Relationships, Friendships and Family Dynamics
Episodes
My Valentine's Text Message: Were You the First Person He Thought of Today?
15 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textLadies, you have to stop using excuses for why he ignores you or doesn't acknowledge you on this important day. Please stop with th...
My Story: Failing and Succeeding Simultaneously
14 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textMy personal journey over the last eight months of grief and heartbreak. It has been hard, and I haven't done what I could or though...
The Last Two Years Of A Broken Relationship
11 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textThe last two years of a broken relationship are the most important. This is where the work begins. Yes, there is heartbreak, but it also...
Funny Late-Night Chitchat: Are you Heartbroken because this Person Left, or is it Something Stemming from your Childhood, or is it a Past Relationship?
10 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textI see women whining about their recent breakups all the time, but I question if they truly understand what they're feeling and cryi...
New Relationships: Stop Talking About Previous Relationships, Your Girlfriends, Your Family, and Your Vulnerabilities.
09 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textDating should be new and exciting, yet somehow, we tend to fall into the same old patterns. We often discuss the same topics in every re...
A Gossip Buddy
30 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textWhat is a Gossipp Buddy? I bet you all have one. Let's stop putting a bad name on gossip; It’s not all bad. https://www.instagram...
Losing Yourself in a Relationship, Dating Multiple People, and More
27 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textI believe the downfall of any relationship, whether romantic or platonic, occurs when one person becomes a carbon copy of the other. I t...
Wedding Season: Bridesmaid Duties and How Much Should It Cost
24 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textThe wedding season is here, and your friends who got engaged over the holidays are diving into wedding planning. She invites you to the ...
Friendship, Heartbreak, and Understanding the Emotions Behind Missing Her.
18 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textMany friendships end because you weren't being your true self; instead, you were trying to be what your friend wanted you to be. Yo...
If You Want To Turn a Man's Head, Stop Doing This
15 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textIt's fun and exciting to walk into a room and have all the men's eyes on you. It reflects that you are exciting, mysterious, a...
Single Women (California Fires) My Personal Story & Update On My Mom
12 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textI wanted to talk about the fires because I saw a few single women or more gathering their belongings in a rush, trying to escape harm&ap...
Taking The Easy Way Out Isn't Easy
10 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textI don't know who came up with the saying about taking the easy way out; there is no such thing. Anytime an ending is presented in a...
Create Self-Love; You Are Your Person and Setbacks
08 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textI want you to consider yourself your first and only priority. It should have always been that way. A lot of the problems we endure are b...
He Has You on Hold; You Can Also Be on Hold in Your Marriage
02 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textLet's explore the main reason why some men place their significant others on hold. It's never a time that the main reason isn&...
Season 8: The Very First Awkward Date
31 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textHi Ladies, we need to return to how we used to date. Some of you are creating a whole life with him in your mind before the first date. ...
Sometimes, Friendships are brought Together Through Work or a Project, But Why Doesn't It Last? A Viewer Question.
28 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textA viewer responded to my previous podcast. She wanted to know why I say leave a friendship if it's not fulfilling. I explained to h...
Let's Strive for Higher Standards in Friendships in 2025
27 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textIt's time to build meaningful friendships in 2025 and surround ourselves with friends who uplift and inspire us to grow positively....
Soulmates: We Don't Have Just One; We Have Many
25 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textThere are so many faces and forms of love that it's impossible to have just one soulmate. Believing in only one soulmate limits you...
He Makes Fun Of You; The Proposal Ring; Life Update
22 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
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The Hardest Heartbreak Comes from the Ones Who Understood You
21 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textSometimes, when someone gives us a pass, we don't learn from it. We continue until the day they break our hearts. https://www.inst...
Online Dating: Is It a Yay or Nay
19 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textI have discussed my experience in detail in another podcast. Please go listen to that podcast because it was shocking, weird, and funny....
My Motto is "I Don't Forgive or Forget," but Some People Do Forgive and Not Forget
12 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textI have never been someone who easily forgives or forgets. So, I guess I had to make a choice, and I chose not to forgive or forget. But ...
Ladies, You Are Investing Too Quickly and Too Much in New Relationships.
10 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textHey ladies! Many of you may be investing too quickly in your relationships. Let's take a step back and allow the guy to take the le...
Christmas Day, You Didn't Get The Ring; Should You Bring It Up?
07 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textWe can go back and forth with ourselves whether we should say something or not. I could say it's up to the individual. But I'm...
Being a Good Friend When Your Friend Is Struggling After a Breakup During the Holidays
06 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textThe greatest gift you can give a friend is to be there for them during their time of need, especially if it's a breakup during the ...
What We Will Leave Behind in 2024: Awkward Friendships, Paying for Friends and Family Members' Meals, It's Time They Cash App You, Romantic Relationships (We're Working On It), and More.
04 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textBut we will bring solo traveling with us in the New Year. This approach allows for true freedom; we can fully embrace our desires withou...
He Calls You Baby; Don't Be His Launching Pad, Paying Half, & More
27 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textHow many other people does he call his baby? Have you ever felt like you were his Launch Pad? Have you ever moved in with a guy and paid...
Husband's 3 Steps to an "Office Emotional Affair" and the Non-Verbal Cues You Can Pick Up On
26 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textThe initial stages of a husband's affair often involve you, and more than likely, you remain entangled in the situation. However, a...
When Husbands Consistently Praise Their Female Coworkers
25 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textMany women believe it's harmless, and it may seem that way at first. However, there's a clear hidden agenda behind his actions...
She's a Married Bitter Woman
20 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textShe's bitter because she put up with so much mess in her marriage. It's dysfunctional, but she stays there for the sake of bei...
Sister Bullying Sister: An Issue We Must Address!
18 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textI witnessed an alarming incident where one sister aggressively bullied another sister who was vulnerable and defenseless. I wondered wha...
Instagram, Is it a Fairytale? Could You Do It? Do You Feel Like Enough After Scrolling?
29 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textWe all have our opinions about social media. Is it fake? Are their lives really real? So, when I read or hear these questions, I chuckle...
The Relationship is Over, But you are Still in It!
27 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textIt's time to accept and move on. Nothing could be worse than staying in something that ended months or maybe years ago. I know the ...
Needs vs Wants in Relationships
23 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textWe sometimes get confused about our needs versus our wants in our lives and relationships. So, let's take a deeper dive and see wha...
Can You Meet a Guy with a Group of Girls in Tow? And You want Love, not need Love.
21 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textWe did this in college, hanging with the girls whenever we darkened the door, that is, when we went out, but then you reach an age where...
The Dreaded List of What Women Want in a Man, and Then They Wonder Why They Haven't Been on a Date in Years
09 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textLadies, I was surprised to learn that some of you still keep a list of non-negotiables when it comes to what you want in a man. But is i...
What's a Corner Boy?
07 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textI didn't know either, but I soon found out! So take a listen and see if you know one or anyone who might be involved with one. http...
His Mask vs. The Halloween Mask: Here's a list of Masks. Do you Recognize Them?
30 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textChris Rock first said that most people arrive with a representative, meaning they are not being themselves. This seems true in most rela...
Sometimes, You're Single Even When You're in a Relationship
29 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textJust a little car chat of what I saw in the mall and other things. https://www.instagram.com/traceylau99/
Friendzone: Are you really in one?
25 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textSome of these words, like "friend zone," have popped up over the years. It makes me wonder if it’s a real thing or if it is ...
Holiday Family Drama, Sneaky Friends, and People-Pleasing Gifts
23 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textWe suffer from these three things every year. We promise ourselves not to repeat the cycle, but we always do. So, let's discuss thi...
Toxic Friendships, Hoovering Tactics, Error Messages. Season 4, Episode 4
18 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textIt has come to my attention that certain toxic friends from 2023 are attempting to invade our 2024 with underhanded tactics. We must rem...
He Chose You, But Did You Choose Him? Season 2, Episode 22
15 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textBelieve it or not, the guy is usually the deciding factor in the relationship. Think about it: he asks you out on a date, and during the...
The Summer Fling You Didn't Know You Were a Part Of; Multiple Dating, and Fall Dating
11 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textI went missing for a few weeks, but I'm back. So, I'm doing a Car Chat; I eased one in on Monday, too. Many of you seemed to l...
His Sexual Innuendos
09 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textLadies, if a guy sends you an eggplant emoji along with a shy face, he's testing the waters to see if you'll be receptive to s...
Keeping a Watchful Eye on Yourself
19 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textIt's important to be mindful of your actions, thoughts, and the path you want to follow. This way, you can avoid saying "I wis...
He Complains all the Time
15 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textWhy does he complain so much? Is there a reason that justifies his behavior? No, I'm tired of the excuses we make for men. So, it&a...
Manifestation Obsession
12 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textI think the term "manifestation" gained popularity in 2023. What does it really mean? Have we become obsessed with this word? ...
Intimate Relationships: We Need it to Survive
07 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textRemember, we are social creatures, and we often forget that. There are so many benefits to being in a marriage or a partnership. Plus, I...
Can You Ever Really Know the Person You're Married to or Dating? What About Friendship?
05 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textThink about it: Do we really know the person? Do we feel like we know the person because we are married to them, have been dating them f...
Emotional Affairs, the Differences Between Men and Women; Signs of an Emotional Affair in the WorkPlace
31 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textWe are different creatures from men. I guess that's why John Gray wrote the book Men Are from Mars and Women Are from Venus. But I ...
He Apologizes, You Accepted, Now What?
29 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textWe never think about what happens after an apology. We have the illusion that the relationship will return to normal. I wish that were t...
Pursue Yourself & Build a Connection with You
24 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textI had no idea I was doing this, pursuing myself. But I have found out that in doing this, you will discover the real you, the opposite o...
I'm Not Hard; I Just Refuse to Let a Human Break Me
22 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textPeople often give their power to a lover, a friend, or a family member whom they believe is trustworthy and become disappointed when thi...
Can a Breakup Take an Emotional Toll on You
04 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textIt really depends on how you decide to handle this breakup and whether it will affect you emotionally. I discussed this in Season Five, ...
The Relationship is Great, But You're Unhappy Because You Are Not Being Yourself.
03 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textSometimes, we can blame a zillion things we feel are wrong with our relationship. But ask yourself if it's really bad. Or is it us ...
Two Different Topics: Splitting the Cost & Not Being His Launching Pad to a New Career and Relationship
02 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textI sometimes see this happening, and I definitely have my own thoughts about it. It's becoming more and more common in relationships...
Relationship Labels
01 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textI hear women and some men say they don't have to define their romantic relationships because they are grown, and each party knows w...
Update on Wednesday and Friday Podcast
26 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textSorry guys, I tried, I really did. Please forgive, but I know you all have the most forgiving hearts. Thank you all for that.
The Three Things We Need in Life & Big "Shout Out" to Chicago
24 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textLife is about balance. Sometimes, we go too far to the left or right. But many of us do, and then we are stressed looking for that perfe...
Earning His Keep: Proving His Value and Earning Your Trust
19 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textA man who earns his keep is a man who, through his actions, will earn your trust. It's time to hand the wheel back to the man and r...
It's Your Responsibility to Keep Yourself Happy, Safe, & Mentally Healthy in Romantic Relationships...
17 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textLadies, you are the only person who can care for yourself to the highest level. You are the keeper of your heart and your mental well-b...
Working Remotely & Social Life! Going To New York and More
14 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textHey, I started out by talking about working remotely and having a social life. Let us just say this is a chatty podcast. https://www.i...
How to Know Your Dating a Man on the First Date
12 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textLadies, it's about time to start dating real men and stop giving these boys who aspire to be men a chance to date you. You are wast...
Having Uncomfortable Conversations in Relationships
10 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textHaving uncomfortable conversations is important for building any relationship. Ignoring discomfort won't make things better. It mig...
Update on Lulu: She Passed. The WNBA, The Bullying
05 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textI appreciate you all for reaching out and sending encouraging words for my Lulu. It's not the outcome I wanted, but reading the lov...
No Podcast; My Lulu is in the Hospital
27 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textSorry guys, there will not be a podcast this week. My Lulu became very sick and is in the hospital. Will be back on schedule next week. ...
The Behavior of a Man Child & I Did Discuss Porn at the End
22 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textDealing with a man-child can be quite a challenge, especially within personal relationships. It's akin to engaging in arguments wit...
Bullying and Intimidation; Also a Scammer Knocked on My Window
20 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textWhile at Target, I witnessed a girl bullying her friend, and I took it upon myself to confront the bully. It is disheartening to see thi...
We Thought we liked Him at first, But as Time moved on, We Changed our Minds.
17 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textMany of us begin relationships by being attracted to someone, but as we get to know them better, our feelings may change. Is it best to ...
Going Dutch; His Mindset
15 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textWhat are your thoughts??
Online Dating: Invitation to His State: Who Should Cover the Expenses?
13 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textI hear many people debating who should pay when meeting an online person for the first time, especially if they live out of state. This ...
Healing After a Painful Breakup
10 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textHere are some suggestions to help you move forward after a breakup instead of just feeling sad and lost. My goal is for you to heal from...
When You Isolate Yourself, The Mind Will Play Tricks & Three Very Sad College Stories
08 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textI watched the first episode of Baby Reindeer on Netflix. It got me thinking about how so many women go through breakups and decide to ta...
My Experiences on Eharmony & Bumble; Shockers & Riddles
06 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textI've been hearing a lot about the games that people play on online dating sites, so I decided to sign up and experience it myself. ...
Have You Ever Been in a Relationship that's Hot one minute and Cold the next minute?
02 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textThis kind of relationship is like a rollercoaster ride. Sometimes, everything feels great and exciting, and other times, you're lef...
New Relationship: Should She Leave Over Finances or Stay?
30 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textA man's financial stability is crucial in any relationship. He should strive to be a provider and protector, and he should want to ...
Dating Multiple People at Once
26 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textIt's important not to limit yourself to just one person when you're looking for a romantic connection. Keeping your options op...
He Dumped Her at 20 years old; She Reunited with Him at 50 years old
24 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textI don't how I should feel about this one. So many years passed. I liked to call it wasted years. What do you all think?
Is My Ex doing All the Things with Her that I wanted him to Do with Me? Are You Doing All the Things you wanted to do with your Ex but now with the New Guy? So, who is living Their Best Life?
19 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textHmm, something to think about, eh? We ladies don't think about the things. https://www.instagram.com/traceylau99/
How To Get Yourself into an Exclusive Relationship & My Personal Storytime about the Last Podcast
17 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textWe all desire to be someone person, but in our haste, we rush things or put up with crap to get there, and in the end, it doesn't w...
The Hidden Truths Behind Being Unfriended & My Personal Story of Being Unfriended by My Niece on Social Media.
15 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textThere are so many layers to the reason you may have been unfriended on social media, and none of them has to do with you. Also, it'...
Toxic Friendships & Don't Fall for Their Hoovering Tactics! And I Listed The Past Toxic Friendships Episodes Below in Order
13 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textIt's important to recognize toxic friendships and avoid their hoovering tactics. Don't let them take advantage of your kindnes...
Dating Tips for an Introvert
11 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textDuring the process of creating this episode, I came to the realization that we are all more similar than we think. We all go out there s...
Is Dating Harder in The Last 10 to 15 Years? Also, What's The Best Site to Check out a Potential Dater? I Have One For Ya!
10 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textDating isn't clear-cut anymore. We have to navigate who's real and who's not. Some are out here married and bored and try...
Feeling Behind After Marriage, To be Honest, You Were Behind in Your Marriage. Update on my Third Act: Flowers and Jelly Beans, but it Ended Pretty Quickly...LOL
07 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textIt's just a feeling, but if you took the time to look around, you'd see you were not growing in the marriage, and the marriage...
My Surprise Revelation: My Healing Journey
05 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textI was healing and had no idea. I was raised to be a strong person, and I sometimes dismiss how I feel because what's important to m...
Let Go of Self-Doubt and Live: Often, It's Not as Serious as You Think
29 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textIt's common for everyone to experience moments of self-doubt at some point in their lives because of how they feel or what someone ...
After Eight Months of Bliss, He Now Wants to Slow Down.
26 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textAt times, individuals may require some personal space to work through certain issues. It could be due to past relationship traumas or ex...
Authenticity Magnet: How Being Yourself Draws in the Right Partner
22 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textYou don't need to pretend to be someone you're not in order to impress someone. The right person will appreciate and love you ...
He Sent a Text Message, It Wasn't for Me & How I Rectified That Situation.
20 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textHave you ever received a text message that wasn't meant for you? It can be awkward and uncomfortable, but I know how to handle it w...
Yes, there is Physical attraction, But for Others, and Me... Hmm, Could It be a Fetish?
18 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textYes, there is physical attraction, but for me, it's something else. I don't think I'm the only one that looks for this. I...
The Dating Pool Can Get Murky
15 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textDon't leave any room for ambiguity in a relationship. It's critical to communicate your expectations and non-negotiables right...
Successful Marriages Take Responsibility for Their Shortcomings.
13 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textSuccessful marriages need both partners to admit when they mess up or make mistakes. This is because everyone has flaws, and problems in...
Welcome to Season Five: He's Keeping Tally, Should She Have Paid His Mortgage & Twenty Thousand Dollars Over Three Years
11 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textI came across an Instagram post about a guy who lost his job and asked his girlfriend to help him financially by paying his mortgage. Th...
Social Circle Matchmaking: Finding Love through Friends and Friends of Friends; It's such a Big No-No
04 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textI wouldn't say I like it; it's such a taboo thing for various reasons, like the awkwardness, people knowing your business, and...
When Red Flags Are Clear and It's Time to Disappear
29 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textRed flags are indicators of potential issues. It's best to take note of them and move on. Follow me on https://www.instagram.com/...
Black Sheep of the Family
26 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textTake the phrase "Black Sheep" of the family as a symbol of marching to your own beat. You have the power to create your own ...
Things That Can Be a Bit of a Buzzkill for Him on Your First Date. Side Note, my words might sound funny, part of my mouth is close until March 20th...LOL
22 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textLadies, it's important to be aware of certain behaviors that can create a negative impression on a first date. Sometimes, these beh...
Turning Heartbreak into Healing; Moving Forward After Valentine's Day Disappointment & My Dear Jane Letter
20 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textI promised this would be my last podcast on Valentine's Day. I just feel some of you let your past relationship determine your mo...