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BDSM Breakups - Episode 67

03 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Breakups are painful no matter what brings them about. When it's a D/s relationship that ends it can add to the pain. Your routine is altered, you nee...

How To Be a Better Bottom - Episode 66

27 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Common questions we hear include "how can I make my scenes last longer?" and "how can I take more pain in my scenes?" There are things that you can do...

Medical Roleplay - Episode 65

20 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Medical roleplay involving medical scenarios, procedures and practices is a very common and popular kink. We see it everywhere from the "sexy nurse" o...

Service Submission - Episode 64

13 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

A common label in the lifestyle is service sub. But what is a service sub? What does it mean to serve? Service submission is a lot more complicated th...

BDSM and the Law - Episode 63

06 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

DISCLAIMER: The information provided in this episode does not, and is not intended to, constitute legal advice; instead, all information and content i...

Answering More Reddit Questions - Episode 62

29 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

We thought we would introduce our new Pink Kink subreddit by answering some more questions from Reddit. Check us out at r/PinkKinkPodcast. Ask questio...

Honorifics - Episode 61

22 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Honorifics are an important part of many people's identity and relationship. But when it comes to honorifics in the lifestyle, there are as many diffe...

Switches - Episode 60

15 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dara and Rara both identify as switches. But as with everything else, their switch personas are different. That is because switching is a spectrum and...

Breeding, Pregnancy and More - Episode 59

08 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

You probably have heard about breeding fetishes but did you know about pregnancy fetishes? Or lactation fetishes? Have you heard about hucows? We cove...

Ethical Bratting - Episode 58

01 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Within BDSM, the label brat has become associated with being rebellious, an antagonist, refusing, whining and many other negative stereotypes. But the...

Episode 57 - Collars

25 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

You probably have heard about BDSM collars. But what exactly are they, what do they mean and why do people wear them? Are they like pet collars? We an...

Episode 56 - The Many Different Feet We Meet

18 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

One of the most popular fetishes (one in seven people appear to have this fantasy) but surprisingly one of the most stigmatized, is podophilia, otherw...

Episode 55 - The Importance of Community

11 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Is being a part of the BDSM community necessary? Can you be a "true" kinkster if you aren't involved in your community? Are BDSM communities beneficia...

Episode 54 - Our Adventures at Winter Fire

04 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Hang with us as we talk all about our adventures at Winter Fire. We give you behind the scenes at this amazing kink convention. We talk with others wh...

Episode 53 - Platonic Kink

25 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

People often ask which kinks can be non-sexual and the honest answer is almost all of them. We discuss exactly what platonic kink is and how you are p...

Episode 52 - Celebrating Our First Year

18 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

It's hard to believe Pink Kink has been around for 1 full year! Happy anniversary to us! To celebrate we have a super sized episode filled with our fa...

Episode 51 - Pain on Purpose

11 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Physical pain is a common feature of BDSM. Many seek out pain through impact, knives, needles and more. But the question of why looms over masochists....

Episode 50 - Punishments/Rewards in D/s

04 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In BDSM the letter D represents Domination but it also represents Discipline. Some people believe that means rules and consequences for breaking those...

Episode 49 - Age Play vs Age Regression

28 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Age Regression and Age Play are two very similar but very different headspaces to be in. They use similar language and people tend to use them interch...

Episode 48 - Kinking Under The Influence

21 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Does alcohol and BDSM mix? What about drugs and BDSM? Is it the same if it is prescription medicine? This was a hot topic on social media recently and...

Episode 47 - Making Kink Your Profession

14 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Many kinskters have wondered if they could turn their love of all things kink into a career that actually pays the bills. While it is possible, it is ...

Episode 46 - Playing With The Five Senses

07 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Playing with your five senses is a commonly used practice in BDSM that makes us focus on our other senses by depriving us or concentrating on one or m...

Episode 45 - Kink Resolutions

31 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It's the end of another year. 2021 has had some ups and downs but 2022 is hopefully looking brighter. We had to end the year with our own kinky New Ye...

Episode 44 - We Answer Reddit Questions

17 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

We thought it would be fun to answer questions asked on the BDSM Advice subReddit. And we had so much fun that we think this will become a regular thi...

Episode 43 - Breath Play

10 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

WARNING -  Any activity which constricts or blocks a person’s air or blood flow comes with risk, and can never be 100 percent safe. There’s a...

Episode 42 - Vetting

03 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

What exactly is vetting and how does it pertain to BDSM? What are some questions to ask during the vetting process? We answer these questions and so m...

Episode 41 - What We Are Thankful For

26 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

We couldn't let Thanksgiving pass without sharing all the kinky things we are grateful for. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Sponsored by - visit www....

Episode 40 - Is Submission a Gift?

19 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

We often hear in the kink lifestyle that submission is a gift. But is it? You can't take a gift back but you can rescind your submission. And if submi...

Episode 39 - #DisabledandKinkyAF

12 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

When we think of kink including floggers, wax play, or restraints, we generally don’t include disabled people in that image. And why don't we? Being...

Episode 38 - YKINMKATOK

05 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Your kink is not my kink and that's okay. It's the principal we in the kink community are supposed to live by. But do we actually or do we found ourse...

Episode 37 - Gatekeeping in Kink

29 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Gatekeeping in kink is defined as "restricting or limiting access to the lifestyle or community or invalidating someone's actions or feelings, usually...

Episode 36 - Mindf*#$ing Mindfully

22 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

We interview Sir Ezra, Intimacy and BDSM Coach at House Of Algos Inc. and Director of Education at Sanctuary LAX, about his new book Mindfucking Mindf...

Episode 35 - Controversial and Taboo Kinks

15 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Some kinks are viewed as forbidden by society’s standards and therefore are rarely talked about openly. Some are less taboo then they were in the pa...

Bonus - Our "Newlywed" Challenge

11 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

As part of Rara's birthday celebrations, Dara and Rara challenged each other to see who knew more about the other one. Join us as we play our very own...

Episode 34 - Dating While Kinky

08 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

We get so many questions about trying to date when you are kinky so we decided to just do an episode about it. We talk about the best way to begin the...

Episode 33 - Mentoring in BDSM

01 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

A mentor is a person with specialized knowledge whom you may enlist to educate and motivate you. But is a mentor necessary in the kink lifestyle. We s...

Episode 32 - Things That Go Ouch (Impact) and It's Rara's Birthday

24 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

This time it's Rara's birthday that we are celebrating so we are devoting the episode to one of Rara's favorite subjects - Impact. An entire episode d...

Episode 31 - The Problem With Labels

17 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Throughout our lives, people attach labels to us, and those labels reflect and affect how others think about our identities as well as how we think ab...

Episode 30 - Fire in the Hole

10 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Fire play is an incredibly sensual play involving not just the fire but touch too. It is obviously edge play so we bring in an expert to talk about th...

Episode 29 - It's Dara's Birthday and It's Electric

03 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It's Dara's birthday and we are celebrating with an entire episode all about her favorite subject - Electro!  Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Sp...

Episode 28 - Kink is Not A Competition

27 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Whether you are a longtime member of the kink world or a newbie just exploring, you may have noticed something a bit concerning. Kink often has an iss...

Episode 27 - Difficulty Accepting Your Kinks

20 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

TW: CNC/Rape Play It is sometimes hard to understand why we enjoy some of the kinks we have. Whether it's being a sadist and wanting to hurt someone, ...

Episode 26 - Erotic Hypnosis

13 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Hypnosis has been used for centuries to induce dreams, recall memories, and transform habits. So it makes sense that it could also be used to elicit p...

Episode 25 - Consent

06 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Consent. It is the foundation of BDSM. Without consent, what we do is nothing more than abuse. We discuss how best to ensure you have consent in a sce...

Episode 24 - Long Distance and D/s

30 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Many people believe that long distance D/s relationships are never going to work out. Your family may discourage it, and some of your best friends may...

Episode 23 - Polyamory and Kink

23 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Kink within polyamory relationships provide extra challenges. How do you incorporate D/s rules into your other relationships? What do you do if one pa...

Episode 22 - Rope Bondage

16 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Rope bondage has gained in popularity as more people have come to admire the artistry that can be created with rope. But rope is considered edge play ...

Episode 21 - Risk Profiles

09 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Kink has dangers. Dangers to our social standing, to our health, to our sanity. Anyone who tells you that BDSM is “totally safe” is probably lying...

Episode 20 - Kink in Public

02 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

People in leashes in grocery stores. Kink at Pride. So much has been in the news lately about whether kink is appropriate in public and if so, how muc...

Episode 19 - Pet Play and Furries

25 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

We are absolutely fascinated by pet play and furries so we talked to experts to learn more about this kink. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates...

Episode 18 - Our Favorite Toys

18 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

We talk all about our favorite toys. Photos and videos of the toys can be seen on Instagram and Tik Tok. Links for Rara's favorites -  Leather Cl...

Episode 17 - The Explosion of Kink Tok

11 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Many kinksters began to utilize social media apps to educate and inform about a variety of standard kink concepts such as negotiations, safety and con...

Episode 16 - The Good, The Bad and The Ugly - Fictional Portrayals of BDSM

04 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

There is a lot of disagreement about how fiction portrays BDSM. Fifty Shades is one of the most talked about fictional portrayals and probably the mos...

Episode 15 - BDSM is NOT All About Sex

28 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Rara gets on her soapbox to discuss the assumption that BDSM is only about sex and sexual things. Hint - It's not.  Affiliates - SireDonLeather....

Bonus - A Shocking Teaser

25 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

When Rara turned her back to Top in an impact scene, Dara saw her opportunity to convert more kinksters to "TeamLightning." This bonus episode feature...

Episode 14 - Caregivers/littles

21 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

This episode is all about Caregivers and littles. This topic is near and dear to our hearts because we both identify in the little category. Caregiver...

Episode 13 - Busting BDSM Myths

14 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Whether you are a new or experienced kinkster, you have probably run into a lot of assumptions about the lifestyle. Some may be true, but there are al...

Episode 12 - FemDomme

07 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

FemDomme, or Female Dominance, refers to a BDSM scene or relationship in which a female-identifying person is a dominant partner or top partner. While...

Episode 11 - Domination/submission

30 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Domination and submission. It's what everybody thinks about when you think about BDSM. Many people have preconceived notions about how D/s works. They...

Bonus - A Night in a BDSM Dungeon

27 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

A rare Pink Moon has made an appearance and we couldn't let it slip by without celebrating. Therefore we offer this special bonus episode offering a g...

Episode 10 - Red Flags

23 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In order to maintain a healthy relationship, especially within the BDSM community, you need to be aware of signs of unhealthy behavior. Of course, the...

Episode 9 - Aftercare

16 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Aftercare is, very simply, the time you and your partner take after play time to recover and also to see to each other’s emotional and physical need...

Episode 8 - BDSM Negotiations

09 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Negotiation is a cornerstone of successful BDSM play. It is the process of working out what each of you enthusiastically agrees to do or to avoid when...

Bonus - PinkKinkChallenge - The Scottish Accent

05 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

We challenged our listeners in Episode 7 to melt Dara with their best Scottish accents. Listen as she hears them for the first time and how easily she...

Episode 7 - Dungeons and Play Parties

02 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

BDSM Dungeon. Those words cause many a kinkster to shiver; some out of excitement and some out of fear. Listen as we talk about what actually happens ...

Episode 6 - Munches

26 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

You need to go to a munch. That’s almost always the first piece of advice given to someone when they begin exploring BDSM. Munches are a great way t...

Episode 5 - FetLife: Like Facebook, but run by kinksters

19 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

If you are into kink, you've probably heard about FetLife. They call themselves the Social Network for the BDSM, Fetish & Kinky Community. Like Fa...

Episode 4 - Kinky Scenes

12 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Scenes. A common BDSM term. But what kind of scenes? What sorts of kinky fun can you get into? Listen and learn about a wide variety of scenes that ma...

Episode 3 - BDSM Terminology Part 2

05 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

We continue discussing common terms used in the BDSM lifestyle.  Check out our social media accounts: Pinkkinkpodcast at Instagram, Twitter and ...

Episode 2 - BDSM Terminology Part 1

26 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Curious about BDSM? Here's part one of a glossary of terms that will give you the vocabulary you need to ask questions and understand the kink lifesty...

Episode 1 - Introductions

19 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Learn about your hosts Princess Rara and Dara, The Electro Kahleesi, and how they got started in the kink/BDSM lifestyle. Connect with us at - www.pin...

Pink Kink (Trailer)

13 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas