Parenting With Understanding™ Podcast
Episodes
How to Feel Calmer When Your Child Doesn't Do it Right
31 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela Collier explains how the childhood wound of injustice can shape parenting pattern...
Transforming Shame into Conscious Parenting
17 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela Collier explores the childhood wound of humiliation and how shame-based experienc...
It's Not Your Child, It's Your Abandonment Trauma
04 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Marcela Collier explores the childhood wound of humiliation and how it silently shapes your parenting reactions. She explains how sha...
Understanding Your Inner Child to Transform Your Parenting
18 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Marcela Collier explains why your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem — and how your inner child shapes your reactions more...
Calm Down Your Child’s Triggers With the P.E.A.C.E. Process
03 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Marcela Collier introduces the B-E-A-C-E process, a practical framework to help parents calm triggers and manage their children’s e...
Calm Down Your Child’s Triggers With the P.E.A.C.E. Process.
20 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela Collier discusses how to calm children's big emotions without resorting to yellin...
How This Father Ended the Cycle of Reactivity. Marco's Story
06 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela Collier interviews Marco Hansell, a client who transformed his parenting approach...
How to Repair With Your Child After Yelling
23 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela Collier discusses the importance of repairing relationships with children after m...
Tools For Instant Calm Every Parent Needs to Know.
16 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Marcela Collier shares tools for instant calm in parenting, focusing on understanding reactivity as an inner world issue. She introduces the Anchor me...
Why You Yell Even if You Don't Want to.
09 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Marcela Collier, head coach of HIC Parenting Education Agency and host of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, explores the root...
The Path of Becoming a Secure Calm Parent With Your Kids.
02 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela Collier discusses the challenges and paths to becoming a secure, emotionally regu...
How to Let Go of Control Parenting Your Child
25 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela Collier discusses the importance of letting go of control in parenting and embrac...
The Most Powerful Parenting Decision That You Will Ever Make.
18 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela Collier discusses the transformative power of choosing healing in parenting. She ...
How to Stop Yelling at Your Kids Using Mindfulness.
11 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela Collier discusses how parents can break the cycle of yelling at their children by...
The Secret to Not Be an Anxious Parent and Raise Your Child With Peace.
04 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela Collier discusses overcoming parental anxiety by choosing freedom, one of the six...
Bring Peace to Your Parenting With This Daily Choice
28 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela Collier discusses the importance of choosing connection to build a non-anxious pa...
Anxiety Free Parenting By Embracing Reality.
21 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Marcela Collier discusses how to embrace an anxiety-free parenting life, even if diagnosed with anxiety, ADHD, or autism. She shares ...
Parenting on Edge? How to Stop The Hidden Alarm.
14 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela Collier discusses the hidden alarm of anxiety in parenting and how it affects our...
3 Steps to Be the Best Parents For our Children.
07 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Marcela Collier, a certified parenting coach, shares three essential steps to becoming the best parent for your children. She emphasi...
How to Manage Traumatized Kids' Behaviors.
30 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Marcela Collier, a certified parenting coach, discusses managing behaviors in traumatized children. She shares insights from her expe...
Behaviors in Autistic/ADHD kids. How to Handle Them With Care
23 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela Collier discusses how to handle behaviors in neurodivergent children with care. S...
How to Teach Children Self Control With Emotional Intelligence
16 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Marcela Collier delves into the intricacies of teaching children self-control through emotional intelligence. She shares insights on ...
Know What Your Child Needs Using The I.D.E.A Method
09 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Marcela Collier introduces the I.D.E.A Method, a comprehensive strategy to identify and address the needs of children, particularly t...
The Secret to Calming Down the Worst Meltdowns
02 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela shares her insights on managing intense child meltdowns. Drawing from personal ex...
The Only Parenting Responses You'll EVER Need
26 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Marcela Collier, a certified parenting coach, delves into the four unique differences that influence children's behavior: biological,...
How This Mom Stopped Yelling at Her Child
19 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Marcela Collier talks with Christina, a parent who transformed her parenting approach through HIC coaching. Discover how Christina ov...
3 Signs You're Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child
12 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Join Marcela in this insightful episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast as she explores the three key signs of raising an emotionall...
How to Stop Power Struggles Using Neuroception
05 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela discusses the concept of neuroception and its significance in understanding child...
5 Ways to Build Secure Attachment
29 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Marcela discusses five essential ways to build secure attachment in children, emphasizing the importance of prioritizing relationship...
How to Raise Secure Kids and Heal Avoidant Attachment Using Mindsight
22 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Marcela discusses the impact of insecure attachment styles on parenting, particularly focusing on avoidant attachment. She explains ...
From Disorganized to Secure Attachment
15 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Marcela shares why kids act out and why the behavior is not the real problem. She explains how parents can help their kids feel safe, loved, and under...
From Anxious to Secure Attachment
08 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Marcela helps parents see that their child’s behavior isn’t the real problem. She shares why kids act out and how parents can help them feel safe ...
The 3 Elements of Secure Attachment
02 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Marcela shares how parents can raise secure kids who feel safe, loved, and calm at home. She explains what really causes behavior problems and what pa...
How to Teach Kids to Be Kind Through Mindsight. PART 2
24 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Parenting with Understanding, Marcela discusses the essential elements of teaching kindness to children. She emphasizes the import...
How to Teach Kids to Be Kind Through Mindsight. PART 1
17 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Parenting with Understanding, Marcela discusses the challenges of raising kind children, emphasizing the importance of self-kindnes...
How to Help Children Heal From Bad Experiences
10 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Marcela shares how kids can heal from hard times like yelling, divorce, or even losing a pet. She tells real stories and explains why...
How to Get Any Child's Attention With 2 Power Communication Strategies
03 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This episode helps parents understand why their child’s behavior is not the real problem. Marcela shares two simple ways to help kids calm down and ...
How to Raise an Emotionally Healthy Child
27 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Marcela shares how kids build emotional health, even when they cry or get upset. She explains how parents can help their child feel s...
How to Reparent Yourself to Become a Secure Parent
20 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Marcela talks about how parents can feel calmer and happier by giving themselves what they needed as kids. She shares how this helps children behave b...
Why You Keep Losing With Your Kids (Even When You know Better)
13 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Marcela talks about why parents lose their cool even when they know better. She shares how to stay calm and help kids listen without yelling. 🎓 Fre...
How to Calm Down an Aggressive Child Peacefully
06 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Marcela explains why kids have big behaviors like hitting or yelling and what parents can do to help. She shares real stories and simple tips to stay ...
I Coached 14,151 Parents Who Wanted to Stop Yelling. This is What I Found
29 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This episode helps parents understand why yelling and power struggles keep happening at home. Marcela explains that your child’s behavior isn’t th...
4 Signs You're Having Healthy Boundaries With Your Kids
22 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This episode helps parents see that their child's behavior is not the real problem. Marcela shows what kids really need and how to use kind and clear ...
Your Child's Behaviors isn't the Problem. This is How to Fix It!
15 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Sometimes kids act out, but it doesn’t mean they’re bad. In this episode, Marcela explains what your child’s behavior really means and how...
How NOT to Be Your Parents With Your Kids
08 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This episode helps parents learn how to stop yelling and fighting with their kids every day. Marcela shares real stories and shows how to help kids be...
How to Get Children to Behave Good. Preventative Discipline
25 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Many parents feel like they are always putting out fires—tantrums, power struggles, and kids who just won’t listen. In this episode, Marcela share...
Discipline vs. Punishment: How to Guide Your Child Without Breaking Their Spirit
18 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Many parents want to teach their kids right from wrong, but they don’t want to scare them or break their confidence. In this episode, Marcela explai...
Do you have a Hyper Child or Sensory Child? How to Calm them Down FAST
11 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Some kids just can’t sit still! They jump, climb, run, and crash into things all day long. In this episode, Marcela shares why these kids act this w...
How to Have an EASY Routine with your Picky Child
04 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Getting your child dressed, brushing their teeth, or eating breakfast shouldn’t feel like a battle—but for parents of sensitive kids, it often doe...
How to Discipline Your Child Without Damaging the Connection
25 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Disciplining kids can feel really hard. In this episode, Marcela shares how parents can set rules and teach their kids without yelling, punishments, o...
How to Calm Down an Angry Child Using the 5 Love Languages
18 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
When kids get really angry, they don’t always know how to calm down. In this episode, Marcela shares how parents can use their child’s love langua...
Your Child's Love Language: 5 Love Languages of Children
11 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Marcela shows how every child has a special way they want to feel loved, and when parents learn that language, the home fills with sm...
How to Get Children to Solve Their Conflict Independently
04 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Marcela shows how to help kids fix their fights without mom or dad rushing in.She shares easy ways to teach them talking, sharing, and finding a fair ...
How to Calm Sibling Squabbles Peacefully
28 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Join Our Free Class: Want to stay calm when your kids fight and raise them to be kind and brave? In our Free Class, you will: ✅ Overcome Angry React...
How to Raise Children Who Love Each Other and Don't Fight
21 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Marcela shows how to help siblings like each other and fight less.She shares simple steps to make kids feel loved, share better, and enjoy time togeth...
How to Get Your Child to Listen Right Away Using Positive Parenting Language
14 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Marcela shows how to talk so kids listen the first time. She shares easy ways to stay calm and use kind words that help children follow directions. &n...
3 Steps to Make 2025 Your Calmest Year of Parenting
07 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Marcela talks about 3 simple steps to make 2025 your easiest year as a parent.She shows how to help your child calm down, feel safe, and learn better ...
4 Step Roadmap to Become the Parent you Want to be in 2025!
31 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Marcela talks about a new way to become a calmer mom or dad in 2025. She shows four easy steps to stop yelling, help kids listen, and enjoy more fun a...
Do These to Avoid Meltdowns on Christmas Day
24 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Marcela shares how to make Christmas morning more peaceful for sensitive kids. She shows simple steps to help stop tears and bring mo...
How To Make It Right With Your Child After Losing It
17 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Marcela shows how to fix things when you’ve yelled at your child and feel bad. She tells simple steps to help you and your child fe...
How I Raise Myself While I Raise my Children
10 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Marcela shares how she's learning to be a better mom while also growing herself. She tells simple stories and gives easy tips to help...
The 3 Gifts Money Can Not Buy For Your Kids This Holiday Season
03 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Marcela shares three special gifts you can give your kids that money can't buy. She tells stories about her own family and how these ...
The 3 Elements of Effective Boundaries Without Yelling
26 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Marcela shares three ways to set rules without yelling at your child. She tells stories and gives easy tips to help parents guide the...
The 3 Qualities of an Emotionally Mature Parent
19 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Do you want to build these qualities and more? Join Marcela's Free Class where she teaches the Parenting With Understanding system to help you break f...
How I Transformed My Twins' Behaviors Without Crushing Their Spirit (One is Autistic)
12 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Want to Parent Without Yelling? Do you want to parent your children without yelling but find it difficult in the heated moment? I've created a Free Cl...
4 Clues Your Child Sees You as Their Safe Space
05 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Marcela shares four signs that show your child feels safe with you. She tells stories and gives simple tips to help parents build a s...
Special Needs Child’s Self-Esteem
29 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Marcela shares four simple steps to help your sensitive child feel safe, even when you're feeling upset. She tells stories and gives ...
4 Lessons I Learned Raising My Autistic Son (And How They Can Help You Too)
22 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Marcela shares 4 important lessons she learned while raising her autistic son. These lessons helped her stay calm, understand her chi...
Why You’re Stuck in Your Parenting (And How to Break Free)
15 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Marcela explains why many parents feel stuck in their parenting and how to break free by focusing on connection, not control. S...
Stress-Free Potty Training and Weaning Off Binky For Sensitive Kids
08 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of "Parenting With Understanding," Marcela Collier helps parents learn easy ways to help their sensitive kids with big changes like po...
4 Hidden Reasons Your Child Might Fear You & How to Turn It Around
01 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Marcela reveals four hidden reasons why children may grow up feeling scared of their parents and shares practical steps to create a s...
Turning Resistance into Cooperation in Highly Sensitive Children
24 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of "Parenting With Understanding," join Marcela as she coaches Maya, a mom struggling with her highly sensitive daughter's daily routi...
4 Steps For Making Caregiver Switches Easy for Sensitive Kids
17 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Discover practical strategies to help your sensitive or neurodivergent child navigate transitions between caregivers smoothly. CLICK HERE to access ou...
Turn Sibling Rivalry Into Harmony: A Quick Guide
10 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Our latest podcast episode explores practical strategies to transform sibling rivalry into harmony. Tune in as Marcela shares insightful tips to...
ADHD Parenting: Secrets to Maintaining Your Cool
06 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
ADHD Parenting: Secrets to Maintaining Your Cool Discover effective strategies for maintaining calm as a parent with ADHD, especially when your child ...
Mastering After-School Transitions: Tips for Neurodivergent Families
27 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Join Marcela Collier as she explores the complexities of after-school transitions, particularly for neurodivergent children. Discover practical strate...
How to Balance Parenting and Life While Caring for a Sick Relative
20 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Are you caring for a sick loved one while juggling parenting and everything else? If yes, then this episode is right for you. Marcela interview...
Finding Peace as a Work-at-Home Parent: Mikki's Journey Through Parenting Coaching
13 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Marcela Collier sits down with Mikki Roberts to explore her journey from chaos to calm as a work-from-home mom. Tune in to hear how personalized coach...
How to Stop Feeling Guilty About Your Parenting (5 Simple Steps)
06 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of the "Parenting with Understanding" podcast, Marcela Collier shares five simple steps to help parents overcome guilt and reconnect w...
How I’m Preparing My Kids to Back to School. 4 Essential Things I Am Doing
30 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Are you dreading the shift from lazy summer evenings to strict school nights? You're not alone! Transitioning your kids back to school routines doesn'...
How to Parent Highly Aggressive Children With Gabriel, the Indomitable Black Man
23 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
If you are parenting a highly aggressive child who hits, throws, bites, or breaks things, on this podcast episode, Marcela and Gabriel, The Indomitabl...
How to Not Allow Your Childhood Trauma From Passing Down to Your Children
16 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of the "Parenting with Understanding" podcast, Marcela Collier delves into four common childhood wounds that unconsciously influence p...
4 Things to Help You Be a Calm Parent in Tough Situations
09 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Do you want to be a calm parent but struggle to remain patient when your children refuse to do things? Today, Marcela is guiding you through 4 things ...
The Secret to Raising an Emotionally Connected Teen
02 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Marcela explores the transformative journey of parenting teenagers with emotional depth and connection. Joined by guest Wendy f...
4 Things You Must Do to Raise a Confident Child
25 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Do you want to raise a confident child? In this podcast episode, Marcela shares with you 4 things you must know to raise a confident child who can thr...
Transforming Bedtime Chaos Into Peaceful Nights: A Parent’s Journey with Neurodivergent kids
18 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
On this podcast episode I am sharing with you how I transformed my bedtime with my twins who have sensory needs, from chaos to peaceful and fast. I sh...
Overcoming Self-Judgment and Guilt in Parenting
11 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
On this podcast episode I am coaching Alexandria, the mom of a teenager who is looking to feel calmer navigating school morning struggles with her tee...
4 Ways to Best Support Your Neurodivergent Child.
04 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
After this episode, you will know the strategies to make parenting a neurodivergent child a lot easier. Today I brought Laura from The OTButtler...
Navigating Consequences in Gentle Parenting: A Balanced Approach
28 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Marcela breaks down which consequences really teach positive behavior and the different with punitive practices. You’ll end this ep...
Children’s 5 Basic Needs Explained. Parenting With Understanding
21 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Marcela breaks down children’s 5 Basic Needs according to the research of Dr.William Glasser. You will leave knowing your child a l...
Parenting Styles: Understanding the Three Types of Parents and How to Transition to a Healthier Approach
14 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we delve into the three types of parenting styles - Power Over, Power Under, and Power With - to understand their impact on family dy...
From reactive to calm During Homework With Addrianne. Parent Support Call.
07 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Learn practical tools and insight to manage your triggers and find calm during your children’s homework time refusal. You’ll listen to a coa...
When Little Hands Hurt: Steps to Understanding and Redirecting Aggression
30 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Marcela, the HIC Parenting coach provides strategies to a mother, Tina, who is struggling with her four-year-old's sensory-seeking be...
Navigating Toddlerhood with Confidence with Devon from @transformingtoddlerhood
23 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this enlightening podcast episode, parenting experts Devon and Marcela delve into the complexities of toddler behavior, offering practical advice a...
3 Key Traits of a Secure Parent
16 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Discover the transformative journey of becoming a secure parent by mastering three key qualities: understanding needs, emotional intelligence, and eff...
Navigating Parenting Differences with Your Partner: A Guide for Parents
09 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
On this podcast episode, you are going to hear Marcela coaching a mom during a TikTok LIVE on how to help her find agreement over-parenting with her s...
How to build an environment of communication and trust with your older child with Jessica.
02 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this insightful podcast episode, we delve into the challenges of parenting during the turbulent teenage years, using a real-life scenario with Jess...
Effective Discipline Broken Down By Ages from 1-12
26 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Discover effective discipline strategies for kids ages 1-12 in this episode, where we explore how to guide your child toward self-discipline and moral...
7 Toddler Parenting Struggles and How I Faced Them Having Twins
19 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Dive into the world of toddler years in this insightful episode, where we explore seven common struggles and the effective strategies that brought pea...
Techniques to Parent with Intention, Not Impulse
12 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Parenting with understanding is a journey, not a destination. You can foster a more peaceful and connected relationship with your children by pr...