Savage Lovecast

Savage Love Episode 722

25 Aug 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A woman started dating a transman. But then his personality completely changed. I this just a trans thing? Or a coincidence? A verse dyke working as a...

Savage Love Episode 721

18 Aug 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever gone snorkeling...naked? On a long anticipated second date? She has. Hear ALL about it... A woman's sister is *still* planning her 100 p...

Savage Love Episode 720

11 Aug 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A man's new boyfriend is really great in every way! Except...he believes in mythical creatures, thinks he has super-powers and that the government is ...

Savage Love Episode 719

04 Aug 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Our opening covid-19 "sexcess" story is extra special this week. You will never think of Tollhouse cookies the same way again. Don't you hate it when ...

Savage Love Episode 718

28 Jul 2020

Contributed by Lukas

An Irish man has found dating success with his "personal operating manual." After the second date or so, he slides over a piece of paper delineating h...

Savage Love Episode 717

21 Jul 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A man has been with his boyfriend for a year. The boyfriend's supposedly straight roommate gives intimate hugs and drops obvious homo hints when he's ...

Savage Love Episode 716

14 Jul 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A young gay man is having a great time with his boyfriend who is 14 years older than him. Can it last? How? On the Magnum, be charmed by comedian Jay ...

Savage Love Episode 715

07 Jul 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Hear the tale of the NB lesbian who snooped and found out that  the sex worker they want to hire makes more money than they do, and finds this unacce...

Savage Love Episode 714

30 Jun 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A gay married man faces a choice. He can keep his stable job, if he moves to...Kansas. Dan brings on Kansas State Representative Brandon Woodard to tr...

Savage Love Episode 713

23 Jun 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Thongs! They are so sexy! But when used as a face mask at the hardware store, what then? A woman has been dating a guy for a few months. He has one of...

Savage Love Episode 712

16 Jun 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Oh Jesus Mary and Joseph, our opening sex during quarantine story is scorching hot this week, hoo boy. A woman is working from home with her boyfriend...

Savage Love Episode 711

09 Jun 2020

Contributed by Lukas

At a business meeting, an older, sophisticated gay man gave a presentation with a couple buttons of his jeans undone. Was he sending a message? If so,...

Savage Love Episode 710

02 Jun 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A remote controlled buttplug? In the bath? This pandemic is getting pretty fun! A woman asks a question that so many of us are also wondering: is it s...

Savage Love Episode 709

26 May 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A married couple in an open relationship used to enjoy glory holes at play parties. Then along came some covid-19. But did that stop them? Hell no! Th...

Savage Love Episode 708

19 May 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A married man is sick of his military husband being overseas all the time. How can they make their  chronically long-distance relationship work?   O...

Savage Love Episode 707

12 May 2020

Contributed by Lukas

We open the show with a marital tale of delicious rug burn. It's the battle of the podcast Goliaths! Dan welcomes Marc Maron to the show, and the two ...

Savage Love Episode 706

05 May 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever done it hanging from a cliff in your mountain-climbing harness? This caller has. They named the climb "Quarantine." Meanwhile in Italy, ...

Savage Love Episode 705

28 Apr 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Hear the tale of the garden wanker, or "What Really Happens in the Asparagus Patch." Dr. Bummer is back! Our epidemiologist pal Dr. Daniel Westreich h...

Savage Love Episode 704

21 Apr 2020

Contributed by Lukas

This pandemic is getting sexier and sexier! Who's up for some Strip Ping-Pong? A gay man hooked up with a dude he had met a few months ago through an ...

Savage Love Episode 703

14 Apr 2020

Contributed by Lukas

We open with a quarantine sex story, in which a woman's boyfriend pulls on one of her dresses, and things get even better from there. A woman in a pol...

Savage Love Episode 702

07 Apr 2020

Contributed by Lukas

We open the show with a quarantine sex story featuring some very mysterious noises... Have no fear, Doc Barak is here! Dan brings on our long-sufferin...

Savage Love Episode 701

31 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Just when you thought you understood the world, Dan chats with open relationships guru Tristan Taormino, to tell you to CLOSE IT UP. Monogamy is where...

Savage Love Episode 700

24 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

This week, Dan's guest is epidemiologist Daniel Westreich, who spells out the concept of physical distancing, and why sexual intimacy is going to be p...

Savage Love Episode 699

17 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Here at Savage Lovecast world headquarters, in the heart of the epicenter of the Big Sick, we are keeping calm and carrying on, baby! Dan chats with D...

Savage Love Episode 698

10 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Sometimes people call us when they're drunk. Sometimes they call us about their dogs. Welcome to the center of this Venn diagram.  A woman has been i...

Savage Love Episode 697

03 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A gay man was hooking up at a bathhouse. His brand new lover wanted to bring a little romance into the encounter by saying the caller's name and compl...

Savage Love Episode 696

25 Feb 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A straight man was dating a woman, and it felt great. Until she gave him the "I'm not ready for a relationship" line. Is this always a lie? What does ...

Savage Love Episode 695

18 Feb 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A man is going through a divorce from his wife of 7 years. Although their breakup was peaceful, now her communication is curt and unfriendly. Is he en...

Savage Love Episode 694

11 Feb 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A young man has been dating a woman for a short time. She seems great...except. Except she is anti-abortion, and anti-gay in a lazy, not very heartfel...

Savage Love Episode 693

04 Feb 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A woman is hoping to find a monogamous partner who is also kinky. But when she puts the word "kinky" in her profile she gets flooded with ridiculous p...

Savage Love Episode 692

28 Jan 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever experienced conflict during a family vacation? The first call on this show might put it all in perspective for you. A protective big sis...

Savage Love Episode 691

21 Jan 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Scootch closer, ya'll. It's Bible study with Dan Savage. On with the show: A happily single woman finally broke down after pressure from her friend to...

Savage Love Episode 690

14 Jan 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Hand-wringing women, am I right? First we have a lady who feels guilty about masturbating at night when her partner is snoring next to her. And anothe...

Savage Love Episode 689

07 Jan 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Why, oh why (bemoans this woman,) is it that the indie, cool, female-owned sex stores never carry dildos that are big enough for her? WHY?! A gay man ...

Savage Love Episode 688

31 Dec 2019

Contributed by Lukas

It's kind of the bad actors show. A biting biter bit her boyfriend and drew blood. He didn't like it, so she calls him a baby. A dude wonders if can c...

Savage Lovecast #687

24 Dec 2019

Contributed by Lukas

A formerly repressed man is discovering his wild side. He and his wife like to do it in quasi-public in the mountains. He just got her a remote contro...

Savage Love Episode 686

17 Dec 2019

Contributed by Lukas

The show begins with an insecurity vampire. You know the kind. A person who sucks you dry with their endless need for praise and reassurance. This man...

Savage Love Episode 685

10 Dec 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Hot tubs. Are they a safe, relaxing haven or a menacing vector of disease? Here's a poly peril. What do you do when you really, really don't like your...

Savage Love Episode 684

03 Dec 2019

Contributed by Lukas

A man went on a date and he felt fireworks. But later that she told him that wasn't feeling it, but wants to be friends. He doesn't need friends. He a...

Savage Love Episode 683

26 Nov 2019

Contributed by Lukas

A man is getting re-married. Is it shoddy to use the same officiant as his first wedding? Dan talks to a woman who had a blurry encounter with another...

Savage Love Episode 682

19 Nov 2019

Contributed by Lukas

A woman is concerned about her friend. Why? Well, for one, she is in a 24/7 dom/sub relationship with an abusive ex-con. They have kids, and the frien...

Savage Love Episode 681

12 Nov 2019

Contributed by Lukas

A woman wants her boyfriend to pee inside of her. Cool, cool. But he is pee shy! How can he get over it? A woman and her man love threesomes with wome...

Savage Love Episode 680

05 Nov 2019

Contributed by Lukas

A young woman slept with her pal's ex about a year ago in one drunken evening. Now she is wracked with guilt. Should she tell her? A gay proofreader l...

Savage Love Episode 679

29 Oct 2019

Contributed by Lukas

A tale of two subs: What to do when both people in a couple are subs? Find one dom to rule them all? Take turns? A woman is super-duper annoyed that h...

Savage Love Episode 678

22 Oct 2019

Contributed by Lukas

A woman was apparently dating Genghis Khan. He told her he had had a vasectomy, but she got pregnant anyway. And so had a bunch of other women he date...

Savage Love Episode 677

15 Oct 2019

Contributed by Lukas

A woman has vowed to never date a Trump voter. But she lives in a small conservative town, and she's getting lonely... A woman did some sex work a cou...

Savage Love Episode 676

08 Oct 2019

Contributed by Lukas

An open-minded but shy woman has a gaggle of friends who all talk about sticking their fingers in their boyfriends butts- to everyone's delight. But t...

Savage Love Episode 675

01 Oct 2019

Contributed by Lukas

An anonymous LinkedIn contact has asked a woman if she would be his FinDom. He would give her money every week in a form of submission to her. But he ...

Savage Love Episode 674

24 Sep 2019

Contributed by Lukas

It's your typical story: Man has sex with girl who has only 2 fingers on one of her hands. Man never calls girl again because he only wanted casual se...

Savage Love Episode 673

17 Sep 2019

Contributed by Lukas

A married woman has just hosted her mother-in-law in their small apartment. After seeing her husband and his mother interact, she just doesn't fell li...

Savage Love Episode 672

10 Sep 2019

Contributed by Lukas

A woman's boyfriend used to achieve orgasm with ease. But now he can't come from penetration. The caller worries that in her boyfriend's eyes, she has...

Savage Love Episode 671

03 Sep 2019

Contributed by Lukas

A gay man is fed up with all the public sex at gay pride parades! It's bad PR! Enough already! Will Dan agree? Listen and find out. A woman is plannin...

Savage Love Episode 670

27 Aug 2019

Contributed by Lukas

What do you do when love being single, but also want that new relationship energy? A woman vents some righteous fury that many women don't find short ...

Savage Love Episode 669

20 Aug 2019

Contributed by Lukas

A 76 year-old woman wonders if everyone is doing polyamory these days, or if there are any monogamous couples left. A woman's twin brother has become ...

Savage Love Episode 668

13 Aug 2019

Contributed by Lukas

A man keeps sending his female friends sexual texts and pics, later apologizing saying it was a mistake and sent to the wrong person. Both our caller ...

Savage Love Episode 667

06 Aug 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Is it common for straight men to be "secretly into dick?" Because that's what this woman's boyfriend is. A transwoman got together with a guy in a dun...

Savage Love Episode 666

30 Jul 2019

Contributed by Lukas

A woman is tormented that her partner of 7 years has not learned how to pee without spraying the area. Dan's response is both charitable and practical...

Savage Love Episode 665

23 Jul 2019

Contributed by Lukas

A woman has been dating a man for 4 months. She just read on his public blog that he thinks he isn't clicking with her. Should she admit she read his ...

Savage Love Episode 664

16 Jul 2019

Contributed by Lukas

A reasonable woman is about to visit her over-the-top Christian family. Her sister has invited her to join a book club when she's there. Guess what th...

Savage Love Episode 663

09 Jul 2019

Contributed by Lukas

A man still has hot videos he took of his ex. He loves his current girlfriend, but the sex isn't nearly as good. How wrong is it to view the historica...

Savage Love Episode 662

02 Jul 2019

Contributed by Lukas

It's the One-Minute Wonder Show! That's right. Your calls were one minute or less. Dan's answers were 2 minutes or less. We blasted through so much, i...

Savage Love Episode 661

25 Jun 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Just in time for your pride parade, it's the all gay episode! Calls by, for and about queer people. We got nervous lesbians who are scared to introduc...

Savage Love Episode 660

18 Jun 2019

Contributed by Lukas

A gay man is dating a self-described "Sex Pig." His antics in public are epic. The caller wants to figure out if he can learn to be more carefree and ...

Savage Love Episode 659

11 Jun 2019

Contributed by Lukas

With the ever-charming and fearsome Mistress Matisse. She came to our studio to help Dan answer questions about bruises (wanted and unwanted,) gang ba...

Savage Love Episode 658

04 Jun 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Here's a conundrum: A black, gay man is married to his white husband. They want to dive into threesomes, but the black man is only attracted to white ...

Savage Love Episode 657

28 May 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Here are the Savage Lovecast we've noticed that we'll get a bunch of calls on a particular subject all at once. This week it was abortion and weddings...

Savage Love Episode 656

21 May 2019

Contributed by Lukas

A woman is dating a man who used to be a sex addict. He slept with hundreds of women. Now their relationship is solid and monogamous, but his many for...

Savage Love Episode 655

14 May 2019

Contributed by Lukas

A man and his wife want to have kids. He would like to have a threesome before they do. Is it wrong to issue an ultimatum: "NO KIDS until we have that...

Savage Love Episode 654

07 May 2019

Contributed by Lukas

A woman keeps getting told to go home after she hooks up in the middle of the night. Don't any of these gentleman know how to make breakfast? A woman ...

Savage Love Episode 653

30 Apr 2019

Contributed by Lukas

A kinky woman enjoys having slaves. But the guy she really likes is vanilla. It didn't work out. This is sad. Does being kinky mean you can't have van...

Savage Love Episode 652

23 Apr 2019

Contributed by Lukas

A woman claims that over 90% of the time, her casual hook-ups end with the man orgasming, and she gets...nothing. And then! When she asks for a little...

Savage Love Episode 651

16 Apr 2019

Contributed by Lukas

A bisexual man and his girlfriend want to try a threeway with another man. But he has never been with a man before and feels anxious. The girlfriend j...

Savage Love Episode 650

09 Apr 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Look at her. She's only a lesbian when she's drunk! Why does she dream of a white picket fence with her loving wife by her side but only when she's ha...

Savage Love Episode 649

02 Apr 2019

Contributed by Lukas

A man often yawns soon after coming. He has to convince his partners that he's not bored. What up? A dutiful father worries that when he drops his use...

Savage Love Episode 648

26 Mar 2019

Contributed by Lukas

A woman has been dating her older boyfriend for 6 years, and she still hasn't met his kids. Does she have grounds for righteous indignation here? A wo...

Savage Love Episode 647

19 Mar 2019

Contributed by Lukas

A woman and her husband are having a difficult year. And to top it off, he divulged that he likes to wear women's clothes, and would like to raid her ...

Savage Love Episode 646

12 Mar 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Yowsers! It's the TRIGGER SHOW. This show is pretty gnarly. There's molestation, pedophilia, incest, snuff porn, dicks in a drawer, blubbering boyfrie...

Savage Love Episode 645

05 Mar 2019

Contributed by Lukas

A woman has taken up with two men. One of them is a pal, and it's all about the sex. The other one is her perfect fit emotionally, but the sex is on t...

Savage Love Episode 603

01 Mar 2019

Contributed by Lukas

A white man is dating an Asian man and tends to be attracted to Asian men. Does this make him a rice queen? Is it racist to be a rice queen? Can learn...

Savage Love Episode 644

26 Feb 2019

Contributed by Lukas

A man lives in a duplex below a couple women. One day, he heard them having sex, and it inspired him to have a wank. Now he feels guilty. Is he an Eav...

Savage Love Episode 643

19 Feb 2019

Contributed by Lukas

When bisexual friends go wild: A lesbian has been buddies with a bi woman for a while. Guess what happened when they got drunk! Now, the bi friend is ...

Savage Love Episode 642

12 Feb 2019

Contributed by Lukas

A woman makes twice as much as her boyfriend. When he learned this his eyes went wide. Now she feels guilty. Should she start paying more of the bills...

Savage Love Episode 641

05 Feb 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Hey uncircumcised fellas! Would you get cut because your girlfriend wanted you to? Because she thought that it made your dick bigger? Would you really...

Savage Love Episode 640

29 Jan 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Therapy is good right? It gets you in touch with your feelings. Unless...those feelings you are getting in touch with are jealousy, paranoia and posse...

Savage Love Episode 639

22 Jan 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Let's call this the BAD BEHAVIOR show, because some of you are doing terrible things. We start with a teen who has been sneaking off with her mother's...

Savage Love Episode 638

15 Jan 2019

Contributed by Lukas

A gay man is sick of always having to initiate with his new boyfriend. The boyfriend is a big guy, but very submissive. How can the caller get the dud...

Savage Love Episode 637

08 Jan 2019

Contributed by Lukas

A Jewish woman is bringing her boyfriend to the Hanukkah party. Great, right? But as always, there's a problem. He has a HITLER MUSTACHE. Because he "...

Savage Love Episode 636

01 Jan 2019

Contributed by Lukas

The first call of 2019 is all about public sex. So that's how things are looking. We then move on to a deep, methodical analysis of the life cycle of ...

Savage Love Episode 635

25 Dec 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Gather round the Lovecast Christmas tree children, and see what audio gifts we have for you! Why, here's a question from a power bottom who pees when ...

Savage Love Episode 634

18 Dec 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Australia, Hi! This is the Savage Lovecast. Listen. Do you guys refer to the very common sexual position where a man enters a woman from behind w...

Savage Love Episode 633

11 Dec 2018

Contributed by Lukas

A woman had sex with a pre-op transwoman. But she didn't make the caller come, or even try. Now the caller wonders if this is a "vagina-bodied" vs "no...

Savage Love Episode 632

04 Dec 2018

Contributed by Lukas

A man has tried group sex a couple times. But when he shows up his dick doesn't. What is going on here? Oh this story! A girl started seeing her thera...

Savage Love Episode 631

27 Nov 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Well looky who blew into town! Stormy Daniels came on over to our studio to answer callers' questions about blow jobs, toxic men, protecting the male ...

Savage Love Episode 630

20 Nov 2018

Contributed by Lukas

We have a word for a woman who sleeps with a straight couple. That's a unicorn, of course. But what should we call a man who provides the same service...

Savage Love Episode 629

13 Nov 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Here in Seattle, we have a sportsball team called "The Sounders." On the Savage Lovecast, well, it's another matter altogether. Oh look! It's Nancy, p...

Savage Love Episode 628

06 Nov 2018

Contributed by Lukas

A woman has been with her fiancé for 4 years. All of a sudden, out of nowhere, he's started moaning and groaning in bed like a porn starlet. Why the ...

Savage Love Episode 627

30 Oct 2018

Contributed by Lukas

A sugar baby has fallen in love with her sugar daddy. He loves her too! Except, he kind of doesn't want her to meet his actual daughter. Does she have...

Savage Love Episode 626

23 Oct 2018

Contributed by Lukas

In the intro, Dan and blogger/trans rights activist Parker Molloy fume over 45's latest anti-trans bluster. A straight man who is apparently just lear...

Savage Love Episode 625

16 Oct 2018

Contributed by Lukas

A couple adopted a disturbed dog, hell-bent on destroying their sex life! It jumps on the bed, and barks when they try to get busy, and whimpers, bark...

Savage Love Episode 624

09 Oct 2018

Contributed by Lukas

If you found out that your gal pal in her 20s had a hook up with a 17 year-old lad, would you call the cops on her? Should you? Ok, seriously. What is...