The Jayson Gaddis Podcast
Episodes
SC 54 - The Class You Never Got In School
01 Jun 2016
Contributed by Lukas
One of the most fundamental skills we need to navigate life’s challenges is not formally taught to us. We learn through the school of hard knocks an...
SC 53 - How To Feel Safe & Secure With Your Partner with Stan Tatkin
26 May 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Do attachment principles actually work in adult relationships? How can secure functioning assist you and your partner into greater safety and openness...
SC 52 - Marriage After Kids, Are You Doomed?
18 May 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Does having children ruin your marriage? The stats are against most of you who get married and choose children. But why is this, and what can you and ...
SC 51- Use The Power Of Community To Improve Your Marriage
11 May 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Do you have any friends in your life that lovingly challenge you? If not, you’re missing out on big growth that could help your primary partnership....
SC 50 - How & Why My Wife And I Chose Marriage
04 May 2016
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, I bring on my better half, my wife to rock it out with me. We had fun exploring the early stages of our relationship and what had us ...
SC 49 - How To Deal With Value Differences
28 Apr 2016
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, a listener asks about making your partner wrong and how to deal with them when you have very differing values. It’s a common challe...
SC 48 - Men And Their Relationship Issues
26 Apr 2016
Contributed by Lukas
In this short episode, I cover why men are so locked up relationally and 3 steps to help a guy transform this so that, you both can have a great relat...
SC 47 - Powerful Sex Practices with Layla Martin
20 Apr 2016
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode I talk with Layla Martin, a zany and wise, sex teacher who will remind you of your brilliance in the bedroom. From handjobs to fe...
SC 46 - Want A Peaceful Relationship? Learn This
13 Apr 2016
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode I give you 3 steps toward a more peaceful relationship. And, when I talk about peace in a relationship, it isn’t the BS fantasy most...
SC 45 - One Key To Get The Best Out Of Your Partner with Alison Armstrong -
06 Apr 2016
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode I talk with Alison Armstrong about some major differences between men and women and how to use them to your advantage in your relation...
SC 44 - Long-Distance Relationships, Entitlement & Sex, Blended Families, Winning Him Back, & Much More
31 Mar 2016
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode I answer listeners’ questions on long-distance relationships, how to win him back, entitlement and sex, blended families, divor...
SC 43 - Revolutionary Sex for Men with Alex Allman
28 Mar 2016
Contributed by Lukas
In this juicy episode I talk with Alex Allman about men, orgasms and sex. Giving her an orgasm isn’t what you think. Alex helps us get mor...
SC 42 - The Definition of True Love
23 Mar 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Love. This word is one of the most commonly misunderstood words in the English language. In this podcast I give my definition of what true love r...
SC 41 - Boundaries Part 2 -Relationship Tool
16 Mar 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Here I cover 2 types of boundaries. Both are important to learn and practice on a regular basis in your relationship. I also build upon last week’s ...
SC 40 - Boundaries: Relationship Tool With Lisa Dion
11 Mar 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Boundaries are by far one of the most important tools in intimate relationships. How much do you struggle to say no says a lot about how much you valu...
SC 39 - Why You Need To Earn Love Every Day
09 Mar 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Is love earned or given to you? In this podcast, I explore what happens when people say “Can’t you just love me as I am?” and then hope for a gr...
SC 38 - How Circling Can Deepen Your Relationships – Decker Cunov
02 Mar 2016
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, I interview Decker Cunov, a leader who has deeply impacted how I show up personally and professionally. For over 10 years, ...
SC 37 - 28 Years Strong Even After Affairs - Satyen and Suzanne
24 Feb 2016
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, I interview Satyen and Suzanne, both long-time students of David Deida. These two are super honest, loving individuals, and wow have ...
SC 36 - Is Polyamory For Me?
18 Feb 2016
Contributed by Lukas
In this one, we answer your question, is polyamory for me? In this eye-opening episode, I interview six people who practice some form of polyamor...
SC 35 - 3 Words To Instantly Transform A Fight - With Gaby and Raj
10 Feb 2016
Contributed by Lukas
In this fun and enlightening episode, I interview Gaby and Raj, two powerful relationship coaches and teachers with a unique perspective on marriage, ...
SC 34 - What To Do When Your Partner Triggers You
03 Feb 2016
Contributed by Lukas
If you are in a long-term relationship, you’re going get triggered, period. And how you show up in those moments will define whether you grow togeth...
SC 33 - Sharing Impact - Relationship Tool with Joshua Levin
28 Jan 2016
Contributed by Lukas
This week, I bring onto the podcast a long-time friend and relationship wizard Joshua Levin, to help me outline a potent rela...
SC 32 - 10 Ways to Go From An Ordinary to An Extraordinary Relationship with Bryan Franklin and Jennifer Russell
21 Jan 2016
Contributed by Lukas
In this lively episode, Bryan Franklin and Jennifer Russell lay bare the inner-workings of their extraordinary relationship. And it truly is extraordi...
SC 31 - 2 Valid Reasons For Divorce
14 Jan 2016
Contributed by Lukas
If you are the one who chose to get a divorce, or you are thinking about a divorce, than this podcast episode is for you. Divorce is often stigma...
SC 30 - For Men Who Suck At Listening
06 Jan 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Do you know how to listen to an emotional woman? Yikes! This one’s for the men out there (and yes, some women are not great listeners as well, I get...
SC 29 - 3 Ways To Inspire Love Over Time - Adam Gilad
23 Dec 2015
Contributed by Lukas
This episode was a lot of fun. Former dedicated David Deida student Adam Gilad brings some excellent advice during this dialogue. We cover fathe...
SC 28 - How To Find A Great Marriage Counselor & Lots Of Other Edgy Relationship Questions
17 Dec 2015
Contributed by Lukas
In this 2nd installment of AMAR (Ask Me Anything about Relationships) I dive into your burning questions and it gets a little intense in there! T...
SC 27 - Staying In A Dead Marriage For The Kids
10 Dec 2015
Contributed by Lukas
This is a pretty charged issue. On the one hand, some people really believe divorce is one of the major culprits to kid’s problems. On the other han...
SC 26 - The 2 Types Of Co-Dependency & Why You Need Both
03 Dec 2015
Contributed by Lukas
Co-dependency gets a bad rap in most circles. I used to shame it as well. Yet, as I’ve matured, I’ve come to see that there is a lot of value to b...
SC 25 – “I Love You, But I’m Not In Love With You”
26 Nov 2015
Contributed by Lukas
“I love you, but I’m not in love with you…” Maybe you’ve heard this one before, or even said it yourself to someone you were breaking ...
SC 24 - Women: 3 Steps To Get Your Man To Show Up In The Relationship - Terry Real
19 Nov 2015
Contributed by Lukas
This episode was a lot of fun. Terry Real brings the heat for women and men using what he calls “fierce intimacy.” While this episode is for both ...
SC 23 - Finding Flow In Your Marriage - Jamie Wheal
05 Nov 2015
Contributed by Lukas
If you’ve ever skied, surfed, or gone outdoor climbing, there’s a good chance you’ve experienced that elusive peak state of awareness referred t...
SC 22 - Cock Talk - 4 Men Getting Really Honest
29 Oct 2015
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, I’m joined by a panel of courageous men: Booster Blake, Jeffrey Platts, Adrial Dale, and Christopher Sunyata. These men have ...
SC 21 – 3 Types Of Fights
25 Oct 2015
Contributed by Lukas
Most of the time, when we fight with a partner, we “bicker” or go in circles because we are missing what the fight is really about. In this ...
SC 20 - Conflict Is Good News - Diane Musho Hamilton
14 Oct 2015
Contributed by Lukas
I really enjoyed this conversation with Zen teacher Diane Hamilton. She brings such a genuine willingness to move toward what’s uncomfortable in our...
SC 19 - 3 Steps To End Relationship Drama
08 Oct 2015
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode I unpack 3 really important steps to removing the drama from your relationships. Drama can be a time suck, an energy drain, and c...
SC 18 - How Therapist Bruce Tift Helped Me Have The Balls To Marry My Wife
30 Sep 2015
Contributed by Lukas
Bruce was one of THE pivotal factors in helping me marry my wife before she slammed the door shut on me. Hear that story in this episode and why it’...
SC 17 - Women's Sexuality - Christiane Pelmas and Rensselear Resch
23 Sep 2015
Contributed by Lukas
I got a serious education in this interview with Christiane and Ren. I can get so focused on men’s issues that I lose sight of what’s occurring fo...
SC 16 - Cock Talk - Men’s Sexual Issues - David Cates
15 Sep 2015
Contributed by Lukas
This is another great podcast, and our first one around sexuality, especially as it pertains to men (women’s sexuality coming in the next episode). ...
SC 15 - Ayahuasca & Relationships - Geoff Hanzlik and Richard Furr
08 Sep 2015
Contributed by Lukas
Can plant medicine such as Ayahuasca help our marriages? In this episode I interview two very experienced guests who have both done over 500 ceremonie...
SC 14 - Your Edgy Relationship Questions
03 Sep 2015
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode Jayson fields a bunch of great questions from listeners like you. Here are a few of the edited questions: Do you work with people who...
SC 13 - MDMA in Relationships? - Dr Will Vanderveer
30 Aug 2015
Contributed by Lukas
Can MDMA help our relationships if we do this in a legit way? I explore this question with Dr Vanderveer and we zero in on some key factors if you wan...
SC 12 - The 3 Evolutionary Drivers In Relationship - Dr. Keith Witt
25 Aug 2015
Contributed by Lukas
Man is this guy a force! I dive into a vibrant conversation with integral-psychotherapist and writer Dr. Keith Witt. Topics range from grow...
SC 11 - Alignment is the New Sexy - Jayson Gaddis
19 Aug 2015
Contributed by Lukas
People don’t trust you when you are misaligned. You say you’re “fine” but really you feel angry. Or you say “I love you” but your body lan...
SC 10 - 4 Premarital Conversations You Must Have - Jay Cadet
16 Aug 2015
Contributed by Lukas
This episode is key for millennials who are about to get married. Too many people skip this conversation prior to marriage. IN THIS EPISODE, You will ...
SC 9 - Why People Have Affairs and What to Do if it Happens to You
12 Aug 2015
Contributed by Lukas
Affairs are so intense. When I was 20 or so I cheated on my girlfriend. When I was 32 or so I had an emotional affair. In this episode I share more ab...
SC 8 - When to Stay or Leave + True Love with Annie Lalla
09 Aug 2015
Contributed by Lukas
IN THIS EPISODE, You will learn: To see your partner as a sacred mirror and sanctuary for the growing your greatest actualized self The true cha...
SC 7 – 4 Stages of Intimacy – Robert & Diane Masters
05 Aug 2015
Contributed by Lukas
IN THIS EPISODE, You will learn: The importance of recognizing conditioning and seeing its role in shaping a more mature relationship Why knowing you...
SC 6 - The 7 Day Sex Challenge for Married Couples - Tony and Alisa
02 Aug 2015
Contributed by Lukas
IN THIS EPISODE, you will learn: how to keep a marriage alert, alive, and awake about the interplay of sex and emotional intimacy in a partnership cr...
SC 5 - The 3 Types of marriages - Only One Prevails
30 Jul 2015
Contributed by Lukas
IN THIS EPISODE, you will learn: How to navigate a partnership by understanding 3 marriage types How to align to the most dynamic, live, energetic, ...
SC 4 - Antidepressants and Your Relationship - Dr Will Vanderveer
27 May 2015
Contributed by Lukas
IN THIS EPISODE, You will learn: the importance of relationship in integrative psychiatry how to understand what makes the best treatment in psychiat...
SC 3 - Embracing Diversity in your Partner - Christiane Pelmas
20 May 2015
Contributed by Lukas
IN THIS EPISODE, you will learn: Why and how partnerships matter and what they require What ingredients are needed to truly tend to your partner...
SC 2 - What is the Point of Marriage if So Many People Get Divorced?
13 May 2015
Contributed by Lukas
We continue to lay the foundational context for a rockin’ marriage. Will you be a smart couple or a dumb couple? IN THIS EPISODE, You will lear...
SC 1 - How to Set Yourself Up for Success in Your Marriage
06 May 2015
Contributed by Lukas
THE SMART COUPLE PODCAST SERIES The Smart Couple Podcast: A trail blazing relationship podcast promoting unconventional monogamy and marriage–w...