Savage Lovecast

After Action Report #8

12 Dec 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Gift a Magnum subscription to a friend or enemy for 1/2 off! That’s just $24 from Dec 1-31. ⁠  It was her first time pegging a man, though she'...

After Action Report #8

12 Dec 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Gift a Magnum subscription to a friend or enemy for 1/2 off! That’s just $24 from Dec 1-31.   It was her first time pegging a man, though she'd d...

Savage Lovecast Episode 997

09 Dec 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Gift a Magnum subscription to a friend or enemy for 1/2 off! That’s just $24 from Dec 1-31.  A recent widow grapples with a surge in her libido. ...

After Action Report #7

05 Dec 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Hear the harrowing tale of the masochist lad who walked into the dungeon and ended up getting flogged...a lot. Did he like it? Would he do it again?...

Savage Love Episode 996

02 Dec 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Listen in on Dan's conversation with a woman who learned that her husband had an affair early in their relationship. It turns out she's been chatting ...

After Action Report #6

28 Nov 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Meet Chrissy, a bisexual woman and self-identified pervert, who went to a sex club for the first time. What happened there? Well, let's just say you m...

Savage Lovecast Episode 995

25 Nov 2025

Contributed by Lukas

We know you're struggling. So we brought in the most soothing human on the planet-Therapy Jeff- to offer tips on how to get through Thanksgiving with ...

After Action Report #5

21 Nov 2025

Contributed by Lukas

On this weeks After Action Report, we wanted to offer something for the whole family to enjoy on the day after Thanksgiving. So Dan spoke with Milo, a...

Savage Lovecast Episode 994

18 Nov 2025

Contributed by Lukas

She dated her neighbor for a while, until it became clear that she couldn’t enjoy sex with him because his giant, massive, gargantuan penis was too ...

After Action Report #4

14 Nov 2025

Contributed by Lukas

For this After Action Report, Dan chats with Ember, a life-long sneeze fetishist. She gets turned on when her lovers sneeze, and thus, stocks up on im...

Savage Love Episode 993

11 Nov 2025

Contributed by Lukas

A mother's challenge: her 12 year-old son's lesbian friend (who isn't out to her parents,) said that she was into gooning. Right in front of her! The ...

After Action Report #3

07 Nov 2025

Contributed by Lukas

After Action Report #3 Squirting Kira This week, meet a woman who finally, after YEARS of persistence, has learned how to squirt. Practice makes p...

Savage Lovecast Episode 992

04 Nov 2025

Contributed by Lukas

A woman's bisexual husband has been getting "gayer and gayer" to the point where he is only interested in her if she acts like a dude. Her friend is w...

After Action Report #2

31 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

On this week's After Action Report, a trans man made his way to his first furry party. He doesn't have a full suit yet, just paws, ears and a tail. Fo...

Savage Lovecast Episode 991

28 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

A woman's lefty friend berated her for enjoying drag, saying it's like blackface for trans women. The caller loves drag and had never thought about th...

After Action Report #1

24 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome to our first stand-alone After-Action Report! He got in a full body spiderman suit. And then the action began. Hear Dan chat with the man ...

Savage Lovecast Episode 990

21 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

A woman just started a dating a man 12 years her junior. But he doesn't know her age, and has never asked her, even on her birthday. Should she tell h...

Savage Lovecast Episode 989

14 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Compare and contrast these two body image calls: A woman's boyfriend is so insecure about his big body, that he can't get hard. She thinks he's hot as...

Savage Lovecast Episode 988

07 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

A woman and her boyfriend, (in an open relationship) tried shibari and enjoyed the intimacy of it. She suggested they exclusively practice shibari wit...

Savage Lovecast Episode 987

30 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

How can a woman safely indulge her kink when the thing that turns her on is fear? A man is convinced that his bidet use makes him pee more. Our long...

Savage Lovecast Episode 986

23 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

A gay man is lucky to be in a throuple relationship. But he worries that he's having too much sex, and thinking about sex so much that it's distractin...

Savage Lovecast Episode 985

16 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

A man in a poly triad has a girlfriend. His girlfriend has a boyfriend, and they all live together, share a dog, and plan to have kids. The caller and...

Savage Lovecast Episode 984

09 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

A married mother did some sex work in her younger, wilder days. She's turned on by money, so it seems obvious that she should be a findom. But the ty...

Savage Lovecast Episode 983

02 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

A man's 80 year-old father is getting scammed and extorted by a findom. Should he go to the police? Change his account numbers? See a marriage counsel...

Savage Lovecast Episode 982

26 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

A woman's old friend and sometime lover asked her for a beaver shot to ease his stress on an upcoming couples trip. She obliged. Did he thank her? No ...

Savage Lovecast Episode 981

19 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

A cute li'l gal worries she just isn't a very convincing dom. How can she use psychology to establish her sexy top role? A newly out pan man is read...

Savage Lovecast Episode 980

12 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

"Not generous." That is what a gay man puts on his app profile to signify that he is not interested in sex workers. Is this offensive? Hear the hear...

Savage Lovecast Episode 979

05 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

A woman is grappling with the dubious ethics of financial domination. Her friend asked her to do it, and she made a quick, easy $1k. But she knows tha...

Savage Lovecast Episode 978

29 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

While tidying up after some Airbnb guests, a gay man discovered a vibrator left under the pillow. Should he message the couple and offer to send it ba...

Savage Lovecast Episode 977

22 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

A woman's boyfriend wants her to drug him, have her way with him and share him with her friends. He did this before with an ex, and loved it. She's in...

Savage Lovecast Episode 976

15 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

The woman in a married couple that does not want children accidentally got pregnant. This happened once before, and she learned that her husband is ag...

Savage Lovecast Episode 975

08 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

A queer woman has a non-binary, AFAB spouse. Her partner can mime the action of cunnilingus with their tongue, flicking and teasing across the dinner ...

Savage Lovecast Episode 974

01 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

A woman in her late 40s is struggling to process a relationship she had when she was in college. She slept with a former professor of hers but then go...

Savage Lovecast Episode 973

24 Jun 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Her boyfriend of one year is perfect in every way! Except...he is stoned literally all the time. But he's a great lover, communicates well, and truly ...

Savage Lovecast Episode 972

17 Jun 2025

Contributed by Lukas

We start the show with two calls concerning the "post nut" state of mind. One man hates that he becomes selfish and unresponsive so much that he choos...

Savage Lovecast Episode 971

10 Jun 2025

Contributed by Lukas

When she was in high school, she surprised herself and delighted her boyfriend by squirting all over his face. But the incident alarmed her enough to ...

Savage Lovecast Episode 970

03 Jun 2025

Contributed by Lukas

A married woman in a poly relationship is planning to visit a boyfriend who lives in a different city for a month. But since they made these plans, sh...

Savage Lovecast Episode 969

27 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

A man in Nashville keeps having great dates, but then they reject him afterwards. Is it because he's a liberal Jew? A woman is in a new, fun, casual ...

Savage Lovecast Episode 968

20 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

A man in a queer group chat saw that folks were talking about going to a bathhouse in their city for the first time. The caller explained what goes on...

Savage Lovecast Episode 967

13 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

HA man briefly dated a guy who only bottoms, and collects a variety of giant dildos. The caller worries that his natural size would never satisfy a ma...

Savage Lovecast Episode 966

06 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Oh boy! A threesome might be brewing! A woman just connected with a hot guy through an app. He has another woman he sees, and the three of them plan t...

Savage Lovecast Episode 965

29 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Ooh la la! A young Canadian woman has been living in a European city, making friends and... having group sex. She doesn't speak their language- her fr...

Savage Lovecast Episode 964

22 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

My what a busy friend! While a woman and her boyfriend were going through a painful, temporary separation, she confided in and was consoled by a male,...

Savage Lovecast Episode 963

15 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

A chill married lesbian is a little annoyed to hear that her consistently straight friend, engaged to a man, has announced that she is pan. She is pan...

Savage Lovecast Episode 962

08 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

A gay man and his boyfriend are in an open relationship. His boyfriend forbids the caller from messing around with anyone in their friend group. But t...

Savage Lovecast Episode 961

01 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

A woman has made a new exciting friend! But this friend ditches her other friends and treats them as disposable. Is the caller next? Here's the kind...

Savage Lovecast Episode 960

25 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

A man chanced upon his wife's journals when he was cleaning the closets. He simply couldn't help himself. He read some of them, and learned about her ...

Savage Lovecast Episode 959

18 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Squarespace This episode is brought to you by Squarespace. They make it easy to build a website or blog. Give it a whirl at Squarespace.com/Savage a...

Savage Lovecast Episode 958

11 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

A woman is seeing a guy who only grudgingly goes down south. Sex for them always begins with her giving him a BJ, but because they have a Dom/sub dyna...

Savage Lovecast Episode 957

04 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Age gap relationships! Sometimes they are a-ok. Sometimes they are not. A woman is having an argument with her boyfriend about whether his previous re...

Savage Lovecast Episode 956

25 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

A woman's 74 year-old father has started dating a 19 year-old woman, and no one in her family besides her is batting an eye. She is horrified and refu...

Savage Lovecast Episode 955

18 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Pages and pages of escort ads. That's what she found on her boyfriend's phone when she was looking for concert tickets. He insisted he wasn't actually...

Savage Lovecast Episode 954

11 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

A married gay man is newly poly with his husband and boyfriend. Simple question: Who should he celebrate Valentine's Day with?  A non-binary AFAB per...

Savage Lovecast Episode 953

04 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

A straight man was accidentally paired with a trans man on a hookup app. When the trans man found out his match was a straight dude, he tapped out. Bu...

Savage Lovecast Episode 952

28 Jan 2025

Contributed by Lukas

A straight man worries that his one-on-one OnlyFans interactions are a form of infidelity.  A divorced man is out dating and learning about tantra. A...

Savage Lovecast Episode 951

21 Jan 2025

Contributed by Lukas

A gay man is mourning the loss of his hair. He shaved it all off, but doesn't like the new look. Are there any other options? How can he learn to love...

Savage Lovecast Episode 950

14 Jan 2025

Contributed by Lukas

A very happy Feast of The Ass to you all! We asked you to send us your carols and boy, did you ever deliver. Hear a smattering of our picks, and we u...

Savage Lovecast Episode 949

07 Jan 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Everyone is feverishly preparing for The Feast of The Ass on January 14! Consequently, many of you have questions, such as "What is the proper Feast o...

Bonus New Year's Gift: Esther Perel

03 Jan 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Happy New Year! Here's the interview we did with Esther Perel back in September. We hope you like it.

Savage Lovecast Episode 948

31 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

 Here's a little friendship drama to start the New Year: A woman and her pal "Jill" are going on a skiing trip in Japan with a group of people. Two o...

Micro Bonus Holiday Gift: Ezra Klein

27 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Happy holidays micro listeners!  We are releasing this interview with Ezra Klein from February of this year as a thank-you for listening.  From Dan...

Savage Lovecast Episode 947

24 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Dan Savage is bringing back a forgotten Catholic holiday. On January 14, let us all celebrate the Feast of the Ass.  A woman's beloved twin sister is...

Savage Lovecast Episode 946

17 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

A gay man was dating a closeted cop for 4 years. Then he found out that the cop WASN'T closeted, and WASN'T single (he has a live-in boyfriend,) but I...

Savage Lovecast Episode 945

10 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

A trans guy just can't break into gay male spaces. He feels ridiculed and rejected, and ends up sitting in a corner alone while the sweaty dance party...

Savage Lovecast Episode 944

03 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

"That's so gay!" So said a 10 year-old boy and got himself punished by the teacher who overheard him. The boy's father is calling for advice on how to...

Savage Lovecast Episode 943

26 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

A straight man confesses to lurking on Discord and masturbating to the pretty female voices he hears there. Nobody knows he is doing this (except all ...

Savage Lovecast Episode 942

19 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

We open with a somewhat disturbing call from a woman whose white boyfriend visits "wack shacks" when he travels. He hires Asian sex workers to submit ...

Savage Lovecast Episode 941

12 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

First off, we hear from a neglected third in a poorly executed threeway hook-up. He failed to advocate for himself, and the other two guys weren't ask...

Savage Lovecast Episode 940

05 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

We're giving you a break from whatever stressful stuff is going on this week to bring you some of the more...interesting calls we've collected.  A ma...

Savage Lovecast Episode 939

29 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

A poly guy lives in a rural area with his fiancé. He is building his own house, and hires laborers to come live with him while they build. One of the...

Savage Lovecast Episode 938

22 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

A woman has been dating a man from Ghana for 4 months. She just learned that he has a wife and kid back home, that he married out of familial/cultural...

Savage Lovecast Episode 937

15 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

A lesbian couple has been together for a couple years, and things are still hot between them. But they wonder if they should check out a sex club just...

Savage Lovecast Episode 936

08 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

An apology is required! But who is in the wrong here? An NB person got so, so sick with the covids. They had already made out with their boyfriend, so...

Savage Lovecast Episode 935

01 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

A man was flirting with a woman online, but his girlfriend found out. She threw him out, and messaged all their friends and family about the incident....

Savage Lovecast Episode 934

24 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

She slept with a lad who didn't wear a condom when he said he would, came inside her and wouldn't help pay for Plan B. The hitch? He's great in bed, a...

Savage Lovecast Episode 933

17 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Oh no! He broke the flirting rules. He kissed a lady and lied about it. (He lies a lot apparently.) But now, it makes her sick to look at him. What no...

Savage Lovecast Episode 932

10 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

A man and his girlfriend are well-matched. Except...she doesn't like to kiss and he NEEDS to kiss to get his erotic motor running. Whatever can they d...

Savage Lovecast Episode 931

03 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Git along little doggie! A gay man in academia has always been into cowboys. But he fights his brain, due to the inherently problematic nature of this...

Savage Lovecast Episode 930

27 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Workplace intrigue ahoy! A gay trans man who passes completely, is out to some of his co-workers but not all. Over drinks, one of his bosses told him ...

Savage Lovecast Episode 929

20 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

A woman is starting up a new relationship. Her previous boyfriend was a dom who introduced her to kink. She loved it but found it all too contrived. H...

Savage Lovecast Episode 928

13 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

A straight man was horrified to discover that he wasn't attracted to his hook-up when she took her clothes off. She extracted a confession from him, a...

Savage Lovecast Episode 927

06 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

We start the show with a simple question. Should she sleep with the gardener? Her marriage has become sexless, and though her husband swears he would ...

Savage Lovecast Episode 926

30 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Hear the modern tale of the single mom, who is so committed to raising a "theybie" that she won't let her best friend babysit, lest she take a peek do...

Savage Lovecast Episode 925

23 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

A woman with the best intentions wants to secretly hire a sex worker for her depressed, newly divorced friend. Any downsides here? Speaking of divorce...

Savage Lovecast Episode 924

16 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

A man's new boyfriend had an adult circumcision, and now can't come very easily. He wants to help his boyfriend come, but doesn't want to pressure him...

Savage Lovecast Episode 923

09 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

It's the "Overthinking It" episode!  "I'll give you $100 if you spit in my beer." This offer was made by a random gentleman in a sushi bar to an unsu...

No Show Announcement

02 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Man we're tired. So we went on vacation! No show this week, but we'll back at you on July 9. 

Savage Lovecast Episode 922

25 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Her husband of ten years is interested in learning about non-monogamy. He started attending workshops about "divine femininity" and "dark masculinity....

Savage Lovecast Episode 921

18 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

A straight woman wants to explore her bitchy side. She feels like all her edge got sanded away, and now she wants to try out the dom role. How can she...

Savage Lovecast Episode 920

11 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Getting a haircut is boring! Unless. Unless your hairstylist strokes your neck, pulls your hair, talks dirty and asks if you want to fool around.  A ...

Savage Lovecast Episode 919

04 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Dan takes on a couple of heavy calls this week- A woman learned that her ex-boyfriend of 8 years was convicted on child pornography charges. He will a...

Savage Lovecast Episode 918

28 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Yikes! Her boyfriend's pre-teen son has been stealing her underwear. This very naughty lad lives with them half the time. How can she get this boundar...

Savage Lovecast Episode 917

21 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

A lesbian has befriended a married lesbian couple. She thinks they're both hot, and in various light-hearted conversations, they said they were open t...

Sex & Politics #30 Micro Version

16 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

For this Sex & Politics, Dan brings back Diana Adams, lawyer and legal advocate for queer and poly communities. Diana is the Executive Director of Cho...

Savage Lovecast Episode 916

14 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Her man used to enjoy chewing tobacco, and it messed up his teeth. He has quit at her behest, but now he really needs to see a dentist. She doesn't wa...

Savage Lovecast Episode 915

07 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

When you throw a sweaty, sexy party, and most of the guests have left, except for your girlfriend and her ex, and this ex offers to suck your dick, sa...

Savage Lovecast Episode 914

30 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

A woman's party fell apart when her good -looking friend flirted with all the men and then led them away to a club. Was this a competitive power move?...

Savage Lovecast Episode 913

23 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

A woman has been enjoying an insertable vibrator that can be controlled by her partner. Whee! But she worries that if she wears it out in public, it c...

Sex & Politics #29: Micro version

20 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

For this very special April 20th episode of Sex & Politics, Dan speaks with Republican apostate and charming podcaster Tim Miller, about the importanc...

Savage Lovecast Episode 912

16 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

A woman moved into a new house and promptly slept with her roommate. It was great sex and the caller wants a repeat. He claims he wants more as well, ...