Savage Lovecast

Savage Lovecast Episode 821

19 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

A bisexual woman came out to her conservative mother, and amazingly, she didn’t flip out. But she did beg the caller to keep it secret from the rest...

Savage Lovecast Episode 820

12 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

A bi man in an open relationship is disgusted by sweat- his lover’s and his own. How can he mitigate his revulsion? A macho, macho man wants to know...

Savage Lovecast Episode 819

05 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Look out, it’s a nibbler! A woman hates the way her new boyfriend kisses her. He nibbles on her lips even though she tells him to knock it off. Is t...

Savage Lovecast Episode 818

28 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

A gay Irishman had a terribly unpleasant experience, when the man he was screwing twerked and gyrated until it felt like his dick was about to fall of...

Savage Lovecast Episode 817

21 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Kissing?! Blecchhh! A 33 year old woman is a bit of a late bloomer. She has just started dating, and likes to have sex. But the kissing? It disgusts h...

Savage Lovecast Episode 816

14 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Believe it or not, a straight male dom is struggling with how to be selfish in bed. As a dom, he learned to please his sub and obtain consent every st...

Savage Lovecast Episode 815

07 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

A woman has been with her boyfriend for one year. She knew he was into cam girls from the beginning of the relationship. But lately he watches cam gir...

Savage Lovecast Episode 814

31 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

A bi man in a monogamous heterosexual marriage keeps having his sexuality questioned by gay friends. It’s super annoying! Should he even bring up hi...

Savage Lovecast Episode 813

24 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

A trans man used to be an escort before his transition. Now that he is hornier than ever on testosterone, he wants to try sleeping with gay men. But i...

Savage Lovecast Episode 812

17 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

An Australian woman in her mid 20s fondly remembers the intimate online relationship she had throughout high school. She thought he was 20, and though...

Savage Lovecast Episode 811

10 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

“Help! I’m trapped with my very nice in-laws! “ An introverted woman loves her husband’s family dearly. But when they all descend on her house...

Savage Lovecast Episode 810

03 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

A man is excited to marry his beloved fiancé. But he harbors a corrosive secret. Early in their relationship he went to massage parlors for happy end...

Savage Lovecast Episode 809

26 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

A gay man discovered that his friend had a nude photo of him on his phone. The caller had asked him to take the picture so he could edit it and send i...

Savage Lovecast Episode 808

19 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Mazel tov, you’re a new daddy! And by “daddy” we mean a queer, dirty-talkin’, older dom. A newly single bi man in his 40s suddenly finds himse...

Savage Lovecast Episode 807

12 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

A woman discovered that her boyfriend cheated on her. How did she know? He washed his own sheets for the first time EVER. When confronted, (after lyin...

Savage Lovecast Episode 806

05 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

A woman and her husband are getting into group sex. The catch? She’s newly pregnant. Should she disclose this to participants?  4 years ago, soon a...

Savage Lovecast Episode 805

29 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Strap in (or on) for a wild ride folks, because this is the April Fool’s Day show. We asked you to send in fake calls and you came through in a big ...

Savage Lovecast Episode 804

22 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

A woman with teenaged kids has started seeing a man she’s known for a decade. It’s a dom/sub relationship, where she is the dom. Part of their arr...

Savage Lovecast Episode 803

15 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Gather round listeners, and hear the gruesome tale of a spit roasting mishap.  A Ukrainian queer woman living in Canada is horrified and heartbroken ...

Savage Lovecast Episode 802

08 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

A man matched with a woman in an ethical non-monogamous relationship. She proposed they meet at a lifestyle club. He had never heard of lifestyle club...

Savage Lovecast Episode 801

01 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

It’s pretty much the nightmare scenario. Her new boyfriend gave her a digital picture frame. She mischievously sent him a nude, not knowing that it ...

Savage Lovecast Episode 800

22 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Hey everyone! Meet your new co-worker, and her …master. At the work party, the new gal showed up with her 24/7 master who fed her in front of everyo...

Savage Lovecast Episode 799

15 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Hoo boy do we have a goodie for you today.  First off, a woman and her boyfriend have been together for 2 1/2 years. They stay home, watch tv, play v...

Savage Lovecast Episode 798

08 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Ah Valentine’s Day. This year, Dan will finally teach you how keep it spicy...very, very spicy. Let’s tuck in. Inevitable Divorce: A man with a hi...

Savage Lovecast Episode 797

01 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

A man regrets breaking up with his girlfriend. He always does this! He ends his great relationships because his expectations are too high. Would she c...

Savage Lovecast Episode 796

25 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

That’s right, all of you who enjoy watching your partners sleep with others now are officially celebrated ALL WEEK LONG. And here at the Savage Love...

Savage Lovecast Episode 795

18 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Oh no, it’s a three-way gone bad! A woman and her fiancé agreed to sleep with their friend. She set her very clear boundaries, and guess what? He a...

Savage Lovecast Episode 794

11 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

A happily married trans man came out to his mom. She didn’t take it well. She told him that if he changed his name it would kill her. Then she died....

Savage Lovecast Episode 793

04 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Let us start the New Year with…blackmail! A woman’s boyfriend got ensnarled by an extortionist on a kink website who sent private sexual photos to...

Savage Lovecast Episode 792

28 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Happy New Year?  Boy oh boy, Dan tells a lot of people to break up on this episode. There’s the gay man with an older boyfriend who might want to g...

Savage Lovecast Episode 791

21 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Happy Solstice everyone, who’s up for some label salad? A cassgendered (look it up- we did,) demi, pan person has a partner who was assigned male at...

Savage Lovecast Episode 790

14 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Why was he such a bad lover? A woman hooked up with a younger man, and endured mediocre sex. He didn’t reciprocate oral, for instance. She blew him ...

Savage Lovecast Episode 789

07 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

CLEAN MY HOUSE. A woman has been seeing her new boyfriend for a few months. He is kinkier than she’s ever been, but she’s willing to try his thing...

Savage Lovecast Episode 788

30 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It’s a sexcess story...sort of! A woman tells us about how she relieved a 32 year-old man of his virginity. She recommends it! A woman had a wonderf...

Savage Lovecast Episode 787

23 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Happy Thanksgiving, and welcome to the homo takeover! We’re focusing on queers exclusively this week, so MOVE OUT OF THE WAY, breeders.  A newly so...

Savage Lovecast Episode 786

16 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

A group of friends get together regularly and do molly together. But there’s one dude in the group who gets a little too touchy feely with the women...

Savage Lovecast Episode 785

09 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Do you have queer imposter syndrome? This woman thinks she does. Now that she has her first girlfriend, a little, mean voice in her head tells her she...

Savage Lovecast Episode 784

02 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

A woman in an open relationship with her bi husband, will sometimes indulge in threeways with men. But these men almost always ask to film the fun. I...

Savage Lovecast Episode 783

26 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

A woman and her husband recently had their wedding celebration. She gave him the full hall pass to go party down with his pals and bring in some sex w...

Savage Lovecast Episode 782

19 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Our opening "Sexcess" story features a woman who discovered she's natural born pegger. After some initial reticence, now her man begs for it.  A gay ...

Savage Lovecast Episode 781

12 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Ok, exactly how many people need to be involved for it to be called an orgy?  A woman has been mulling over something that happened 20 years ago betw...

Savage Lovecast Episode 780

05 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

"Wait. Where did that flared base, glass butt plug go? Oh, that's right! It's still up my butt!" The caller tried to do everything right. But she migh...

Savage Lovecast Episode 779

28 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Wedding drama ahoy! A man's dad had a fight with his sister. Years later, the sister got married, and at her wedding, her dad orchestrated a big walk-...

Savage Lovecast Episode 778

21 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It's the sight that strikes fear in everyone's hearts: WHITE DREADS. One of his lovers has them, and just doesn't wanna cut them off. His other partne...

Savage Lovecast Episode 777

14 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

A woman had sex with her super-hot neighbor. Then she found out that not only is he unvaccinated, but uses a fake vax card. Should she continue to sha...

Savage Lovecast Episode 776

07 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever lost a dildo up your butt? This man has, but somehow the tale ends up as our opening "sexcess" story.  A 51 year-old woman is seeing a ...

Savage Lovecast Episode 775

31 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

A man's randy co-worker has slept with the wives of other workers and tons of women on the job. He nearly got fired for it, but he's back. Should the ...

Savage Lovecast Episode 774

24 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Everyone's worried that they are taking up too much space. A straight man feels guilty that he signed up for an activity meant for folks in the LGBT c...

Savage Lovecast Episode 773

17 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

On this episode, we are treated to a couple of calls concerning pronouns. One comes from a man who doesn't understand how to use the familiar 2nd pers...

Savage Lovecast Episode 772

10 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

A woman is sick of being a dirty little secret. Her boyfriend's ex-partner would withhold access to the kids if she found out about the relationship. ...

Savage Lovecast Episode #771

03 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Our opening "sexcess" story will make all the licensed massage therapists cringe. We are truly sorry. A woman and her girlfriend have gotten in the ha...

Savage Love Episode 770

27 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

A nice bi man just wanted to join a nudist community and hang out with his nudist homies, not wearing any clothes and being naked. He certainly DID NO...

Savage Love Episode 769

20 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Women beware! A new form of negging has emerged. If you followed a hook-up on Instagram, but he didn't follow you back, it could be INSTA-NEGGING. A t...

Savage Love Episode 768

13 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

A bi woman wants to try three-ways with her boyfriend. He enthusiastically agrees. But it's been a while since she's been with a woman, and wants to h...

Savage Love Episode 767

06 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Emily Post: What am I to do when I encounter my boyfriend in the basement enjoying large amounts of cocaine, in women's attire, with a gentleman ...

Savage Love Episode 766

29 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

After a dazzling "sexcess" story, we launch into three tales of dreadful parents. Conservative, manipulative, disrespectful, bigoted parents. If you h...

Savage Love Episode 765

22 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

A mother in Central America is worried that her son is being a little too risky when he walks home from the beach in women's clothing. When she confro...

Savage Love Episode 764

15 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Our opening "Sexcess" story should flood all you postpartum parents with optimism. A married straight couple has an arrangement where she can go outsi...

Savage Love Episode 763

08 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Sometimes the "happy ending" in an erotic massage can go both ways. Our caller enjoyed orally pleasuring his masseuse so much that he wants to continu...

Savage Love Episode 762

01 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dan! Dan! My dildos melted together in the drawer! Horrifically, this is not uncommon if you buy cheap-ass sex toys. A gay man is establishing a poten...

Savage Love Episode 761

25 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Our opening "sex-cess" story is extra delightful this week, because it centers the "Climbing Boy." Our caller advises you to get yourself one, pronto....

Savage Love Episode 760

18 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Boundaries are hard! For instance, a married couple of 12 years decided to open the relationship. So naturally, she started sleeping with her husband'...

Savage Love Episode 759

11 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

My, what a fetish-y show we have for you this week! Genital stretching? Check. Chastity belts? Sure. Piss play? Why not? Gainer/Feeder? Let's go!  In...

Savage Love Episode 758

04 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It's a boy! A pregnant woman upon learning the sex of her unborn baby is devastated that she's not getting the daughter she always dreamed of. Can she...

Savage Love Episode 757

27 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

"Soooo. About my daddy." A gay man has developed a pleasant non-monogamous sugar-baby/sugar-daddy relationship. How can he tell his dates and boyfrien...

Savage Love Episode 756

20 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

When your baby has a peanut allergy and your in-laws don't take it seriously, well, the sparks are gonna fly. The eternal question: can you make your ...

Savage Love Episode 755

13 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In our opening Sexcess Story, a German man offers this kind-hearted maxim: "It's hard to stay mad when you are covered in come." A man wonders if his ...

Savage Love Episode 754

06 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In our opening Sexcess story, a very delightful woman in her 60s has discovered that one wee edible before sex can yield untold orgasms. A gay man has...

Savage Love Episode 753

30 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Let the swooning begin. Dan brings on one of his heroes, comedian Nick Kroll to answer some questions and to talk about his show Big Mouth. They chat ...

Savage Love Episode 752

23 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Gather round. Hear the cautionary tale of the gaslighting vibrator thief. It's tough out there for a male gynecologist. A man in his Ob Gyn residency ...

Savage Love Episode 751

16 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

"Dear Miss Manners, Am I obliged to respond to the gentlemen I encounter on 'Grindr,' even if I am not in the least bit interested?" Dan counsels yet ...

Savage Love Episode 750

09 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

A gay man has started seeing a new guy. But the lad said he wanted to wait until marriage to have sex. This is highly unusual amongst homosexuals, don...

Savage Love Episode 749

02 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever been blocked? This man was! When he and his boyfriend of 6 months had their first big fight, they broke up, and the boyfriend slammed th...

Savage Love Episode 748

23 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Is it wrong to suggest to your unsuccessful internet date that she start seeing your roommate instead? A woman's friend-with-benefits pal is becoming ...

Savage Love Episode 747

16 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

A woman has discovered she has a taste for bisexual dudes. But so many are closeted, or don't lead with their bi-ness on apps. How can she root them o...

Savage Love Episode 746

09 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In the intro: You wanted to hear what Dan Savage thinks of the Armie Hammer scandal? Now he will tell you. A sugar baby had been seeing a married man ...

Savage Love Episode 745

02 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Sure, sure. He's a good boyfriend...during a pandemic. But when the covid glasses come off, will he still be right for her? After 20 years of marriage...

Savage Love Episode 744

26 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome to the sisterhood! A trans woman got aggressively propositioned by one of the men in her macho friend group. Another one slut-shamed her after...

Savage Love Episode 743

19 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

He took part in the Moderna vaccine trial, which puts him at the front of the line to get his shot. But he's a young, healthy man who works from home....

Savage Love Episode 742

12 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

When your wife is buddies with the MAGA crowd: Dan counsels a man whose wife hangs out with covid-denying, conspiracy theory-believing, Trump-loving s...

Savage Love Episode 741

05 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Ah, the pleasures of getting rimmed! But what if you are alone, during quarantine times? Is there a sex toy out there to help a lass get off? Starting...

Savage Love Episode 740

29 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

In our opening "sexcess story", how to turn your tiny quarantine apartment into a home sex-club discotheque. A woman has thoughtfully chosen to not ha...

Savage Love Episode 739

22 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Our opening "sexcess" story features a woman willing to indulge her boyfriend's drool fetish. A woman has come to understand that her husband has a be...

Savage Love Episode 738

15 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A woman needs a giant wiener to feel satisfied. That's just how it is. But how can she vet prospective partners ahead of time? How can she tell her cu...

Savage Love Episode 737

08 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A woman was listening to an anonymous confessional podcast, and heard her friend talk about being abused as a child. The caller is certain it was her ...

Savage Love Episode 736

01 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A woman is worried because her boyfriend claims he doesn't have any kinks. Is he covering something up? HOW CAN HE NOT HAVE ANY KINKS? A straight man ...

Savage Love Episode 735

24 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A man in his 60s is just like a teenager! But in the wrong way- he comes too soon. How can he resolve his little PE problem? After a man's girlfriend ...

Savage Love Episode 734

17 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever had to quickly mute yourself on a Zoom meeting because your girlfriend was getting spanked in the other room? Just asking. Dan brings ba...

Savage Love Episode 733

10 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Our opening "sexcess" story features a black light. You people are creative! Dan counsels a gay man whose boyfriend is so closeted and scared of his m...

Savage Love Episode 732

03 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Our opening covid-era Sexcess story features seniors in a retirement community huffing on ice bongs and getting it on. If they can do it, you can too....

Savage Love Episode 731

27 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A man and his much younger girlfriend decided to seek a unicorn through swinging apps. Her only rule was to set the age limit to women over 30. So, na...

Savage Love Episode 730

20 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A woman is considering becoming a 24/7 slave for a man in a don't-ask-don't-tell relationship with his wife. But maybe he's just cheating on the wife?...

Savage Love Episode 729

13 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A woman's friend is acting like a damn fool. Again. She plans to travel across the country to meet a man she met online, without even having spoken to...

Savage Love Episode 728

06 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A woman would like a gigolo please. Or two. She knows she could score a man for free, but likes the idea of paying for it. Is this possible? How? Whoo...

Savage Love Episode 727

29 Sep 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Some rando started following a woman on Insta. He confessed that he jerks off to her yoga photos. She told him she would have to charge him a fee for ...

Savage Love Episode 726

22 Sep 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A woman is still friendly with her ex-husband. So friendly that she sends him nudes which he pays for. But she just learned that he's re-married! Is i...

Savage Love Episode 725

15 Sep 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A woman was babysitting her neighbor's 3 year-old daughter. The girl took her clothes off and started touching herself. Should the caller say somethin...

Savage Love Episode 724

08 Sep 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A woman has had a LOT of sex, mostly with men. But she is realizing that she is truly only attracted to women. The problem is, when she talks to a hot...

Savage Love Episode 723

01 Sep 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A woman's husband had low testosterone, so he started taking T. But then, he turned into a total asshole! Is this normal? Is this just what testostero...

Savage Love Episode 722

25 Aug 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A woman started dating a transman. But then his personality completely changed. I this just a trans thing? Or a coincidence? A verse dyke working as a...