Savage Lovecast

Savage Love Episode 254

26 Aug 2011

Contributed by Lukas

After a young queer woman came out to her high-school friends, one of them utterly rejected her and expressed retroactive squeamishness for all the hu...

Savage Love Episode 253

23 Aug 2011

Contributed by Lukas

A son is more than a little jealous that his dad has multiple orgasms, and prays that perhaps it's genetic?  Research scientist and hymen expert Debb...

Savage Love Episode 252

15 Aug 2011

Contributed by Lukas

A woman who enjoys vanilla sex feels discriminated against by her kinky, poly posse.  A man recently home from Iraq doesn't know how to speak gently ...

Savage Love Episode 251

05 Aug 2011

Contributed by Lukas

Gentle listeners of the podcast, it pains us to have to remind you to TEND TO YOUR UNICORN. In other words, if you have secured a lovely lady who is w...

Savage Love Episode 250

27 Jul 2011

Contributed by Lukas

What is the proper etiquette when you are offered $20 on the street to perform a sex act? A female sex worker in a new relationship wants to leave the...

Savage Love Episode 249

25 Jul 2011

Contributed by Lukas

The open-minded father of a 14-year-old lesbian wonders if he should allow her to have sleepovers with her girlfriend.Dan's position on the Mormon pol...

Savage Love Episode 248

19 Jul 2011

Contributed by Lukas

A meddling, deluded mother changes the relationship status on her gay son’s Facebook page to say he’s interested in women. How can this patient so...

Savage Love Episode 247

12 Jul 2011

Contributed by Lukas

A bi man and his lady enjoyed glorious bi-friendly sex until they had a baby. Then she demanded an immediate end to his bisexuality for fear he isn't ...

Savage Love Episode 246

05 Jul 2011

Contributed by Lukas

Dan Savage? What is the connection between homosexuals and unicorns?    Can a gay man make out with a straight girl? Can he do that??   A woman c...

Savage Love Episode 245

28 Jun 2011

Contributed by Lukas

Seriously now. What's the most environmentally friendly way to dispose of your jiz?    When encountering a man masturbating under cover of bushes i...

Savage Love Episode 244

21 Jun 2011

Contributed by Lukas

More rantings about a man named Weiner. Are garter belts inherently sexist, and is there a male equivalent?  Dan interviews Ogi Ogas, co-author of "A...

Savage Love Episode 243

14 Jun 2011

Contributed by Lukas

Is it wrong to contact the subsequent lovers of your lying, cheating, abusive ex and compare notes? What if one of the notes is that you have herpes? ...

Savage Love Episode 242

07 Jun 2011

Contributed by Lukas

How do you ask your lady if her boobs are the work of god or man?    A woman engaged to be married wants to help a gay couple she knows by being a ...

Savage Love Episode 241

31 May 2011

Contributed by Lukas

Today we are joined by the venerable athiest, science-lovin', feminist blogger Jen McCreight who has a thing or two to say about skepticism. She takes...

Savage Love Episode 240

24 May 2011

Contributed by Lukas

This week we are joined by the good doctor Vy Chu- a specialist in gay men's health.  So there's a lot of talk about butts.        And balls. ...

Savage Love Episode 239

17 May 2011

Contributed by Lukas

What does a neglectful drunk have to do to win his wife back?    A man with a doll fetish wonders if his turn-on for the "little girl" look automat...

Savage Love Episode 238

09 May 2011

Contributed by Lukas

Too much information? A woman confides in a friend that she is having an affair. Now the friend feels on the hook with this unwanted knowledge. Should...

Savage Love Episode 237

02 May 2011

Contributed by Lukas

What happens when you're turned on by rape fantasies and then you actually get raped? Time to find a new fantasy.    Marijuana! Is it Viagra for ...

Savage Love Episode 236

26 Apr 2011

Contributed by Lukas

A woman is having an affair with a man who is probably gay. Should she help him to cross the line into homo-land, or butt out and find somebody who di...

Savage Love Episode 235

19 Apr 2011

Contributed by Lukas

OMG! Don't you hate it when you go to a gay bar, make out with TWO gay men (even though you are a woman), and then totally don't remember it because y...

Savage Love Episode 234

12 Apr 2011

Contributed by Lukas

It's the one-minute wonder show! All calls less than one minute long! All answers less than one minute long! Why me talking like Hulk?    Topics co...

Savage Love Episode 233

05 Apr 2011

Contributed by Lukas

When he first met his future wife in college, she was a sex machine. Now their sex life is vanilla and boring. Is it all over for him? Has he missed o...

Savage Love Episode 232

29 Mar 2011

Contributed by Lukas

How to engineer the perfect fuck-buddy. She has him somewhat trained. But he won't buy his own condoms, and he won't switch and let her sub for a whil...

Savage Love Episode 231

22 Mar 2011

Contributed by Lukas

We start the show off with a little wedding drama. The best man turns out to be a skirt-chasing cad. Should the bride & groom boot him out of the wedd...

Savage Love Episode 230

09 Mar 2011

Contributed by Lukas

At the age of 22, a married woman is sick of sex with her husband and wants to branch out. Can Dan save her marriage?  How can you avoid the typical ...

Savage Love Episode 229

04 Mar 2011

Contributed by Lukas

Mike Huckabee? You're not going to like this show one bit.   When friends are dickheads: two tales of nasty pals. One who insults his girlfriend and ...

Savage Love Episode 228

01 Mar 2011

Contributed by Lukas

A gay man who used to be bullied in high school testifies that when you get older, not only does it get better…it gets interesting.    Three tale...

Savage Love Episode 227

22 Feb 2011

Contributed by Lukas

A crazy bitch who goes out dancing on a second date with a guy she really likes ends up making out with a completely different guy on the dance floor,...

Savage Love Episode 226

11 Feb 2011

Contributed by Lukas

It's the long-awaited episode with Mistress Matisse! Meet one of the few people who can make Dan Savage squirm. Topics covered: a sub who scares her...

Savage Love Episode 225

08 Feb 2011

Contributed by Lukas

Come hear the tale of the lying bisexual who chickened out and denied her bisexuality to a friend. Now she's paying the price.  An ex-Mormon teen wan...

Savage Love Episode 224

26 Jan 2011

Contributed by Lukas

This week, Dan brings on Amy Lang—sex educator, author, and a generally hilarious and charming guest.  All of today's calls concern how parents de...

Savage Love Episode 223

21 Jan 2011

Contributed by Lukas

A woman who broke up with her boyfriend after one year suffers from ADG (advanced dumper's guilt.) How can she get over it? In what sounds like an af...

Savage Love Episode 222A

18 Jan 2011

Contributed by Lukas

New and Improved!   Reduce, reuse, recycle. Does this apply to condoms? Should a boyfriend be expected to help pay for birth control pills? A rap...

Savage Love Episode 221

11 Jan 2011

Contributed by Lukas

Sorry about the sound quality on some of this, folks. It gets better.  Speaking of! Dan talks with the brilliant Rebecca Drysdale about her nearly pe...

Savage Love Episode 220

04 Jan 2011

Contributed by Lukas

A gay man posted some photos of himself wearing a dress. Now his family is FREAKING OUT. How can he explain that being a little freaky doesn't make hi...

Savage Love Episode 219

20 Dec 2010

Contributed by Lukas

A college co-ed is mortified at her own behavior at a frat party. Can she recast her image from drunken ho to witty sophisticate?  After 12 years of ...

Savage Love Episode 218

20 Dec 2010

Contributed by Lukas

Her boyfriend wets the bed. Should this be a dealbreaker?  A straight man repeatedly "finds himself" getting his dick sucked by his creepy neighbor. ...

Savage Love Episode 217

14 Dec 2010

Contributed by Lukas

"It's not you. I'm just not ready for a relationship." How should a man deal with these crazy-making words? A woman used to be a bit of a slut. Now sh...

Savage Love Episode 216

07 Dec 2010

Contributed by Lukas

A gay man's entire Catholic family knows he's gay. When will he come out already so they can meet his boyfriend?  Want to punish your parents? Why no...

Savage Love Episode 215

30 Nov 2010

Contributed by Lukas

How do you make the transition from massage parlors to dating? A self-acknowedged cheater used to cheat, currently cheats and will cheat again. Should...

Savage Love Episode 214

23 Nov 2010

Contributed by Lukas

A young kinkster doesn't know how to tell her newly deflowered boyfriend that she wants him to slap her silly.  Beware the man who says he only meets...

Savage Love Episode 213

16 Nov 2010

Contributed by Lukas

Clown porn- balloon poodles will never be the same.  How do you tell your partner that she should lose a little weight?  Is it racist to dig Mexican...

Savage Love Episode 212

09 Nov 2010

Contributed by Lukas

If you're dating a poly lady, does that automatically make YOU poly?  How do you keep those pesky pubic hairs from getting trapped in the cock ring? ...

Savage Love Episode 211

02 Nov 2010

Contributed by Lukas

A gay man watches in horror as his gay friend attempts to become straight in order to please Jesus Christ. Meanwhile, an ex-Mormon and current foot-f...

Savage Love Episode 210

27 Oct 2010

Contributed by Lukas

Dan is joined by Christopher Ryan, coauthor of Sex at Dawn. The two attempt to tackle your freaky sex problems from an evolutionary psychologist's per...

Savage Love Episode 209

19 Oct 2010

Contributed by Lukas

It's the Damsels in Distress episode! A college coed lost her virginity while blasted drunk. Though she remembers giving consent, her shame caused her...

Savage Love Episode 208

12 Oct 2010

Contributed by Lukas

A woman and her mother have a tumultuous relationship. How will she take is when her daughter comes out as poly? A man and his wife have a great sex l...

Savage Love Episode 207

05 Oct 2010

Contributed by Lukas

A woman is married to a cruel dickhead, pure 'n' simple. Will she DTMFA? Confused Unicorn: A married bisexual is chagrined by the treatment she gets a...

Savage Love Episode 206

28 Sep 2010

Contributed by Lukas

It's the bisexual visibility show! All bisexuals, all of the time. Happy belated Bisexuality Day. Call us up. 206-302-2064 Today's episode is brought ...

Savage Love Episode 205

21 Sep 2010

Contributed by Lukas

A gay man is bewildered when a lover asks him to save his spunk in a Ziplock bag. If the lady you're making love to tells you that you don't need to w...

Savage Love Episode 204

14 Sep 2010

Contributed by Lukas

A woman's boyfriend got fired in May and still hasn't gotten his ass off the couch. Should she cut and run or hang in there? A lesbian grapples with h...

Savage Love Episode 203

07 Sep 2010

Contributed by Lukas

Polyamory: There's a dark side, you know. When a stripper pays you extra attention at a strip club, does it automatically mean you're being hustled? G...

Savage Love Episode 202

31 Aug 2010

Contributed by Lukas

Dan is joined by Adam Carolla for a tag team on three-ways. (For the first and last time...) And more. 206-302-2064 Today's episode is brought to you ...

Savage Love Episode 201

24 Aug 2010

Contributed by Lukas

It's the 'mo show! All homosexual men, all of the time! One 'mo's parents still can't deal with it, even though he came out a year ago. Another 'mo is...

Savage Love Episode 200

17 Aug 2010

Contributed by Lukas

Hear the sordid tale of the rat, the alley, and the eight-inch cock. A man and his buddy enjoy banging the same girl at the same time. Are they gettin...

Savage Love Episode 199

10 Aug 2010

Contributed by Lukas

Amnesia: How would you like to have to break up with your boyfriend over and over again? A young woman discovers that her mother is a part of a small ...

Savage Love Episode 198

03 Aug 2010

Contributed by Lukas

A disgruntled boyfriend is sick to death of his girlfriend's meddling mom. Two homos grapple with their desire for allegedly straight friends. Dan goe...

Savage Love Episode 197

27 Jul 2010

Contributed by Lukas

An interview with the victorious Constance McMillen. A message from Dan to high school teachers everywhere: You should err on the side of not fucking ...

Savage Love Episode 196

20 Jul 2010

Contributed by Lukas

Will Dan Savage lose his job to 18-year-old Damian? Damian's classmates voted him most likely to replace Dan Savage. Hear Dan go mano a mano with a Tw...

Savage Love Episode 195

13 Jul 2010

Contributed by Lukas

The Lovecast is humbled to welcome Dr. Anna Kaminski from Planned Parenthood. She and Dan discuss the twin bogeymen of herpes and HPV. The upshot? Not...

Savage Love Episode 194

06 Jul 2010

Contributed by Lukas

Dan interviews Christopher Ryan, coauthor of Sex at Dawn, which uses evolutionary science to vindicate Dan's position on monogamy. Double rebound: two...

Savage Love Episode 193

29 Jun 2010

Contributed by Lukas

Sometimes spring-winter romances just can't work. Like when he is 19 years old, and she is 11. Dan helps a very confused bisexual woman and a virgin M...

Savage Love Episode 192

22 Jun 2010

Contributed by Lukas

Hear the erotic tale of the woman who inhaled a gummy bear. Another whiny man who can't bear to get a vasectomy. And a call to all our self-fellating ...

Savage Love Episode 191

15 Jun 2010

Contributed by Lukas

Lots of dicks in this one. Really small dicks, bloody uncircumcised dicks, dicks that grow tremendously... and that doesn't even include the host! Zin...

Savage Love Episode 190

08 Jun 2010

Contributed by Lukas

A woman in a four-year relationship prefers anonymous sex without love. Her boyfriend wants monogamy. How can they reconcile this? How much porn does ...

Savage Love Episode 189

01 Jun 2010

Contributed by Lukas

Will a good fisting dislodge an IUD? She's too scared to ask her doctor. Men don't rape each other: true or false? Hey, fellas: Do you have an outie b...

Savage Love Episode 188

25 May 2010

Contributed by Lukas

Dear girlfriend. I love you so much. But can you please wash your vagina? A woman at the beginning of an online dating adventure is warned that her po...

Savage Love Episode 187

18 May 2010

Contributed by Lukas

Grandpa up and died. And he left behind his porn stash. Should his granddaughter rush in to hide it before the rest of the family discovers Grandpa's ...

Savage Love Episode 186

11 May 2010

Contributed by Lukas

Angry gay fucking: Her neighbors are doing it. How can she tell them to knock it off or at least keep it down? The tragedy of our inadequate sex educa...

Savage Love Episode 185

04 May 2010

Contributed by Lukas

Her new boyfriend can spray the walls with his spunk. How can she perform oral sex without drowning? A man and his prostitute are getting friendly out...

Savage Love Episode 184

27 Apr 2010

Contributed by Lukas

Today, Dan is joined by special guest expert Francisco Ramirez! Francisco dishes out free sex advice in Washington Square Park. Hear Dan and Fran doub...

Savage Love Episode 183

20 Apr 2010

Contributed by Lukas

Sympathy for the pedophile: Dan and Dr. James Cantor, assistant professor of psychiatry at University of Toronto, discuss the nightmare of being burde...

Savage Love Episode 182

13 Apr 2010

Contributed by Lukas

A man who cheated on his girlfriend 10 years ago feels so guilty about it that he decides to come clean all over her. A cautionary tale about explorin...

Savage Love Episode 181

06 Apr 2010

Contributed by Lukas

Can you think too hard about S&M? More pertinently, who really needs the gag? A young homo is joining the air force. How carefully should he cover his...

Savage Love Episode 180

30 Mar 2010

Contributed by Lukas

Whatever happened to "mystery porn"? A blubbering crybaby is scared to get a vasectomy. Do they really end in castration? Okay. What's with the "Q" in...

Savage Love Episode 179

23 Mar 2010

Contributed by Lukas

A lucky, lucky man thinks he may have been subtly propositioned by a hot couple. How can he close the deal without looking like a creep? A woman livin...

Savage Love Episode 178

16 Mar 2010

Contributed by Lukas

It's the gay teen episode! Today's episode is brought to you by Smitten Kitten. Get 20 percent off your order when you enter "Savage" at checkout: htt...

Savage Love Episode 177

09 Mar 2010

Contributed by Lukas

Is it leotarded for a woman to suck on a man's nipples? A well-intentioned women tries to give her lover a blowjob in his sleep. Most men would kill f...

Savage Love Episode 176

02 Mar 2010

Contributed by Lukas

Exactly how leotarded is it to have centerfolds up on the walls when you're in your mid 20s? When subs marry: How can they each get what they want, wh...

Savage Love Episode 175

23 Feb 2010

Contributed by Lukas

Her boyfriend had sex with his ex, didn't tell her, and got the ex pregnant. Should the caller be angry? A man with an interracial cuckold fantasy has...

Savage Love Episode 174

16 Feb 2010

Contributed by Lukas

Dan delivers a lecture to a teenage girl at the behest of her concerned father. Thin walls: The neighbor is making life unpleasant for the couple who ...

Savage Love Episode 173

09 Feb 2010

Contributed by Lukas

Word to the wise for those of you in open relationships: Don't tap the next-door neighbor. What's the delicate way to ask the lady whose panties you j...

Savage Love Episode 172

02 Feb 2010

Contributed by Lukas

A coven of bitches? All his girlfriend's pals hate him. Is it them, or is he the problem? Is a man a man if he likes other men? Internalized Homophobi...

Savage Love Episode 171

26 Jan 2010

Contributed by Lukas

Dan's old radio chum Mary Martone joins us for a very special episode of the Savage Lovecast, featuring unwitting exhibitionists, fat-baiters, adult b...

Savage Love Episode 170

19 Jan 2010

Contributed by Lukas

Her cousin's boyfriend is locked away in prison. If the cousin slept with someone else while she waited it out, would that make her a skank-ass ho? A ...

Savage Love Episode 169

11 Jan 2010

Contributed by Lukas

Hear the tale of the bi, pagan, poly lady who is dating, of all things, an asexual. A man committed a pretty nasty electronic crime. Does he deserve t...

Savage Love Episode 168

05 Jan 2010

Contributed by Lukas

You've heard of sleep walking...but sleep spanking? A fat man with toxic insecurity begs Dan to help him get some game. A man recently diagnosed with ...

Savage Love Episode 167

29 Dec 2009

Contributed by Lukas

Hooray! It's the good doctor Barak come to answer your gnarly medical questions! Call us at 206-302-2064. This episode was brought to you by Audible. ...

Savage Love Episode 166

22 Dec 2009

Contributed by Lukas

Did you hear the news? Science approves of porn! How many dating sites can your boyfriend be an active member of before you have the right to get piss...

Savage Love Episode 165

15 Dec 2009

Contributed by Lukas

More with the webcamming! A woman is doing it. Her BF doesn't know about it. Is it cheating? In a similar conundrum, a woman wants to watch two guys d...

Savage Love Episode 164

08 Dec 2009

Contributed by Lukas

Is it wrong for a fellow who loves big asses to ask his big-assed girlfriend to shake it for her man? A white bi man is only attracted to black men an...

Savage Love Episode 163

01 Dec 2009

Contributed by Lukas

Special guest star Mistress Matisse joins Dan to answer a cavalcade of kink questions! And more. Always more. Call us at 206-302-2064. The Mistress co...

Savage Love Episode 162

24 Nov 2009

Contributed by Lukas

Is a dom entitled to sex with her sub on her birthday, even if he doesn't wanna? In another sub call, a bondage-loving woman goes from aroused to tota...

Savage Love Episode 161

17 Nov 2009

Contributed by Lukas

After a drunken, seedy hookup with an alleged straight man, a gay man wonders if he should follow up. Will he still love him tomorrow? For a couple wh...

Savage Love Episode 160

10 Nov 2009

Contributed by Lukas

Fruit fetish! A woman enjoys being penetrated by fruits and vegetables. The problem? Her husband won't eat the bananas. A man has been subtly proposit...

Savage Love Episode 159

03 Nov 2009

Contributed by Lukas

Sexual allergies: Can sex make you sneeze? Learn something new about your nose. When doling out wedding invitations, a caller wonders if he should inc...

Savage Love Episode 158

27 Oct 2009

Contributed by Lukas

He's fat and won't lose weight for her. If he won't shape up, should she ship out? His latest hookup is still in the closet. Should he keep fucking hi...

Savage Love Episode 157

20 Oct 2009

Contributed by Lukas

A college sex educator is horrified to hear that one of her students is planning on hooking up with a sadistic psychopath. Should she offer to chapero...

Savage Love Episode 156

13 Oct 2009

Contributed by Lukas

Sure, you give advice to married men, but who speaks for the piece on the side? Is it safe to shift from anal to vaginal sex? A bi man into three-ways...

Savage Love Episode 155

06 Oct 2009

Contributed by Lukas

A woman loves fucking a man who's convinced she's going to hell. A man broke his cock whilst betwix his lady's legs in the shower. Is it time to see a...