Savage Lovecast
Episodes
Savage Love Episode 223
21 Jan 2011
Contributed by Lukas
A woman who broke up with her boyfriend after one year suffers from ADG (advanced dumper's guilt.) How can she get over it? In what sounds like an af...
Savage Love Episode 222A
18 Jan 2011
Contributed by Lukas
New and Improved! Reduce, reuse, recycle. Does this apply to condoms? Should a boyfriend be expected to help pay for birth control pills? A rap...
Savage Love Episode 221
11 Jan 2011
Contributed by Lukas
Sorry about the sound quality on some of this, folks. It gets better. Speaking of! Dan talks with the brilliant Rebecca Drysdale about her nearly pe...
Savage Love Episode 220
04 Jan 2011
Contributed by Lukas
A gay man posted some photos of himself wearing a dress. Now his family is FREAKING OUT. How can he explain that being a little freaky doesn't make hi...
Savage Love Episode 219
20 Dec 2010
Contributed by Lukas
A college co-ed is mortified at her own behavior at a frat party. Can she recast her image from drunken ho to witty sophisticate? After 12 years of ...
Savage Love Episode 218
20 Dec 2010
Contributed by Lukas
Her boyfriend wets the bed. Should this be a dealbreaker? A straight man repeatedly "finds himself" getting his dick sucked by his creepy neighbor. ...
Savage Love Episode 217
14 Dec 2010
Contributed by Lukas
"It's not you. I'm just not ready for a relationship." How should a man deal with these crazy-making words? A woman used to be a bit of a slut. Now sh...
Savage Love Episode 216
07 Dec 2010
Contributed by Lukas
A gay man's entire Catholic family knows he's gay. When will he come out already so they can meet his boyfriend? Want to punish your parents? Why no...
Savage Love Episode 215
30 Nov 2010
Contributed by Lukas
How do you make the transition from massage parlors to dating? A self-acknowedged cheater used to cheat, currently cheats and will cheat again. Should...
Savage Love Episode 214
23 Nov 2010
Contributed by Lukas
A young kinkster doesn't know how to tell her newly deflowered boyfriend that she wants him to slap her silly. Beware the man who says he only meets...
Savage Love Episode 213
16 Nov 2010
Contributed by Lukas
Clown porn- balloon poodles will never be the same. How do you tell your partner that she should lose a little weight? Is it racist to dig Mexican...
Savage Love Episode 212
09 Nov 2010
Contributed by Lukas
If you're dating a poly lady, does that automatically make YOU poly? How do you keep those pesky pubic hairs from getting trapped in the cock ring? ...
Savage Love Episode 211
02 Nov 2010
Contributed by Lukas
A gay man watches in horror as his gay friend attempts to become straight in order to please Jesus Christ. Meanwhile, an ex-Mormon and current foot-f...
Savage Love Episode 210
27 Oct 2010
Contributed by Lukas
Dan is joined by Christopher Ryan, coauthor of Sex at Dawn. The two attempt to tackle your freaky sex problems from an evolutionary psychologist's per...
Savage Love Episode 209
19 Oct 2010
Contributed by Lukas
It's the Damsels in Distress episode! A college coed lost her virginity while blasted drunk. Though she remembers giving consent, her shame caused her...
Savage Love Episode 208
12 Oct 2010
Contributed by Lukas
A woman and her mother have a tumultuous relationship. How will she take is when her daughter comes out as poly? A man and his wife have a great sex l...
Savage Love Episode 207
05 Oct 2010
Contributed by Lukas
A woman is married to a cruel dickhead, pure 'n' simple. Will she DTMFA? Confused Unicorn: A married bisexual is chagrined by the treatment she gets a...
Savage Love Episode 206
28 Sep 2010
Contributed by Lukas
It's the bisexual visibility show! All bisexuals, all of the time. Happy belated Bisexuality Day. Call us up. 206-302-2064 Today's episode is brought ...
Savage Love Episode 205
21 Sep 2010
Contributed by Lukas
A gay man is bewildered when a lover asks him to save his spunk in a Ziplock bag. If the lady you're making love to tells you that you don't need to w...
Savage Love Episode 204
14 Sep 2010
Contributed by Lukas
A woman's boyfriend got fired in May and still hasn't gotten his ass off the couch. Should she cut and run or hang in there? A lesbian grapples with h...
Savage Love Episode 203
07 Sep 2010
Contributed by Lukas
Polyamory: There's a dark side, you know. When a stripper pays you extra attention at a strip club, does it automatically mean you're being hustled? G...
Savage Love Episode 202
31 Aug 2010
Contributed by Lukas
Dan is joined by Adam Carolla for a tag team on three-ways. (For the first and last time...) And more. 206-302-2064 Today's episode is brought to you ...
Savage Love Episode 201
24 Aug 2010
Contributed by Lukas
It's the 'mo show! All homosexual men, all of the time! One 'mo's parents still can't deal with it, even though he came out a year ago. Another 'mo is...
Savage Love Episode 200
17 Aug 2010
Contributed by Lukas
Hear the sordid tale of the rat, the alley, and the eight-inch cock. A man and his buddy enjoy banging the same girl at the same time. Are they gettin...
Savage Love Episode 199
10 Aug 2010
Contributed by Lukas
Amnesia: How would you like to have to break up with your boyfriend over and over again? A young woman discovers that her mother is a part of a small ...
Savage Love Episode 198
03 Aug 2010
Contributed by Lukas
A disgruntled boyfriend is sick to death of his girlfriend's meddling mom. Two homos grapple with their desire for allegedly straight friends. Dan goe...
Savage Love Episode 197
27 Jul 2010
Contributed by Lukas
An interview with the victorious Constance McMillen. A message from Dan to high school teachers everywhere: You should err on the side of not fucking ...
Savage Love Episode 196
20 Jul 2010
Contributed by Lukas
Will Dan Savage lose his job to 18-year-old Damian? Damian's classmates voted him most likely to replace Dan Savage. Hear Dan go mano a mano with a Tw...
Savage Love Episode 195
13 Jul 2010
Contributed by Lukas
The Lovecast is humbled to welcome Dr. Anna Kaminski from Planned Parenthood. She and Dan discuss the twin bogeymen of herpes and HPV. The upshot? Not...
Savage Love Episode 194
06 Jul 2010
Contributed by Lukas
Dan interviews Christopher Ryan, coauthor of Sex at Dawn, which uses evolutionary science to vindicate Dan's position on monogamy. Double rebound: two...
Savage Love Episode 193
29 Jun 2010
Contributed by Lukas
Sometimes spring-winter romances just can't work. Like when he is 19 years old, and she is 11. Dan helps a very confused bisexual woman and a virgin M...
Savage Love Episode 192
22 Jun 2010
Contributed by Lukas
Hear the erotic tale of the woman who inhaled a gummy bear. Another whiny man who can't bear to get a vasectomy. And a call to all our self-fellating ...
Savage Love Episode 191
15 Jun 2010
Contributed by Lukas
Lots of dicks in this one. Really small dicks, bloody uncircumcised dicks, dicks that grow tremendously... and that doesn't even include the host! Zin...
Savage Love Episode 190
08 Jun 2010
Contributed by Lukas
A woman in a four-year relationship prefers anonymous sex without love. Her boyfriend wants monogamy. How can they reconcile this? How much porn does ...
Savage Love Episode 189
01 Jun 2010
Contributed by Lukas
Will a good fisting dislodge an IUD? She's too scared to ask her doctor. Men don't rape each other: true or false? Hey, fellas: Do you have an outie b...
Savage Love Episode 188
25 May 2010
Contributed by Lukas
Dear girlfriend. I love you so much. But can you please wash your vagina? A woman at the beginning of an online dating adventure is warned that her po...
Savage Love Episode 187
18 May 2010
Contributed by Lukas
Grandpa up and died. And he left behind his porn stash. Should his granddaughter rush in to hide it before the rest of the family discovers Grandpa's ...
Savage Love Episode 186
11 May 2010
Contributed by Lukas
Angry gay fucking: Her neighbors are doing it. How can she tell them to knock it off or at least keep it down? The tragedy of our inadequate sex educa...
Savage Love Episode 185
04 May 2010
Contributed by Lukas
Her new boyfriend can spray the walls with his spunk. How can she perform oral sex without drowning? A man and his prostitute are getting friendly out...
Savage Love Episode 184
27 Apr 2010
Contributed by Lukas
Today, Dan is joined by special guest expert Francisco Ramirez! Francisco dishes out free sex advice in Washington Square Park. Hear Dan and Fran doub...
Savage Love Episode 183
20 Apr 2010
Contributed by Lukas
Sympathy for the pedophile: Dan and Dr. James Cantor, assistant professor of psychiatry at University of Toronto, discuss the nightmare of being burde...
Savage Love Episode 182
13 Apr 2010
Contributed by Lukas
A man who cheated on his girlfriend 10 years ago feels so guilty about it that he decides to come clean all over her. A cautionary tale about explorin...
Savage Love Episode 181
06 Apr 2010
Contributed by Lukas
Can you think too hard about S&M? More pertinently, who really needs the gag? A young homo is joining the air force. How carefully should he cover his...
Savage Love Episode 180
30 Mar 2010
Contributed by Lukas
Whatever happened to "mystery porn"? A blubbering crybaby is scared to get a vasectomy. Do they really end in castration? Okay. What's with the "Q" in...
Savage Love Episode 179
23 Mar 2010
Contributed by Lukas
A lucky, lucky man thinks he may have been subtly propositioned by a hot couple. How can he close the deal without looking like a creep? A woman livin...
Savage Love Episode 178
16 Mar 2010
Contributed by Lukas
It's the gay teen episode! Today's episode is brought to you by Smitten Kitten. Get 20 percent off your order when you enter "Savage" at checkout: htt...
Savage Love Episode 177
09 Mar 2010
Contributed by Lukas
Is it leotarded for a woman to suck on a man's nipples? A well-intentioned women tries to give her lover a blowjob in his sleep. Most men would kill f...
Savage Love Episode 176
02 Mar 2010
Contributed by Lukas
Exactly how leotarded is it to have centerfolds up on the walls when you're in your mid 20s? When subs marry: How can they each get what they want, wh...
Savage Love Episode 175
23 Feb 2010
Contributed by Lukas
Her boyfriend had sex with his ex, didn't tell her, and got the ex pregnant. Should the caller be angry? A man with an interracial cuckold fantasy has...
Savage Love Episode 174
16 Feb 2010
Contributed by Lukas
Dan delivers a lecture to a teenage girl at the behest of her concerned father. Thin walls: The neighbor is making life unpleasant for the couple who ...
Savage Love Episode 173
09 Feb 2010
Contributed by Lukas
Word to the wise for those of you in open relationships: Don't tap the next-door neighbor. What's the delicate way to ask the lady whose panties you j...
Savage Love Episode 172
02 Feb 2010
Contributed by Lukas
A coven of bitches? All his girlfriend's pals hate him. Is it them, or is he the problem? Is a man a man if he likes other men? Internalized Homophobi...
Savage Love Episode 171
26 Jan 2010
Contributed by Lukas
Dan's old radio chum Mary Martone joins us for a very special episode of the Savage Lovecast, featuring unwitting exhibitionists, fat-baiters, adult b...
Savage Love Episode 170
19 Jan 2010
Contributed by Lukas
Her cousin's boyfriend is locked away in prison. If the cousin slept with someone else while she waited it out, would that make her a skank-ass ho? A ...
Savage Love Episode 169
11 Jan 2010
Contributed by Lukas
Hear the tale of the bi, pagan, poly lady who is dating, of all things, an asexual. A man committed a pretty nasty electronic crime. Does he deserve t...
Savage Love Episode 168
05 Jan 2010
Contributed by Lukas
You've heard of sleep walking...but sleep spanking? A fat man with toxic insecurity begs Dan to help him get some game. A man recently diagnosed with ...
Savage Love Episode 167
29 Dec 2009
Contributed by Lukas
Hooray! It's the good doctor Barak come to answer your gnarly medical questions! Call us at 206-302-2064. This episode was brought to you by Audible. ...
Savage Love Episode 166
22 Dec 2009
Contributed by Lukas
Did you hear the news? Science approves of porn! How many dating sites can your boyfriend be an active member of before you have the right to get piss...
Savage Love Episode 165
15 Dec 2009
Contributed by Lukas
More with the webcamming! A woman is doing it. Her BF doesn't know about it. Is it cheating? In a similar conundrum, a woman wants to watch two guys d...
Savage Love Episode 164
08 Dec 2009
Contributed by Lukas
Is it wrong for a fellow who loves big asses to ask his big-assed girlfriend to shake it for her man? A white bi man is only attracted to black men an...
Savage Love Episode 163
01 Dec 2009
Contributed by Lukas
Special guest star Mistress Matisse joins Dan to answer a cavalcade of kink questions! And more. Always more. Call us at 206-302-2064. The Mistress co...
Savage Love Episode 162
24 Nov 2009
Contributed by Lukas
Is a dom entitled to sex with her sub on her birthday, even if he doesn't wanna? In another sub call, a bondage-loving woman goes from aroused to tota...
Savage Love Episode 161
17 Nov 2009
Contributed by Lukas
After a drunken, seedy hookup with an alleged straight man, a gay man wonders if he should follow up. Will he still love him tomorrow? For a couple wh...
Savage Love Episode 160
10 Nov 2009
Contributed by Lukas
Fruit fetish! A woman enjoys being penetrated by fruits and vegetables. The problem? Her husband won't eat the bananas. A man has been subtly proposit...
Savage Love Episode 159
03 Nov 2009
Contributed by Lukas
Sexual allergies: Can sex make you sneeze? Learn something new about your nose. When doling out wedding invitations, a caller wonders if he should inc...
Savage Love Episode 158
27 Oct 2009
Contributed by Lukas
He's fat and won't lose weight for her. If he won't shape up, should she ship out? His latest hookup is still in the closet. Should he keep fucking hi...
Savage Love Episode 157
20 Oct 2009
Contributed by Lukas
A college sex educator is horrified to hear that one of her students is planning on hooking up with a sadistic psychopath. Should she offer to chapero...
Savage Love Episode 156
13 Oct 2009
Contributed by Lukas
Sure, you give advice to married men, but who speaks for the piece on the side? Is it safe to shift from anal to vaginal sex? A bi man into three-ways...
Savage Love Episode 155
06 Oct 2009
Contributed by Lukas
A woman loves fucking a man who's convinced she's going to hell. A man broke his cock whilst betwix his lady's legs in the shower. Is it time to see a...
Savage Love Episode 154
29 Sep 2009
Contributed by Lukas
What do you call a horny 17-year-old who wants to have lots and lots of casual sex? (A slut?) Did you know that there is a button you can press that w...
Savage Love Episode 153
22 Sep 2009
Contributed by Lukas
Porn expert Violet Blue joins us to give women-friendly porn recommendations. A 37-year-old sex worker freaks out after sleeping with a flawlessly bea...
Savage Love Episode 152
15 Sep 2009
Contributed by Lukas
It's the dead-boyfriend episode! Two tales of women left behind. Dan Savage enlists the help of bondage rope expert Monk to convince a feminist that i...
Savage Love Episode 151
08 Sep 2009
Contributed by Lukas
Can a woman have a clit so enormously large that it warrants being called an "outie”?" A bisexual (gay) man wonders how long he can continue in his ...
Savage Love Episode 150
01 Sep 2009
Contributed by Lukas
A man used to getting it every day "at least once a day" is engaged to a woman who won't put out. Should he call it off? A teenage lesbian has a super...
Savage Love Episode 149
25 Aug 2009
Contributed by Lukas
A GGG (good, giving, and game) woman is willing to pee on her husband but finds it physically difficult. How can she learn to let loose? Nonconsensual...
Savage Love Episode 148
18 Aug 2009
Contributed by Lukas
Oh, bloody hell! An American woman met a British chap in England and fell in love. Now they're together in the U.S., but he's going home soon. What's ...
Savage Love Episode 147
11 Aug 2009
Contributed by Lukas
Marshmallow up the ass. Any potential dangers? Speaking of danger, a woman wants to try choking and wonders how to do it safely. Do thongs give you ga...
Savage Love Episode 146
04 Aug 2009
Contributed by Lukas
A woman living in Wasilla, Alaska, wants to mate with a local. Odds are, he's a batshit-crazy Christian conservative. Should she fuck him anyway? A ga...
Savage Love Episode 145
28 Jul 2009
Contributed by Lukas
A straight man is suddenly turned on by his male coworker. Is he a 'mo now? A career military man wonders if it's unethical to seek a mate, knowing sh...
Savage Love Episode 144
21 Jul 2009
Contributed by Lukas
It's the Crazy Fucking Parents episode! Enjoy. Call us at 206-201-2720. This episode was brought to you by Audible.com. Download a free audio book of ...
Savage Love Episode 143
14 Jul 2009
Contributed by Lukas
A woman agonizes over whether she should tell her two gay friends that they are both getting played by a new man on the scene. A self-described "fuck ...
Savage Love Episode 142
07 Jul 2009
Contributed by Lukas
Dan? I love the ladies, but I also love cock. What should I call myself? Bi? Metrosexual? Dan? A self-described bisexual lady is horrified to discover...
Savage Love Episode 141
30 Jun 2009
Contributed by Lukas
A high-school student marvels at the vast army of bisexuals marching through the halls. A man got his messed-up girlfriend pregnant. Now she's living ...
Savage Love Episode 140
23 Jun 2009
Contributed by Lukas
Two tales of texting exes: Is obsessive texting a modern way of cheating? Her friend is in a miserable, sexless marriage. Is it wrong to advise her to...
Savage Love Episode 139
16 Jun 2009
Contributed by Lukas
A man in his 20s is dating an 18-year-old woman. He's trying to be a good and responsible lover but still wonders if he's being a creep. A man and his...
Savage Love Episode 138
09 Jun 2009
Contributed by Lukas
First, a semantics discussion. Does the word "fetish" have to be so very dirty? A man in his 20s wonders if he can calm his brain down and curb his de...
Savage Love Episode 137
02 Jun 2009
Contributed by Lukas
Poly pain: It's so sad when one person wants to open the relationship and the other doesn't. You know what else is sad? When your boyfriend tells you ...
Savage Love Episode 136
26 May 2009
Contributed by Lukas
A woman wonders if she lacks a clitoris. Dan speaks with a guest human-sexuality expert to get the answer. A 19-year-old REALLY doesn't want to get hi...
Savage Love Episode 135
19 May 2009
Contributed by Lukas
A potentially kinky female college nerd is having a hard time finding others of her ilk. A gay man wants to come out to his longtime conservative reli...
Savage Love Episode 134
12 May 2009
Contributed by Lukas
Obama has yanked funding for abstinence-only education. But the damage is done. Just how dumb is our children? Boy likes girl. Girl likes boy. But boy...
Savage Love Episode 133
05 May 2009
Contributed by Lukas
A caller, speaking for all the unrealizable fetishists of the world, reassures Dan that he needn't worry so much. Dog custody: the problem with visiti...
Savage Love Episode 132
28 Apr 2009
Contributed by Lukas
OMG! After we stayed at my aunt and uncle's place, they totally found a used condom and some lube! But it wasn't ours! Should a gay man come out to hi...
Savage Love Episode 131
21 Apr 2009
Contributed by Lukas
Centaur fetishists are coming out of the woodwork! Has anybody heard of the "A-Spot," or is Cosmopolitan magazine fucking with our heads? Are kid-shap...
Savage Love Episode 130
14 Apr 2009
Contributed by Lukas
A gal threw up a little orange soda while going down on her fella. Disaster or no biggie? On the raging controversy of penis versus vagina, DAN GETS S...
Savage Love Episode 129
07 Apr 2009
Contributed by Lukas
A 25-year-old virgin man never enjoyed sexual activity until he fixed the medical problem with his dick. Now how can he explain his late virginity? A ...
Savage Love Episode 128
31 Mar 2009
Contributed by Lukas
Men who love pegging, and the ladies willing to oblige them. Two sordid tales. Women are supposed to have their sexual peak in their 30s. Here's a wom...
Savage Love Episode 127
24 Mar 2009
Contributed by Lukas
A formerly obese gay teen worries about his stretch marks. A man can't come, not even when drunk. A woman worries that she will soon be an unwilling d...
Savage Love Episode 126
17 Mar 2009
Contributed by Lukas
A doctor who is against vasectomies? WTF??!! An ugly man implores other ugly men to lower their expectations. More cock-hungry lesbians, and other del...
Savage Love Episode 125
10 Mar 2009
Contributed by Lukas
Here's a brainteaser: If a man is into sounding, could he possibly stretch his urethra out so much that he can have the equivalent of a pussy fart, on...
Savage Love Episode 124
03 Mar 2009
Contributed by Lukas
A sexually adventurous lass must lure her lover out of their boring old bed. A twisted teen dreams of impregnating his girlfriend. To answer a trans q...