Savage Lovecast

Savage Love Episode 769

20 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Women beware! A new form of negging has emerged. If you followed a hook-up on Instagram, but he didn't follow you back, it could be INSTA-NEGGING. A t...

Savage Love Episode 768

13 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

A bi woman wants to try three-ways with her boyfriend. He enthusiastically agrees. But it's been a while since she's been with a woman, and wants to h...

Savage Love Episode 767

06 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Emily Post: What am I to do when I encounter my boyfriend in the basement enjoying large amounts of cocaine, in women's attire, with a gentleman ...

Savage Love Episode 766

29 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

After a dazzling "sexcess" story, we launch into three tales of dreadful parents. Conservative, manipulative, disrespectful, bigoted parents. If you h...

Savage Love Episode 765

22 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

A mother in Central America is worried that her son is being a little too risky when he walks home from the beach in women's clothing. When she confro...

Savage Love Episode 764

15 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Our opening "Sexcess" story should flood all you postpartum parents with optimism. A married straight couple has an arrangement where she can go outsi...

Savage Love Episode 763

08 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Sometimes the "happy ending" in an erotic massage can go both ways. Our caller enjoyed orally pleasuring his masseuse so much that he wants to continu...

Savage Love Episode 762

01 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dan! Dan! My dildos melted together in the drawer! Horrifically, this is not uncommon if you buy cheap-ass sex toys. A gay man is establishing a poten...

Savage Love Episode 761

25 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Our opening "sex-cess" story is extra delightful this week, because it centers the "Climbing Boy." Our caller advises you to get yourself one, pronto....

Savage Love Episode 760

18 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Boundaries are hard! For instance, a married couple of 12 years decided to open the relationship. So naturally, she started sleeping with her husband'...

Savage Love Episode 759

11 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

My, what a fetish-y show we have for you this week! Genital stretching? Check. Chastity belts? Sure. Piss play? Why not? Gainer/Feeder? Let's go!  In...

Savage Love Episode 758

04 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It's a boy! A pregnant woman upon learning the sex of her unborn baby is devastated that she's not getting the daughter she always dreamed of. Can she...

Savage Love Episode 757

27 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

"Soooo. About my daddy." A gay man has developed a pleasant non-monogamous sugar-baby/sugar-daddy relationship. How can he tell his dates and boyfrien...

Savage Love Episode 756

20 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

When your baby has a peanut allergy and your in-laws don't take it seriously, well, the sparks are gonna fly. The eternal question: can you make your ...

Savage Love Episode 755

13 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In our opening Sexcess Story, a German man offers this kind-hearted maxim: "It's hard to stay mad when you are covered in come." A man wonders if his ...

Savage Love Episode 754

06 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In our opening Sexcess story, a very delightful woman in her 60s has discovered that one wee edible before sex can yield untold orgasms. A gay man has...

Savage Love Episode 753

30 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Let the swooning begin. Dan brings on one of his heroes, comedian Nick Kroll to answer some questions and to talk about his show Big Mouth. They chat ...

Savage Love Episode 752

23 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Gather round. Hear the cautionary tale of the gaslighting vibrator thief. It's tough out there for a male gynecologist. A man in his Ob Gyn residency ...

Savage Love Episode 751

16 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

"Dear Miss Manners, Am I obliged to respond to the gentlemen I encounter on 'Grindr,' even if I am not in the least bit interested?" Dan counsels yet ...

Savage Love Episode 750

09 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

A gay man has started seeing a new guy. But the lad said he wanted to wait until marriage to have sex. This is highly unusual amongst homosexuals, don...

Savage Love Episode 749

02 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever been blocked? This man was! When he and his boyfriend of 6 months had their first big fight, they broke up, and the boyfriend slammed th...

Savage Love Episode 748

23 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Is it wrong to suggest to your unsuccessful internet date that she start seeing your roommate instead? A woman's friend-with-benefits pal is becoming ...

Savage Love Episode 747

16 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

A woman has discovered she has a taste for bisexual dudes. But so many are closeted, or don't lead with their bi-ness on apps. How can she root them o...

Savage Love Episode 746

09 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In the intro: You wanted to hear what Dan Savage thinks of the Armie Hammer scandal? Now he will tell you. A sugar baby had been seeing a married man ...

Savage Love Episode 745

02 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Sure, sure. He's a good boyfriend...during a pandemic. But when the covid glasses come off, will he still be right for her? After 20 years of marriage...

Savage Love Episode 744

26 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome to the sisterhood! A trans woman got aggressively propositioned by one of the men in her macho friend group. Another one slut-shamed her after...

Savage Love Episode 743

19 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

He took part in the Moderna vaccine trial, which puts him at the front of the line to get his shot. But he's a young, healthy man who works from home....

Savage Love Episode 742

12 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

When your wife is buddies with the MAGA crowd: Dan counsels a man whose wife hangs out with covid-denying, conspiracy theory-believing, Trump-loving s...

Savage Love Episode 741

05 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Ah, the pleasures of getting rimmed! But what if you are alone, during quarantine times? Is there a sex toy out there to help a lass get off? Starting...

Savage Love Episode 740

29 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

In our opening "sexcess story", how to turn your tiny quarantine apartment into a home sex-club discotheque. A woman has thoughtfully chosen to not ha...

Savage Love Episode 739

22 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Our opening "sexcess" story features a woman willing to indulge her boyfriend's drool fetish. A woman has come to understand that her husband has a be...

Savage Love Episode 738

15 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A woman needs a giant wiener to feel satisfied. That's just how it is. But how can she vet prospective partners ahead of time? How can she tell her cu...

Savage Love Episode 737

08 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A woman was listening to an anonymous confessional podcast, and heard her friend talk about being abused as a child. The caller is certain it was her ...

Savage Love Episode 736

01 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A woman is worried because her boyfriend claims he doesn't have any kinks. Is he covering something up? HOW CAN HE NOT HAVE ANY KINKS? A straight man ...

Savage Love Episode 735

24 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A man in his 60s is just like a teenager! But in the wrong way- he comes too soon. How can he resolve his little PE problem? After a man's girlfriend ...

Savage Love Episode 734

17 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever had to quickly mute yourself on a Zoom meeting because your girlfriend was getting spanked in the other room? Just asking. Dan brings ba...

Savage Love Episode 733

10 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Our opening "sexcess" story features a black light. You people are creative! Dan counsels a gay man whose boyfriend is so closeted and scared of his m...

Savage Love Episode 732

03 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Our opening covid-era Sexcess story features seniors in a retirement community huffing on ice bongs and getting it on. If they can do it, you can too....

Savage Love Episode 731

27 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A man and his much younger girlfriend decided to seek a unicorn through swinging apps. Her only rule was to set the age limit to women over 30. So, na...

Savage Love Episode 730

20 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A woman is considering becoming a 24/7 slave for a man in a don't-ask-don't-tell relationship with his wife. But maybe he's just cheating on the wife?...

Savage Love Episode 729

13 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A woman's friend is acting like a damn fool. Again. She plans to travel across the country to meet a man she met online, without even having spoken to...

Savage Love Episode 728

06 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A woman would like a gigolo please. Or two. She knows she could score a man for free, but likes the idea of paying for it. Is this possible? How? Whoo...

Savage Love Episode 727

29 Sep 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Some rando started following a woman on Insta. He confessed that he jerks off to her yoga photos. She told him she would have to charge him a fee for ...

Savage Love Episode 726

22 Sep 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A woman is still friendly with her ex-husband. So friendly that she sends him nudes which he pays for. But she just learned that he's re-married! Is i...

Savage Love Episode 725

15 Sep 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A woman was babysitting her neighbor's 3 year-old daughter. The girl took her clothes off and started touching herself. Should the caller say somethin...

Savage Love Episode 724

08 Sep 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A woman has had a LOT of sex, mostly with men. But she is realizing that she is truly only attracted to women. The problem is, when she talks to a hot...

Savage Love Episode 723

01 Sep 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A woman's husband had low testosterone, so he started taking T. But then, he turned into a total asshole! Is this normal? Is this just what testostero...

Savage Love Episode 722

25 Aug 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A woman started dating a transman. But then his personality completely changed. I this just a trans thing? Or a coincidence? A verse dyke working as a...

Savage Love Episode 721

18 Aug 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever gone snorkeling...naked? On a long anticipated second date? She has. Hear ALL about it... A woman's sister is *still* planning her 100 p...

Savage Love Episode 720

11 Aug 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A man's new boyfriend is really great in every way! Except...he believes in mythical creatures, thinks he has super-powers and that the government is ...

Savage Love Episode 719

04 Aug 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Our opening covid-19 "sexcess" story is extra special this week. You will never think of Tollhouse cookies the same way again. Don't you hate it when ...

Savage Love Episode 718

28 Jul 2020

Contributed by Lukas

An Irish man has found dating success with his "personal operating manual." After the second date or so, he slides over a piece of paper delineating h...

Savage Love Episode 717

21 Jul 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A man has been with his boyfriend for a year. The boyfriend's supposedly straight roommate gives intimate hugs and drops obvious homo hints when he's ...

Savage Love Episode 716

14 Jul 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A young gay man is having a great time with his boyfriend who is 14 years older than him. Can it last? How? On the Magnum, be charmed by comedian Jay ...

Savage Love Episode 715

07 Jul 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Hear the tale of the NB lesbian who snooped and found out that  the sex worker they want to hire makes more money than they do, and finds this unacce...

Savage Love Episode 714

30 Jun 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A gay married man faces a choice. He can keep his stable job, if he moves to...Kansas. Dan brings on Kansas State Representative Brandon Woodard to tr...

Savage Love Episode 713

23 Jun 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Thongs! They are so sexy! But when used as a face mask at the hardware store, what then? A woman has been dating a guy for a few months. He has one of...

Savage Love Episode 712

16 Jun 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Oh Jesus Mary and Joseph, our opening sex during quarantine story is scorching hot this week, hoo boy. A woman is working from home with her boyfriend...

Savage Love Episode 711

09 Jun 2020

Contributed by Lukas

At a business meeting, an older, sophisticated gay man gave a presentation with a couple buttons of his jeans undone. Was he sending a message? If so,...

Savage Love Episode 710

02 Jun 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A remote controlled buttplug? In the bath? This pandemic is getting pretty fun! A woman asks a question that so many of us are also wondering: is it s...

Savage Love Episode 709

26 May 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A married couple in an open relationship used to enjoy glory holes at play parties. Then along came some covid-19. But did that stop them? Hell no! Th...

Savage Love Episode 708

19 May 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A married man is sick of his military husband being overseas all the time. How can they make their  chronically long-distance relationship work?   O...

Savage Love Episode 707

12 May 2020

Contributed by Lukas

We open the show with a marital tale of delicious rug burn. It's the battle of the podcast Goliaths! Dan welcomes Marc Maron to the show, and the two ...

Savage Love Episode 706

05 May 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever done it hanging from a cliff in your mountain-climbing harness? This caller has. They named the climb "Quarantine." Meanwhile in Italy, ...

Savage Love Episode 705

28 Apr 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Hear the tale of the garden wanker, or "What Really Happens in the Asparagus Patch." Dr. Bummer is back! Our epidemiologist pal Dr. Daniel Westreich h...

Savage Love Episode 704

21 Apr 2020

Contributed by Lukas

This pandemic is getting sexier and sexier! Who's up for some Strip Ping-Pong? A gay man hooked up with a dude he had met a few months ago through an ...

Savage Love Episode 703

14 Apr 2020

Contributed by Lukas

We open with a quarantine sex story, in which a woman's boyfriend pulls on one of her dresses, and things get even better from there. A woman in a pol...

Savage Love Episode 702

07 Apr 2020

Contributed by Lukas

We open the show with a quarantine sex story featuring some very mysterious noises... Have no fear, Doc Barak is here! Dan brings on our long-sufferin...

Savage Love Episode 701

31 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Just when you thought you understood the world, Dan chats with open relationships guru Tristan Taormino, to tell you to CLOSE IT UP. Monogamy is where...

Savage Love Episode 700

24 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

This week, Dan's guest is epidemiologist Daniel Westreich, who spells out the concept of physical distancing, and why sexual intimacy is going to be p...

Savage Love Episode 699

17 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Here at Savage Lovecast world headquarters, in the heart of the epicenter of the Big Sick, we are keeping calm and carrying on, baby! Dan chats with D...

Savage Love Episode 698

10 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Sometimes people call us when they're drunk. Sometimes they call us about their dogs. Welcome to the center of this Venn diagram.  A woman has been i...

Savage Love Episode 697

03 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A gay man was hooking up at a bathhouse. His brand new lover wanted to bring a little romance into the encounter by saying the caller's name and compl...

Savage Love Episode 696

25 Feb 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A straight man was dating a woman, and it felt great. Until she gave him the "I'm not ready for a relationship" line. Is this always a lie? What does ...

Savage Love Episode 695

18 Feb 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A man is going through a divorce from his wife of 7 years. Although their breakup was peaceful, now her communication is curt and unfriendly. Is he en...

Savage Love Episode 694

11 Feb 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A young man has been dating a woman for a short time. She seems great...except. Except she is anti-abortion, and anti-gay in a lazy, not very heartfel...

Savage Love Episode 693

04 Feb 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A woman is hoping to find a monogamous partner who is also kinky. But when she puts the word "kinky" in her profile she gets flooded with ridiculous p...

Savage Love Episode 692

28 Jan 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever experienced conflict during a family vacation? The first call on this show might put it all in perspective for you. A protective big sis...

Savage Love Episode 691

21 Jan 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Scootch closer, ya'll. It's Bible study with Dan Savage. On with the show: A happily single woman finally broke down after pressure from her friend to...

Savage Love Episode 690

14 Jan 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Hand-wringing women, am I right? First we have a lady who feels guilty about masturbating at night when her partner is snoring next to her. And anothe...

Savage Love Episode 689

07 Jan 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Why, oh why (bemoans this woman,) is it that the indie, cool, female-owned sex stores never carry dildos that are big enough for her? WHY?! A gay man ...

Savage Love Episode 688

31 Dec 2019

Contributed by Lukas

It's kind of the bad actors show. A biting biter bit her boyfriend and drew blood. He didn't like it, so she calls him a baby. A dude wonders if can c...

Savage Lovecast #687

24 Dec 2019

Contributed by Lukas

A formerly repressed man is discovering his wild side. He and his wife like to do it in quasi-public in the mountains. He just got her a remote contro...

Savage Love Episode 686

17 Dec 2019

Contributed by Lukas

The show begins with an insecurity vampire. You know the kind. A person who sucks you dry with their endless need for praise and reassurance. This man...

Savage Love Episode 685

10 Dec 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Hot tubs. Are they a safe, relaxing haven or a menacing vector of disease? Here's a poly peril. What do you do when you really, really don't like your...

Savage Love Episode 684

03 Dec 2019

Contributed by Lukas

A man went on a date and he felt fireworks. But later that she told him that wasn't feeling it, but wants to be friends. He doesn't need friends. He a...

Savage Love Episode 683

26 Nov 2019

Contributed by Lukas

A man is getting re-married. Is it shoddy to use the same officiant as his first wedding? Dan talks to a woman who had a blurry encounter with another...

Savage Love Episode 682

19 Nov 2019

Contributed by Lukas

A woman is concerned about her friend. Why? Well, for one, she is in a 24/7 dom/sub relationship with an abusive ex-con. They have kids, and the frien...

Savage Love Episode 681

12 Nov 2019

Contributed by Lukas

A woman wants her boyfriend to pee inside of her. Cool, cool. But he is pee shy! How can he get over it? A woman and her man love threesomes with wome...

Savage Love Episode 680

05 Nov 2019

Contributed by Lukas

A young woman slept with her pal's ex about a year ago in one drunken evening. Now she is wracked with guilt. Should she tell her? A gay proofreader l...

Savage Love Episode 679

29 Oct 2019

Contributed by Lukas

A tale of two subs: What to do when both people in a couple are subs? Find one dom to rule them all? Take turns? A woman is super-duper annoyed that h...

Savage Love Episode 678

22 Oct 2019

Contributed by Lukas

A woman was apparently dating Genghis Khan. He told her he had had a vasectomy, but she got pregnant anyway. And so had a bunch of other women he date...

Savage Love Episode 677

15 Oct 2019

Contributed by Lukas

A woman has vowed to never date a Trump voter. But she lives in a small conservative town, and she's getting lonely... A woman did some sex work a cou...

Savage Love Episode 676

08 Oct 2019

Contributed by Lukas

An open-minded but shy woman has a gaggle of friends who all talk about sticking their fingers in their boyfriends butts- to everyone's delight. But t...

Savage Love Episode 675

01 Oct 2019

Contributed by Lukas

An anonymous LinkedIn contact has asked a woman if she would be his FinDom. He would give her money every week in a form of submission to her. But he ...

Savage Love Episode 674

24 Sep 2019

Contributed by Lukas

It's your typical story: Man has sex with girl who has only 2 fingers on one of her hands. Man never calls girl again because he only wanted casual se...

Savage Love Episode 673

17 Sep 2019

Contributed by Lukas

A married woman has just hosted her mother-in-law in their small apartment. After seeing her husband and his mother interact, she just doesn't fell li...

Savage Love Episode 672

10 Sep 2019

Contributed by Lukas

A woman's boyfriend used to achieve orgasm with ease. But now he can't come from penetration. The caller worries that in her boyfriend's eyes, she has...

Savage Love Episode 671

03 Sep 2019

Contributed by Lukas

A gay man is fed up with all the public sex at gay pride parades! It's bad PR! Enough already! Will Dan agree? Listen and find out. A woman is plannin...

Savage Love Episode 670

27 Aug 2019

Contributed by Lukas

What do you do when love being single, but also want that new relationship energy? A woman vents some righteous fury that many women don't find short ...