Savage Lovecast

Savage Love Episode 623

02 Oct 2018

Contributed by Lukas

A married couple's teen daughter gets super-irritated when her parents have noisy sex. She sends them snarky texts imploring them to stop. Maybe she i...

Savage Love Episode 622

25 Sep 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Parents, hear this cautionary tale: A man has been in his loving, kinky, poly marriage for 21 years. His wife accidentally clicked the wrong button an...

Savage Love Episode 621

18 Sep 2018

Contributed by Lukas

A woman enjoys anonymous webcamming with older men. But do they cross a line when they both pretend that she's... very young? A poly father doesn't kn...

Savage Love Episode 620

11 Sep 2018

Contributed by Lukas

A young woman's boyfriend regularly gets her sexually aroused and then rolls over and goes to sleep without finishing the job. And then they fight. Wh...

Savage Love Episode 619

04 Sep 2018

Contributed by Lukas

A woman's mother died last year. Her dad is dating someone new. The caller and her siblings just aren't ready to welcome their dad's girlfriend into t...

Savage Love Episode 618

28 Aug 2018

Contributed by Lukas

We start this week's adventure with a couple who have a secret unicorn at their beck and call. The wife in the couple doesn't want anyone to know. But...

Savage Love Episode 617

21 Aug 2018

Contributed by Lukas

A woman got together with what seemed to be the perfect man for her. Kinky. Into spanking. And social justice! But after they got together she discove...

Savage Love Episode 616

14 Aug 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Come hear the sordid tale of the couple who invited a woman over, only to have her wet the bed so thoroughly that she soaked right through to the matt...

Savage Love Episode 615

07 Aug 2018

Contributed by Lukas

A woman keeps dating men who hide her and won't acknowledge that she exists on social media. What on earth is going on here? A woman knows that her pe...

Savage Love Episode 614

31 Jul 2018

Contributed by Lukas

"Dan? If someone sticks a lollypop in my vagina, will I get a yeast infection?" Sincerely, the very first caller. A married woman was horrified to dis...

Savage Love Episode 613

24 Jul 2018

Contributed by Lukas

A woman who lives in a group house likes listening in when someone is having sex near her. Handwringing ensues. Is this unethical? Should she feel gui...

Savage Love Episode 612

17 Jul 2018

Contributed by Lukas

A lesbian is a divorcée at age 20. How can she tell her future girlfriends that she had spectacularly bad judgement when she was of a tender age? Hey...

Savage Love Episode 611

10 Jul 2018

Contributed by Lukas

A liberal, PC, feminist, woke man loves to humiliate, slap and call women sluts in the bedroom. (Always consensually.) How can he reconcile the two op...

Savage Love Episode 610

03 Jul 2018

Contributed by Lukas

A woman has started up with a great new guy. The problem? He kisses "like a robot." And not a sexy robot! How can she train him to kiss properly? A ma...

Savage Love Episode 609

26 Jun 2018

Contributed by Lukas

A woman's boss did something so nasty that she successfully prosecuted him and got him on the sex offender registry. But how can she get a new job wit...

Savage Love Episode 608

19 Jun 2018

Contributed by Lukas

A woman had offered an Amazon delivery guy a drink of water in her house, and gave him her phone number. One year later he started sending her nasty m...

Savage Love Episode 607

12 Jun 2018

Contributed by Lukas

A kinky woman is sick and tired of men assuming she's a horny slut ready for anything at any time. How can she explain in her dating profiles that she...

Savage Love Episode 606

05 Jun 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Mom discovered a portable pussy sex toy in her teenaged son's backpack. Are you a mother? Do you plan to be one someday? What will you do when you dis...

Savage Love Episode 605

29 May 2018

Contributed by Lukas

A woman was chilling with her male friend, you know, the way friends do, and sure, he wishes they were a couple, but she's not into him that way, so a...

Savage Love Episode 604

22 May 2018

Contributed by Lukas

A 60 year-old man has been dating a woman for 4 months. He wishes she would lose some weight. Oh, and also? She lost her breasts to cancer. Does he ha...

Savage Love Episode 602

08 May 2018

Contributed by Lukas

A woman's husband installed a hidden camera in their house. We aren't saying WHERE he installed it, but you should know that this call made us take of...

Savage Love Episode 601

01 May 2018

Contributed by Lukas

A married man and his wife are planning some swinging fun times. But one of the people who responded to his anonymous post is his high school pal! Sho...

Savage Love Episode 600

24 Apr 2018

Contributed by Lukas

You guys? We've been making this podcast for 600 episodes. How do we celebrate? By talking about pee pee! A woman who is about to get married is havin...

Savage Lovecast #599

17 Apr 2018

Contributed by Lukas

"Dear Dan. What is up with cock rings?" Dan is all too delighted to answer. A married woman is in an open relationship, and hooks up with a friend of ...

Savage Love Episode 598

10 Apr 2018

Contributed by Lukas

The kindly mother of a 12 year-old boy wonders if she should discreetly leave some lube by his bed as he learns to love him himself fully. A woman is ...

Savage Love Episode 597

03 Apr 2018

Contributed by Lukas

A woman went on a date, and everything went so well. Until...he disappeared without a trace. Did this man truly turn into a ghost? Dan calls her back ...

Savage Love Episode 596

27 Mar 2018

Contributed by Lukas

A straight man is having a hard time getting laid. His female friends tell him he has to be more aggressive and less respectful with the ladies. Dan w...

Savage Love Episode 595

20 Mar 2018

Contributed by Lukas

A trans man is losing his hair and worries that he won't be able to rock the hyper-masculine bald guy look. Can you be sweet, sexy and bald all at the...

Savage Love Episode 594

13 Mar 2018

Contributed by Lukas

After 10 years of marriage, a man is dismayed to admit that he married a jizz-hater. His wife detests the stuff and doesn't want to be anywhere near i...

Savage Love Episode 593

06 Mar 2018

Contributed by Lukas

A straight man knows he has the dreaded Madonna/Whore Complex. But how can he overcome it? A 47 year-old woman has just started working at a sex toy s...

Savage Love Episode 592

27 Feb 2018

Contributed by Lukas

A woman gave her husband permission to see an escort when he was out of town. But she didn't give him permission to spend a small fortune on her!! An ...

Savage Love Episode 591

20 Feb 2018

Contributed by Lukas

A gay man's boyfriend insists on showering just before sex, every single time. But the caller likes a little funk! How can they reconcile this fundame...

Savage Love Episode 590

13 Feb 2018

Contributed by Lukas

A woman is worried that a couple she's friends with will ask her and her husband to swing. How can she politely tell them that she and her husband don...

Savage Love Episode 589

06 Feb 2018

Contributed by Lukas

A female college student is busy planning her orgy. She wants to make sure the night is comfortable, fun and safe, with minimal awkwardness. Dan Savag...

Savage Love Episode 588

30 Jan 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Gather round, and hear two nasty tales of violent, crazy girlfriends. Would you date someone who painted all over your sheets and poured liquor on you...

Savage Love Episode 587

23 Jan 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Whoa, no way! It's Sarah Silverman! This week Dan caught up with Sarah Silverman to chat about her show "I Love You America."  They also answered som...

Savage Love Episode 586

16 Jan 2018

Contributed by Lukas

This week is no big deal. Our guest is just Cecile Richards, the PRESIDENT OF PLANNED PARENTHOOD. She graciously joined us to discuss her mighty organ...

Savage Love Episode 585

09 Jan 2018

Contributed by Lukas

A man is into being tied up and pegged. But his wife finds it dull, tedious, boring and stultifying. Should he give up on the idea, or find a way to c...

Savage Love Episode 584

02 Jan 2018

Contributed by Lukas

A woman is facing old school, mild harassment at her law firm, of all places. How can she learn to shut these men down without looking like a Grumpy G...

Savage Love Episode 583

26 Dec 2017

Contributed by Lukas

A woman struggles to advise her friend who is intolerant of her husband watching a little porn. Hear the dark drama of a gay man who made plans to get...

Savage Love Episode 582

19 Dec 2017

Contributed by Lukas

A woman's 13 year-old brother wants to shave his crotch. And now mom is FREAKING OUT and the whole family is in disarray over the pubes she found in t...

Savage Love Episode 581

12 Dec 2017

Contributed by Lukas

The kinksters have their "aftercare"- time after a rough sexual encounter to reconnect and comfort each other. But what about after casual vanilla sex...

Savage Love Episode 580

05 Dec 2017

Contributed by Lukas

A man is enjoying his new cool girlfriend. The thing is? She isn't an insane lunatic like his other girlfriends. Is this a problem? Oh man. This one's...

Savage Love Episode 579

28 Nov 2017

Contributed by Lukas

"Why won't my girlfriend go down on me?!" asks this nice man, who goes down on her plenty. Does she not like it? What? Nancy and Dan wring their hands...

Savage Love Episode 578

21 Nov 2017

Contributed by Lukas

A married man is deliciously conflicted as his wife sleeps with women. It turns him on at first, but then jealousy and resentment settle in. How to re...

Savage Love Episode 577

14 Nov 2017

Contributed by Lukas

It appears we have reached a cultural moment when we need "The Ten Dick Commandments." Dan chisels a few in the tablet. Gather round the circle listen...

Savage Love Episode 576

07 Nov 2017

Contributed by Lukas

Fire up a giant J-bone, brothers and sisters cuz it's the WEED EPISODE. With professional marijuana enthusiast David Schmader -author of "Weed: A User...

Savage Love Episode 575

31 Oct 2017

Contributed by Lukas

A woman from the UK wonders why Americans are so quick to commit to each other after just a little bit of sex. Dan's history lesson explains it all. A...

Savage Love Episode 574

24 Oct 2017

Contributed by Lukas

A married woman is totally accepting of her husband's newfound love of cross-dressing. But! She wishes he wouldn't borrow HER clothes. Dan interviews ...

Savage Love Episode 573

17 Oct 2017

Contributed by Lukas

A woman has been monogamous with her boyfriend for 5 years.  But she really wants to fuck the Swedish handyman. Should she fuck the Swedish handyman?...

Savage Love Episode 572

10 Oct 2017

Contributed by Lukas

The Kissing Clause: should kissing come standard in a relationship? Dan interviews Angela Robinson, the director of "Professor Marsten and the Wonder ...

Savage Love Episode 571

03 Oct 2017

Contributed by Lukas

Darling? Whatever shall we do at our coming trip to the Bondage Bed & Breakfast? A married woman gets busted by her husband for camming. She doesn't c...

Savage Love Episode 570

26 Sep 2017

Contributed by Lukas

A woman is considering finding herself a sugar daddy to make ends meet. Should she tell her boyfriend? A man has a friendly relationship with his ex-g...

Savage Love Episode 569

19 Sep 2017

Contributed by Lukas

This show begins and ends with circumcision. A woman is dating her first uncut man and wonders if Dan has any... tips. Then, at the end of the Magnum,...

Savage Love Episode 568

12 Sep 2017

Contributed by Lukas

A woman offers proof that sexual harassment is about power. One of her students, a gay man, sexually harasses her regularly. Why would he do this? A f...

Savage Love Episode 567

05 Sep 2017

Contributed by Lukas

A couple are dismayed that the condom keeps slipping off when they're doing it doggie style. Dan offers some time-honored tricks. Disability Awareness...

Savage Love Episode 566

29 Aug 2017

Contributed by Lukas

We start the show with a cavalcade of yucky calls about Nazis! Can a dom command his sub to come? Does this really happen? On the Magnum, Dan answers ...

Savage Love Episode 565

22 Aug 2017

Contributed by Lukas

What do you do when your best friend is dating a con man? A woman has been with her boyfriend for a year. He has a key to her apartment, and regularly...

Savage Love Episode 564

14 Aug 2017

Contributed by Lukas

A seemingly kind man only gets off when his girlfriend is in pain. She noticed this and plays it up to please him. Don't tell him this, but she isn't ...

Savage Love Episode 563

08 Aug 2017

Contributed by Lukas

On the opening rant: Coming Out 101. What happens next? A mother's pre-teen daughter wants to wear a leather S&M-style choker. How can mom explain why...

Savage Love Episode 562

01 Aug 2017

Contributed by Lukas

If your boyfriend wants you to help him to film women so he can scratch his voyeur itch, is there an ethical way to do this? Hear the sordid tale of t...

Savage Love Episode 561

25 Jul 2017

Contributed by Lukas

A gay man hooked up with a hot guy- great lover. But his micro-penis made the caller wonder if his lover was perhaps a transman. Should he ask him? Do...

Savage Love Episode 560

18 Jul 2017

Contributed by Lukas

A man's girlfriend won't let him watch Game of Thrones due to all the violence against women. Does she have the right? Should we all be boycotting the...

Savage Love Episode 559

11 Jul 2017

Contributed by Lukas

  If your Tinder guy can't get it up, should you move on, or give him a chance? A woman is dating a man 13 years her senior. Is this sort of age diff...

Savage Love Episode 558

04 Jul 2017

Contributed by Lukas

A gay marine wants to keep his dick locked up in a chastity cage. His problem is...wait. Isn't that first sentence enough for you? A straight man has ...

Savage Love Episode 557

27 Jun 2017

Contributed by Lukas

A man is just about to end his Grindr relationship with a dude whose girlfriend knows nothing of his exploits. Should he drop the info on this poor gi...

Savage Love Episode 556

20 Jun 2017

Contributed by Lukas

Wait. Are public orgasms ok now? A man and his girlfriend observed a woman having one, right there, out on the street, in broad daylight.   A gay man...

Savage Love Episode 555

13 Jun 2017

Contributed by Lukas

A woman is engaged to be married. She has been with about 80 lovers, and he has never been with anyone but her. He begs her to tell him all about her ...

Savage Love Episode 554

06 Jun 2017

Contributed by Lukas

A woman wants to try a three-way. But all the posts online are riddled with spelling and grammar errors. (Not sexy!) How can she forge a more classy c...

Savage Love Episode 553

30 May 2017

Contributed by Lukas

Oh, that nasty chef! A woman works in a restaurant where her manager is having an affair with the married chef. Sometimes the caller has to serve the ...

Savage Love Episode 552

23 May 2017

Contributed by Lukas

A straight male weight-lifter likes to shave his chest and pits. His friends are giving him grief about it. How can this sensitive strongman get over ...

Savage Love Episode 551

16 May 2017

Contributed by Lukas

A man and a woman used to date, but now they're just friends. The woman got married and doesn't want her rich husband to know that she used to date th...

Savage Love Episode 550

09 May 2017

Contributed by Lukas

A couple of ex-Mormons started dating. He broke up with her because she wasn't "nice." But don't worry everybody- he immediately came back to her. The...

Savage Love Episode 549

02 May 2017

Contributed by Lukas

A gay man living in Jerusalem wants to get with one of the orthodox guys who are always furtively eyeing him. But how can he make his move? A married ...

Savage Love Episode 548

25 Apr 2017

Contributed by Lukas

A man has been with his lady for one year. She has lost her sex drive, and asks for him to find ways to limit his libido. Should they try counseling? ...

Savage Love Episode 547

18 Apr 2017

Contributed by Lukas

A woman's in-laws have 12 cats. They won't travel to see the caller's family (including the 2 small children,) because they can't bear to leave the me...

Savage Love Episode 546

11 Apr 2017

Contributed by Lukas

Gather round, Lovecast listeners. Hear the tale of the pansexual housecleaner and the nasty surprise. Can a giant penis instigate menstrual bleeding? ...

Savage Love Episode 545

04 Apr 2017

Contributed by Lukas

A man gets turned on by the sight of his girlfriend smoking. The problem is, she doesn't smoke. We get our monthly sex toy review by the delightful (a...

Savage Love Episode 544

28 Mar 2017

Contributed by Lukas

A straight man is into pre-op transwomen in an odd way. He wants nothing to do with their penises, but just likes knowing they're there. In another pe...

Savage Love Episode 543

21 Mar 2017

Contributed by Lukas

A woman's father is planning to go to Russia to fetch his new mail-order bride. How can the caller convince her delusional father that this is not suc...

Savage Love Episode 542

14 Mar 2017

Contributed by Lukas

For all you Belle fans out there, a little advice: For god's sake, don't sleep with the beast! Dan and Salon journalist Amanda Marcotte tear down Disn...

Savage Love Episode 541

07 Mar 2017

Contributed by Lukas

Are you, (or is someone you love) stuck in a region which refuses to teach realistic sex ed? Never fear, Lindsey Doe from the YouTube channel "Sexplan...

Savage Love Episode 540

28 Feb 2017

Contributed by Lukas

A woman's 61 year-old father confided that he has discovered kink. Should she help to connect him to kink resources when she herself is vanilla, and a...

Savage Love Episode 539

21 Feb 2017

Contributed by Lukas

Savage Lovecast #539 A gay man has had small breasts ever since he was a kid. His lovers aren't so into it. He doesn't want to get them removed becaus...

Savage Love Episode 538

14 Feb 2017

Contributed by Lukas

A couple tricky pregnancy situations on this show: A newly pregnant woman has discovered that her boyfriend snoops through her personal stuff with no ...

Savage Love Episode 537

07 Feb 2017

Contributed by Lukas

A man's girlfriend moved to NYC to become a ballerina. But instead she's been boozing and eating food! Is it his place to tell her that ballerinas don...

Savage Love Episode 536

31 Jan 2017

Contributed by Lukas

    A married Canadian lesbian is about to meet the Syrian refugees that her parents are hosting. But she worries that they will not approve of gay ...

Savage Love Episode 535

24 Jan 2017

Contributed by Lukas

"Boyfriend, boyfriend, there's a lump in your testicle!" Should the caller deliver this news bluntly or keep her discovery to herself? A mother's 9-ye...

Savage Love Episode 534

17 Jan 2017

Contributed by Lukas

We are totally Trumping it up this week, guys. First Dan explains why it could be possible that DT is into piss despite his claim of being a germo-pho...

Savage Love Episode 533

10 Jan 2017

Contributed by Lukas

A man's friend came out when they were in high school. Now after a sojourn to the desert to "pray away the gay" the tortured closet case is "church hu...

Savage Love Episode 532

03 Jan 2017

Contributed by Lukas

A 45 year-old man has observed his 21 year-old niece putting up suggestive pics on Instagram. Would it be the correct avuncular gesture to talk to his...

Savage Love Episode 531

27 Dec 2016

Contributed by Lukas

In these dark times, there is a man to bring us joy. His name is Randy Rainbow. Dan and Randy talk about his brilliant YouTube videos, dealing with th...

Savage Love Episode 530

20 Dec 2016

Contributed by Lukas

It's the happiest time of the year here at the Savage Lovecast, as we gather in Portland and also Seattle (somehow) for our annual-ish Christmas Speci...

Savage Love Episode 529

13 Dec 2016

Contributed by Lukas

A woman is living at her boyfriend's house with his parents while he is away. Guess what! The dad has started kissing her on the mouth and tries to sl...

Savage Love Episode 528

06 Dec 2016

Contributed by Lukas

A poly woman is very happy with her much older dom. But ever since her mother saw some photos of her daughter all trussed up and naked, the boyfriend ...

Savage Love Episode 527

29 Nov 2016

Contributed by Lukas

A gay man wonders if it's possible to have a happy, healthy, poly triad. Can sex give you acne? Dan consults a professor of dermatology to get to the ...

Savage Love Episode 526

22 Nov 2016

Contributed by Lukas

Here's a happily married couple. He digs exhibitionism, which she indulged after taking a deep breath. She wants to try BDSM, but he isn't having it. ...

Savage Love Episode 525

15 Nov 2016

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome to the Savage Lovecast where we are ready to fight like hell to take our country back. Are you? Apparently, Trump-voting family members are a ...

Savage Love Episode 524

08 Nov 2016

Contributed by Lukas

A woman has been dumped by her boyfriend of 6 years. She is considering some sort of grand gesture to win him back. Should she throw a parade? Hire a ...

Savage Love Episode 523

01 Nov 2016

Contributed by Lukas

On the worst birthday EVER, a woman learns that her beloved long distance boyfriend...has a wife. If the wife asks her, should she lie for him? A man'...