Savage Lovecast

Savage Love Episode 553

30 May 2017

Contributed by Lukas

Oh, that nasty chef! A woman works in a restaurant where her manager is having an affair with the married chef. Sometimes the caller has to serve the ...

Savage Love Episode 552

23 May 2017

Contributed by Lukas

A straight male weight-lifter likes to shave his chest and pits. His friends are giving him grief about it. How can this sensitive strongman get over ...

Savage Love Episode 551

16 May 2017

Contributed by Lukas

A man and a woman used to date, but now they're just friends. The woman got married and doesn't want her rich husband to know that she used to date th...

Savage Love Episode 550

09 May 2017

Contributed by Lukas

A couple of ex-Mormons started dating. He broke up with her because she wasn't "nice." But don't worry everybody- he immediately came back to her. The...

Savage Love Episode 549

02 May 2017

Contributed by Lukas

A gay man living in Jerusalem wants to get with one of the orthodox guys who are always furtively eyeing him. But how can he make his move? A married ...

Savage Love Episode 548

25 Apr 2017

Contributed by Lukas

A man has been with his lady for one year. She has lost her sex drive, and asks for him to find ways to limit his libido. Should they try counseling? ...

Savage Love Episode 547

18 Apr 2017

Contributed by Lukas

A woman's in-laws have 12 cats. They won't travel to see the caller's family (including the 2 small children,) because they can't bear to leave the me...

Savage Love Episode 546

11 Apr 2017

Contributed by Lukas

Gather round, Lovecast listeners. Hear the tale of the pansexual housecleaner and the nasty surprise. Can a giant penis instigate menstrual bleeding? ...

Savage Love Episode 545

04 Apr 2017

Contributed by Lukas

A man gets turned on by the sight of his girlfriend smoking. The problem is, she doesn't smoke. We get our monthly sex toy review by the delightful (a...

Savage Love Episode 544

28 Mar 2017

Contributed by Lukas

A straight man is into pre-op transwomen in an odd way. He wants nothing to do with their penises, but just likes knowing they're there. In another pe...

Savage Love Episode 543

21 Mar 2017

Contributed by Lukas

A woman's father is planning to go to Russia to fetch his new mail-order bride. How can the caller convince her delusional father that this is not suc...

Savage Love Episode 542

14 Mar 2017

Contributed by Lukas

For all you Belle fans out there, a little advice: For god's sake, don't sleep with the beast! Dan and Salon journalist Amanda Marcotte tear down Disn...

Savage Love Episode 541

07 Mar 2017

Contributed by Lukas

Are you, (or is someone you love) stuck in a region which refuses to teach realistic sex ed? Never fear, Lindsey Doe from the YouTube channel "Sexplan...

Savage Love Episode 540

28 Feb 2017

Contributed by Lukas

A woman's 61 year-old father confided that he has discovered kink. Should she help to connect him to kink resources when she herself is vanilla, and a...

Savage Love Episode 539

21 Feb 2017

Contributed by Lukas

Savage Lovecast #539 A gay man has had small breasts ever since he was a kid. His lovers aren't so into it. He doesn't want to get them removed becaus...

Savage Love Episode 538

14 Feb 2017

Contributed by Lukas

A couple tricky pregnancy situations on this show: A newly pregnant woman has discovered that her boyfriend snoops through her personal stuff with no ...

Savage Love Episode 537

07 Feb 2017

Contributed by Lukas

A man's girlfriend moved to NYC to become a ballerina. But instead she's been boozing and eating food! Is it his place to tell her that ballerinas don...

Savage Love Episode 536

31 Jan 2017

Contributed by Lukas

    A married Canadian lesbian is about to meet the Syrian refugees that her parents are hosting. But she worries that they will not approve of gay ...

Savage Love Episode 535

24 Jan 2017

Contributed by Lukas

"Boyfriend, boyfriend, there's a lump in your testicle!" Should the caller deliver this news bluntly or keep her discovery to herself? A mother's 9-ye...

Savage Love Episode 534

17 Jan 2017

Contributed by Lukas

We are totally Trumping it up this week, guys. First Dan explains why it could be possible that DT is into piss despite his claim of being a germo-pho...

Savage Love Episode 533

10 Jan 2017

Contributed by Lukas

A man's friend came out when they were in high school. Now after a sojourn to the desert to "pray away the gay" the tortured closet case is "church hu...

Savage Love Episode 532

03 Jan 2017

Contributed by Lukas

A 45 year-old man has observed his 21 year-old niece putting up suggestive pics on Instagram. Would it be the correct avuncular gesture to talk to his...

Savage Love Episode 531

27 Dec 2016

Contributed by Lukas

In these dark times, there is a man to bring us joy. His name is Randy Rainbow. Dan and Randy talk about his brilliant YouTube videos, dealing with th...

Savage Love Episode 530

20 Dec 2016

Contributed by Lukas

It's the happiest time of the year here at the Savage Lovecast, as we gather in Portland and also Seattle (somehow) for our annual-ish Christmas Speci...

Savage Love Episode 529

13 Dec 2016

Contributed by Lukas

A woman is living at her boyfriend's house with his parents while he is away. Guess what! The dad has started kissing her on the mouth and tries to sl...

Savage Love Episode 528

06 Dec 2016

Contributed by Lukas

A poly woman is very happy with her much older dom. But ever since her mother saw some photos of her daughter all trussed up and naked, the boyfriend ...

Savage Love Episode 527

29 Nov 2016

Contributed by Lukas

A gay man wonders if it's possible to have a happy, healthy, poly triad. Can sex give you acne? Dan consults a professor of dermatology to get to the ...

Savage Love Episode 526

22 Nov 2016

Contributed by Lukas

Here's a happily married couple. He digs exhibitionism, which she indulged after taking a deep breath. She wants to try BDSM, but he isn't having it. ...

Savage Love Episode 525

15 Nov 2016

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome to the Savage Lovecast where we are ready to fight like hell to take our country back. Are you? Apparently, Trump-voting family members are a ...

Savage Love Episode 524

08 Nov 2016

Contributed by Lukas

A woman has been dumped by her boyfriend of 6 years. She is considering some sort of grand gesture to win him back. Should she throw a parade? Hire a ...

Savage Love Episode 523

01 Nov 2016

Contributed by Lukas

On the worst birthday EVER, a woman learns that her beloved long distance boyfriend...has a wife. If the wife asks her, should she lie for him? A man'...

Savage Love Episode 522

25 Oct 2016

Contributed by Lukas

A man has been with his boyfriend for 1.5 years. The caller's family is loving and welcoming to the boyfriend. But the boyfriend's family won't accept...

Savage Love Episode 521

18 Oct 2016

Contributed by Lukas

How is a sex worker supposed to deal with it when her clients keep quoting Donald Trump?! A woman is dating an insecure man who grabs her boobs at ina...

Savage Love Episode 520

11 Oct 2016

Contributed by Lukas

A woman asks her boyfriend to tell her erotic stories when they are having sex. Is this too much to ask? He's running out of plots. A distraught woman...

Savage Love Episode 519

04 Oct 2016

Contributed by Lukas

Dan welcomes Trae Crowder, or "the Liberal Redneck" (our favorite redneck) to tackle some questions about conservative Christian bigots, guns and spit...

Savage Love Episode 518

27 Sep 2016

Contributed by Lukas

A woman is horrified to discover her new boyfriend's disgusting habit. This habit truly is one of the most revolting things we've ever heard, and you ...

Savage Love Episode 517

20 Sep 2016

Contributed by Lukas

A lesbian is about to go to a wedding with a bunch of conservative guests. And guess who's going to be there! You'll never guess. Ricky Santorum! How ...

Savage Love Episode 516

13 Sep 2016

Contributed by Lukas

A man is seeing a woman 12 years his senior. His friends think he's nuts, but he's having a great time. Is there something wrong here? A married man h...

Savage Love Episode 515

06 Sep 2016

Contributed by Lukas

A bi man in a poly triad wonders how to bring home his couple to meet the conservative parents. A woman enjoys following men around for the feeling of...

Savage Love Episode 514

30 Aug 2016

Contributed by Lukas

Hey Chicago! We were in you! And we recorded the whole thing. Have a listen to our live show from last Spring at the Music Box Theatre. On the Magnum,...

Savage Love Episode 513

23 Aug 2016

Contributed by Lukas

A closeted bi woman, newly aware of her own bisexuality, feels guilty when she so much as hugs another woman. How can she get over it already? A lesbi...

Savage Love Episode 512

16 Aug 2016

Contributed by Lukas

Special guest ranter Ana Marie Cox tells us what it's actually like at a Trump rally. (Spoiler: terrifying.) A gay man is living in a group house with...

Savage Love Episode 511

09 Aug 2016

Contributed by Lukas

A young man living at home is getting blamed for his father's second divorce. That sounds like kind of a raw deal doesn't it? A man is in a GREAT rela...

Savage Love Episode 510

02 Aug 2016

Contributed by Lukas

A man has started dating a woman he suspects is a virgin. She's hot, but he doesn't want to have to teach her about sex. Should he bail, or give her a...

Savage Love Episode 509

26 Jul 2016

Contributed by Lukas

A woman is in a new relationship with a wonderful man! But! His ex keeps coming around leaving love notes, Victoria's Secret receipts and otherwise ma...

Savage Love Episode 508

19 Jul 2016

Contributed by Lukas

Last week, we asked our African-American listeners to call and speak their minds. Please listen to them at the end of the show. It's  the American th...

Savage Love Episode 507

12 Jul 2016

Contributed by Lukas

A woman with Catholic in-laws tires to figure out whether she should cave in to them and get her little baby baptized. Dan’s advice…may shock you....

Savage Love Episode 506

05 Jul 2016

Contributed by Lukas

The ins and outs of HUMP! Dan chats with Hump! Producer Tracey Cataldo about the Hump! Film Festival- what kinds of films you can expect to watch and ...

Savage Love Episode 505

28 Jun 2016

Contributed by Lukas

A woman has endured 10 years of sexual harassment from a creep she works with. How can she get him to stop without getting him fired? (Hint: It’s a ...

Savage Love Episode 504

21 Jun 2016

Contributed by Lukas

A tortured gay man can’t envision a world where it’s better to be out than to stay in the closet. Dan tries his darnedest to convince him. Hey fel...

Savage Love Episode 503

14 Jun 2016

Contributed by Lukas

Please listen to Dan’s heart-rending response to the Orlando massacre. In lighter fare... A 19 year-old bi lass worries that she’ll never get to t...

Savage Love Episode 502

07 Jun 2016

Contributed by Lukas

A man is dating a woman who stopped putting on make-up and fixing her hair. If he asked her to start gussying herself up again, would that make him, l...

Savage Love Episode 501

31 May 2016

Contributed by Lukas

Ever since her brother walked in on her masturbating as a child, our poor caller thinks about him when she’s fantasizing. How can she get her brothe...

Savage Love Episode 500

24 May 2016

Contributed by Lukas

This is our 500th episode. And we’re just getting started! This week, Dan chats with stoner, writer and delightful person David Schmader about his b...

Savage Love Episode 499

17 May 2016

Contributed by Lukas

What is the etiquette for when you run into someone who stood you up on a date? A woman’s friend is in a crappy marriage with 4 kids and a lying, ch...

Savage Love Episode 498

10 May 2016

Contributed by Lukas

A caller wonders if super-rich people are naturally less monogamous than the rest of us. In other inane questions, exactly which, and how many of One ...

Savage Love Episode 497

03 May 2016

Contributed by Lukas

A woman’s sister has been in a secret relationshipfor 7 years. Can or should she talk her sister out of what shethinks is an unhealthy relationship?...

Savage Love Episode 496

26 Apr 2016

Contributed by Lukas

It's the sex toy extravaganza! After receiving a preternaturally high number of questions about sex toys, we decided to bring in a crack team of exper...

Savage Love Episode 495

19 Apr 2016

Contributed by Lukas

Furries and Cheeseheads: Join us in Madison, Wisconsin as Dan loves up his old college town. He took about a million questions from the audience and m...

Savage Love Episode 494

12 Apr 2016

Contributed by Lukas

  A woman loves sexting with strangers she meets online. But she has no desire to meet in person. How and when should she let her fellas know this ab...

Savage Love Episode 493

05 Apr 2016

Contributed by Lukas

Let’s just say your girlfriend gets turned on by listening to you talk to other people on the phone. Would it be so, so wrong to keep the customer s...

Savage Love Episode 492

29 Mar 2016

Contributed by Lukas

The rarest of lovely creatures, a male unicorn, is ANGRY because he sees a double standard among the straight couples he joins. They reject him when t...

Savage Love Episode 491

22 Mar 2016

Contributed by Lukas

A straight man has begun a relationship with a transwoman. To put his question bluntly, is he obligated to suck her dick? How on earth is a nice gay m...

Savage Love Episode 490

15 Mar 2016

Contributed by Lukas

Aw sheeeeeeee, guys. It’s Abbi and Ilana from BROAD CITY.  Dan and the gals talk about period sex, pegging, smoking weed, beards and bumpkins among...

Savage Love Episode 489

08 Mar 2016

Contributed by Lukas

It’s the Valentine’s Day show! We recorded this at Portland’s Revolution Hall on February 14 in front of a very live audience. With musician/for...

Savage Love Episode 488

01 Mar 2016

Contributed by Lukas

A man raised fundamentalist Christian has discovered the pleasures of “titty-bars” where he can behold “beautiful boobies.” Now that he’s ge...

Savage Love Episode 487

23 Feb 2016

Contributed by Lukas

A mature 18 year-old has somehow failed to tell her real age to her new boyfriend who thinks she’s at least 20. How can she come clean? A man is tot...

Savage Love Episode 486

16 Feb 2016

Contributed by Lukas

A woman is thinking of surprising her boyfriend with another woman to have a three-way with. Can Dan talk her out of it? An evenly bisexual man had to...

Savage Love Episode 485

09 Feb 2016

Contributed by Lukas

A gay man wants nothing more than to watch strong men flex their muscles for him. His straight friend is willing…but would it be too weird? A woman ...

Savage Love Episode 484

02 Feb 2016

Contributed by Lukas

If you are a straight girl, is it ok to seek friendship with a lesbian? Even if she has a girlfriend? (Actual question. Actually asked.) A young man i...

Savage Love Episode 483

26 Jan 2016

Contributed by Lukas

A woman’s roommate up and left without notice, leaving  behind some expenses in the care of her sick, aged cat. Dan gets in full Judge Judy drag to...

Savage Love Episode 482

19 Jan 2016

Contributed by Lukas

A young woman is about to embark on a three-way with her boyfriend and another man. How can she make sure the experience isn’t demeaning? A gay man ...

Savage Love Episode 481

12 Jan 2016

Contributed by Lukas

What to do when your drunken cousin starts blabbing about all the affairs she’s having and all the cocaine she’s snorting and all the traffic acci...

Savage Love Episode 480

05 Jan 2016

Contributed by Lukas

In two separate calls, straight men are harassed by their gay male friends. One caller had his buddy drunkenly grope him. The other’s pal assails hi...

Savage Love Episode 479

29 Dec 2015

Contributed by Lukas

A woman has started “living her passion” by working as a webcam girl. But she’s nervous about telling her mother about her new career. How can s...

Savage Love Episode 478

22 Dec 2015

Contributed by Lukas

A woman’s husband makes unpleasant sexual innuendos and gropes her right in front of the kids. How can she get him to stop? Are you into puke porn? ...

Savage Love Episode 477

15 Dec 2015

Contributed by Lukas

A stoned gentleman is wracked with guilt for making the dog he’s caring for stop masturbating already! (Maybe he should be hitting the indica rather...

Savage Love Episode 476

08 Dec 2015

Contributed by Lukas

It’s the One-Minute Wonder Show! You asked your questions in one minute or less, and Dan tried to keep his answers brief, with diminishing success. ...

Savage Love Episode 475

01 Dec 2015

Contributed by Lukas

A man’s boyfriend went as a “slut” for Halloween. It turns out, this was a really bad idea. A woman loves getting tied up. But she also needs to...

Savage Love Episode 474

24 Nov 2015

Contributed by Lukas

As you gather around the Thanksgiving table to bask in the warmth and glow of your loved ones, here are some reasons you will feel thankful:  Your si...

Savage Love Episode 473

17 Nov 2015

Contributed by Lukas

“Bark! Bark! Bark!” That’s what a kinky woman’s dog will say when it hears her getting spanked. She worries that this might be a problem, and ...

Savage Love Episode 472

10 Nov 2015

Contributed by Lukas

Hear the sordid tale of what the gay man saw when he woke up to find his boyfriend absent from the guest bed while they were visiting a …friend. Mea...

Savage Love Episode 471

03 Nov 2015

Contributed by Lukas

It’s episode 420! Oh wait. No it isn’t. We totally spaced episode 420. But better late than never! Dan, Nancy and the Tech-Savvy, At-Risk Youth jo...

Savage Love Episode 470

27 Oct 2015

Contributed by Lukas

In the opening rant, Dan finally opens up and tells us what he *really* thinks of the Catholic Church. Hear the strange and seedy tale of a male lap d...

Savage Love Episode 469

20 Oct 2015

Contributed by Lukas

How can a man convince his lady to give him the kind of sloppy head that makes her gag? It’s not like he’s anti-feminist or anything! A woman’s ...

Savage Love Episode 468

13 Oct 2015

Contributed by Lukas

At the top of the show, Dan speaks with a clever lass with a foolproof plan to ensure the defeat of Canada’s dreadful Stephen Harper. A man is very ...

Savage Love Episode 467

06 Oct 2015

Contributed by Lukas

Dan has some helpful suggestions for the NRA! A woman saw a man exposing himself outside a family-friendly restaurant. She called the cops. Was this w...

Savage Love Episode 466

29 Sep 2015

Contributed by Lukas

A woman who identified as lesbian of 15 years (with a wife even,) has taken a younger, male lover. So, how is this gonna work? A man’s girlfriend in...

Savage Love Episode 465

22 Sep 2015

Contributed by Lukas

  It’s the dick show! Do you have one? (Or are you one?) Gather around for a “What You Got?” with Dr. Cynthia Graham about condoms and male sen...

Savage Love Episode 464

15 Sep 2015

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever loved someone so much, even though you’ve known them for only 6 weeks, that when they break up with you, you call a sex advice podcast...

Savage Love Episode 463

08 Sep 2015

Contributed by Lukas

It’s the “Let’s Decriminalize Sex Work” episode! Dan chats with Vox writer German Lopez on the evidence which shows the benefits of legalizing...

Savage Love Episode 462

01 Sep 2015

Contributed by Lukas

A man has entered into a committed poly triad… and mom’s not having it. How can the caller get his mother to accept his other girlfriend?  Dan’...

Savage Love Episode 461

25 Aug 2015

Contributed by Lukas

Pee drinking in the UK: How common is it? Do mates drink each other’s urine routinely, or do they have to kind of know each other a little better? A...

Savage Love Episode 460

18 Aug 2015

Contributed by Lukas

Dan and Peter Sagal, host of NPR’s “Wait Wait… Don’t Tell Me” join forces to discuss baptism, Jewish vs Catholic guilt, clingy, needy human ...

Savage Love Episode 459

11 Aug 2015

Contributed by Lukas

Dan on the Republican empathy gap. Why does the Republican party care so much about Fox News’ Megyn Kelly, but not so much about you?  A woman does...

Savage Love Episode 458

04 Aug 2015

Contributed by Lukas

Dan speaks to an actual lesbian about how to get started in the homosexual lifestyle.  Also hear the sordid tale of the evil rock star training an ar...

Savage Love Episode 457

28 Jul 2015

Contributed by Lukas

A woman feels so insecure about the way her vagina looks, she won’t let her boyfriend near it. How can he convince her that she is beautiful all ove...

Savage Love Episode 456

21 Jul 2015

Contributed by Lukas

After a wedding guest sat and endured some anti-gay loony talk from a bigoted pastor, a woman wonders what she could have done better. Walk out? Audib...

Savage Love Episode 455

14 Jul 2015

Contributed by Lukas

An opening rant on Zachery Anderson, who was unfairly imprisoned and put on the sex offenders registry, because an uptight judge wants you to know tha...

Savage Love Episode 454

07 Jul 2015

Contributed by Lukas

While you and I danced in the streets, Dan was trapped in Australia, where marriage equality is NOT YET LEGAL. Hear his thoughts on the Supreme Court ...