3935: Life's Headwinds and Tailwinds by Jay and Heather Harrington of Life and Whim on Gratitude in Challenge and Ease

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Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3935: Jay and Heather Harrington explore why obstacles feel more prominent than advantages, drawing on research from Professors Tom Gilovich and Shari Davidai to explain the psychological bias behind this imbalance. They reveal how this tendency fuels resentment and diminishes gratitude, while offering practical strategies to intentionally cultivate a more appreciative mindset. Their insights provide a powerful framework for shifting perspective and experiencing greater happiness, health, and success. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.lifeandwhim.com/first-moments-blog/lifes-headwinds-and-tailwinds Quotes to ponder: "I think the big takeaway from all of this is that, like most good things in life, gratitude doesn’t come easy. Feelings of gratitude are not instinctual or automatic, they must be cultivated." "Feelings of gratitude are not instinctual or automatic, they must be cultivated." "Numerous studies have shown that feeling more grateful about one’s circumstances leads to a multitude of benefits, including more happiness, more friends, better health, and career success, to name a few." Episode references: Freakonomics Radio: https://freakonomics.com/podcast/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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