Parenting With Understanding™ Podcast

Parenting While Pregnant: Embracing Change and Finding Balance

05 Mar 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Our stories highlight the importance of adapting, practicing self-compassion, and maintaining respectful parenting principles during pregnancy. 

Mastering Cooperation: A Guide to Getting Your Children to Listen

27 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, we're diving into the three main reasons why children might struggle to listen and offering insights on how to foster connection and ...

How This Mom Healed Her Inner Child and Raised Emotionally Healthy Children

20 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Discover how addressing past wounds can pave the way for raising emotionally healthy children and bringing peace to your parenting. Schedule your Free...

5 Love Languages™️ to Improve Your Parenting

13 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Dive into the essence of love languages™️ with our special Valentine's Day episode, where we reveal how understanding and speaking your child's Lo...

Fostering Trust, Not Fear: The Key to a Healthy Parent-Child Bond

06 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

My Journey Parenting With ADHD. 3 Key Gentle Parenting Strategies

30 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this podcast episode, Marcela, a mother with ADHD, shares their personal journey and four key strategies for gentle parenting, offering insights an...

The Transition to Nap-Free Days Without Messing Up Bedtime

23 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In today's episode, "The Transition to Nap-Free Days Without Messing Up Bedtime," discover the art of navigating your child's changing sleep patterns....

Goodnight, Not Goodbye: Handling Separation Anxiety at Bedtime

16 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

If your New Year's resolution is to transform bedtime from chaos to calm, you're in the right place.  As a parenting coach, I've seen it all: the...

Gentle Parenting Through a Father's Eyes

09 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this podcast episode, Marcela interviews her husband. He shares his perspective and experience with gentle parenting for the last decade. Free Clas...

Gentle Parenting vs. Traditional Parenting. Key differences

02 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

If you're ready to dive deeper and explore how this approach can transform your family life, I encourage you to listen to the full episode of "The Par...

My Top Parenting Goals for 2024 and My Plan for Success.

26 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Book a free Parenting Assessment call at apply.hicparenting.com Together, we'll explore your unique parenting challenges and develop a personaliz...

Navigating Parental Criticism with Grace: A Gentle Parent's Guide

19 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, I share with you 3 ways I set boundaries with family members who disapprove of my gentle parenting so you can get ideas and insights ...

From Chancla Culture to Gentle Parenting. My Journey as a Latina Mother

12 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In this raw episode of The Parenting With Understanding™ Podcast, join me, a Latina mom, as I share my transformative journey from traditional, 'cha...

Thriving as an Autistic Parent: My Journey with Peaceful Parenting

05 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Book a free Parent Assessment Call with Marcela or a HIC Parenting Advisor for tailored support. Transform your parenting journey now! BOOK NOW In our...

4 Steps to Become Your Child's Unbreakable Safe Space

28 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, we’ll cover 4 essential steps to deepen your child’s unbreakable safe space so they feel fully connected to you even during their...

How Not to Yell When You've Tried Everything and Nothing Works

21 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Schedule a free Parenting Assessment call with Marcela or an HIC Parenting advisor if you seek tailored support.  CLICK HERE to book your ca...

The 5 Essential Steps to Prepare Your Children For the Real World

14 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, we discuss the five essential steps to equip your kids with the confidence and resilience needed to thrive.  Ready for a deeper ...

How to Bring Peace to Your Home When You Have 4+ Kids: A Journey from Chaos to Calm

07 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Discover the transformative journey of Aireal, a mom who mastered the art of peaceful parenting in a lively household of four kids. Dive into her chal...

Gentle Parenting for Bedtime: Proven Methods for a Peaceful Night

31 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

On this week's Parenting With Understanding Podcast, we're delving deep into the essence of gentle parenting at bedtime.  Discover the true meani...

Parenting Without Fear: Making Sure Our Children Always Trust Us

24 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Discover the essence of trust-filled parenting in our latest episode, where we unravel the secrets to building unbreakable bonds with our kids so they...

The 3 Habits of an Emotionally Healthy Parent: Cultivating a Nurturing Environment at Home

17 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Dive into a heartfelt chat about the pivotal role of emotional health in parenting!  Explore the three golden habits of emotionally healthy paren...

How to Teach Empathy to an Aggressive Child: Nurturing Connection Amidst Chaos

10 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Unlock the secrets to cultivating empathy in your aggressive child in our latest episode!  🎧 Navigating through the highs and lows of emotiona...

Overcoming the 4 Beliefs that Hold You Back in Conscious Parenting

03 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Dive into this insightful episode as we debunk common parenting beliefs that keep us stuck and explore transformative solutions.  We’re unwrapp...

Confidently Navigating Toddlerhood Years: How These Parents Did It - The Cycle Breaker Spotlight Interview

26 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In this heartening episode of the Parenting With Understanding™️ Podcast, journey with Dion and Lisa as they unravel their transformative parentin...

Beneath the Outbursts: Understanding the Root Causes of Children's Behavior

19 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Dive deep into the heart of every tantrum, question, and giggle.  This episode explores Dr. William Glasser’s Five Basic Needs and how they sha...

5 Tools to Navigate Homework Struggles: A Gentle Approach

12 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Feeling overwhelmed with homework struggles and bedtime battles? Today's episode discusses five game-changing tools for navigating homework challenges...

How to Gentle Parent When Gentle Isn't Your Default Setting

05 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

The idea of not yelling at your kids is appealing, but what if sugar-coating things isn't your style?  What if, by nature, you're louder? Can the...

Tools for the Tired, Touched Out Parent 💪😴

29 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, we unpack many parents' sensory challenges, diving deep into the tug-of-war between embracing every moment with our children and crav...

Why Your 'Don't Yell' Resolution Isn't Holding & How to Fix It

22 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

If, despite your best intentions, you find yourself raising your voice again and again.  If you're wondering why your "don't yell" resolution isn...

Your 5 Hidden Childhood Wounds: Understanding Their Impact on Your Gentle Parenting Journey

14 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In today's podcast episode, we will reveal the invisible weights from our past that impact our parenting.  Discover the profound connection betwe...

Expert Tips for Working Parents Navigating Back-to-School Time: A Gentle Parenting Approach

08 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

 If you're a working parent feeling overwhelmed, burned out, and fearful of what the back-to-school transition might bring, you're not alone.&nbs...

Resolving sibling conflict peacefully. Effective parenting strategies.

01 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

The shouting, the arguing, and the occasional wrestling can be exhausting and, at times, distressing.  Fortunately, there are ways to manage and ...

Transitioning Your Child from Summer Break to School Routine

24 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

It's that time of year again when the relaxed, freewheeling days of summer are about to give way to the structure and schedule of the new school year....

Consequences in Gentle Parenting. Discipline Without Damage

18 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, we explore the misunderstood realm of consequences, showing how to replace punitive measures with more effective, gentle discipline s...

What DISCIPLINE looks like in gentle parenting

11 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

You're not alone if you've ever needed clarification about discipline within the gentle parenting framework.  Misconceptions abound, and it's cru...

Finding Peace in the Summer Chaos: Strategies for a Tranquil and Enjoyable Season

04 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Our latest episode of The Parenting With Understanding podcast tackles the summer chaos head-on. We know summer can often become a whirlwind of demand...

Overcoming the fear of failing your child. A journey to confident parenting

27 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Do you constantly fear you are failing your child? You want to have a happy, connected relationship with your children, but you are put down by parent...

From Conflict to Connection: Understanding the Root Cause of Power Struggles for Positive Changes

20 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Parenting can be tough, especially when power struggles and conflicts with our children arise. But fear not! By delving into the underlying factors co...

Transition Your Children With Ease Gentle Parenting Strategies For A Smoother Routine

13 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Are you dreading transitioning from the structured school routine to the unstructured summer days?  Don't worry; we've got your back!  This ...

The science behind gentle parenting

06 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

🎙️ Join Marcela Collier, CEO of HIC Parenting Education, as she discusses how nervous system science, brain science, and attachment science suppo...

Navigating Summer Screen Time. A Gentle Parenting Approach To Overcome Screen Time Battles.

30 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

🌷 Hello, Cycle Breakers! I'm excited to present today's episode, Navigating Summer Screen Time. A Gentle Parenting Approach To Overcome Screen Time...

How We Became Parenting Coaches: Empowering Families through Support and Guidance

23 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

🌷 Hello, Cycle Breakers! I'm excited to present today's episode, How We Became Parenting Coaches: Empowering Families through Support and Guidance....

The Secret to Overcome Your Gentle Parent Burnout.

16 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

🌷 Hello, Cycle Breakers! I'm excited to present today's episode, The Secret to Overcome Your Gentle Parenting Burnout. In this episode, we’ll dis...

Breaking the Cycle of Co-Parenting Struggles- A Single Mom’s Journey with Parenting With Understanding.

09 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

🌼 Hi, Cycle Breakers! You’ll meet Sona in today's episode. She’s a single mom of 2 and a current member of the Parenting With Understanding™ ...

Unlocking the secrets to peaceful and effective communication with our children.

02 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

💐 Happy May, Cycle Breakers! In today's episode, learn the secrets to peaceful and effective communication with your children! Join us as we discus...

How to Stop the Negative Patterns of Your Childhood from Impacting Your Parenting

25 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

🤗 Hi, Cycle Breakers! Today’s episode explores the powerful impact our childhood experiences can have on our parenting styles and relationships w...

What to Do When Gentle Parenting Doesn’t Work

18 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

👋🏽 Hello, Cycle Breakers! Today’s episode centers around what to do when gentle parenting doesn’t work with your kids. We’ll go into why i...

How to Remain A Gentle Parent When Your Children Aren’t Gentle

11 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

🙋🏻‍♀️ Hi, Cycle Breakers! Today, I'm sharing my decade-long process for remaining gentle, patient, & respectful even when our kids are...

Formula to Successfully Parent A Non-Gentle Child

04 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

🙂 Hello, Cycle Breakers! We’re sharing an essential element we teach within our Parenting With Understanding™ methodology in today’s episode:...

How Amanda overcame potty training and bedtime struggles. The Cycle Breaker Spotlight

28 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

🙋🏻‍♀️ Hi, Cycle Breakers! Today's episode features a past member of the Parenting With Understanding™ Program. When Amanda joined in Aug...

Finding Enjoyment Parenting My Highly Sensitive Child: Coaching Session (Part 2)

21 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

👋🏽 Hi, Cycle Breakers! Today’s episode is the second and final part of last week’s coaching session with Pamela. If you recall, she’s a mo...

Finding Enjoyment Parenting My Highly Sensitive Child: Coaching Session (Part 1)

14 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

🙋🏻‍♀️ Hello, Cycle Breakers! We have the first part of a coaching session with Pamela today. She’s a mom of 3, one of which is Autistic,...

Parenting Peacefully When Sickness Strikes

07 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

🍀 Happy March, Cycle Breakers! Today’s episode is about how we can parent gently when we’re sick or unwell. I, Marcela, have been feeling under...

How to Overcome Reactivity as A Mom with ADHD (Part 2)

28 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

👋🏽 Hi, Cycle Breakers! Today’s episode is the 2nd (and final) part of last week’s episode, a coaching session with Erin. She’s a widowed m...

How to Overcome Reactivity as A Mom with ADHD (Part 1)

21 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

🙋🏻‍♀️ Hi, Cycle Breakers! Today’s episode is part 1 of a coaching session with Erin. She’s a widowed mom of 3 young children and has A...

How to Get on the Same Page with Your Spouse Over Parenting

14 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

💝 Happy Valentine’s Day, Cycle Breakers! In the spirit of this special day, dedicated to love, today’s episode is all about how to deepen the c...

How to Discipline Without Punishment

07 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Happy February, Cycle Breakers! 🥰 We’re beginning this month with an important conversation about disciplining your kids without resorting to pun...

From Frustrated to Confidently Parenting Her 3 Year Old: Cycle Breaker Spotlight

31 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

👋🏽 Hi, Cycle Breakers! We’re closing out the first month of 2023 with Beau. She’s a mom of a 3 year old son & a member of our Parenting ...

Need help transitioning my toddler to sleep in own bed. Coaching Session Part 2

24 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

🙋🏻‍♀️ Hi, Cycle Breakers! This episode is the 2nd part to last week’s coaching session with Crystal. If you recall, she was having troub...

Need help transitioning my toddler to sleep in own bed. Coaching Session Part 1

17 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

👋🏼 Hi, Cycle Breakers! In today’s episode, you’ll meet Crystal. She’s a mom of 2 boys, ages 3.5 & 4 months old. Her older son has had ...

The 4 BIG Lessons I Learned in 2022

10 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

👋🏼 Welcome back, Cycle Breakers! Today, we're sharing the 4 BIGGEST lessons we learned last year that brought us to reflect, so that we can bett...

New Year, New Parenting

03 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Happy New Year, Cycle Breakers! 🥳 As we welcome 2023 & celebrate new beginnings, we thought it was fitting to introduce you to HIC’s newest p...

Gentle parenting when you feel outnumbered. Part 2 (Coaching Session)

27 Dec 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Hi, Cycle Breakers! Welcome back for the 2nd part of last week’s episode, a coaching session with Francesca. 👩🏻‍🏫 Last week’s episode e...

Gentle parenting when you feel outnumbered. Part 1 (Coaching Session)

20 Dec 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Hi, Cycle Breakers, & Happy Hanukkah to everyone celebrating! 🕎 In today’s episode, you’ll get a peek into the first part of a coachin...

Holiday Gift Disappointments

13 Dec 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Hello, Cycle Breakers! Today’s episode is just in time for Hanukkah, Christmas, Kwanzaa, etc. What happens if Little Suzie is less than impressed by...

Getting Rid of Anger as A Gentle Parent

06 Dec 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Hi, Cycle Breakers! We’re tackling a hot topic on today’s episode: how to control our anger as gentle parents. It’s an emotion like any other, b...

Explaining Gentle Parenting to Relatives

29 Nov 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Hi, Cycle Breakers! Today’s episode is a timely one! We’re giving you tips on how to respectfully explain your gentle parenting philosophy to rela...

Gentle Parenting As A Neurodivergent Mom: Coaching Session

22 Nov 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Hi, Cycle Breakers! Today’s episode is a treat! You’ll listen in on a coaching session between Rachael & Adison, an HIC customer. She’s a mo...

How Jenny Went from Dealing with Constant Meltdowns to Connection: Cycle Breaker Spotlight

15 Nov 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Hello, Cycle Breakers! Today’s episode is a Cycle Breaker Spotlight about Jenny, a member of the Parenting With Understanding™ Program (PWU). She’...

Gentle Parenting During Holiday Gatherings

08 Nov 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Hi, Cycle Breakers! Today’s episode is dedicated to the awkward situations we find ourselves in when we practice gentle parenting in our relatives’...

10 TikTok Questions in 20 Minutes

01 Nov 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Happy November, Cycle Breakers! We’re kicking the month off with something fun! We went live on TikTok last week & challenged ourselves to answe...

Common Fears Among Young Children

25 Oct 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Hi, Cycle Breakers! We’re wrapping up October and our fears-based series in today’s episode with common fears among young children. We’ll talk a...

Teens’ Common Fears & How to Emotionally Support Them

18 Oct 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Hey there, Cycle Breakers! In keeping with the spirit of Halloween this month, we’re continuing our fears-based theme in today’s episode. We’re ...

How Marta Ended Her Cycle of Yelling By Starting Parenting With Understanding™: Cycle Breaker Spotlight

11 Oct 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Hey, Cycle Breakers! Today, you’ll hear from Marta, a member of the Parenting With Understanding Program. In just 5 months, she’s managed to trans...

Getting Real About Our Parenting Fears

04 Oct 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Hello again, Cycle Breakers, and happy October! In honor of Halloween, we’ve decided to dedicate this month’s podcast episodes to all things fear-...

Managing Your Triggers Through Daily Transitions

27 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Hey, Cycle Breakers! It’s the end of September and our back-to-school series. Today, we’re discussing ways to manage your triggers through daily t...

How to End the Struggle Over Homework

20 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome back, Cycle Breakers! Today’s episode continues with our back-to-school theme. This time, we’re talking about that dirty word…homework! ...

How Miranda Brought Peaceful Sibling Interaction: Cycle-Breaker Spotlight

13 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Hi, Cycle Breakers! We’re already halfway through September! On today’s episode, we’ll hear from Miranda. She’s a member of the Parenting With...

Tips to start this school year on the same page with your spouse

06 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Hello, Cycle Breakers, and welcome to September! With back-to-school in full swing for most, if not all, of us with school-aged kids, we thought it’...

Montessori Home & Montessori Home-School

30 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Hey, Cycle Breakers! We’re closing out August with a new episode! Today, you’ll hear from Angela Chang, creator of the online Montessori Bootcamp,...

Gentle Parenting Objections: Part 3. Can Gentle Parenting Work for Older Children?

23 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Hi, Cycle Breakers! Our Gentle Parenting Objections series continues today with a focus on older children (tweens and teens). Many parents with kids i...

How Cynthia transitioned from punishment to Parenting With Understanding. Cycle Breaker Spotlight

16 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Hi, Cycle Breakers! We’re halfway through August…can you believe it? On today’s episode, you’ll be introduced to Cynthia, a fellow Cycle Break...

Gentle Parenting Objections: Part 2

09 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Happy Tuesday, Cycle Breakers! This month, we’re discussing common objections people seem to have about gentle parenting. Today, we’re covering wh...

Gentle Parenting Objections: Part 1

02 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome to our first episode of August, Cycle Breakers! All month, we’ll cover different objections people may have towards gentle parenting. On tod...

The Difference Between Gentle Parenting and Parenting With Understanding

26 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Hi, Cycle Breakers, and welcome to our last episode of July! Today, we’re bringing awareness to the differences between Gentle Parenting and Parenti...

Parenting Q&A

19 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Hello, Cycle Breakers! We’re excited to bring you today’s much-requested new episode because it features YOUR parenting questions. There’s guara...

How Stacey Got Her Skeptical Relatives on Board. Cycle Breaker Spotlight✨

12 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Hello there, Cycle Breakers! We’ve got a brand-new episode for you today, featuring a fellow member of the HIC community. You’ll meet Stacey and g...

The 3 Biggest Mistakes Gentle Parents Make

05 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Hello, Cycle Breakers! We have a gift for you to welcome this new month of July…a new episode! Today, we’ll share 3 of the top mistakes gentle par...

Overcome Summer Burnout

28 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Hello, Cycle Breakers! In today’s episode, we’ll give you tips on how you can prevent feeling burnt out this summer. We’ll discuss the benefits ...

Cycle Breaker Spotlight

21 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Hello Cycle Breaker, in this episode Marcela and Rachael interviewed Kimberly who is a mom of a 4 and 8 year old and student of The Parenting With Und...

Vacation Tips

14 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Hello Cycle Breakers! If you are taking a vacation this summer this episode is a must before you go. We give you our personal tips and tricks we use w...

Peaceful Playtime

07 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Hello Cycle Breakers! Welcome to a new month. We are so excited to kick off the month of June. In this episode, we are talking about creating independ...

Keeping your cool in the summer

31 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Hello Cycle Breakers! In today’s episode, we share the survival tips we use to keep cool in the summer as gentle parents. We discuss how as parents ...

Is it too late for you and your tween or teen?

24 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Hello Cycle Breakers! In today’s episode, we had the pleasure of sitting down and interviewing our new parenting coach for tweens and teens. Dr. Ann...

Cycle Breaker Spot Light With Jess Martini

17 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Hello Cycle Breakers! We are so excited for today’s episode because the one and only @jes_martini is joining us! If you have ever asked yourself how...

Your tween and teen's brain and emotional needs

10 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Hello Cycle Breakers! In today’s episode, we are taking a deep dive into tween and teen's brains. We go through the reasons why your tweens and teen...

The 4 parenting styles part 2: Authoritative and permissive parenting

06 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Hello Cycle Breakers! We are excited to bring you a special bonus episode! Today we are completing our 2 part series on the 4 parenting styles. In thi...

How to build a strong relationship with your older child?

03 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Hello Cycle Breakers! We are so excited to announce we are now the Parenting With Understanding Podcast. In Today’s episode we will be talking about...

The 4 parenting styles part 1: Authoritarian and uninvolved parenting

26 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Hello, Cycle Breakers! Today we are starting our 2-part series on the four parenting styles. In this episode, we are breaking down the differences bet...

Cycle Breaker Spotlight

19 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Hello Cycle Breakers! We have a very special guest today. Her name is Miki and she has the cycle breaker spotlight. She has a 6, and a 4-year-old, and...