Savage Lovecast

Savage Lovecast Episode 959

18 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

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Savage Lovecast Episode 958

11 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

A woman is seeing a guy who only grudgingly goes down south. Sex for them always begins with her giving him a BJ, but because they have a Dom/sub dyna...

Savage Lovecast Episode 957

04 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Age gap relationships! Sometimes they are a-ok. Sometimes they are not. A woman is having an argument with her boyfriend about whether his previous re...

Savage Lovecast Episode 956

25 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

A woman's 74 year-old father has started dating a 19 year-old woman, and no one in her family besides her is batting an eye. She is horrified and refu...

Savage Lovecast Episode 955

18 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Pages and pages of escort ads. That's what she found on her boyfriend's phone when she was looking for concert tickets. He insisted he wasn't actually...

Savage Lovecast Episode 954

11 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

A married gay man is newly poly with his husband and boyfriend. Simple question: Who should he celebrate Valentine's Day with?  A non-binary AFAB per...

Savage Lovecast Episode 953

04 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

A straight man was accidentally paired with a trans man on a hookup app. When the trans man found out his match was a straight dude, he tapped out. Bu...

Savage Lovecast Episode 952

28 Jan 2025

Contributed by Lukas

A straight man worries that his one-on-one OnlyFans interactions are a form of infidelity.  A divorced man is out dating and learning about tantra. A...

Savage Lovecast Episode 951

21 Jan 2025

Contributed by Lukas

A gay man is mourning the loss of his hair. He shaved it all off, but doesn't like the new look. Are there any other options? How can he learn to love...

Savage Lovecast Episode 950

14 Jan 2025

Contributed by Lukas

A very happy Feast of The Ass to you all! We asked you to send us your carols and boy, did you ever deliver. Hear a smattering of our picks, and we u...

Savage Lovecast Episode 949

07 Jan 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Everyone is feverishly preparing for The Feast of The Ass on January 14! Consequently, many of you have questions, such as "What is the proper Feast o...

Bonus New Year's Gift: Esther Perel

03 Jan 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Happy New Year! Here's the interview we did with Esther Perel back in September. We hope you like it.

Savage Lovecast Episode 948

31 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

 Here's a little friendship drama to start the New Year: A woman and her pal "Jill" are going on a skiing trip in Japan with a group of people. Two o...

Micro Bonus Holiday Gift: Ezra Klein

27 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Happy holidays micro listeners!  We are releasing this interview with Ezra Klein from February of this year as a thank-you for listening.  From Dan...

Savage Lovecast Episode 947

24 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Dan Savage is bringing back a forgotten Catholic holiday. On January 14, let us all celebrate the Feast of the Ass.  A woman's beloved twin sister is...

Savage Lovecast Episode 946

17 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

A gay man was dating a closeted cop for 4 years. Then he found out that the cop WASN'T closeted, and WASN'T single (he has a live-in boyfriend,) but I...

Savage Lovecast Episode 945

10 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

A trans guy just can't break into gay male spaces. He feels ridiculed and rejected, and ends up sitting in a corner alone while the sweaty dance party...

Savage Lovecast Episode 944

03 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

"That's so gay!" So said a 10 year-old boy and got himself punished by the teacher who overheard him. The boy's father is calling for advice on how to...

Savage Lovecast Episode 943

26 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

A straight man confesses to lurking on Discord and masturbating to the pretty female voices he hears there. Nobody knows he is doing this (except all ...

Savage Lovecast Episode 942

19 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

We open with a somewhat disturbing call from a woman whose white boyfriend visits "wack shacks" when he travels. He hires Asian sex workers to submit ...

Savage Lovecast Episode 941

12 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

First off, we hear from a neglected third in a poorly executed threeway hook-up. He failed to advocate for himself, and the other two guys weren't ask...

Savage Lovecast Episode 940

05 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

We're giving you a break from whatever stressful stuff is going on this week to bring you some of the more...interesting calls we've collected.  A ma...

Savage Lovecast Episode 939

29 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

A poly guy lives in a rural area with his fiancé. He is building his own house, and hires laborers to come live with him while they build. One of the...

Savage Lovecast Episode 938

22 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

A woman has been dating a man from Ghana for 4 months. She just learned that he has a wife and kid back home, that he married out of familial/cultural...

Savage Lovecast Episode 937

15 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

A lesbian couple has been together for a couple years, and things are still hot between them. But they wonder if they should check out a sex club just...

Savage Lovecast Episode 936

08 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

An apology is required! But who is in the wrong here? An NB person got so, so sick with the covids. They had already made out with their boyfriend, so...

Savage Lovecast Episode 935

01 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

A man was flirting with a woman online, but his girlfriend found out. She threw him out, and messaged all their friends and family about the incident....

Savage Lovecast Episode 934

24 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

She slept with a lad who didn't wear a condom when he said he would, came inside her and wouldn't help pay for Plan B. The hitch? He's great in bed, a...

Savage Lovecast Episode 933

17 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Oh no! He broke the flirting rules. He kissed a lady and lied about it. (He lies a lot apparently.) But now, it makes her sick to look at him. What no...

Savage Lovecast Episode 932

10 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

A man and his girlfriend are well-matched. Except...she doesn't like to kiss and he NEEDS to kiss to get his erotic motor running. Whatever can they d...

Savage Lovecast Episode 931

03 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Git along little doggie! A gay man in academia has always been into cowboys. But he fights his brain, due to the inherently problematic nature of this...

Savage Lovecast Episode 930

27 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Workplace intrigue ahoy! A gay trans man who passes completely, is out to some of his co-workers but not all. Over drinks, one of his bosses told him ...

Savage Lovecast Episode 929

20 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

A woman is starting up a new relationship. Her previous boyfriend was a dom who introduced her to kink. She loved it but found it all too contrived. H...

Savage Lovecast Episode 928

13 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

A straight man was horrified to discover that he wasn't attracted to his hook-up when she took her clothes off. She extracted a confession from him, a...

Savage Lovecast Episode 927

06 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

We start the show with a simple question. Should she sleep with the gardener? Her marriage has become sexless, and though her husband swears he would ...

Savage Lovecast Episode 926

30 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Hear the modern tale of the single mom, who is so committed to raising a "theybie" that she won't let her best friend babysit, lest she take a peek do...

Savage Lovecast Episode 925

23 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

A woman with the best intentions wants to secretly hire a sex worker for her depressed, newly divorced friend. Any downsides here? Speaking of divorce...

Savage Lovecast Episode 924

16 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

A man's new boyfriend had an adult circumcision, and now can't come very easily. He wants to help his boyfriend come, but doesn't want to pressure him...

Savage Lovecast Episode 923

09 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

It's the "Overthinking It" episode!  "I'll give you $100 if you spit in my beer." This offer was made by a random gentleman in a sushi bar to an unsu...

No Show Announcement

02 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Man we're tired. So we went on vacation! No show this week, but we'll back at you on July 9. 

Savage Lovecast Episode 922

25 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Her husband of ten years is interested in learning about non-monogamy. He started attending workshops about "divine femininity" and "dark masculinity....

Savage Lovecast Episode 921

18 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

A straight woman wants to explore her bitchy side. She feels like all her edge got sanded away, and now she wants to try out the dom role. How can she...

Savage Lovecast Episode 920

11 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Getting a haircut is boring! Unless. Unless your hairstylist strokes your neck, pulls your hair, talks dirty and asks if you want to fool around.  A ...

Savage Lovecast Episode 919

04 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Dan takes on a couple of heavy calls this week- A woman learned that her ex-boyfriend of 8 years was convicted on child pornography charges. He will a...

Savage Lovecast Episode 918

28 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Yikes! Her boyfriend's pre-teen son has been stealing her underwear. This very naughty lad lives with them half the time. How can she get this boundar...

Savage Lovecast Episode 917

21 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

A lesbian has befriended a married lesbian couple. She thinks they're both hot, and in various light-hearted conversations, they said they were open t...

Sex & Politics #30 Micro Version

16 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

For this Sex & Politics, Dan brings back Diana Adams, lawyer and legal advocate for queer and poly communities. Diana is the Executive Director of Cho...

Savage Lovecast Episode 916

14 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Her man used to enjoy chewing tobacco, and it messed up his teeth. He has quit at her behest, but now he really needs to see a dentist. She doesn't wa...

Savage Lovecast Episode 915

07 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

When you throw a sweaty, sexy party, and most of the guests have left, except for your girlfriend and her ex, and this ex offers to suck your dick, sa...

Savage Lovecast Episode 914

30 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

A woman's party fell apart when her good -looking friend flirted with all the men and then led them away to a club. Was this a competitive power move?...

Savage Lovecast Episode 913

23 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

A woman has been enjoying an insertable vibrator that can be controlled by her partner. Whee! But she worries that if she wears it out in public, it c...

Sex & Politics #29: Micro version

20 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

For this very special April 20th episode of Sex & Politics, Dan speaks with Republican apostate and charming podcaster Tim Miller, about the importanc...

Savage Lovecast Episode 912

16 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

A woman moved into a new house and promptly slept with her roommate. It was great sex and the caller wants a repeat. He claims he wants more as well, ...

Savage Lovecast Episode 911

09 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

A woman's boyfriend wants her to play with his ass. But she doesn't know where to begin. Fingers? Tongue? What should she do down there?  A woman kee...

Savage Lovecast Episode 910

02 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

A gay man keeps sleeping with non-monogamous, married men, who are ultimately emotionally unavailable. But the sex is great! Why isn't he attracted to...

Sex & Politics #28: Micro Version

28 Mar 2024

Contributed by Lukas

For this episode of Sex & Politics, Dan speaks with Rob Henderson, author of "Troubled: A Memoir of Foster Care, Family, and Social Class." Rob's hear...

Savage Lovecast Episode 909

26 Mar 2024

Contributed by Lukas

So, is he gay? The evidence: He likes sucking wieners, anal play, and he has a sex machine that he uses on his butt. Also, he is showing less and less...

Savage Lovecast Episode 908

19 Mar 2024

Contributed by Lukas

You guys! We are in crisis! There are just not enough hot young women! DO. THE. MATH. A woman is dating a trans woman. Her girlfriend recently got bot...

Savage Lovecast Episode 907

12 Mar 2024

Contributed by Lukas

"Ewww! Blood!" That's what her boyfriend says whenever she even mentions her menstrual cycle. Should she try to educate him as to why this is immature...

Savage Lovecast Episode 906

05 Mar 2024

Contributed by Lukas

A 27 year-old divorced woman goes to bars and picks up both men and women. She prefers them to be at least 10 years older because (as everyone knows,)...

Savage Lovecast Episode 905

27 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

A woman's 60 year-old dad has taken in a much younger woman of dubious repute. She is a massage therapist, and has been cleaning her father's house. H...

Savage Lovecast Episode 904

20 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Why is it always men that are into foot fetishes?  And speaking of feet, a woman has a pair of fetish shoes that no longer fit. She wants to make sur...

Savage Lovecast Episode 903

13 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

A hearty Valentine's Day to all of you freaky, perverted, lovelorn wretches. We begin the show with a humdinger of a call from a man whose wedding nig...

Savage Lovecast Episode 902

06 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

We are still shocked that Ezra Klein (of the NYT and the Ezra Klein Show) agreed to come on our smutty little podcast. They talked about Ezra's time a...

Savage Lovecast Episode 901

30 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

"Enough with the poly! " Or so says this gay man, who is sick of being disrespected by his boyfriend catting around, acting like a no-good cad and usi...

Savage Lovecast Episode 900

23 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

A man's wife had to quit drinking due to a medical condition. They used to get tipsy and have wild sex. Now that she can't drink the sex has become ro...

Savage Lovecast Episode 899

16 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

A gay man's best friend has such a devastating crush on him, that they can't be friends anymore. The caller begged him to try to get over it. But crus...

Savage Lovecast Episode 898

09 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Happy Feast of the Ass for all who celebrate! A gay man is fed up with the guys who try to use the gym as their personal hook-up site. When the leerin...

Savage Lovecast Episode 897

02 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

A German lesbian was propositioned by a younger grad student. (This sounds like a porno but it's not.) The grad student was raised in a conservative ...

Savage Lovecast Episode 896

26 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

A lesbian has a terrible bullshit detector. She keeps falling for lies and getting conned. How can our credulous heroine protect herself from lying li...

Holiday Extra: A City on Mars

21 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

For this very special Sex & Politics, we invite you to leave your earthly cares behind and explore with us what sex would be like...in space!  It tur...

Savage Lovecast Episode 895

19 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Dick pic backfire! When a woman received an image of her sexting partner's wiener, she was distressed to see small white bumps adorning his penis. Cou...

Savage Lovecast Episode 894

12 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

A married gay man endured a sexless relationship for 10 long years... until he didn't. After cheating, he is getting a divorce. But now the caller fee...

Savage Lovecast Episode 893

05 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

When drunk friends pounce! A happily married, monogamous man went to a concert with his gal pal. But she arrived so drunk, staggering around and embar...

Savage Lovecast Episode 892

28 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

When telling a hook-up that you don't want to continue seeing them, how much detail should you give? A woman enjoyed the sex with her quickie guy, but...

Savage Lovecast Episode 891

21 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

A pansexual woman and her new lover got an unpleasant surprise...gonorrhea! But nothing makes sense. They had both tested negative and he claimed he w...

Savage Lovecast Episode 890

14 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Cock blocked...by his own sister?! A man and his sister are very close, living in the same town. He developed a crush on one of her friends, but she f...

Savage Lovecast Episode 889

07 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

A midwife has recently learned that people who were born with a tongue-tie might have trouble giving oral sex later in life. Should she advise new par...

Savage Lovecast Episode 888

31 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

A woman's casual partner like to sext her before they meet up. He tends to obsess over the things she's told him she won't do. Is he pushing her bound...

Savage Lovecast Episode 887

24 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Is there a homo bro code? A man hooked up with his casual boyfriend’s roommate. Then the boyfriend moved away and they broke up peacefully. Now the ...

Savage Lovecast Episode 886

17 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

A masochistic woman is happily paired with her sadist. They both love it when he bites her. But lately, she’s become more sensitive, maybe because s...

Savage Lovecast Episode 885

10 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

A man’s dad is deeply, absurdly closeted. He has been married to the caller’s mother for decades, but could never admit the truth. Now the caller’...

Savage Lovecast Episode 884

03 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

A man has discovered his love for wearing feminine clothing. His friends and fiancé are all supportive. But his brother- not so much. Should the call...

Savage Lovecast Episode 883

26 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

A 24 year-old single woman wants to learn how to perform dirty talk, but she has no one to practice on. How can she learn the dark art?  A woman is n...

Savage Lovecast Episode 882

19 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

We start the show with two ass-tastic calls! A domme woman has a pet boy who wants to eat things out of her butt. He suggests licorice. Any ideas for ...

Savage Lovecast Episode 881

12 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

A woman is enjoying a new friends-with-benefits relationship. She booked them an airBnB, but he had to cancel because his mother had a stroke. Now she...

Savage Lovecast Episode 880

05 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

We open the show with two questions from people who think they are aromantic. One of them is a woman with two sweet boyfriends, but worries she’s no...

Savage Lovecast Episode 879

29 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

A transman is under deep cover in his hostile, misogynistic, anti-queer work environment. And what’s more, one of his co-workers is probably a close...

Savage Lovecast Episode 878

22 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

“Son, I’m open.” A gay man has a great relationship with his son. They hang out together, and the son drops by all the time. The caller has a bo...

Savage Lovecast Episode 877

15 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

A woman hooked up with a seemingly nice guy. She asked him to wear a condom, and he said he did. But after he left, she couldn’t find evidence of th...

Savage Lovecast Episode 876

08 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Oh Lordy, hear the tale of the twisted teen! He’s been sneaking into neighbors’ houses and stealing their sex toys, including some from elderly wo...

Savage Lovecast Episode 875

01 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

“Goodbye son, I’m off to Kink Camp!” A gay caller’s dad got divorced, came out as poly, and won’t shut up about it. He introduces the caller...

Savage Lovecast Episode 874

25 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

When it comes to love, never ever give up. Unless you really, really should. A woman has been crushed out on her best friend for years. Each time she ...

No show this week.

18 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

See you next week on July 25!

Savage Lovecast Episode 873

11 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Every day a certain number of people learn about sounding. Our first call is from one of these people and he has some questions. Are you next? Listen ...

Savage Lovecast Episode 872

04 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Happy birthday America, damn you’re kinky! This week’s show features a ton of calls by the kinky, those who love them, or those who are considerin...

Savage Lovecast Episode 871

27 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

A woman and her husband have quit drinking. Hooray! But now that he’s sober he no longer feels comfortable getting pegged. Boo! How can he lower his...

Savage Lovecast Episode 870

20 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Ah. The old jiz-on-the-couch problem. This time it’s a 13 year-old boy just learning about the wonders of his youthful body. His mother wishes he wo...

Savage Lovecast Episode 869

13 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

They are a butch, gender-queer AFAB, kinky pervert. As such, they love going to sex parties. Their boyfriend meanwhile, is straight, vanilla and famil...

Savage Lovecast Episode 868

06 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

A straight man detests condoms with all his heart. Even the thought of putting on one of those rubbers makes him deflate like the ears on a 2-day-old ...