Loading Your Silly Girl Spring With Tiff Baira
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Who is Tiff Baira and how did she become a matchmaker?
Welcome back, loyal listeners. Okay, I'm so excited for today. You are going to love this. I have a New York City darling. You might have seen her on the streets during some matchmaking. She literally makes me look like an old, boring millennial. Flirt. It is the one, the only, Tiff Farrah. Welcome. Hello, welcome to Please See Below, my brand new podcast all about perfecting the art of oversharing. Here, we mention the unmentionables and talk about topics and things that no one wants to say out loud, but everyone is desperate to know.
Welcome to... when that intro is crazy and not true. Yes, it is.
No, you're the hottest. I'm so pissed I don't have on sequins.
Oh, my God. Trust me. I got enough for both of us.
Okay, I know. You literally do. Next time I see you, matching suits. Okay, okay. Next episode. Next episode. You are literally the woman on the street post right now. You are trending TikTok, Instagram. Everyone knows you. Everyone loves you. You are NYC's Gen Z matchmaker. How did that happen?
A lot of bad fucking dates. I was like, if someone's not going to change this, I will. No, I mean, I've lived in the city for 10 years. And I think you grow and evolve. And you're like, hey, like, I want to date with standards. And I want to, like, make new friends. Like, basically, like, I was finding that it was hard to make connection. And genuinely, between the 4 a.m. What are you doing text and, like, the bar was in hell. And I'm like, why don't I just create a concept where it's so easy? Just show up as yourself. There's no, like, who pays the bill or any of those, like, insecurities that come up. Let's put a table in the middle of the street and see if people connect.
How can dating be made more fun and authentic?
Okay, so dating in NYC got so bad. You're like, I'm going to take this shit outside. I'm going to put on a cowboy hat. I'm just going to set up shop. Or also, because you have two different weekly series. Both are amazing. The other one's like, you're just going to go up to strangers and be like, will you take me on a date right now? Cool. Like there's some movie character that you remind me of and I can't put my finger on it. It's like How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days meets like the Barbie movie meets Elle Woods.
Meets like How to Be Single. Yeah. No, I love those comparisons. I mean I think the main thing is like I definitely struggled with confidence about putting myself out there and I think before – TikTok, giving advice and all that, you only heard certain narratives that if you don't look a certain way, if you don't lose your whole fucking personality and you're boring, guys aren't gonna like you. And my whole ethos is like, fuck if they like you, you want them to like the real you. So I feel like with street arts and with Take Me Out, I'm putting myself out there and showing like, hey, you get rejected, but like you can't lose what you don't already have. Like you got to shoot your shot and see what happens.
So it's almost a test for me to grow, too, because it's so easy to be like, oh, my God, guys suck. There's no one out there. Like I'll never meet anyone. But that's like a self-fulfilling prophecy. So when I felt like I was like not meeting anyone and I felt like discouraged, I was like, let me just try. And it's hot to try.
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