Savage Lovecast
Episodes
Savage Love Episode 270
20 Dec 2011
Contributed by Lukas
Dan speaks with cancer physician and researcher Dr. Ted Teknos about the HPV vaccine. A GGG married woman acts out a cuckolding fantasy for he...
Savage Love Episode 269
13 Dec 2011
Contributed by Lukas
She received some flowers from her ex for her birthday. Does her current boyfriend have the right to freak the fuck out? A woman wants to be splashe...
Savage Love Episode 268
06 Dec 2011
Contributed by Lukas
It's Lucy's last show. Hats off to Dan's brave, plucky assistant. Small hands- big heart. The calls! Wood. He shows it and grows it at the earliest ...
Savage Love Episode 267
29 Nov 2011
Contributed by Lukas
Dan converses with a former rent boy, and you get to listen in. Should a man with a jealousy problem date his neighbor who happens to be a stripper? ...
Savage Love Episode 266
21 Nov 2011
Contributed by Lukas
Lucy is back to help Dan navigate his way through questions about dicks snapping right off, living with sex addiction, and a triad of soft weenies. ...
Savage Love Episode 265
15 Nov 2011
Contributed by Lukas
Poor, lonely Dan, broadcasting from an empty hotel room, finds it in his heart to advise a pee-shy watersports fetishist, an insecure autofellator, an...
Savage Love Episode 264
08 Nov 2011
Contributed by Lukas
Baby? I know we don't know each other all that well, but I dig you so much that I want you to sleep with another man. Ok? Is it true that soon churc...
Savage Love Episode 263
31 Oct 2011
Contributed by Lukas
A woman is in an unacknowledged fuck-buddy situation. He calls her up to "watch a movie or something," and then they have sex. But he always seems to ...
Savage Love Episode 262
25 Oct 2011
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Dan is joined by his animal handler, Lucy! Lucy can answer questions about shit skid marks left on couches, cheating lying girlfriends, jer...
Savage Love Episode 261
18 Oct 2011
Contributed by Lukas
Come hear the tale of the woman who wanks like a toddler. Remember that boy who got booted out of the Christian singing group "Psalm 100" for being g...
Savage Love Episode 260
11 Oct 2011
Contributed by Lukas
"No sex before the game!" Is this bit of conventional wisdom wise? A gay man wonders if his date being specifically NOT invited to a family wedd...
Savage Love Episode 259
05 Oct 2011
Contributed by Lukas
Ladies: How should you react when your boyfriend accuses you of cheating on him because he can feel that your vagina is looser than he remembers it be...
Savage Love Episode 258
23 Sep 2011
Contributed by Lukas
Apparently, there is someone more qualified to answer your filthy questions than Dan Savage. The identity of Dan's replacement may shock you… A man'...
Savage Love Episode 257
20 Sep 2011
Contributed by Lukas
It's the fairy dust show! Can Dan Savage reach into his man-purse, pull out a handful of pink fairy dust, sprinkle it all over your sexual problems, a...
Savage Love Episode 256
09 Sep 2011
Contributed by Lukas
This week the Lovecast is honored to welcome Dr. Anna Kaminski, medical director from Planned Parenthood. Hats off, everyone. Dan and Anna discuss the...
Savage Love Episode 255
06 Sep 2011
Contributed by Lukas
The Savage Lovecast is delighted to welcome Mistress Matisse, Seattle's charming and terrifying dominatrix. Can sadists get it on with other sadis...
Savage Love Episode 254
26 Aug 2011
Contributed by Lukas
After a young queer woman came out to her high-school friends, one of them utterly rejected her and expressed retroactive squeamishness for all the hu...
Savage Love Episode 253
23 Aug 2011
Contributed by Lukas
A son is more than a little jealous that his dad has multiple orgasms, and prays that perhaps it's genetic? Research scientist and hymen expert Debb...
Savage Love Episode 252
15 Aug 2011
Contributed by Lukas
A woman who enjoys vanilla sex feels discriminated against by her kinky, poly posse. A man recently home from Iraq doesn't know how to speak gently ...
Savage Love Episode 251
05 Aug 2011
Contributed by Lukas
Gentle listeners of the podcast, it pains us to have to remind you to TEND TO YOUR UNICORN. In other words, if you have secured a lovely lady who is w...
Savage Love Episode 250
27 Jul 2011
Contributed by Lukas
What is the proper etiquette when you are offered $20 on the street to perform a sex act? A female sex worker in a new relationship wants to leave the...
Savage Love Episode 249
25 Jul 2011
Contributed by Lukas
The open-minded father of a 14-year-old lesbian wonders if he should allow her to have sleepovers with her girlfriend.Dan's position on the Mormon pol...
Savage Love Episode 248
19 Jul 2011
Contributed by Lukas
A meddling, deluded mother changes the relationship status on her gay son’s Facebook page to say he’s interested in women. How can this patient so...
Savage Love Episode 247
12 Jul 2011
Contributed by Lukas
A bi man and his lady enjoyed glorious bi-friendly sex until they had a baby. Then she demanded an immediate end to his bisexuality for fear he isn't ...
Savage Love Episode 246
05 Jul 2011
Contributed by Lukas
Dan Savage? What is the connection between homosexuals and unicorns? Can a gay man make out with a straight girl? Can he do that?? A woman c...
Savage Love Episode 245
28 Jun 2011
Contributed by Lukas
Seriously now. What's the most environmentally friendly way to dispose of your jiz? When encountering a man masturbating under cover of bushes i...
Savage Love Episode 244
21 Jun 2011
Contributed by Lukas
More rantings about a man named Weiner. Are garter belts inherently sexist, and is there a male equivalent? Dan interviews Ogi Ogas, co-author of "A...
Savage Love Episode 243
14 Jun 2011
Contributed by Lukas
Is it wrong to contact the subsequent lovers of your lying, cheating, abusive ex and compare notes? What if one of the notes is that you have herpes? ...
Savage Love Episode 242
07 Jun 2011
Contributed by Lukas
How do you ask your lady if her boobs are the work of god or man? A woman engaged to be married wants to help a gay couple she knows by being a ...
Savage Love Episode 241
31 May 2011
Contributed by Lukas
Today we are joined by the venerable athiest, science-lovin', feminist blogger Jen McCreight who has a thing or two to say about skepticism. She takes...
Savage Love Episode 240
24 May 2011
Contributed by Lukas
This week we are joined by the good doctor Vy Chu- a specialist in gay men's health. So there's a lot of talk about butts. And balls. ...
Savage Love Episode 239
17 May 2011
Contributed by Lukas
What does a neglectful drunk have to do to win his wife back? A man with a doll fetish wonders if his turn-on for the "little girl" look automat...
Savage Love Episode 238
09 May 2011
Contributed by Lukas
Too much information? A woman confides in a friend that she is having an affair. Now the friend feels on the hook with this unwanted knowledge. Should...
Savage Love Episode 237
02 May 2011
Contributed by Lukas
What happens when you're turned on by rape fantasies and then you actually get raped? Time to find a new fantasy. Marijuana! Is it Viagra for ...
Savage Love Episode 236
26 Apr 2011
Contributed by Lukas
A woman is having an affair with a man who is probably gay. Should she help him to cross the line into homo-land, or butt out and find somebody who di...
Savage Love Episode 235
19 Apr 2011
Contributed by Lukas
OMG! Don't you hate it when you go to a gay bar, make out with TWO gay men (even though you are a woman), and then totally don't remember it because y...
Savage Love Episode 234
12 Apr 2011
Contributed by Lukas
It's the one-minute wonder show! All calls less than one minute long! All answers less than one minute long! Why me talking like Hulk? Topics co...
Savage Love Episode 233
05 Apr 2011
Contributed by Lukas
When he first met his future wife in college, she was a sex machine. Now their sex life is vanilla and boring. Is it all over for him? Has he missed o...
Savage Love Episode 232
29 Mar 2011
Contributed by Lukas
How to engineer the perfect fuck-buddy. She has him somewhat trained. But he won't buy his own condoms, and he won't switch and let her sub for a whil...
Savage Love Episode 231
22 Mar 2011
Contributed by Lukas
We start the show off with a little wedding drama. The best man turns out to be a skirt-chasing cad. Should the bride & groom boot him out of the wedd...
Savage Love Episode 230
09 Mar 2011
Contributed by Lukas
At the age of 22, a married woman is sick of sex with her husband and wants to branch out. Can Dan save her marriage? How can you avoid the typical ...
Savage Love Episode 229
04 Mar 2011
Contributed by Lukas
Mike Huckabee? You're not going to like this show one bit. When friends are dickheads: two tales of nasty pals. One who insults his girlfriend and ...
Savage Love Episode 228
01 Mar 2011
Contributed by Lukas
A gay man who used to be bullied in high school testifies that when you get older, not only does it get better…it gets interesting. Three tale...
Savage Love Episode 227
22 Feb 2011
Contributed by Lukas
A crazy bitch who goes out dancing on a second date with a guy she really likes ends up making out with a completely different guy on the dance floor,...
Savage Love Episode 226
11 Feb 2011
Contributed by Lukas
It's the long-awaited episode with Mistress Matisse! Meet one of the few people who can make Dan Savage squirm. Topics covered: a sub who scares her...
Savage Love Episode 225
08 Feb 2011
Contributed by Lukas
Come hear the tale of the lying bisexual who chickened out and denied her bisexuality to a friend. Now she's paying the price. An ex-Mormon teen wan...
Savage Love Episode 224
26 Jan 2011
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Dan brings on Amy Lang—sex educator, author, and a generally hilarious and charming guest. All of today's calls concern how parents de...
Savage Love Episode 223
21 Jan 2011
Contributed by Lukas
A woman who broke up with her boyfriend after one year suffers from ADG (advanced dumper's guilt.) How can she get over it? In what sounds like an af...
Savage Love Episode 222A
18 Jan 2011
Contributed by Lukas
New and Improved! Reduce, reuse, recycle. Does this apply to condoms? Should a boyfriend be expected to help pay for birth control pills? A rap...
Savage Love Episode 221
11 Jan 2011
Contributed by Lukas
Sorry about the sound quality on some of this, folks. It gets better. Speaking of! Dan talks with the brilliant Rebecca Drysdale about her nearly pe...
Savage Love Episode 220
04 Jan 2011
Contributed by Lukas
A gay man posted some photos of himself wearing a dress. Now his family is FREAKING OUT. How can he explain that being a little freaky doesn't make hi...
Savage Love Episode 219
20 Dec 2010
Contributed by Lukas
A college co-ed is mortified at her own behavior at a frat party. Can she recast her image from drunken ho to witty sophisticate? After 12 years of ...
Savage Love Episode 218
20 Dec 2010
Contributed by Lukas
Her boyfriend wets the bed. Should this be a dealbreaker? A straight man repeatedly "finds himself" getting his dick sucked by his creepy neighbor. ...
Savage Love Episode 217
14 Dec 2010
Contributed by Lukas
"It's not you. I'm just not ready for a relationship." How should a man deal with these crazy-making words? A woman used to be a bit of a slut. Now sh...
Savage Love Episode 216
07 Dec 2010
Contributed by Lukas
A gay man's entire Catholic family knows he's gay. When will he come out already so they can meet his boyfriend? Want to punish your parents? Why no...
Savage Love Episode 215
30 Nov 2010
Contributed by Lukas
How do you make the transition from massage parlors to dating? A self-acknowedged cheater used to cheat, currently cheats and will cheat again. Should...
Savage Love Episode 214
23 Nov 2010
Contributed by Lukas
A young kinkster doesn't know how to tell her newly deflowered boyfriend that she wants him to slap her silly. Beware the man who says he only meets...
Savage Love Episode 213
16 Nov 2010
Contributed by Lukas
Clown porn- balloon poodles will never be the same. How do you tell your partner that she should lose a little weight? Is it racist to dig Mexican...
Savage Love Episode 212
09 Nov 2010
Contributed by Lukas
If you're dating a poly lady, does that automatically make YOU poly? How do you keep those pesky pubic hairs from getting trapped in the cock ring? ...
Savage Love Episode 211
02 Nov 2010
Contributed by Lukas
A gay man watches in horror as his gay friend attempts to become straight in order to please Jesus Christ. Meanwhile, an ex-Mormon and current foot-f...
Savage Love Episode 210
27 Oct 2010
Contributed by Lukas
Dan is joined by Christopher Ryan, coauthor of Sex at Dawn. The two attempt to tackle your freaky sex problems from an evolutionary psychologist's per...
Savage Love Episode 209
19 Oct 2010
Contributed by Lukas
It's the Damsels in Distress episode! A college coed lost her virginity while blasted drunk. Though she remembers giving consent, her shame caused her...
Savage Love Episode 208
12 Oct 2010
Contributed by Lukas
A woman and her mother have a tumultuous relationship. How will she take is when her daughter comes out as poly? A man and his wife have a great sex l...
Savage Love Episode 207
05 Oct 2010
Contributed by Lukas
A woman is married to a cruel dickhead, pure 'n' simple. Will she DTMFA? Confused Unicorn: A married bisexual is chagrined by the treatment she gets a...
Savage Love Episode 206
28 Sep 2010
Contributed by Lukas
It's the bisexual visibility show! All bisexuals, all of the time. Happy belated Bisexuality Day. Call us up. 206-302-2064 Today's episode is brought ...
Savage Love Episode 205
21 Sep 2010
Contributed by Lukas
A gay man is bewildered when a lover asks him to save his spunk in a Ziplock bag. If the lady you're making love to tells you that you don't need to w...
Savage Love Episode 204
14 Sep 2010
Contributed by Lukas
A woman's boyfriend got fired in May and still hasn't gotten his ass off the couch. Should she cut and run or hang in there? A lesbian grapples with h...
Savage Love Episode 203
07 Sep 2010
Contributed by Lukas
Polyamory: There's a dark side, you know. When a stripper pays you extra attention at a strip club, does it automatically mean you're being hustled? G...
Savage Love Episode 202
31 Aug 2010
Contributed by Lukas
Dan is joined by Adam Carolla for a tag team on three-ways. (For the first and last time...) And more. 206-302-2064 Today's episode is brought to you ...
Savage Love Episode 201
24 Aug 2010
Contributed by Lukas
It's the 'mo show! All homosexual men, all of the time! One 'mo's parents still can't deal with it, even though he came out a year ago. Another 'mo is...
Savage Love Episode 200
17 Aug 2010
Contributed by Lukas
Hear the sordid tale of the rat, the alley, and the eight-inch cock. A man and his buddy enjoy banging the same girl at the same time. Are they gettin...
Savage Love Episode 199
10 Aug 2010
Contributed by Lukas
Amnesia: How would you like to have to break up with your boyfriend over and over again? A young woman discovers that her mother is a part of a small ...
Savage Love Episode 198
03 Aug 2010
Contributed by Lukas
A disgruntled boyfriend is sick to death of his girlfriend's meddling mom. Two homos grapple with their desire for allegedly straight friends. Dan goe...
Savage Love Episode 197
27 Jul 2010
Contributed by Lukas
An interview with the victorious Constance McMillen. A message from Dan to high school teachers everywhere: You should err on the side of not fucking ...
Savage Love Episode 196
20 Jul 2010
Contributed by Lukas
Will Dan Savage lose his job to 18-year-old Damian? Damian's classmates voted him most likely to replace Dan Savage. Hear Dan go mano a mano with a Tw...
Savage Love Episode 195
13 Jul 2010
Contributed by Lukas
The Lovecast is humbled to welcome Dr. Anna Kaminski from Planned Parenthood. She and Dan discuss the twin bogeymen of herpes and HPV. The upshot? Not...
Savage Love Episode 194
06 Jul 2010
Contributed by Lukas
Dan interviews Christopher Ryan, coauthor of Sex at Dawn, which uses evolutionary science to vindicate Dan's position on monogamy. Double rebound: two...
Savage Love Episode 193
29 Jun 2010
Contributed by Lukas
Sometimes spring-winter romances just can't work. Like when he is 19 years old, and she is 11. Dan helps a very confused bisexual woman and a virgin M...
Savage Love Episode 192
22 Jun 2010
Contributed by Lukas
Hear the erotic tale of the woman who inhaled a gummy bear. Another whiny man who can't bear to get a vasectomy. And a call to all our self-fellating ...
Savage Love Episode 191
15 Jun 2010
Contributed by Lukas
Lots of dicks in this one. Really small dicks, bloody uncircumcised dicks, dicks that grow tremendously... and that doesn't even include the host! Zin...
Savage Love Episode 190
08 Jun 2010
Contributed by Lukas
A woman in a four-year relationship prefers anonymous sex without love. Her boyfriend wants monogamy. How can they reconcile this? How much porn does ...
Savage Love Episode 189
01 Jun 2010
Contributed by Lukas
Will a good fisting dislodge an IUD? She's too scared to ask her doctor. Men don't rape each other: true or false? Hey, fellas: Do you have an outie b...
Savage Love Episode 188
25 May 2010
Contributed by Lukas
Dear girlfriend. I love you so much. But can you please wash your vagina? A woman at the beginning of an online dating adventure is warned that her po...
Savage Love Episode 187
18 May 2010
Contributed by Lukas
Grandpa up and died. And he left behind his porn stash. Should his granddaughter rush in to hide it before the rest of the family discovers Grandpa's ...
Savage Love Episode 186
11 May 2010
Contributed by Lukas
Angry gay fucking: Her neighbors are doing it. How can she tell them to knock it off or at least keep it down? The tragedy of our inadequate sex educa...
Savage Love Episode 185
04 May 2010
Contributed by Lukas
Her new boyfriend can spray the walls with his spunk. How can she perform oral sex without drowning? A man and his prostitute are getting friendly out...
Savage Love Episode 184
27 Apr 2010
Contributed by Lukas
Today, Dan is joined by special guest expert Francisco Ramirez! Francisco dishes out free sex advice in Washington Square Park. Hear Dan and Fran doub...
Savage Love Episode 183
20 Apr 2010
Contributed by Lukas
Sympathy for the pedophile: Dan and Dr. James Cantor, assistant professor of psychiatry at University of Toronto, discuss the nightmare of being burde...
Savage Love Episode 182
13 Apr 2010
Contributed by Lukas
A man who cheated on his girlfriend 10 years ago feels so guilty about it that he decides to come clean all over her. A cautionary tale about explorin...
Savage Love Episode 181
06 Apr 2010
Contributed by Lukas
Can you think too hard about S&M? More pertinently, who really needs the gag? A young homo is joining the air force. How carefully should he cover his...
Savage Love Episode 180
30 Mar 2010
Contributed by Lukas
Whatever happened to "mystery porn"? A blubbering crybaby is scared to get a vasectomy. Do they really end in castration? Okay. What's with the "Q" in...
Savage Love Episode 179
23 Mar 2010
Contributed by Lukas
A lucky, lucky man thinks he may have been subtly propositioned by a hot couple. How can he close the deal without looking like a creep? A woman livin...
Savage Love Episode 178
16 Mar 2010
Contributed by Lukas
It's the gay teen episode! Today's episode is brought to you by Smitten Kitten. Get 20 percent off your order when you enter "Savage" at checkout: htt...
Savage Love Episode 177
09 Mar 2010
Contributed by Lukas
Is it leotarded for a woman to suck on a man's nipples? A well-intentioned women tries to give her lover a blowjob in his sleep. Most men would kill f...
Savage Love Episode 176
02 Mar 2010
Contributed by Lukas
Exactly how leotarded is it to have centerfolds up on the walls when you're in your mid 20s? When subs marry: How can they each get what they want, wh...
Savage Love Episode 175
23 Feb 2010
Contributed by Lukas
Her boyfriend had sex with his ex, didn't tell her, and got the ex pregnant. Should the caller be angry? A man with an interracial cuckold fantasy has...
Savage Love Episode 174
16 Feb 2010
Contributed by Lukas
Dan delivers a lecture to a teenage girl at the behest of her concerned father. Thin walls: The neighbor is making life unpleasant for the couple who ...
Savage Love Episode 173
09 Feb 2010
Contributed by Lukas
Word to the wise for those of you in open relationships: Don't tap the next-door neighbor. What's the delicate way to ask the lady whose panties you j...
Savage Love Episode 172
02 Feb 2010
Contributed by Lukas
A coven of bitches? All his girlfriend's pals hate him. Is it them, or is he the problem? Is a man a man if he likes other men? Internalized Homophobi...
Savage Love Episode 171
26 Jan 2010
Contributed by Lukas
Dan's old radio chum Mary Martone joins us for a very special episode of the Savage Lovecast, featuring unwitting exhibitionists, fat-baiters, adult b...