Savage Lovecast

Savage Love Episode 138

09 Jun 2009

Contributed by Lukas

First, a semantics discussion. Does the word "fetish" have to be so very dirty? A man in his 20s wonders if he can calm his brain down and curb his de...

Savage Love Episode 137

02 Jun 2009

Contributed by Lukas

Poly pain: It's so sad when one person wants to open the relationship and the other doesn't. You know what else is sad? When your boyfriend tells you ...

Savage Love Episode 136

26 May 2009

Contributed by Lukas

A woman wonders if she lacks a clitoris. Dan speaks with a guest human-sexuality expert to get the answer. A 19-year-old REALLY doesn't want to get hi...

Savage Love Episode 135

19 May 2009

Contributed by Lukas

A potentially kinky female college nerd is having a hard time finding others of her ilk. A gay man wants to come out to his longtime conservative reli...

Savage Love Episode 134

12 May 2009

Contributed by Lukas

Obama has yanked funding for abstinence-only education. But the damage is done. Just how dumb is our children? Boy likes girl. Girl likes boy. But boy...

Savage Love Episode 133

05 May 2009

Contributed by Lukas

A caller, speaking for all the unrealizable fetishists of the world, reassures Dan that he needn't worry so much. Dog custody: the problem with visiti...

Savage Love Episode 132

28 Apr 2009

Contributed by Lukas

OMG! After we stayed at my aunt and uncle's place, they totally found a used condom and some lube! But it wasn't ours! Should a gay man come out to hi...

Savage Love Episode 131

21 Apr 2009

Contributed by Lukas

Centaur fetishists are coming out of the woodwork! Has anybody heard of the "A-Spot," or is Cosmopolitan magazine fucking with our heads? Are kid-shap...

Savage Love Episode 130

14 Apr 2009

Contributed by Lukas

A gal threw up a little orange soda while going down on her fella. Disaster or no biggie? On the raging controversy of penis versus vagina, DAN GETS S...

Savage Love Episode 129

07 Apr 2009

Contributed by Lukas

A 25-year-old virgin man never enjoyed sexual activity until he fixed the medical problem with his dick. Now how can he explain his late virginity? A ...

Savage Love Episode 128

31 Mar 2009

Contributed by Lukas

Men who love pegging, and the ladies willing to oblige them. Two sordid tales. Women are supposed to have their sexual peak in their 30s. Here's a wom...

Savage Love Episode 127

24 Mar 2009

Contributed by Lukas

A formerly obese gay teen worries about his stretch marks. A man can't come, not even when drunk. A woman worries that she will soon be an unwilling d...

Savage Love Episode 126

17 Mar 2009

Contributed by Lukas

A doctor who is against vasectomies? WTF??!! An ugly man implores other ugly men to lower their expectations. More cock-hungry lesbians, and other del...

Savage Love Episode 125

10 Mar 2009

Contributed by Lukas

Here's a brainteaser: If a man is into sounding, could he possibly stretch his urethra out so much that he can have the equivalent of a pussy fart, on...

Savage Love Episode 124

03 Mar 2009

Contributed by Lukas

A sexually adventurous lass must lure her lover out of their boring old bed. A twisted teen dreams of impregnating his girlfriend. To answer a trans q...

Savage Love Episode 123

24 Feb 2009

Contributed by Lukas

A man and his lady just broke through the condom. She took Plan B, but how likely is it that she is now pregnant? A libido-lacking lass would prefer c...

Savage Love Episode 122

17 Feb 2009

Contributed by Lukas

Poor, poor caller. His dick is so big that his friends make fun of his "magnum" sized condoms. A married woman in an open relationship wonders if it's...

Savage Love Episode 121

10 Feb 2009

Contributed by Lukas

How do you gently tell your girlfriend that the other girl in a three-way gives better head? Dan speaks with Wayne Besen from Truth Wins Out about the...

Savage Love Episode 120

03 Feb 2009

Contributed by Lukas

Her boyfriend got caught in a stinky lie. Are there more to come? Poor young kinky lady-… all the men she meets at sex clubs are dirty old men. The ...

Savage Love Episode 119

27 Jan 2009

Contributed by Lukas

His dick is shaped so crazy, he can't find a condom to fit the thing! What is the polite way to kick the third in your three-way out of your bed? Craz...

Savage Love Episode 118

20 Jan 2009

Contributed by Lukas

One caller has got herself a crossdressing grandpa. Another caller has got himself a psycho girlfriend. Yet another caller has a boyfriend who's asham...

Savage Love Episode 117

13 Jan 2009

Contributed by Lukas

Is impotence a silent epidemic afflicting our nation's menfolk? Why would anybody want to be friends with an ex? What on earth is that brown fluid? Th...

Savage Love Episode 116

06 Jan 2009

Contributed by Lukas

A couple weeks ago, "Macho" asked the question on many chagrined straight men's minds: Why do so many fem lesbians prefer butch dykes over men? The le...

Savage Love Episode 115

30 Dec 2008

Contributed by Lukas

Happy New Year to our perverted listeners. Be the first to call in 2009: 206-302-2064 Today's episode is brought to you by AdamandEve.com.

Savage Love Episode 114

23 Dec 2008

Contributed by Lukas

The birth of Christ doesn't stop us from dishing out a show chock-full of topics like toe-sucking, sexual loss of bowel control, and sticking metal ro...

Savage Love Episode 113

16 Dec 2008

Contributed by Lukas

A 70-year-old man finds himself addicted to the expensive charms of a "financial dominatrix." A woman's husband can't be bothered to use the vibrator ...

Savage Love Episode 112

09 Dec 2008

Contributed by Lukas

Drunken hookups—they're so wonderful when you're drunk. How can you keep up the casual sex sans alcohol? Mother, here's my wife... now meet our girl...

Savage Love Episode 111

02 Dec 2008

Contributed by Lukas

On this week's Savage Lovecast: A man is jealous of his wife's wild past (things like having sex in the back of a police car). A woman discovers that ...

Savage Love Episode 110

25 Nov 2008

Contributed by Lukas

Pubes removal. What's a girl who dislikes shaving, Nair, plucking, and waxing--and can’t afford laser--to do? Latex and latkes. A young man was attr...

Savage Love Episode 109

18 Nov 2008

Contributed by Lukas

Jesus had two daddies.… Get ready for a very ranty, very political, very gay-marriage-obsessed show. Need a pep talk? Listen in. Also: smelly dick p...

Savage Love Episode 108

11 Nov 2008

Contributed by Lukas

A woman's Brazilian boyfriend tells her that if she got fat it would be a deal breaker. Should his deal breaker be a deal breaker for her? A father fr...

Savage Love Episode 107

04 Nov 2008

Contributed by Lukas

A very hot personal trainer can't understand why he keeps getting objectified. His girlfriend says she doesn't like getting licked off. What up? A Tex...

Savage Love Episode 106

28 Oct 2008

Contributed by Lukas

Cantaloupes: orb of pleasure or deadly danger? A 21-year-old college student is dating a 17-year-old. But she is SO IMMATURE. A GGG gal is dating a vi...

Savage Love Episode 105

21 Oct 2008

Contributed by Lukas

What's a good, giving, and game gal to do when her anal-loving hubby's dick is too thick? A formerly single lady now finds herself feeling clingy and ...

Savage Love Episode 104

14 Oct 2008

Contributed by Lukas

A serial monogamist wonders if he's addicted to girls. A young lady's mother HATES her boyfriend. But she's paying the BILLS! Is it a bad sign when yo...

Savage Love Episode 103

07 Oct 2008

Contributed by Lukas

In the weepiest call ever, a woman breaks up with her boyfriend rather than let him leave his children for her. But he also sounds like a creep. What ...

Savage Love Episode 102

30 Sep 2008

Contributed by Lukas

A whole lot of S&M in this one, folks. We've got a piss rapist, a reluctant rape fetishist, a bottom learning how to become a top (by popping balloons...

Savage Love Episode 101

23 Sep 2008

Contributed by Lukas

Dan welcomes back his old Savage Love Live radio-show cohost and college sweetheart Mary Martone for a very special guest appearance. Topics covered: ...

Savage Love Episode 100

16 Sep 2008

Contributed by Lukas

In this very special 100th episode, America's favorite homo Dan Savage attempts to save the marriages of six straight couples. 206-302-2064 This episo...

Savage Love Episode 99

09 Sep 2008

Contributed by Lukas

A horndog keeps dating ladies who don't want to have sex. Now he's bugging out. A nonorgasmic woman is making a lot of noise during sex, but she's not...

Savage Love Episode 98

02 Sep 2008

Contributed by Lukas

A boyfriend who wants to be kicked in the balls, an exhibitionist neighbor, a stalker, and a cheating uncle all await you on Dan Savage's beloved call...

Savage Love Episode 97

26 Aug 2008

Contributed by Lukas

Dan Savage and professional dominatrix Mistress Matisse yap about kink, S&M, dungeon life, and Catholic priests. Check out the Mistress at MistressMat...

Savage Love Episode 96

19 Aug 2008

Contributed by Lukas

Two tales of parental meddling: A woman is in a happily open relationship with her boyfriend. But her parents don't know they're both free to see othe...

Savage Love Episode 95

12 Aug 2008

Contributed by Lukas

It's the medical episode! Somehow Dan conned his long-suffering medical expert from the University of Washington to answer your questions. Questions s...

Savage Love Episode 94

05 Aug 2008

Contributed by Lukas

The nuclear option: A man is threatening to tell his girlfriend's controlling family all about their sex life if they won't stop meddling. But who's c...

Savage Love Episode 93

29 Jul 2008

Contributed by Lukas

Jiminy Crickets! A man's unconventional masturbation style has his girlfriend rather concerned. Will it result in the dreaded Death Grip Syndrome? An ...

Savage Love Episode 92

22 Jul 2008

Contributed by Lukas

We open the show with a couple of cute fellas who just can't seem to meet people, despite their scorching hot looks and charming personalities. Does s...

Savage Love Episode 91

15 Jul 2008

Contributed by Lukas

This week on the Savage Lovecast, must a man follow his girlfriend to a shitty city so she can go to grad school? A gay man wants to get double penetr...

Savage Love Episode 90

08 Jul 2008

Contributed by Lukas

This week on the Savage Lovecast, Dan always tells couples to wait until they're older to get married. But what if they want to have children? That bi...

Savage Love Episode 89

01 Jul 2008

Contributed by Lukas

Down there hair: Must we remove it? Bad date: After a woman endures a super-creepy date, the fellow is still trying to contact her and pries her frien...

Savage Love Episode 88

24 Jun 2008

Contributed by Lukas

The 34-year-old Dan Savage tackles the following questions: If you're into older guys, will you always be into older guys? Like even when you're old? ...

Savage Love Episode 87

17 Jun 2008

Contributed by Lukas

Blood and Sugar: Today's episode spans many topics, including ladies who get compensated for their sweet time. One caller is falling in love with her ...

Savage Love Episode 86

10 Jun 2008

Contributed by Lukas

How can a 21-year-old straight college student meet girls who will indulge his desire to be forced to clean their houses? After a rancorous break-up, ...

Savage Love Episode 85

03 Jun 2008

Contributed by Lukas

Lesbian Poly Drama: She stole her best friend's wife. How can she get rid of all that pesky guilt? Cheaters: One man in a four-year relationship wants...

Savage Love Episode 84

27 May 2008

Contributed by Lukas

He thinks he's a 61-year-old sex machine; she just likes the money he pays her. Should she keep pretending to enjoy the oral sex her sugar daddy insis...

Savage Love Episode 83

20 May 2008

Contributed by Lukas

Join Dan Savage and guest star Cory Silverberg in a very special sex-with-disabilities episode of the Savage Lovecast. Also, a follow-up call from the...

Savage Love Episode 82

13 May 2008

Contributed by Lukas

A former call girl is dating a conservative man. Should she tell him about her history with "compensated dating?" If you are a straight man, what is t...

Savage Love Episode 81

06 May 2008

Contributed by Lukas

My, what a fabulously GAY show we have for you this week. First, a woman notices that though normally heterosexual, she tends to go gay at certain tim...

Savage Love Episode 80

29 Apr 2008

Contributed by Lukas

In a house full of college intrigue, the caller's roommate has invited his French mistress to come visit. Should the roommate bother telling his Ameri...

Savage Love Episode 79

22 Apr 2008

Contributed by Lukas

Today's Savage Lovecast features a lot of fellas who need fixin'. Go Down, Young Man: A woman's boyfriend won't go there. Should she school him or tol...

Savage Love Episode 78

15 Apr 2008

Contributed by Lukas

He's back! A married man is having an affair: Does this make him a shit? Another married man is so horny he's "going bananas!" A lesbian ruminates on ...

Savage Love Episode 77

08 Apr 2008

Contributed by Lukas

Dan is still taking some time off, so here's a rerun from last May. We'll be back with fresh episodes soon. Keep the calls coming: 206-302-2064.

Savage Love Episode 76

01 Apr 2008

Contributed by Lukas

Dan's off this week, so we dug up this goodie from last October. Perhaps you remember the morality tale of the lady who fucked her concierge? How abou...

Savage Love Episode 75

26 Mar 2008

Contributed by Lukas

This week on the Savage Lovecast, a female-to-male trans who'’s not sure how to use the men’s bathroom, a father discovers his 4- and 5-year-old c...

Savage Love Episode 74

18 Mar 2008

Contributed by Lukas

It's a fag-hag bonanza! We were flooded with calls from fags, their hags, and tales from the heart of this twisted, tender relationship. Call 206-302-...

Savage Love Episode 73

11 Mar 2008

Contributed by Lukas

The perfect couple: A master snooper is paired up with a chronic cheater. What could be better? A straight man freshly out of a relationship has found...

Savage Love Episode 72

04 Mar 2008

Contributed by Lukas

A straight woman with a high libido is stuck with a man who feels that there are better things to do than have sex. DTMFA? A gay man is stuck with a m...

Savage Love Episode 71

26 Feb 2008

Contributed by Lukas

Time limit: Her boyfriend says he loves her, but he's not "in love" with her. How long should she put up with this sort of nonsense? Bitch: If you thi...

Savage Love Episode 70

19 Feb 2008

Contributed by Lukas

Sisterhood is powerful. And so are blowjobs. A caller explains to Dan and all female listeners that a blowjob bestows tremendous power on the blower o...

Savage Love Episode 69

12 Feb 2008

Contributed by Lukas

A married man is aggressively hitting on a kinky bi lady; she thinks he's a jerk, but she wouldn't mind fucking his wife while he watches. •Confused...

Savage Love Episode 68

05 Feb 2008

Contributed by Lukas

A gay man went camping to heal his broken heart. He ended up fucking the forest ranger. But it turns out Ranger Rick is already friends with the calle...

Savage Love Episode 67

29 Jan 2008

Contributed by Lukas

The great porn debate: Does it harm women? Can it be produced ethically? •  A man has been monitoring his 14-year-old’s online activity. Guess wh...

Savage Love Episode 66

22 Jan 2008

Contributed by Lukas

An ex-punker and a Jesus-lovin' jock have earth-shattering sex, but that's about it. Can their relationship survive based on sex alone? Shit in the mo...

Savage Love Episode 65

15 Jan 2008

Contributed by Lukas

This week on the Savage Lovecast, a potpourri of problems only Dan can solve. A gay man just got dumped and he's a miserable wretch: How do you get be...

Savage Love Episode 64

08 Jan 2008

Contributed by Lukas

This week on the Savage Lovecast, a couple of tearjerkers. A woman discovers her boyfriend's computer is riddled with homemade porn of his many ex-gir...

Savage Love Episode 63

01 Jan 2008

Contributed by Lukas

Happy New Year, perverts. On this week's episode, a medical fetishist's maiden voyage, an S&M player with small-town troubles, new lovers who feel ter...

Savage Love Episode 62

25 Dec 2007

Contributed by Lukas

It's a very special War on Christmas episode of the Savage Lovecast, full of enough foul-mouthed perversity to make the Baby Jesus weep. A kinky coed ...

Savage Love Episode 61

18 Dec 2007

Contributed by Lukas

On this week's Savage Lovecast: When does a poly relationship turn to poison?  Dan solves an interoffice squabble about whether female ejaculation is...

Savage Love Episode 60

11 Dec 2007

Contributed by Lukas

This week on the Savage Lovecast, a mother sharing too much information, how to put on a condom without losing your wood, a blowjob technique to avoid...

Savage Love Episode 59

04 Dec 2007

Contributed by Lukas

What a depressing show we have for you this week! Pop a couple Prozac and listen in. In It for the Kids: A married, stay-at-home father loves being a ...

Savage Love Episode 58

27 Nov 2007

Contributed by Lukas

A couple of dads in trouble: Dad #1 groaned loud enough during sex to wake up his daughter. Now he has some explaining to do. Dad #2 likes porn that l...

Savage Love Episode 57

20 Nov 2007

Contributed by Lukas

On this week's Lovecast, Dan Savage is joined by Science, aka Jonathan Golob, The Stranger's resident science columnist. Learn the scientific viewpoin...

Savage Love Episode 56

13 Nov 2007

Contributed by Lukas

A helpless gay Mormon is TRAPPED in a religious dungeon and can’t escape! Only Dan Savage has the key. •Teenage sex ruins everything-—a young la...

Savage Love Episode 55

06 Nov 2007

Contributed by Lukas

This week: Slow down, kinky lady! This gal is bursting with libido and kinky desires. But she doesn't want to unleash them on just anyone, until she t...

Savage Love Episode 54

30 Oct 2007

Contributed by Lukas

She went and fucked her concierge and now things are terribly awkward with him... should she get him fired?  A man's crush just got sexually assaulte...

Savage Love Episode 53

23 Oct 2007

Contributed by Lukas

This week Dan ministers to a porn addict with a penchant for "big black dick/small white girl" porn. Next up, a small white girl's partner's big dick ...

Savage Love Episode 52

16 Oct 2007

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome to Episode 52 of the Savage Lovecast. This week, a straight man wonders why he can't maintain a relationship. Maybe it's because he's an assho...

Savage Love Episode 51

09 Oct 2007

Contributed by Lukas

It's ladies' week on the Savage Lovecast--all gals, all the time. Dan argues with a caller about lies and adultery. A 24-year-old straight gal has los...

Savage Love Episode 50

02 Oct 2007

Contributed by Lukas

This week on the Savage Lovecast, one bisexual girl, one straight woman, and three martinis equals one big mess. Has the gays' right to cruise been tr...

Savage Love Episode 49

25 Sep 2007

Contributed by Lukas

This week on the Savage Lovecast, a cheerful pregnant lady wants to indulge her husband's pie-in-the-face fetish —but what to do about the mess? Som...

Savage Love Episode 48

18 Sep 2007

Contributed by Lukas

This week a caller finds herself in a porn conundrum. She likes it fine. But her boyfriend ignores her when the porn's on! And that ain't right. Also,...

Savage Love Episode 47

11 Sep 2007

Contributed by Lukas

We're fagging out on the Savage Lovecast this week. A gay man is very comfortable with his gayness... he just doesn't like sex all that much. A lesbia...

Savage Love Episode 46

04 Sep 2007

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome to the Savage Lovecast. This week, a woman in an LTR gets a UTI when ever she has RS (rough sex). What should she do, Dan? And: Hairy hypocrit...

Savage Love Episode 45

28 Aug 2007

Contributed by Lukas

Here are the steamy, sexy questions Dan addresses this week. It's getting hot... When is it appropriate to fake an orgasm? Does one have to see a doct...

Savage Love Episode 44

21 Aug 2007

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome to the Savage Lovecast, where ladies learn about enemas, gentlemen suck their own dicks, and chicken shits can't quite figure out how to make ...

Savage Love Episode 43

14 Aug 2007

Contributed by Lukas

This week on the Savage Lovecast, a caller wonders if he should sleep with his boyfriend, despite latent herpes. Another caller has thoughts of incest...

Savage Love Episode 42

07 Aug 2007

Contributed by Lukas

In this week's episode: Dan counsels a man whose recent brain surgery prevents him from orgasming with his wonderful lady. Should a perfectly reasonab...

Savage Love Episode 41

31 Jul 2007

Contributed by Lukas

This week, armpit sex: myth or fact? Plus, some heartening responses to the poor girl whose sex-negative mother is controlling her life; a man who lik...

Savage Love Episode 40

24 Jul 2007

Contributed by Lukas

This week on the Savage Lovecast: Is it a good thing when gay neighborhoods (gayborhoods) have big signs with rainbows to mark homo turf? Also, a near...

Savage Love Episode 39

17 Jul 2007

Contributed by Lukas

This week on the Savage Lovecast, a woman who finds cunnilingus so, very… boring; a man who loves to get spanked, but could do without the crotchles...