Pink Kink
Episodes
Small But Mighty - Episode 168
24 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we explore the dynamics of BDSM relationships where the Dominant/Top is physically smaller than the Submissive/Bottom. We share insig...
Building Your Perfect BDSM Scene - Episode 167
17 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we explore how to create a BDSM scene. Whether you are new or a seasoned kinkster, we got you covered with valuable tips to help you ...
We Tried Splitting Up - Episode 166
10 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Get ready for a wild ride as Rara and Dara ditch the buddy system and go solo! Listen to our misadventures as we ventured off to different events. It&...
Risqué Business: Japan - Episode 165
03 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Join us as we discuss Risqué Business: Japan, a show on Netflix. The show explores Tokyo's adult entertainment scene, from bustling streets to hi...
Understanding Identity and Attraction - Episode 164
26 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
We delve into the intricacies of sapiosexuality and demisexuality, two often misunderstood sexual orientations. Join us as we discuss the complexities...
The Return of Reddit - Episode 163
19 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Dive into the chaotic depths of Reddit once more as we tackle the internet's ultimate jungle gym. Strap in for a rollercoaster ride of laughter, insig...
The Tradwife Phenomenon - Episode 162
12 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we explore the resurgence of the 'Tradwife' lifestyle, where women embrace traditional roles in marriage and family. We'll discuss wh...
Utilizing Behavior Modification in D/s - Episode 161
05 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Join us as we uncover the intricacies of what behavior modification entails, its underlying principles, and how it functions within the dynamics of BD...
Exploring "Unf#ck Your Kink" - Episode 160
29 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Join us for a deep dive into Dr. Faith G. Harper's provocative book, "Unf#ck Your Kink." We'll dissect its insights, debunk myths, and explore the sci...
Locked and Loaded - Episode 159
22 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we dive into the world of chastity in BDSM. Join us as we explore how people in power exchange relationships use chastity to control ...
Winter Fire: Transformations & Reflections - Episode 158
15 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Welcome back to our journey at the kink convention! In this episode, Rara dives into how the classes she took and the scenes she tried changed her. Jo...
Our Kink Convention Journey - Episode 157
08 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Join us on a wild journey as we explore the world of kink at Dark Odyssey Winter Fire. From meeting old friends to making new ones, we'll share all th...
Our Anniversary Wrap-Up - Episode 156
01 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In the final episode of our anniversary series, Part 3, we'll be sharing more of the stories that have touched our hearts from our listeners. Plus, we...
Reflecting on Three Years Part 2 - Episode 155
23 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In Part 2 of our anniversary celebration, we continue to delve into the stories and reflections of our incredible listeners. Join us as we explore eve...
Reflecting on Three Years Part 1 - Episode 154
16 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Welcome to the first part of our anniversary special. We did a deep dive into the heart of our podcast's impact on our listeners. We invited some of o...
Movie Review of Professor Marston - Episode 153
09 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we take a deep dive into the movie "Professor Marston and the Wonder Women." It's all about the life of psychologist William Moulton ...
Healing From Toxic Relationships - Episode 152
02 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we discuss how to heal after a toxic romantic relationship. We cover important steps like recognizing toxicity, building positive con...
It's All About The Booty - Episode 151
26 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Delve into a subject often shrouded in taboo - Anal Play. Join us for a candid and informative conversation, as we endeavor to dismantle societal barr...
BDSM and Feminism: Exploring Choices - Episode 150
19 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
We delve into the nuanced intersection of BDSM and feminism. We discuss whether the choices people make in BDSM can be considered feminist and explore...
We Answer More Reddit Posts - Episode 149
12 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we're delving into posts from BDSM_AITA (Am I the Asshole) and BDSMAdvice on Reddit. We'll be answering questions, sharing insights, ...
Spice Up Your Kink With Humor - Episode 148
05 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
We talk about how adding laughter can make BDSM relationships more fun. We'll share stories and tips, and you'll learn how to balance humor and intima...
Our New Year's Resolutions - Episode 147
29 Dec 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Hard to believe but 2023 has come to an end. What an amazing year! We look back on last year's resolutions and see how many pink checkmarks we got and...
Discovering Our Kinky Selves - Episode 146
15 Dec 2023
Contributed by Lukas
We answered questions from Kink Academy's book "365 Days of Kink." Join us as we learn more about ourselves and each other. We invite you to also answ...
Smut Lovers Conference Part 2 - Episode 145
08 Dec 2023
Contributed by Lukas
We continue with interviewing authors who want to level up their kink and smut knowledge by attending the Smut Lovers Conference. In this episode we ...
Smut Lovers Conference Part 1 - Episode 144
01 Dec 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Smut romance is huge and in fact is a gateway into kink for many readers. Thus the Smut Lovers Conference was created. This event is the largest educa...
What We Are Thankful For 2023 - Episode 143
24 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
It's time to once again express our gratitude for the things that have brought us happiness this year. Join us for an episode of thankfulness and laug...
Kink in the News - Episode 142
17 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
This episode is the start of a new series - Kink in the News. We have found a few articles about kink that have appeared in newspapers from different ...
13 Non Sexual Reasons to Date a Kinkster - Episode 141
10 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
We discuss an article from PRIDE Magazine titled "13 Non-Sexual Reasons You Should Date A Kinkster" written by Zachary Zane and Andrew J. ...
Rara's Latest Kerfuffles - Episode 140
03 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Rara tries to stay out of trouble, but sometimes it's just too difficult. Join us as we talk about what has been going on that she has pulled out her ...
Interrogation Scenes - Episode 139
27 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Interrogation scenes are a classic roleplay scenario in BDSM. They are an exciting way to reinforce a power dynamic or just learn more about your part...
FemDom vs Female Dominant - Episode 138
20 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
A female Dominant is a woman who takes the dominant role in a BDSM relationship. FemDom stands for female domination. So are these terms just differen...
Brats and SAMs - Episode 137
13 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
The labels Brats and SAMs are often used interchangeably. But are they the same thing or actually different? Listen as we debate this issue. Visit us...
More People in Our Kinky Neighborhood - Episode 136
06 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
We talk with more folks in our kinky neighborhood and discuss what it's like to be featured in the podcast. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affi...
The People in Our Kinky Neighborhood- Part 1
29 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
For Rara's birthday episode, she invited the people she talks about to come on and share their thoughts and feelings about being mentioned on the podc...
It's Our Birthday Party Episode - Episode 134
22 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Join us as we share all the stories and memories from our very Pink birthday party at our local dungeon. We had an amazing time and both of us celebra...
Dara's Birthday Episode Part 2 - Episode 133
15 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
The celebration for Dara's birthday continues. In this episode Dara and friends discuss - Sex Wizards by Alethea Faust From Russia with Blood by ...
Dara's Birthday Episode Part 1 - Episode 132
08 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
It's time to celebrate Dara's birthday and for her gift this year she wanted to do a kinky book club with her favorite genre - Fantasy. Join her and s...
Our Rambling Minds - Episode 131
01 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
We intended to talk about how kink can be expensive, but we ended up mostly rambling on what is happening in our lives right now. We do touch briefly ...
What is Topping From the Bottom - Episode 130
25 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Topping from the bottom is something that is feared by many kinksters. Dominants don't want to deal with it and submissives are afraid of being accuse...
Boundaries vs Limits vs Rules - Episode 129
18 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
The concept of boundaries vs limits vs rules has become a hot button topic recently. Within kink we tend to use the terms interchangeably but is that ...
Being Neurodivergent and Kinky - Episode 128
11 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Kink draws in many neurodiverse people. Why do they see these kink spaces as a safe haven? How do neurotypical folx create a welcoming place for ND fo...
The Perspective of Male Submissives - Episode 127
04 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
There are misconceptions and misunderstandings about men who prefer to be submissive. Even in modern times, male submission goes against societal norm...
The Importance of Being an Ethical Kink Educator - Episode 126
28 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Recently we have become distressed at some of the unethical behavior of people who claim to be educators. We see it on social media and in person and ...
We Answer More Reddit Questions - Episode 125
21 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
We always have so much fun answering questions from Reddit and this time was no exception. Plus we wanted to showcase our own subreddit r/BDSM_AITA an...
The Fun of Roleplay - Episode 124
14 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Kinksters are very creative folks. They are often using their imagination to construct elaborate scenes that challenge their minds and their bodies. O...
Aging in Kink - Episode 123
07 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
People always talk about aging gracefully. Well Rara refuses to age and is going down kicking and screaming. Dara is about to turn the F word (40) and...
The Gorean Lifestyle - Episode 122
30 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
You may have heard about Gorean or Gor, but what is it exactly? Gorean refers to a kink lifestyle that originated in the novels of science fiction wri...
What is Hucow? - Episode 121
23 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
One might think that HuCow (a combination of human and cow) is an extremely niche fetish but is much more popular than you'd imagine. There are po...
Is BDSM Considered a Lifestyle - Episode 120
16 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Some people call it kink. Some people call it BDSM. Others call it a Lifestyle. What is the difference between these terms? Are there requirements to ...
Kink: The Documentary - Episode 119
09 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
We watched and reviewed Kink which is a 2013 American documentary film produced by James Franco about the BDSM website Kink.com. It's a fasci...
BDSM Romance Part 2 - Episode 118
02 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
We continue our discussion about BDSM Romance with two more amazing authors as we talk about how they were inspired, how they research kink and more. ...
BDSM Romance Part 1 - Episode 117
26 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Ever since 50 Shades of Grey, BDSM romance has gained in popularity. These books put into words a fantasy that many people have. But how real are thes...
Littles and Middles - Episode 116
19 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Littles get a lot of attention but what about middles? They tend to get overlooked a lot. They do exist though. What exactly is the difference between...
Religion and Kink - Episode 115
12 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Religion and kink seem to have great difficulty in co-existing. We bring in Phrygian Monk, a kink educator and pastor's child, to discuss why it a...
Dungeon Tales - Episode 114
05 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, pseudo-siblings Rara and Dara discover a magical place called The Dungeon where they meet their kinkster friends who help them in fu...
Kink Across Different Generations - Episode 113
28 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Dara and Rara like to tease each other because as a Millenial and Gen X they don't always agree on stuff. This inspired us to bring in other gener...
To Come Out as Kinky or Not - Episode 112
21 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
One of the hardest decisions to make is whether to be public or private about your kinky life. How will your family and friends react? Could your job ...
Things That Make Us Angry - Episode 111
14 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Every time Rara goes on social media, she runs across posts that make her crazy. She tells Dara all about it so they can rant together. This time the ...
More Reddit Advice - Episode 110
07 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
It's time once again to go through r/BDSMAdvice and answer some of the questions posed. Warning, we may get a bit ranty because the frustration le...
ABDL - Episode 109
31 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
What exactly is ABDL? Why is it so stigmatized? Why do some people love it? You may find yourself surprised at some of the answers. Keep an open mind ...
Primal Play - Episode 107
17 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
A lot of people identify as primal, but what exactly is it? Is growling mandatory? We discuss exactly what primal encompasses and how to add it to you...
Adventures of Traveling with Kink Toys - Episode 106
10 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Want to fly to visit your long distance sub and bring your toys? Been ordered by your Dom to wear a butt plug while traveling? What's the best way to ...
Playing With Your Food is a Good Thing - Episode 105
03 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Sploshing brings a whole new meaning to playing with your food. Think licking chocolate syrup off your partner or painting your body with whip cream. ...
Adventures at Winter Fire Part 2 - Episode 104
24 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Hang with us while we continue to share stories and adventures from Dark Odyssey Winter Fire 2023. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates -...
Adventures at Winter Fire 2023 Part 1 - Episode 103
17 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
It's that time of the year again - Dark Odyssey Winter Fire, a weekend long hotel takeover. Winter Fire offers classes all day and parties all night. ...
Asexuality and Kink with Evie Lupine - Episode 102
10 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Being asexual and kinky seems like an oxymoron. But it really isn't if you think about it and more and more asexuals are discovering the fun of kink. ...
Evolutionary History of Kink - Episode 101
03 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Dara has been wanting to do an episode on the history of kink for awhile. She is finally getting her chance to share all the research she did about ki...
It's Our Bloopers Episode - Episode 100
27 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Hard to believe but we have reached a milestone - 100 episodes!! People have been asking us for a blooper special and boy do we deliver. This episode ...
Consensual Non-Consent - Episode 99
20 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Consensual Non-Consent (otherwise known as CNC) has quickly gained popularity however there are many misconceptions about this type of play. We start ...
Needles, Sutures and Staples, Oh My - Episode 98
13 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
We have put together the perfect episode for a Friday the 13th - an episode about sharp pointy things that draw blood. But a very important warning - ...
Adventures at Naughty Noel - Episode 97
06 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Join us as we talk about Rara's adventures at Naughty Noel, a hotel takeover kink convention. Rara shares stories and we listen to interviews from kin...
Our New Year's Resolutions - Episode 96
30 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
It's that time of the year - time to make New Year's Resolutions. First we look back at last years resolutions and see how much we have accomplished. ...
Toxic Submissives - Episode 95
16 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This week we turn our focus to the toxicity that can happen on the other side of the slash. Yes, toxic submissives exist and they can cause just as mu...
Toxic Dominants - Episode 94
09 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Toxic Dominants. They are the ones we always warn new submissives against. But what exactly are the signs of a toxic dom? What things scream red flag?...
Pervertables - Episode 93
02 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Purchasing kink toys can be expensive and not everyone has the budget or even the desire to spend that much money. Some very creative people have foun...
What We Are Thankful For This Year - Episode 92
25 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
It's that time of the year when we express our gratitude for so many things relating to the podcast. Join us for an episode of thankfulness and laught...
Safewords vs Plain Language - Episode 91
18 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Some people think no and stop are safewords while others call it plain language. So which is it? Are they the same or different? We discuss this as we...
Demo Topping - Episode 90
11 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Rara and Dara both have talked about being Demo Tops at events. But what exactly is a Demo Top? How does that differ from other types of Topping? They...
Debunking TikTok Misinformation - Episode 89
04 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Tik Tok, specifically Kink Tok, has become the newest way for kinksters to learn about BDSM. Unfortunately, not all the information presented is accur...
How We Dominate - Episode 88
28 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
We share how we dominate. What are our dominating styles? What do we look for in a submissive? What kind of rules and tasks do we like to include in o...
BDSM Contracts - Episode 87
21 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Are BDSM Contracts a requirement for a dynamic? Why should I have a contract? What should be included in a contract? We answer these questions and muc...
Subspace - Episode 86
14 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
We finally devote an entire episode to the subject of subspace. What is it? What does it look like? How can I achieve it? We answer all these question...
Answering BDSM Questions - Episode 85
07 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode we answer questions that we received from listeners and found on social media. If you would like to ask us a question, send us a messa...
The Joy of Submission - Episode 84
30 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Being a submissive is an amazing and wonderful thing but sometimes it can be difficult to explain just why it is amazing and wonderful. In this episod...
Praise Kink - Episode 83
23 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
It's Rara's birthday episode so she chose to discuss Praise Kink. Also known as affirmation play, praise kink is growing in popularity. You may ...
Fear Play - Episode 82
16 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This week we are talking about Fear Play - what it is, why do we enjoy this type of play, and we give you ideas on how to incorporate fear into your s...
Humiliation - Episode 81
09 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
It's Dara's birthday episode so she got to chose the topic and she picked Humiliation. It is one of the kinks she has and wants to explore more. We ta...
Service Topping and Bottoming - Episode 80
02 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
The term "in service" is something kinksters are very familiar with. But did you know you can Top or bottom in service to someone? In this episode we ...
The Importance of Reputation in BDSM - Episode 79
26 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
We talk about why your reputation is everything within the BDSM community. We discuss how having a bad reputation can hurt you and how a good reputati...
We Watched How to Build a Sex Room - Episode 78
19 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
When we saw that Netflix had a new show titled "How to Build a Sex Room" we knew that we would have to watch. And since we have opinions, we knew we w...
Fantasy vs Reality - Episode 77
12 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
The recent popularity of things like 50 Shades and 365 has created more interest in kink. Helping people understand what we do is great, but these wor...
Exhibitionism and Voyeurism - Episode 76
05 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Exhibitionism and voyeurism are two sides of the same coin. Without someone to watch them, exhibitionists have nothing. And without someone willing to...
We Filled Out The BDSM Checklist - Episode 75
29 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
It had been a super long time since either of us had gone through the BDSM Checklist and updated it with our current likes and dislikes. We used the c...
Healthy Hurting - Episode 74
22 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
When does masochism in BDSM become harmful for your mental health? We spoke to AJ, a kink and sexuality educator and therapist to answer this importan...
Frenzy - Episode 73
15 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Frenzy is an experience that affects many new kinksters. You are finally getting to dip your toes into this kinky world that you have learned about an...
Orgasm Control - Episode 72
08 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Controlling orgasms is a fun way to add heat to your sex life and it's a very common practice in D/s relationships. We talk about different ways to in...
When Scenes Go Wrong - Episode 71
01 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
BDSM is a lot of fun but it comes with risks. If you are smart and experienced, then you have identified ways to minimize risks. But there is always t...
Wax Play - Episode 70
24 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Wax play is a form of temperature play in which wax is dripped onto your partner's body. It may seem like a simple way to add some fun to your kinky p...
Dealing With Drop - Episode 69
17 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Drop is a term we hear a lot in BDSM. Technically drop is what happens to your body after you've drained your brain of all the hormones and chemicals ...
High Protocol - Episode 68
10 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
High protocol is, in the BDSM community, is a code prescribing strict adherence to a pre-determined set of rules or etiquette that determines acceptab...