead Rage

03 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat back down with KingBitch to discuss discovering their kink and queer self, as well as some of the fun they get up to, such as erotic ...

388 - Jam Hands: Madeline and Alex part Two

22 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat back down with Madeline and Alex to continue our discussion from last week, as well as chatting about gross-out play and waterboardin...

387 - The Sirens Call: Madeline and Alex part One

11 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

  This week we sat down with Madeline and Alex to discuss their beginnings as a couple, and their time in the community, focusing on how they've grow...

386 - What Warms Your Warms

01 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with Dallas to talk about her lifelong curiosity about kink, playing with panic in a consensual setting, and joining the communi...

385 - Love Hard

22 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with Alex, aka thee bimbo brat to discuss her negotiation practices, self collaring, and being a big ol' bimbo.  TOSS US A FEW...

384 - With a Mini Yelp, He Cried Vore Vore Vore!

11 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with Scout to discuss microphilia and vore fetishes.  TOSS US A FEW BUCKS AND HELP SUPPORT THE SHOW (PayPal, Cashapp, Venmo, P...

383 - Big Ass Tea and a Little Gor

01 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with mschievousmouse to discuss using Gor as a blueprint for M/s dynamics, as well as fear, and free use play. TOSS US A FEW BU...

382 - The Apple of My Armpit

15 Mar 2024

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with Crysalyss to talk about rope and predicaments, exploring DD/lg dynamics in a self-healing way, and writing kinky poetry! ...

381 - One Giggle, One Snort, One Queer

02 Mar 2024

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with Mx_Mia_More to talk about clown play, asexuality, aging in kink, and lastly (but not leastly) the Unabashed Queer Kink Con...

380 - The Last Unicorn

16 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with Casey Donatello to discuss how she's living her best non-traditional life. Check out her journey from Unicorn to Hotwife, a...

379 - Nick Nack! TabASSco!

01 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with Zara to discuss CNC, emotional masochism, and blackmail kink. Check out more about Zara on FetLife or on her website Sera ...

378 - Transphobic Disco Fries: or How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Say HAPPY NEW YEAR!

01 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

HAPPY NEW YEAR!  This week Dick and max do their yearly wrap up episode, announce some life updates, and answer listener questions. SUPPORT THE SHOW ...

377 - Emotional Support Mac-N-Cheese

15 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with HypnoStory and PandaPet to discuss Erotic Hypnosis and their relationship dynamic of Master/oblate. Find more about them a...

376 - For a Few Tampons More

01 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with Angel Pubes to discuss their journey on the "purity to pervy" pipeline, as well as planning their first gangbang in 2024! S...

375 - Walking the Cow

15 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with Lady Vivus to discuss Hucow fetish, professional switching, and Batman! Check out her website here! SUPPORT THE SHOW (PayPa...

374 - We Remember Halloween

31 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down to discuss our, and some of our listener's, favorite horny horror movie moments, as well as some fun Halloween themed play party...

373 - Saish It Ain't So-oh-oh-oh

15 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with returning guest, Saish, to discuss the importance of munches and community, as well as switching dynamics in a D/s relation...

372 - I Scream, You Scream

01 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

372 - I Scream, You Scream This week we sat down with Screampie to discuss their exploration into sadomasochism!  SUPPORT THE SHOW (PayPal, Cashapp, ...

371 - Only in a French Way

15 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with Skitty to discuss pregnancy fetish and sadism!  SUPPORT THE SHOW (PayPal, Cashapp, Venmo, Patreon) Check out our sponsor f...

370 - Bull Doohickey

01 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with Hilly to discuss ageplay, spanking, and erotica. Find Hilly's Website and links here! SUPPORT THE SHOW (PayPal, Cashapp, V...

369 - Grandma Cookies: a conversation about Leather and gender

15 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with Stormy aka Hellfire, to discuss the Leather community in Texas, and their gender exploration journey. Find Stormy on FetLi...

368 - Yodeling Denial: a conversation about FLR and Chastity

01 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with Mistress Jasmine Corvina to discuss chastity, FLR, and even squish in a little food/foot fetish talk. Find more about Mistr...

367 - A is for… a conversation about ABDL and Pet Play

26 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This week we talked to Pup Boogie about ABDL and Pet Play, and the stigmas (of past and present) that come with each. We also discuss title holding an...

366.5 - max Goes to TES FEST and Updates

19 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This week Dick and max sit down to talk about some life events/changes to the show, and his experience this year at TES FEST. SUPPORT THE SHOW (PayPal...

366 - The History of Ben & Jerry's: a conversation about porn positivity and sex coaching

12 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with Kaitlin Klarer to discuss her show Watch Girls Watch Porn as well as her time as a dancer and current work as a sex coach!...

365 - The Quicker Picker Upper: a conversation about leather, dominance, and depression

05 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with JimJam to talk about the Dallas leather community and being a 24/7 dominant with depression. We discussed what drew him to ...

364.5 - The Molotov Cocktail Line: a conversation about Pride Month

14 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Struggling with how to celebrate Pride Month when many "celebrations" feel rife with corporate lip service, over-sanitization, and police? After a bri...

364 - Spit-takes and Rubber Chickens: a conversation about disability activism and body positivity

07 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with Auntie Vice, author, host of the Fat Chicks on Top Podcast, and creator of the Love Letters to a Unicorn BDSM blog. We talk...

363 - Serial Waffler: a conversation about bratting and kink after trauma

31 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with Lulabelle, a bratty, subby masochist. We talked about how her D/s dynamic has helped with her mental health, such as being ...

362 - Double Fisting Tea & Coffee: a conversation about asylum fantasies and monsterfucking

24 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with Violet Kitten to talk about her interests in asylum fantasies, monsterfucking, petplay, and bondage. We also discussed how ...

361 - Got Yer Nose: a conversation about rebranding, transitioning, and the queer community

17 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This week we're back for part two of our conversation with Billy Lore. We talked more about his porn creations, rebranding himself as a trans man in t...

360 - Yay For Filling Holes: a conversation about better bottoming for submissives

10 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with returning guest Billy Lore: sex educator, porn maker, and co-host of The Dildorks! We caught up on what he's been up to sin...

359 - Awooga Eyes: a conversation about our kink lives

03 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down to give some updates about the show, how Off the Cuffs almost went off the air recently, and how to support us going forward. We...

358 - What's That Yellow Hankey? A conversation about neurodivergence and the leather community

26 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with Lord Allen, an indigenous queer nonbinary hellhound leatherboi who co-hosts The Kinky Tavern podcast! We talked about their...

357 - Lost in the Sauce: a conversation about kink community spaces

19 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with RhapsodyinBlue to talk about The Gallery, the community space she started in Michigan for play parties, classes, and social...

356 - Glitches and Bitches: a conversation about BarkAgainst and inclusion in the pet play community

12 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with Scruff to talk about inclusion in the pet play community. We talked about BarkAgainst, a campaign she started to support in...

355 - Dr. Bronner's Taint Destroyer: a conversation about Arousr

05 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with Femme Fatale, representative of Arousr, an adult entertainment/kink education platform that connects people to verified wom...

354 - and THE KILLER WOOOLF: a conversation about being the submissive in a 24/7 D/s relationship

29 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with Mon Loup (Wolfie), submissive, wolfdog, and masochist of Crow, our guest from last week! We got their perspective on their ...

353 - Introducing, BIRDMAN… a conversation about being the dominant in a 24/7 D/s relationship

22 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with Crow, dominant, daddy, handler, and sadist of Mon Loup, who happens to be next week's guest! We asked him about his role in...

351 - That Famous Irish Goodbye

08 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This week we had technical issues with our interview, so instead, we're releasing an intro with Dick and max, then airing Dick and Gwen's kinky movie ...

349 - Olive You Gwen: a conversation about boundaries in nonmonogamy

22 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with returning guest  NookieNotes from the DatingKinky podcast. This time around we talked about non-monogamy, such as what asy...

348 - Presidential Cock: a conversation about replicating "naughty bits"

14 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with Noa, creator of The Replicock, a studio where she makes (mainly) penises into art by turning them into dildos, candles, jew...

347 - To Hell and Back: a conversation about Gwen's first fetish shoot and Hellish bonus content

08 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down without a guest to talk about Gwen's first professional fetish shoot, in which she tried out heavy bondage, Michael Myers horror...

346 - What Rhymes With Foot Fetish?: a conversation about submission and femdom worship

01 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with kinky blogger and journalist Podopheleus. He is a submissive who writes about normalization of kink & BDSM, how to visit/ap...

345 - Listener Radioactive Spider Bites Part Two

25 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

It's part two of our call/write-in Radioactive Spider Bites from listeners! We hope you enjoy this beautiful medley of kinky memories.  Dick's linksG...

344 - Listener Radioactive Spider Bites Part One

18 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

It's been awhile since we've taken call-in Radioactive Spider Bites from listeners, so we thought it would be fun to hear from you kinky folks this we...

343 - Lost Earrings: a conversation about kink education

11 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with Emerson Karsh, also known on social media as The Kink Educator. We talked about her background studying kink in academia, h...

342 - A Trash And Bowie Love Child: Happy New Year!

04 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This week Gwen and Dick sat down for the annual New Year's day wrap up episode. We discuss the end of 2022, Dick's first play party since the pandemic...

341 - Normal Dick Hair: a year-end Q&A

14 Dec 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This week Dick, Gwen, and max sat down for their final episode before holiday vacation to answer all of your burning questions!  Dick's links Gwen's ...

340 - How Everything Tastes: a conversation about how the patriarchy affects kink & BDSM

07 Dec 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with Russian professional dominatrix, Mistress Smash, who tells us all about how she came into being a Pro Domme, as well as unp...

339 - Evergreen: a conversation about diaper fetish, OnlyFans, and fetish conventions

30 Nov 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down once again with fetish performer Princess Kira! We asked her about her recent ventures into diaper fetish and boy/girl videos, a...

338 - Fabulous French Headphones: a conversation about the diversity of professional dominatrices

23 Nov 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with Innana Justice, Paris professional dominatrix and editor of the book "The Heart of the Dominatrix: Portraits and Interviews...

337 - 100% Poopie: a conversation about findom and reinventing your kink life

16 Nov 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down once again with Divina - Goddess of Secrets to talk more about her findom escapades, such as trying to find balance between self...

336 - Sir Mx-or-Not: a conversation about high protocol and predicaments

09 Nov 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This week we're sitting down with Mr. Gatsby, a dominant who enjoys playing with high protocol and kinky rituals. We talked about his love for M/s dyn...

335 - The Stoner Splash: a conversation about wrestling porn, kink, and trauma

02 Nov 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This week we were excited to welcome back Ms. Chloe Mars on the show! We talked about wrestling porn and her wrestling dynamic with friend of the show...

334 - Flowbee: a conversation about dungeon building and being a pro domme

26 Oct 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This week we're sitting down with professional dominatrix Mistress Shayla Lange. She's really into topping for CBT, hardsports, and her scenes, while ...

333 - Dufresne Kink Library: a conversation about sadism and screams

19 Oct 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with Dana Valentine to talk about being a genderfluid sadomasochist, which encompasses their "bubbly sadist" side as well as the...

332 - The Shame Finger: an advice episode

12 Oct 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This week Dick, Gwen, and max all sat down to respond to some long overdue email questions from listeners asking for kinky advice. We also respond to ...

331 - Hence Intensive: a conversation about kink and connection

05 Oct 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with Master Joshua to talk about Kink Collective, an organization he runs that offers bi-weekly kink education classes. We also ...

330 - A Dora Bowl: a conversation about pet play and autism

28 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with trinkerbelchen to discuss their experience in the German kink community over the past three years, disability (autism, spec...

329 - I Want Pie: a conversation about intoxication play

21 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with professional dominatrix Chloe Mars, who specializes in topping for intoxication play (specifically with cannabis, which she...

328 - Wes Anderson, Poltergeist: a conversation about rope, pet play, and power exchange

14 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with KittenFlo and her partner Moogie to discuss their interests in rope and pet play, as well as their living power exchange re...

327 - The Ass is Always Greener: a conversation about TES Fest 2022

07 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This week we got max back on the show to talk with us about his time at TES Fest this year! He told us about the two scenes he did at TES Fest—a rou...

326 - That Special Tootsie Touch: a conversation about piss play, dollification, and fetish clips

31 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with our friend (and the show's new booker), Molly Pocket! We dove into a bunch of topics, including memories of our high school...

325 - Zero Suit Samus Suit: a conversation about sex work

24 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This week Dick and Gwen sat down without a guest to talk about what they've been up to with their sex work! Additionally, we give some updates on some...

324 - Gender? I Barely Know Her! A conversation about gender, sexuality and kink

17 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down once again with Kate Sloan to discuss her new book, 200 Words to Help You Talk About Sexuality & Gender. We discuss language sur...

323 - Moose Tracks: a kinky Q&A part 2

10 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This week we're FINALLY putting out part two of our kinky Q&A from episode 296! Thanks to everyone who submitted questions for patiently awaiting our ...

322 - Hydrate or Die-drate: a conversation about kink and death

03 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with Mortician Barbie, a kinky embalmer, to talk about negotiating about death within kink dynamics. While she's not interested ...

321 - Our Pal Sal (Part 2): a conversation about kink and fatness

13 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down once again with Sal to talk about kink and fatness. Sal answered listener questions about representation of fat bodies in kink, ...

320 - Our Pal Sal (Part 1): a conversation about kink and fatness

06 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with our first in-person guest in a while, our pal Sal! We talked all about their experience as fat queer femme in the kink scen...

319 - Find Your Xena: a conversation about anal play and sex education

29 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with sex and pleasure educator Luna Matatas! We discussed how to communicate kinky fantasies to your partner, how to find your e...

318 - Slipper Sniffers: a conversation about foot fetish

22 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This week Dick and Gwen sat down to dedicate an episode to their love of feet! We talked all about our interests and play with foot fetish, socks, nyl...

317 - The Queen of Hell: a conversation about kink, religion, and switching

15 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with switchy catgirl findom Kitty Katz! We discussed how her upbringing in the Pentacostal church birthed her interest in masoch...

316 - If I Had a Hammer: a conversation about kink and cancer

08 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with Tess Devèze to talk about kink and cancer (as well as other disabilities). Tess is diagnosed with cancer themselves, as we...

315 - Gonna Fly Now: a conversation about furries

01 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with returning guest Deer and Pony Show to talk all about being a furry! We got the low-down on what furries are, what goes down...

314 - Sensual Salad: a conversation about play and kink

25 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with HappyApple to talk about connections between play and kink. He is an expert on children's play who has noticed a lot of par...

313 - Home Is Where the Dick Is: an update episode

18 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This week Dick and Gwen are finally back together in Michigan with an update episode for y'all! Dick talks about how they got back to Michigan, some u...

312 - Ch Ch Chains-ez: a conversation about chain bondage

11 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with Cecilia and Fischer to talk about all things chain bondage. We discussed doing chain and bondage in general safely, sizing ...

311 - This Week's Effing Episode: a conversation about creating safer kink spaces

04 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with Carlton Perry, Executive Director of the Effing Foundation, a nonprofit organization aiming to reduce sexual shame and norm...

310 - The Meat Behind the Mask: a conversation about erotic hypnosis and dronification

27 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with returning guest Latex Bourne (first appearing on episode 304) to talk about how his latex fetish led him to hypnosis and dr...

309 - Pre-breakfast, Lost Lunch: a conversation about pro-domming and needle play

20 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with returning guest Mistress Darcy (first appearing on episode 248). We talked about their transition from online to in-person ...

308 - Better Door Than Window: a conversation about femdom and kink experimentation

13 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with Roxy to talk about her journey as a dominant transgender woman and how she's gained confidence, power, and affirmation as a...

307 - I'm Not a Froggy Queer: a conversation about DD/lg and hunting/stalking kink

06 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with AngelWings26 to talk about her DD/lg dynamic, stigmatization surrounding this kink, and how it relates to other kinks that ...

306 - Weapon of Ass Destruction: a conversation about leatherworking and running a community space

30 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with Jett Khat (she/they), a fellow Michigander, to talk about how kink became the roots of their community life. They got into ...

305 - A Fart Title: a conversation about religious kinks and secrets fetish

23 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with Divina - Goddess of Secrets to discuss her journey from pastor's wife, to bisexual submissive, to now Findom Goddess, as we...

304 - Pim-terrupting: a conversation about latex and pet play

16 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with Latex Bourne to talk about latex, pet play, and combining the two. We talk about his interest in hosting petting zoos for p...

303 - I Know That Bloop: a conversation about growing through kink

09 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with our Dark Lord and Savior's daughter. That's right folks, Satan's Daughter was our guest this week! We discussed how joining...

302 - TH LST FKR: a conversation about kink and community

02 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with Monopoly to talk about how kink has changed the way they carry themselves. We talk about the ways in which they engage in p...

301 - Hurts So Good: a conversation about masochism

23 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with Leigh Cowart, author of Hurts So Good: the Science and Culture Behind Pain on Purpose. Their book explores why people all o...

300 - Text Dick "666": Our 300th Episode Special!

16 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This week Dick, max, Lexi, and Gwen sat down to record our 300th episode! To celebrate, Dick came up with OCP trivia questions for the rest of the cre...

299 - Instabanned: a conversation about kinky memes

09 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with The Funny Dom to talk about the process of discovering his role as a daddy dom. We also discussed sharing education through...

298 - Everybody is Masturbating: a conversation about tickle fetish art

04 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with Achilles Heel Art, who has been creating m/m tickle fetish art for the past 15 years. We discussed the fetish itself, what ...

297 - The Keymaster: a conversation about interrogation play

26 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This week we sat down with Anonubis to talk about all about interrogation play, such as how to set up a scene, scene ideas, tools and implements to us...

296 - Menstrual Synchrony: a kinky Q&A

19 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This week, Dick and Gwen sat down to answer questions from you all! We gave our two cents on balancing polyamory with kink dynamics, learning how to t...

295 - She's Not Wrong: The Return of Susan Wright of the NCSF

12 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This week we welcomed back Susan Wright from the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (NCSF). We discussed and answered questions about the revised M...