Savage Lovecast

Savage Love Episode 322

25 Dec 2012

Contributed by Lukas

Well, well, well. What heartwarming tales have we to share on our very special Christmas Lovecast? Why, here's one about the crippling guilt and shame...

Savage Love Episode 321

18 Dec 2012

Contributed by Lukas

There's a lot of cheating in this episode. Through the miracle of audio, you'll experience the world through the eyes of a former cheater, an aspiring...

Savage Love Episode 320

11 Dec 2012

Contributed by Lukas

Is there reasonable etiquette regarding the casual eating of pussy? A man refuses to go down on ladies he doesn't know well. Does this make him an ass...

Savage Love Episode 319

04 Dec 2012

Contributed by Lukas

Lesbians! Have you noticed that wherever you go you run into your lover's ex and your friends are all the same and there's only one lesbian bar in tow...

Savage Love Episode 318

27 Nov 2012

Contributed by Lukas

A bride-to-be faces a problematic wedding guest list. Should she invite her gaggle of gay friends and let them commingle with her conservative, bigote...

Savage Love Episode 317

20 Nov 2012

Contributed by Lukas

A man receives a mysterious image of a woman's pregnant belly, accompanied by a simple message telling him he's the father. Does he have the right to ...

Savage Love Episode 316

13 Nov 2012

Contributed by Lukas

Cock blocked! A man's friend did his best to steal the girl. How can the caller tell his "buddy" to get lost?  Can Dan Savage prevent a potentially d...

Savage Love Episode 315

06 Nov 2012

Contributed by Lukas

Hear a nail-bitten, wretched Dan Savage counsel the lovelorn despite a wracking flu, and election day jitters. Topics! Coming out at your cousin's bar...

Savage Love Episode 314

30 Oct 2012

Contributed by Lukas

Face-eating zombies, infested snacks, and buckets and buckets of blood! It's the Lovecast Halloween show, featuring true tales of sex-related horror. ...

Savage Love Episode 313

23 Oct 2012

Contributed by Lukas

Dad likes to wear women's clothing. This doesn't bother his daughter, but she doesn't want to hear much more. (But knowing his dress size might come i...

Savage Love Episode 312

16 Oct 2012

Contributed by Lukas

An autistic virgin woman wants to get into the swinging lifestyle. Should she get sterilized now, or kick that can down the road? During a fight with...

Savage Love Episode 311

09 Oct 2012

Contributed by Lukas

Paging Miss Manners! A man's mother detests his wife's mother so much, that she wants to exclude her from the baby shower. How can he tip-toe his way ...

Savage Love Episode 310

02 Oct 2012

Contributed by Lukas

A man's ex-lover nearly blabs some very personal info about him to the caller's sister. How much should he now reveal to her? Does he owe his sister t...

Savage Love Episode 309

25 Sep 2012

Contributed by Lukas

Ah, the sex toy double standard. He doesn't mind her vibrator, but she feels threatened by his Fleshlight.   Is it reasonable to be in favor of gay ...

Savage Love Episode 308

18 Sep 2012

Contributed by Lukas

This week the Lovecast welcomes Cindy Gallop, creator of .  Dan and Cindy discuss her project, the effect of pornography on real sex and relationsh...

Savage Love Episode 307

11 Sep 2012

Contributed by Lukas

When you're an 18 year-old homo living in the South, and your mother is a conservative Christian pastor, how on earth do you come out?  Oooooh, how t...

Savage Love Episode 306

04 Sep 2012

Contributed by Lukas

If you knew a gal had an unreciprocated crush on you, would you kiss her on the forehead and cuddle with her, knowing these actions would be misconstr...

Savage Love Episode 305

28 Aug 2012

Contributed by Lukas

It's the One-Minute Wonders show! All questions less than a minute! Fast!  Topics: Prostate massage, kinky punishment, kiss-o-phobes, deep throat br...

Savage Love Episode 304

21 Aug 2012

Contributed by Lukas

Is it stalking if you know where a cute girl works and you just happen to…pop in?  A man's friend sends him unwanted pictures of his dick. How can...

Savage Love Episode 303

14 Aug 2012

Contributed by Lukas

Meet the Savages! This week, in deepest, darkest Iowa, Dan sat down with his sister and two brothers to discuss strippers, the word "vagina," and good...

Savage Love Episode 302

07 Aug 2012

Contributed by Lukas

Damaged buttholes? Penis cracking? Molluscum contagiosum? Dr. Vy Chu fears nothing! Hear Dan and the venerable men's health expert discuss everything ...

Savage Love Episode 301

31 Jul 2012

Contributed by Lukas

Isn't it sad when your kink makes you sad? A woman who likes (and even needs) to be cuckolded wishes her kink wasn't all about her own humiliation.  ...

Savage Love Episode 300

24 Jul 2012

Contributed by Lukas

We're back! And what did we come back to? Online dishonesty, webcam addiction, and incest paranoia.    Ah, you people. It's nice to be home.   206-...

Savage Love Episode 299.5

17 Jul 2012

Contributed by Lukas

Sorry folks- no show this week. Dan is on "vacation," in deepest, darkest Europe, "relaxing." Or something.   Call us and cry about it: 206-201-2720 ...

Savage Love Episode 299

10 Jul 2012

Contributed by Lukas

A man's boyfriend's super-hot ex-lover is coming back to town. Should he feel jealous and insecure when they go out for drinks, or start scheming to m...

Savage Love Episode 298

03 Jul 2012

Contributed by Lukas

A most magnanimous woman is married to a man who likes trans women. Instead of buying her an anniversary present, he bought himself time with a trans ...

Savage Love Episode 297

26 Jun 2012

Contributed by Lukas

Do you know what a "'bater" is? A 'bater only wants to masturbate. No sex. Now, now would a relationship between a 'bater and a sex-loving fella work ...

Savage Love Episode 296

19 Jun 2012

Contributed by Lukas

This week, we present a live recording of the Savage Lovecast. We recorded the fundraiser show in Seattle at the Neptune Theatre, along with musical g...

Savage Love Episode 295

12 Jun 2012

Contributed by Lukas

Naughty butt plug! Why must you fly out of my bottom?!   A lesbian has a male best friend—her “dyke Mike.” But this gentleman has been sending ...

Savage Love Episode 294

05 Jun 2012

Contributed by Lukas

Isn't it sad when a lady can't come? Hear two tales of ladies who can't come with another person involved, and Dan's elegant solutions.  You know wha...

Savage Love Episode 293

29 May 2012

Contributed by Lukas

Ugh! She's so BORED. Bored of tying up her boyfriend and having sex with another woman. Bored with calling him a "little bitch." The real problem is t...

Savage Love Episode 292

22 May 2012

Contributed by Lukas

Gentle listeners: Are you sitting down? Now that you and Dan have been communing lo these past six years, he feels that he can trust you enough to sha...

Savage Love Episode 291

15 May 2012

Contributed by Lukas

Dan advises a recovering alcoholic on how to let people know why he's drinking ginger ale in the bar without causing the date to come to a screeching ...

Savage Love Episode 290

08 May 2012

Contributed by Lukas

A woman gets paid to dress up like a superhero and roll around in bed. Nothing sexual. Is she obligated to tell her boyfriend about this revenue strea...

Savage Love Episode 289

01 May 2012

Contributed by Lukas

How do you hit on someone with Aspergers? This week on the Savage Lovecast, Dan speaks with Maxine Aston, author and relationship counselor who specia...

Savage Love Episode 288

24 Apr 2012

Contributed by Lukas

Bisexuals! Grab your pitchforks and fire up those torches. This show is all about you.    Also, does a BJ get you into the Mile High Club?    A ma...

Savage Love Episode 287

17 Apr 2012

Contributed by Lukas

Dan counsels a very GGG woman on how she can lovingly kick her boyfriend in the nuts.   Rape scenarios are tricky, aren't they? You have to plan and ...

Savage Love Episode 286

10 Apr 2012

Contributed by Lukas

A gay man is being stalked by a sexually aggressive woman… in his DREAMS. Another man is being stalked by an actual lady in a waking nightmare. Also...

Savage Love Episode 285

03 Apr 2012

Contributed by Lukas

Dan welcomes his old MTV tour wife, the ever-gigglin' Lucy to talk about getting dumped, gender queers and furry pride.    Let Lucy's infectious mer...

Savage Love Episode 284

27 Mar 2012

Contributed by Lukas

How can a chronically adulterous lass embark on an open relationship when she is also chronically jealous?  When he was a youth, he and his cousin us...

Savage Love Episode 283

20 Mar 2012

Contributed by Lukas

When lesbians flirt: What is a red-blooded lad to think when his lesbian pal makes goo-goo eyes at him?  Are parents today too sex-positive? Dan and ...

Savage Love Episode 282

12 Mar 2012

Contributed by Lukas

Introducing… the Panty Bandit! Coming to a bed near you?    A woman is enjoying a friends-with-benefits relationship. But the lad always bolts out...

Savage Love Episode 281

06 Mar 2012

Contributed by Lukas

We begin our podcast with arguably the sleaziest caller we've ever encountered. It really has to be heard to be believed.  How can you help a friend ...

Savage Love Episode 280

29 Feb 2012

Contributed by Lukas

Yet another snooping girlfriend finds a cache of straight anal porn on her boyfriend's computer. Does this mean he should try sleeping with men?   Po...

Savage Love Episode 279

17 Feb 2012

Contributed by Lukas

A lesbian's partner shows her love by paying for everything. Unfortunately, she's kind of a jerk otherwise.  A man can't please his lady in bed unles...

Savage Love Episode 278

14 Feb 2012

Contributed by Lukas

The doctor is IN. Kindly, long-suffering Doctor Barak is back to answer your medical questions and submit to Dan's unique brand of torture. Dan and Do...

Savage Love Episode 277

07 Feb 2012

Contributed by Lukas

This week on the Savage Lovecast, a topless maid agonizes over her role in the aiding and abetting of infidelity. A man's sister employs a nanny. The ...

Savage Love Episode 276

31 Jan 2012

Contributed by Lukas

Swoon! It's Ira Glass, off his perch at This American Life, to join Dan in dispensing both sex advice and fart jokes.  It's Ira as you've never heard...

Savage Love Episode 275

21 Jan 2012

Contributed by Lukas

We've been getting lots of calls about losing one's virginity. Dan addresses a couple of them. Hey, 17-year-old boy: The tech-savvy at-risk youth woul...

Savage Love Episode 274

17 Jan 2012

Contributed by Lukas

A newly employed dishwasher wants to have sex with both of his bosses because he suspects they may be swingers. Is this a wise course of action?  Dan...

Savage Love Episode 273

06 Jan 2012

Contributed by Lukas

If your lady has a dream about being penetrated by five dicks, does that mean she actually wants to be penetrated by five dicks? Have you ever masturb...

Savage Love Episode 272

03 Jan 2012

Contributed by Lukas

Dan speaks with Dr. James Cantor, professor of Psychiatry at the University of Toronto, about pedophilia. What the hell can be done?    Also, Scienc...

Savage Love Episode 271

27 Dec 2011

Contributed by Lukas

It's the long-anticipated holiday horror show!  We asked for your tales of holiday lovin' gone wrong, and you delivered in force. You'll hear some fr...

Savage Love Episode 270

20 Dec 2011

Contributed by Lukas

  Dan speaks with cancer physician and researcher Dr. Ted Teknos about the HPV vaccine.    A GGG married woman acts out a cuckolding fantasy for he...

Savage Love Episode 269

13 Dec 2011

Contributed by Lukas

She received some flowers from her ex for her birthday. Does her current boyfriend have the right to freak the fuck out?  A woman wants to be splashe...

Savage Love Episode 268

06 Dec 2011

Contributed by Lukas

It's Lucy's last show. Hats off to Dan's brave, plucky assistant. Small hands- big heart.  The calls! Wood. He shows it and grows it at the earliest ...

Savage Love Episode 267

29 Nov 2011

Contributed by Lukas

Dan converses with a former rent boy, and you get to listen in. Should a man with a jealousy problem date his neighbor who happens to be a stripper? ...

Savage Love Episode 266

21 Nov 2011

Contributed by Lukas

Lucy is back to help Dan navigate his way through questions about dicks snapping right off, living with sex addiction, and a triad of soft weenies.  ...

Savage Love Episode 265

15 Nov 2011

Contributed by Lukas

Poor, lonely Dan, broadcasting from an empty hotel room, finds it in his heart to advise a pee-shy watersports fetishist, an insecure autofellator, an...

Savage Love Episode 264

08 Nov 2011

Contributed by Lukas

Baby? I know we don't know each other all that well, but I dig you so much that I want you to sleep with another man. Ok?  Is it true that soon churc...

Savage Love Episode 263

31 Oct 2011

Contributed by Lukas

A woman is in an unacknowledged fuck-buddy situation. He calls her up to "watch a movie or something," and then they have sex. But he always seems to ...

Savage Love Episode 262

25 Oct 2011

Contributed by Lukas

This week, Dan is joined by his animal handler, Lucy! Lucy can answer questions about shit skid marks left on couches, cheating lying girlfriends, jer...

Savage Love Episode 261

18 Oct 2011

Contributed by Lukas

Come hear the tale of the woman who wanks like a toddler. Remember that boy who got booted out of the Christian singing group "Psalm 100" for being g...

Savage Love Episode 260

11 Oct 2011

Contributed by Lukas

"No sex before the game!" Is this bit of conventional wisdom wise?    A gay man wonders if his date being specifically NOT invited to a family wedd...

Savage Love Episode 259

05 Oct 2011

Contributed by Lukas

Ladies: How should you react when your boyfriend accuses you of cheating on him because he can feel that your vagina is looser than he remembers it be...

Savage Love Episode 258

23 Sep 2011

Contributed by Lukas

Apparently, there is someone more qualified to answer your filthy questions than Dan Savage. The identity of Dan's replacement may shock you… A man'...

Savage Love Episode 257

20 Sep 2011

Contributed by Lukas

It's the fairy dust show! Can Dan Savage reach into his man-purse, pull out a handful of pink fairy dust, sprinkle it all over your sexual problems, a...

Savage Love Episode 256

09 Sep 2011

Contributed by Lukas

This week the Lovecast is honored to welcome Dr. Anna Kaminski, medical director from Planned Parenthood. Hats off, everyone. Dan and Anna discuss the...

Savage Love Episode 255

06 Sep 2011

Contributed by Lukas

  The Savage Lovecast is delighted to welcome Mistress Matisse, Seattle's charming and terrifying dominatrix. Can sadists get it on with other sadis...

Savage Love Episode 254

26 Aug 2011

Contributed by Lukas

After a young queer woman came out to her high-school friends, one of them utterly rejected her and expressed retroactive squeamishness for all the hu...

Savage Love Episode 253

23 Aug 2011

Contributed by Lukas

A son is more than a little jealous that his dad has multiple orgasms, and prays that perhaps it's genetic?  Research scientist and hymen expert Debb...

Savage Love Episode 252

15 Aug 2011

Contributed by Lukas

A woman who enjoys vanilla sex feels discriminated against by her kinky, poly posse.  A man recently home from Iraq doesn't know how to speak gently ...

Savage Love Episode 251

05 Aug 2011

Contributed by Lukas

Gentle listeners of the podcast, it pains us to have to remind you to TEND TO YOUR UNICORN. In other words, if you have secured a lovely lady who is w...

Savage Love Episode 250

27 Jul 2011

Contributed by Lukas

What is the proper etiquette when you are offered $20 on the street to perform a sex act? A female sex worker in a new relationship wants to leave the...

Savage Love Episode 249

25 Jul 2011

Contributed by Lukas

The open-minded father of a 14-year-old lesbian wonders if he should allow her to have sleepovers with her girlfriend.Dan's position on the Mormon pol...

Savage Love Episode 248

19 Jul 2011

Contributed by Lukas

A meddling, deluded mother changes the relationship status on her gay son’s Facebook page to say he’s interested in women. How can this patient so...

Savage Love Episode 247

12 Jul 2011

Contributed by Lukas

A bi man and his lady enjoyed glorious bi-friendly sex until they had a baby. Then she demanded an immediate end to his bisexuality for fear he isn't ...

Savage Love Episode 246

05 Jul 2011

Contributed by Lukas

Dan Savage? What is the connection between homosexuals and unicorns?    Can a gay man make out with a straight girl? Can he do that??   A woman c...

Savage Love Episode 245

28 Jun 2011

Contributed by Lukas

Seriously now. What's the most environmentally friendly way to dispose of your jiz?    When encountering a man masturbating under cover of bushes i...

Savage Love Episode 244

21 Jun 2011

Contributed by Lukas

More rantings about a man named Weiner. Are garter belts inherently sexist, and is there a male equivalent?  Dan interviews Ogi Ogas, co-author of "A...

Savage Love Episode 243

14 Jun 2011

Contributed by Lukas

Is it wrong to contact the subsequent lovers of your lying, cheating, abusive ex and compare notes? What if one of the notes is that you have herpes? ...

Savage Love Episode 242

07 Jun 2011

Contributed by Lukas

How do you ask your lady if her boobs are the work of god or man?    A woman engaged to be married wants to help a gay couple she knows by being a ...

Savage Love Episode 241

31 May 2011

Contributed by Lukas

Today we are joined by the venerable athiest, science-lovin', feminist blogger Jen McCreight who has a thing or two to say about skepticism. She takes...

Savage Love Episode 240

24 May 2011

Contributed by Lukas

This week we are joined by the good doctor Vy Chu- a specialist in gay men's health.  So there's a lot of talk about butts.        And balls. ...

Savage Love Episode 239

17 May 2011

Contributed by Lukas

What does a neglectful drunk have to do to win his wife back?    A man with a doll fetish wonders if his turn-on for the "little girl" look automat...

Savage Love Episode 238

09 May 2011

Contributed by Lukas

Too much information? A woman confides in a friend that she is having an affair. Now the friend feels on the hook with this unwanted knowledge. Should...

Savage Love Episode 237

02 May 2011

Contributed by Lukas

What happens when you're turned on by rape fantasies and then you actually get raped? Time to find a new fantasy.    Marijuana! Is it Viagra for ...

Savage Love Episode 236

26 Apr 2011

Contributed by Lukas

A woman is having an affair with a man who is probably gay. Should she help him to cross the line into homo-land, or butt out and find somebody who di...

Savage Love Episode 235

19 Apr 2011

Contributed by Lukas

OMG! Don't you hate it when you go to a gay bar, make out with TWO gay men (even though you are a woman), and then totally don't remember it because y...

Savage Love Episode 234

12 Apr 2011

Contributed by Lukas

It's the one-minute wonder show! All calls less than one minute long! All answers less than one minute long! Why me talking like Hulk?    Topics co...

Savage Love Episode 233

05 Apr 2011

Contributed by Lukas

When he first met his future wife in college, she was a sex machine. Now their sex life is vanilla and boring. Is it all over for him? Has he missed o...

Savage Love Episode 232

29 Mar 2011

Contributed by Lukas

How to engineer the perfect fuck-buddy. She has him somewhat trained. But he won't buy his own condoms, and he won't switch and let her sub for a whil...

Savage Love Episode 231

22 Mar 2011

Contributed by Lukas

We start the show off with a little wedding drama. The best man turns out to be a skirt-chasing cad. Should the bride & groom boot him out of the wedd...

Savage Love Episode 230

09 Mar 2011

Contributed by Lukas

At the age of 22, a married woman is sick of sex with her husband and wants to branch out. Can Dan save her marriage?  How can you avoid the typical ...

Savage Love Episode 229

04 Mar 2011

Contributed by Lukas

Mike Huckabee? You're not going to like this show one bit.   When friends are dickheads: two tales of nasty pals. One who insults his girlfriend and ...

Savage Love Episode 228

01 Mar 2011

Contributed by Lukas

A gay man who used to be bullied in high school testifies that when you get older, not only does it get better…it gets interesting.    Three tale...

Savage Love Episode 227

22 Feb 2011

Contributed by Lukas

A crazy bitch who goes out dancing on a second date with a guy she really likes ends up making out with a completely different guy on the dance floor,...

Savage Love Episode 226

11 Feb 2011

Contributed by Lukas

It's the long-awaited episode with Mistress Matisse! Meet one of the few people who can make Dan Savage squirm. Topics covered: a sub who scares her...

Savage Love Episode 225

08 Feb 2011

Contributed by Lukas

Come hear the tale of the lying bisexual who chickened out and denied her bisexuality to a friend. Now she's paying the price.  An ex-Mormon teen wan...

Savage Love Episode 224

26 Jan 2011

Contributed by Lukas

This week, Dan brings on Amy Lang—sex educator, author, and a generally hilarious and charming guest.  All of today's calls concern how parents de...