Passion Struck with John R. Miles
Congresswoman Sara Jacobs Egg Freezing Choice: Why Authenticity Wins | EP 710
01 Jan 2026
Chapter 1: What personal decision did Congresswoman Sara Jacobs make regarding motherhood?
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I'll be honest with you, body image, body weight, food are things that I've struggled with my whole life. And I've worked really hard to get to a place where I feel neutral about food and that I don't have the scarcity mindset and that I love my body the way it is and not am constantly trying to change it. And that's really difficult work. It's work that I have to do every single day.
And I hope that as a society, we do a better job of not giving the kinds of messages that I received as a young girl to future generations.
Welcome to Passion Struck. I'm your host, John Miles. This is the show where we explore the art of human flourishing and what it truly means to live like it matters.
Chapter 2: How does egg freezing empower women in their career choices?
Each week, I sit down with changemakers, creators, scientists, and everyday heroes to decode the human experience and uncover the tools that help us lead with meaning, heal what hurts, and pursue the fullest expression of who we're capable of becoming.
Whether you're designing your future, developing as a leader or seeking deeper alignment in your life, this show is your invitation to grow with purpose and act with intention. Because the secret to a life of deep purpose, connection and impact is choosing to live like you matter. Hey friends and happy 2026. Welcome back to episode 710 of Passion Struck.
This is one of my favorite times of the year. There's something so powerful about the quiet reset of January 1st. A moment when the noise eases. Intentions come into focus and we get to ask ourselves, not what do I want to do, but who do I want to become this year? And if you're like me, it's also that stretch of the calendar where you're gearing up for the college football and NFL playoffs.
Chapter 3: What physical and emotional challenges did Sara face during the egg freezing process?
A reminder that preparation, timing, and teamwork matter just as much as raw talent, which makes today's conversation especially fitting. Over the past month, we've been in what I call the season of becoming, exploring identity, discomfort, leadership, flow, creativity, and compassion.
With voices like Susan Grau, Anne Libera, Brent Gleason, Hannah Pryor, Nirbha Shahan, David Nurse, Mark Murphy, Olly Raisin, Horace McGuire, Rick Hansen, and Joshua Green. Today's conversation continues that journey by going into deeply human territory. This is not an episode about politics, and I want to be clear about that. And it's not just an episode about fertility.
It's an episode about agency, what it looks like to choose yourself without abandoning your purpose. My guest today is Representative Sarah Jacobs, a third term member of Congress representing California's 51st District. She's one of the youngest women serving in Congress, and she's also been remarkably open about a deeply personal decision, freezing her eggs while serving in public office.
Chapter 4: Why is radical vulnerability considered a superpower in leadership?
Sarah chose to speak publicly about that journey, the physical toll, the emotional complexity, the body scrutiny, and the invisible labor, not because she was seeking attention, but because lived experience makes better leadership possible. In today's conversation, we explore what it means to take agency when biology, ambition, and service collide.
Why not yet can be a powerful values-aligned choice. how stigma around women's bodies quietly shapes policy and culture, why leadership without embodied understanding leads to blind spots, and how vulnerability, when chosen intentionally, becomes a form of strength. At its core, this episode asks a bigger question. What would change if we designed our systems around real human lives?
not idealized timelines. If you've ever felt pressure around timing, if your body has ever felt inconvenient to your role, if you've ever wrestled with choosing between contribution and care, this conversation is for you. Before we begin, a quick reminder, if this episode resonates, please share it with someone navigating a similar season. And if you haven't yet, I
Chapter 5: How does the stigma around women's bodies affect public policy?
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Thank you for choosing Passion Struck and choosing me to be your host and guide on your journey to creating an intentional life. Now, let that journey begin. I would like to welcome Congresswoman Sarah Jacobs, a third term member of Congress representing California's 51st District to PassionStruck. Welcome, Sarah. How are you today?
I'm good. Thanks so much for having me.
Chapter 6: What does agency mean in the context of women's reproductive choices?
Well, today, we're not talking about your job as a congresswoman. We're not talking about politics at all. We're talking about something personal that you have been going through. Can you take us back to the moment when you realized, if I want the option of motherhood, I need to act now? What was happening in your life and work at that time?
So I got sworn into Congress at 31 years old and realized that I was going to be quite busy getting everything started. And I come from a big family. I always knew I wanted to be a mom, but I knew that it wasn't the right time. And so in my first term in Congress, in my first year in Congress, I froze my eggs.
And made that decision because I wanted to have agency in my life and my timeline and be able to make that decision when it was right for me, not just based on my biological clock.
Chapter 7: How can male leaders better understand women's health issues?
And then as I continued serving in Congress, I turned 36 and realized it was still not quite the right time for me. It was time to go back and check on some things my doctor recommended. We do another round of egg freezing to make sure that I had as much optionality as I could give myself.
And so this past year, I did two rounds of egg retrieval, froze my eggs and spoke about it very publicly, which I will say was amazing.
difficult it was like to say it was an act of radical vulnerability I did not have talking about my boobs hurting with the New York Times on my bucket list but that's what happened but I feel like it's important to be talking about these things because look as a 36 year old woman right these are the conversations I'm having with all my friends all the time right who's having a baby who wants to have a baby who doesn't want to have a baby and if we're not normalizing those things if we're not talking about them we're certainly not going to make good policy about them in the end
Yeah, I was wondering, as you were going through this, what surprised you the most? Was it physical changes and you were emotional?
Well, that's such a good question. I had the most intense food cravings and food noise. And I feel like I was going through puberty and menopause at the same time.
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Chapter 8: What lessons does Sara want the next generation of women to learn?
So like I got terrible acne and my boobs hurt, but then I was also having hot flashes and really weird body temperature control. So I guess I'm not looking forward to that in the future because the hot flashes were really challenging. And then I really wanted frozen yogurt and cinnamon rolls like every night.
Man, my wife has recently been craving Cinnabons and we do it on a rare occasion, but man, we just had one and they are so good.
They're so good. The struggle.
The struggle is real.
That's right.
When you were making this decision, did it feel like you were gaining control or more like you were acknowledging uncertainty?
I felt like I was gaining control. I think a lot of people think about egg freezing and like when I would share this with people, they'd be like, oh, I'm so sorry. And I'm like, why are you sorry? This is like a very empowering decision where I am taking one of the most important decisions in my life and giving myself more agency about it. And that felt really empowering to me.
It didn't feel at all like something that I had to feel bad about or feel sorry about or anything like that.
Yeah, and emotions are something I love to talk about on the podcast. And you just talked about you were giving yourself agency, but I'm wondering, was there any grief alongside that agency? Kind of grief for how complicated this choice had to be?
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