Optimal Relationships Daily - Dating, Marriage and Parenting
2124: Managing vs. Resolving Conflict in Relationships: The Blueprints for Success by Dr. Marni Feuerman with Gottman
03 Apr 2024
Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2124: Dr. Marni Feuerman, in collaboration with Gottman.com, offers a deep dive into the complexities of handling conflict in relationships, emphasizing that a significant portion of disputes are perpetual and unsolvable. Through "The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work" by Dr. John Gottman, Feuerman underscores the importance of managing rather than eliminating conflict, providing readers with practical blueprints for navigating the inevitable challenges that arise in partnerships, fostering understanding, growth, and a stronger bond. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.gottman.com/blog/managing-vs-resolving-conflict-relationships-blueprints-success/ Quotes to ponder: "69% of problems in a relationship are unsolvable." "Discussing them is constructive and provides a positive opportunity for understanding and growth." "Moving from gridlock to dialogue involves examining the meaning and dreams that form the basis for each partner's steadfast perspective." Episode references: The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: https://www.amazon.com/Seven-Principles-Making-Marriage-Work/dp/0553447718 Aftermath of a Fight or Regrettable Incident booklet: https://www.lifeworkspsychotherapy.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/09/Aftermath-of-a-Fight-or-Regrettable-Incident-Eri-Kardos.pdf The Marriage Minute newsletter from Gottman Institute: https://www.gottman.com/marriage-minute/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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