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Maybe if I put you as a rec. Yeah, put me as a rec. Wait. Okay, yeah. Help me get in. I haven't done yet. I know what's his name. Not Ryan. What's his name? The guy. Yeah, yeah. I know that American Food Group or whatever. Okay. And Shay's still popping. Here's my... I'm worried, though, that Shay... It's going to be summer. No one's going to want to be downstairs.
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Even though I talk shit about Soho.
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Then we're all like... Then everyone's like, hey. I'm like, hey. Hi, you two. Hi, hi.
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how you doing this is what my favorite means Turks and Frogs which is my favorite I'm always hesitant to share it Turks and Frogs it's in the West Village it's on 11th street it's so cute it's like a wine bar they have the best playlist ever it's so small no one's ever in there it's kind of like nautical meets weird wine bar it's just like a West Village weirdo place but it's so cute and it's great if you want to like make out
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Like, I love a booth to make out in. There's nothing like a cheeky booth to make out in.
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No, you're the hottest. I'm so pissed I don't have on sequins.
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It's downstairs, honey.
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all around two different restaurants depending on what you want in my 20s I fell for that where dudes would be like let's go over here and it would be like a really nice restaurant but it was always like two blocks from the house now I always make them come like near me yeah I mean I just love like a wine bar where you can just sit outside and talk yeah and chill and just like take it easy yeah I mean I like I do have a take I feel like it's important to start seeing dates in the daytime I used to wait like five to six business days to even ever see a guy in the daylight and it's like you're wasting your time there
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You have to, I'm always about drinks on a first date so you can kind of suss out if you like them. You can always get food if you, I never commit to a dinner. I make them ask me out to a dinner though. If they ask me for coffee or a walk or something, I'm like, get away. Then if they ask me for drinks, I'm like, sorry, I only do dinner.
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I ask them to take me out to dinner and then when I get there, I'm like, let's just do drinks.
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Okay, I know. You literally do. Next time I see you, matching suits. Okay, okay. Next episode. Next episode. You are literally the woman on the street post right now. You are trending TikTok, Instagram. Everyone knows you. Everyone loves you. You are NYC's Gen Z matchmaker. How did that happen?
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Oh, my goodness.
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you're so I'm so jealous that's so jealousy why ever be stuck I think millennials we awkwardly sit down there like we sit we like whatever we'll even have the dinner I know girls are like we'll just like sleep with the dude they're like I just felt really bad like I we sit we're so awkward oh my god you should never feel guilty for how you feel and I think Kim Cattrall said it she's like I never want to be miserable for one second of my life and I like really believe that because I think a lot of times as women you feel like you have to be courteous or you have to be nice but if you're being nice to something that's hurting you yes
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I love that guy. It's Smith & Barnes and People's Bar. You should go to People's Bar. It's new and great.
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Should I not take you to Shea Margot? Maybe they don't even let me in anywhere. They're going to totally tie him in. I'm like, she's with me. I'll be like, I promise. That's awesome. It's cool. I love People's. People's is so dope.
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Yeah, hot people are at People's. And I like that it's like speakeasy, like art gallery. It just feels like one of my rich friends' houses. Great place to make out.
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There's a lot of little dark corners. Oh, I love. Oh, my God. I like it. And you're like, I don't want to get caught, but I do, but I don't. Top five red flags, this one I'm curious, because I feel like you would have a lot of red flags. You feel like you would, no. Do I have red flags? Do I give red flags? No! I'm kidding, I'm kidding! You give pink flags?
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No, but I think you would have a lot of red flags. I have a few. I feel like I have, maybe it's the New Yorker in me, maybe it's just my age, or I'm like, I will put up with shit, or, not put up with shit, but I'm just like, I'm like, well, the bank account's good, so whatever. But I feel like you would- You know what, that's just being, you know, she's strategizing.
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I don't collect purses, I collect real estate. No, but you've got to, seriously, you should do that, though. First marriage is for an apartment. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Second one is for love. Honey, I just need a condo. This is very Gen Z. This is why I love Gen Z. You can learn a lot from them. It's because I feel like you guys are about everything you've said, even in this episode.
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It's like boundaries and this and know yourself. So what are your top five red flags?
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Check that shit. Bring a carry-on. I don't want to see it.
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I never check a bag at an airport. My shit, I carry it. We carried on. One of mine says all his exes are like bitches. Or that they're crazy. And I'm like, I side with my girlies immediately and I don't even know you.
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And even when you act crazy, even if I acted a little bit crazy with a couple exes, I was pretty good about it always. But even now, they still adore me and they're like, well, I made her. We're not crazy. We might act crazy because you made us crazy.
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And it takes a lot of confidence as well to, like... I noticed, like, looking back, like, I think there were red flags that I saw in different relationships, but I just wasn't at a place where I was confident. And then that's why I, like, accepted it. Or you justify it. Or, like, oh, whatever, you think it's funny. Or I tell myself, well, I'm not looking for anything serious, too.
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No, I'm, like, a serial monogamous. I'm always looking for a relationship, deep down. That's always what I'm looking for.
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Could this be casual? We say men do that, but women do it, too.
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You know what I mean? Yes, yes.
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I always, whenever people say like, oh my God, it was a joke. I don't think that they included this, but they said this on my show a couple times. Like, come on, I was joking. I always say, but they've never included this. I always say to people, I'm like, retell the joke then. If it's a joke, no, retell it. Let's see if it's funny. That's hot. It's because it's not.
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People, like 50% of the time, people say the truth and they say, I'm just joking. You're such a bitch. Oh my God, I'm just joking. I'm like, repeat the joke. You're a bitch. That's what you said. That's not a joke. Like, that was passive aggressive.
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Never. Yeah, you won't even question how they feel about you if they love you.
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My red flags, but also I'm totally taking you to Levin Madison Park and I'm going to take you to White Tablecloth, sweetheart. All right. Oh, my God. I want to go on a date. Yes, absolutely. A bestie date. I feel like – 100% I'm taking you. I love to take my friends out. It's my favorite thing to do. Platonic love is so slept on. Yeah, right?
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Yeah. My girlfriend in London, she came back. She kind of broke up with her boyfriend. Now they might be getting back together. But I was staying at her house and she came back at like 1 o'clock in the morning. And she's like, hi, Benny. I was like, hi. Hi. And she's like, I think this is how it should be.
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She's like, because we were talking about how we love each other and we're the loves of each other and we're soulmates. She's like, let's just have the guys and then like, she's like, I just wanted to come home and I'd rather sleep in the bed with you. I was like, yay! But that's how it should be. Men are great. I love men. I'm not a man hater or a man basher, but I just think that
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Okay, so dating in NYC got so bad. You're like, I'm going to take this shit outside. I'm going to put on a cowboy hat. I'm just going to set up shop. Or also, because you have two different weekly series. Both are amazing. The other one's like, you're just going to go up to strangers and be like, will you take me on a date right now? Cool.
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Sometimes, personally, I have thought too highly of my relationships with men, and now I've realized in my 30s what's most important to me is my relationships with my girlfriends. They're the loves of my life. And I don't want a husband that's a best friend, because I have best friends. I want a husband.
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I want a provider, a protector, someone who's going to support me and adore me and cherish me and make me happy. But my friends, like, I don't want my husband to be my best friend. I want him to, like, a separate bedroom. Like, I want my girlfriend.
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Yeah, go build a fire. Go find us nuts and berries. I'm with my girlsies. Yeah, we're here. In our baskets. Like, you know. Okay, my top red flag is that he orders you an Uber X. I just hate Uber Xs. I think she's like, I just really don't like Uber Xs. You need your XL black. Yeah, I need my XL black. I'm really particular about it. You need an Uber. Oh, 100%.
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Do you want me to tell a really funny Uber joke? Please. I love an Uber joke. Not a joke, but like a real thing. So when I signed with CAA, right, I was in the LA office. And the LA office of CAA is like out of entourage. It's like glass. It's amazing. So I go in. And the first meeting, you meet with all your agents because you have different agents for everything.
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It's like so glamorous and everything. Yeah. And then my fashion agent, her assistant, walks me downstairs, because they walk you out, they walk the talent out, okay? But mind you, not my agent, the assistant, like the 22-year-old assistant. But we go to the door, I'm like, no, no, I called my Uber, it's fine. And I call my Uber, which I usually do, defaults to UberX.
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This is the beginning of my bit with Uber and the different kinds. I'm standing there, I look over, who do I see but Channing Tatum? Stop it. And you're getting into the Corolla? He's so hot. He's so hot and he looks and he smiles at me, whatever. And then what did he say? He was like, oh, are you a model or whatever? Yeah, and I'm like, no, I just signed and I'm like dying, okay?
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He's like, okay, cool. So anyhow, that was it. But they were all like his agents because he has like managers and agents. All his agents walk him downstairs. Sure enough, like clockwork, it wasn't just a Corolla. It was one of those ones with all the stuffed animals and the dice. And I'm like mortified because it's like Maserati G-Wagon. It's like a rap video up in there. And it's like all SUVs.
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It looks like the United Nations plus like a tip drill video. Like that's what's happening. And so I'm like, cancel, cancel, cancel. And the guy's like, because my picture, he's like beeping. He's like, I'm here. And he's like, I see you. I'm right here. And I was like, cancel, cancel, cancel. And then I had to order my Uber XL, which was like $75 to go two blocks in Beverly Hills.
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Sure enough, by the time my Uber XL comes, everyone's gone. Not one agent. Channing Tatum, no one. So I spent $65 on it. At least you tried. I tried. But after that, I was like, I just Uber Black XL. He's single now. Yeah, right? Maybe he'll call you Uber XL. He's super hot. He's very, very hot. He looks like a stripper in real life. He looks like a hot stripper. And I guess he was.
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Like there's some movie character that you remind me of and I can't put my finger on it. It's like How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days meets like the Barbie movie meets Elle Woods.
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There's like no in between. Yeah, yeah.
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I feel like there's shadow of a glue.
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I know you do. Wait.
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I say, yeah, charcuterie.
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Yeah, give me that charcuterie for it. I call champagne champagne.
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You know what? You want a little chardonnay with your champagne as I put on some lingerie, baby? You know what?
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I thought they were called rap boys. These boys that look, they're called, what did you say? Noodle boys? Oh, yeah. Well, I mean, girlies, we got to do better.
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Right, yeah, yeah.
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Like, give me, like, a man with anemia or something. Do you have any sort of, like, blood disorder where people pass out sometimes? Do you have low iron? Oh, my God, a guy with low iron? You just need to put that on your, yeah, you'd be like, do you have iron deficiency? But do you have a man with low iron? Just iron deficiency is all you need. There's paleness, fatigue.
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I ran into him.
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I'm way too old. I'm 28.
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He seems cool. He was chill. I've seen him like 17 different times in my life. He's around. Whenever I'm doing something very cool, if I'm at Hotel Cost in Paris, if I'm at... That Italian place on the corner in St. Barts. It's like whenever I'm doing like my bougie thing of the year, literally that man is always there. And he's always with like 10 people.
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He's wearing a black baseball cap and a mask. I'm like, honey, COVID's over. But he just seems like he doesn't, which I like. I just like, it doesn't seem like he gives a fuck about like a lot. Not in a negative way, but just like.
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And then really gives a fuck about something that is hot. That's hot. Leo's one, who's the other?
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From tea sets to tiaras to apparently toddler-sized T-Rex costumes, shop everything for every party on Amazon.
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Is he a cute person?
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I could have a crush on him.
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Take a break. Do the solo dating thing. Just take a time out. There's a few of my friends where I'm literally begging them. I'm like, I promise. Because they just go from one relationship to another. They're scared of being single. They're always hanging out with some like weird.
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guy that's like a waste of their time and I'll know and I'm like just be I'm like even 12 days I'm not saying 12 weeks just 12 days just be single don't text an ex don't get attention from a man I was like it's gonna suck but like I think the best thing that I learned in my early 30s was like actually I've kind of always been like this I've been okay for being I was always a serial monogamous and I didn't know that I was actually totally fine with being okay and I'm being alone and I'm like I like being alone no again not always but
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I definitely don't mind it at all, and I'm very comfortable. I don't know, but be careful now that you're de-thawing, because if you're doing wellness, if you're feeling yourself, you know what happens every time? What? You fall in love. Absolutely not.
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The second that you don't want it, literally, I've literally been like, I'm fucking taking what, I'm done, I'm taking a breather, I don't want to date anything, and then it's like next day, I run into the next love of my life.
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No man can distract me right now.
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It's sharing. You need to be completely for yourself. Because no one will ever complete you. No, no one will ever complete you. They can fill you up, but they can't complete you. Sorry. No, I got it.
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No, but I always say, wait, what are we talking about? No, but I think it used to be a narrative. Yeah, yeah, that you need people that, oh, find your better half. Find your other half. Bitch, I'm whole. I'm at the point in my life, and I have been for a few years now, people are like, what are you looking for? And I'm like, I'm very happy. I have my own money. I have friends.
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I have a beautiful life. There's not a place you can't go in New York. I don't know the person or this or that. I feel fulfilled. I feel happy with my nieces and who I am as a sister. Company is what I'm doing with my life. Mentally, I know where I'm at. Emotionally, I feel good.
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So unless someone's going to come in and be like, your friends better be cooler than mine because I have the coolest friends in the world. You better be doing cooler stuff than me. I just turned down the Monaco Grand Prix. What are you going to bring? I find myself business, bitch. What are you going to bring to the table? And everyone's like, you'd only date titans of industry.
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I'm like, yeah, because honestly, these are the guys that have the balls to be like, that aren't threatened and also just can offer me something that like, I wanna be Princess Jasmine, show me a whole new world. Because right now, I've already taken myself around the world and I'm good. So you have to bring, like wow me. I want a man that can like, wow, I've never done that.
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or you're doing things that I admire. I don't know, just something.
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there's hope it can get better and also you don't need anyone right now to like interrupt your life like you're I don't know you sometimes with some like I I'm a romantic so like heart I take breakups hard so like and I don't want to like mess up what I have like I have so much I don't want anything that's willing to threaten it so I'm at the point where like unless I know I'm not
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the point though too I'm definitely not hard launching unless I know I'm gonna like marry your ass I'm just gonna keep quiet about it I'm not hiding you but like unless I know we're really like considering that next step I can't do another we're gonna live together we're gonna break up I'm gonna have to tell my nail person my hair person my eyelash girl the doorman what happened the doorman god that's why I don't live in doorman buildings I love NYC doorman but like
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They know all your shit. They know your shit. And then you've got to explain stuff.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. But then they know everything. They know why. But unless, I just, I'm just not, I've got to have, like, I've got to know you're the one.
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I'm single, yeah, I'm single until there's a ring on my finger. Like, sorry.
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It's hard to try and you're crushing it. Now putting yourself so out there and doing it in front of a camera and then putting it on social media, so does that give you more confidence and then you're less scared of rejection? Or like prior to doing all this and we were just like the rest of us, like at home, dating on the apps or like going out on awkward dates,
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Another top five. Let's do the top five dating terms of your generation. So mine, for us old farts Gen Z, DTF. Yeah. Ghosting. Did we invent ghosting or did you guys? I think we invented ghosting.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah. Well, my generation grew up on Casper, the friendly ghost. I feel like we ghost a lot. DTF, ghosting, Netflix and chill, situationships. And then I wrote this. It's not a dating term, but I've been guilty of saying this before. Like when people say like, I love you or something, I'm like, I can feel myself. I can definitely see myself falling in love with you.
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Because we all grew up on The Bachelor, so it's like our way of getting out. You definitely get on reality TV. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I always say, like, no, I can really see myself falling in love with you. And I'm like, the second it comes out of my mouth, I'm like, I got to stop watching The Bachelor. Is it on tonight?
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Also, I have to, like, I have to get my shit together and just be like, no, like, I don't know. Again, I'm, maybe it's how I grew up, but, like, I can't say, like, thank you so much. I don't love you back. Like, you know.
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yikes like no I can't so you would just be like if someone proposes and I don't want to see as I just say yes people have proposed to you you said right yeah did you like emergency exit like how did you know but I remember one of them being like oh my god I can't but in the words of my sister my sister's been married a few times too and she was like and I remember calling her being like I think I made a mistake and she's like Brynn when a man gets him down on one knee in front of you with a ring you say yes
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Isn't that crazy? We were raised by someone who was born in, like, 1939, though. But still. That's so old school. I know, but it's crazy.
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It is. Which I don't understand how people propose in, like, in the middle of a next game or something like that. That's low-key rude. It's crazy. Because it's the most. Have you ever been proposed to?
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No matter how hot they are. Never move cities or countries for a man, which I've done like three times.
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No, here's the thing. I think we believe in love. Because here's the thing. I have, though. I remember with Gideon, my British ex. It was like we had matched on Tinder and we spent weeks talking. And then he showed up. It was like a work happy hour or something. And he showed up. And then I think the following weekend, he invited me to the Hamptons. And I went out.
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And then we ended up staying, like, together for two weeks. So I think sometimes it does. And then we end up, like, dating forever. So I think sometimes it does. New York, I think we also just move fast. Yes. We do.
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obviously it's better the way you're doing it. Because I think some people would see it and be like, it's like watching The Bachelor sometimes when I watch it. I'm like, I love it and thank you for entertaining me, but I don't know if I could actually do it. You know, like I don't even want to date on my show. I'm like, no, thanks. But like, come on, let me help. Brynn. Please help me.
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Yeah, we do. We do. Yeah. But weekends in the Hamptons are great. Oh, my God. I can't wait.
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Yes, yes, yes. We're going to have fun. Yes. Yeah. Oh, wait. Before Fourth of July. Then I'm going to go to Europe. Yeah, you need to start going to Europe, girl.
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Okay, I'm going to Paris.
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You met a man in the Cotswolds? Yeah. Cock in the Cotswolds.
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that's still going to happen for me. No, it would have happened for you. It's going to happen for me. But I believe, I'm the same way. I did that with everything in my childhood from like, I loved Home Alone, but like that house, I was like, I want that. I want a family of souls for Christmas. And I watch rom-coms. I think that's where it's supposed to fall in love. Like that's, I do.
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I do too. And I tend to only date Disney princess because like I'm looking for a Disney prince.
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Oh, my God. You're the funniest person I've ever met. Okay, wait. What are your top five dating terms?
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I think he actually just has a big dick, though. There's no way he doesn't. Yeah, for sure. The women he's pulled, they're all Bridgerton to Kim Kardashian.
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I think that goes for all men. I think that all men get more desirable for the date. Okay, wait, I love that you said that you're single and you're not looking for a boyfriend or marriage. Let's wrap this up by, because I've been doing this for like, this is what, episode, just a few episodes. So I obviously have like 30 million listeners already. So why don't you give a PSA and what do you want?
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Why don't you manifest it, put it out there. What is your billboard? What do you want?
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Cheers to Silly Girl Spring. Should we go start our Silly Girl Spring? Yeah, where's the martini? Let's go. Thank you so much for coming on the pod, my love. You're a genius. You're a genius and gorgeous. I love it. Funny person.
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Let's go on the streets. We were made for the streets.
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I just saw. I just saw.
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Are you serious? Why are you doing this to yourself? You have executive producer credits. Let me see the footage. And I'd be like, oh, he didn't like me? Then I'm going to rewrite it so I can bash him. Scrap it. Get it out. Delete. Next one.
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And I feel like dating should be more funny. Like dating should be more funny and dumb. Like I just, I started a dating app recently and now it's generated. It has like Gen Z in mind, but obviously we're going to open it up. It's going to be open for everyone. But it's like, my whole thing is like with, you have all these dating shows and you have dating apps and everything's so serious and scary.
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Even like, I'm still on Raya. It's so funny. I'm like, have a dating app and I'm still on Raya. I got banned. Oh, did you? We're doing what? Tell me. Tell me. This is going to be awesome. Why did you get banned for violence? I mean, of course I took a few straight shots. Everyone knows you're not just a dude. Everyone knows you have to get your friend's camera.
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I remember when Ben Affleck came up on mine. I should find this and send it to you. I have it somewhere. Ben Affleck came up on mine. I was at work. And I, like, grabbed my friend's computer or something. And we, like, did the, you know, you can do a photo album on MacBook. We, like, took a picture. Not the photo booth. Of Ben on photo booth. And I'm like.
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I'm not going to comment. No comment.
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It doesn't align. Okay. So wasn't it you, they call you in the app. They caught you on social.
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You were yapping too hard. But the girlies needed to know. Was it worth it? Yeah.
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It was all about, yeah, it was all about changing yourself. They're looking for someone. Yeah, and sometimes some of those dates, they would be like, I want someone who's working out more. They was all kind of like ripping on each other. Or remember, I actually was watching old episodes of it. The MTV show where they get out of the limo.
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It's awesome, especially the gay episodes.
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Oh, my God, do it. Wait.
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Yeah, you can always control your response, but I like everything about the content you're doing, because it's about making things fun, and that's what I'm passionate about, because I've been in the game for a while, and I'm like... And what I have done, people complain about New York or LA or dating, and I'm like, I have fun dating. I really, really enjoy it.
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Do I like being single when it's my birthday or the holidays or something or when I just don't want to do anything but I want to cuddle or I'm horny or something? It's like, yeah, I want a partner, a friend to do stuff with, but I just want to bring back fun into dating. No, 100%. Just be fun and be your weird partner.
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self like just be because I think that we all start dating or I used to in my 20s and you try to like for sure put your best foot forward like brush your teeth before you go on the date you know like look cute you know shave your legs whatever but I think sometimes too in the 20s I was very performative I was performative definitely during sex I was performative on dates and it was like this thing probably because my parents didn't love me but I was like I'm gonna make this person love me like it was about me I I didn't even and a couple of my engagements I
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I look back everyone's like why and I'm like it's because I was obsessed with the person wanting to marry me and then they would propose and I was like oh do I want to marry this person I didn't think about it for years it was just like why does he want to marry me why doesn't he put a ring on it why is he trying to think he can get the cow without or the milk without paying the cow whatever no yeah 100 yeah but I was performative so I think dating should just be fun and easy and yes put your best best foot forward but put your weirdest foot forward and just be yourself because you
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I think it will avoid a lot of situationships, a lot of heartbreak if we just kind of be ourselves and be silly. And when we were asking questions to people on the street, it's crazy because you wouldn't think people would be so open and honest. But they're just – they're getting up and they're dancing and you're, like, taking the piss and you're giving them a hard time and they're eating it up.
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Like, what you're doing, I just wish everyone would do that in real life, you know?
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Calling it out right now.
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we're shaking ass we're flirting I think you can have a serious relationship eventually without taking it seriously at the beginning yeah you know and I think the more you I've noticed I fall in love when like it's a long burn and there's no pressure and we're just like having fun and then I like that's I'm an Aquarian and I'm a sapiosexual where I have to like you have to get like
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seduce my brain I think if you're just like it's you friends first and having fun and then it just you just kind of like fall in love no what we love about technology like who needs a boy when you have a toy like oh my god I love it
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Welcome back, loyal listeners. Okay, I'm so excited for today. You are going to love this. I have a New York City darling. You might have seen her on the streets during some matchmaking. She literally makes me look like an old, boring millennial. Flirt. It is the one, the only, Tiff Farrah. Welcome.
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Oh, my God. This is like church.
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Take me to church. I can imagine you church. Okay. You are such an expert. I actually want to go through. I'm so curious. I want to pick your brain on a lot of, like, play some top fives. Gorgeous. Because I feel like it's not just matchmaking in New York, honey. You know everything, everything. Yeah. So all the things surrounding dating. Okay, so for example, what are your top five NYC bars?
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And I'll share mine. Please. You share yours, you share mine. It will probably show how fucking old I am and how young and cool you are, but that's okay. Millennial and Gen Z. Okay.
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I like dating some of those Gen Z boys. Hey! They're so emotionally available. It's weird.
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I always tell everyone. I'm eventually going to have to say this man's name. He's quite well-known, but he's 52 years old, and he texted me W-Y-D. And when I tell you, I went on, I changed my age demo to 28 to 38. I'm like, I'm not dating anyone over the age of my age anymore. Wow, I love that. W-I-D. W-I-D, I'm terrified. And you have like a 15-year-old daughter. Stop it.
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He was a silver fox though? So of course I replied. You're like, nothing much. Nothing much. Get a martini. Taking a bath. Thinking of you. Yeah, thinking in the bath, thinking of you. And I'm like rotting on my sofa and haven't showered in two days.
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Just like sleeping in my silk negligee and rubbing beautiful lotion and thinking of you. And I'm just like crying with a face mask on. All my period and sweats ordering three different types of DoorDash. We are the same. Literally, that's what I do. When I say any, oh, I hope guys don't watch this. Whenever I send my hottest text, I'm literally at my ugliest.
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Like, I can send the most steamy, crazy shit. And they're like, can we FaceTime? And I'm like. No, silly. We can't. You don't want to see this. You can't get this. Okay, top five bars. Okay, top five bars.
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Hello, welcome to Please See Below, my brand new podcast all about perfecting the art of oversharing. Here, we mention the unmentionables and talk about topics and things that no one wants to say out loud, but everyone is desperate to know.
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Like, do all the above. Yeah. Where do you just want to go? Okay. Or on a date.
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Yeah, I'm always there.
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Jeans on Lafayette.
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And you can always go to Bond Street next door. Oh, yes. And there's some downstairs. They have their little area. Jack's is owned by Greg the Egg. He's cute. Oh, my gosh. Yeah, I know. I love.
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Okay, so Jacks. Jeans Jacks.
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Oh my God, I have Biddlemans on my list.
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I don't know it.
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Oh, yeah. Definitely. Yeah, yeah.
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Like, it's really nice.
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The Chelsea Hotel is lovely.
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Yes. Rich men, rich history.
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I love the ambiance. There's just fucking black cards everywhere. And you feel like you're in, like, the Great Gatsby. That's literally some of these places in New York. I'm the same. So mine, I had Bemelmans at the Carlisle. Shea Margot. I like Shea. Shea is good right now. Wait, can you help me get in? Yeah, yeah.