Optimal Relationships Daily - Dating, Marriage and Parenting
2199: What Tinder Tells You About Yourself by Evan Marc Katz on Online Dating Advice & Finding A Healthy Relationship
08 Jun 2024
Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2199: Evan Marc Katz reflects on the impact of Tinder on modern dating, emphasizing how the app accelerates judgment based on superficial traits and class biases. By dissecting our subconscious preferences, he reveals how Tinder mirrors real-life snap judgments, highlighting the complexities and contradictions of instant attraction in the digital age. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/online-dating-tips-advice/what-tinder-tells-you-about-yourself Quotes to ponder: "Essentially, we're constantly inventing narratives about the people who surround us. Tinder appears to encourage these narratives and crystallize the extrapolation process and package it into a five-second, low-stakes decision." "A 5-foot-7 male was 'too short.' A 39-year-old guy was decidedly 'too old' for Katie's 33 years. Another is bald; she decides him 'too' much so." "Tinder is by no means the cause of this decline. It simply encourages and quietly normalizes the assumptions that undergird it." Episode references: Marry Him: https://www.amazon.com/Marry-Him-Case-Settling-Mr/dp/0525951512 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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