Savage Lovecast
Episodes
Savage Love Episode 369
19 Nov 2013
Contributed by Lukas
Is it selfish to have a vasectomy? Lesbian roller derby sleepover! A lesbian couple are hosting a sleepover for the all-girl roller derby team that ...
Savage Love Episode 368
12 Nov 2013
Contributed by Lukas
An erotic masseuse has serviced an estimated 5000 dicks, over the course of 23 years, to support her family. Now what? A gay man engaged to his boyf...
Savage Love Episode 367
05 Nov 2013
Contributed by Lukas
Do bisexuals need a new label? Dan interviews Salon writer Anna Pulley on bi nomenclature. Listen in as Dan convinces a mother to leave her conservati...
Savage Love Episode 366
29 Oct 2013
Contributed by Lukas
This week Dan talks sex and death with Caitlin Doughty of Ask a Mortician. Spooky! Dan also chats with Dr. Sydnee and Justin McElroy of the Sawbones...
Savage Love Episode 365
22 Oct 2013
Contributed by Lukas
Welcome to Season 16 of the Savage Lovecast! This Magnum season has 26 episodes, from October 22 through April 22. Go to www.SavageLovecast.com to get...
Savage Love Episode 364
15 Oct 2013
Contributed by Lukas
Next week is your chance to get in on the full Magnum season from the very beginning. www.SavageLovecast.com A gay man wonders if he should bring mac...
Savage Love Episode 363
08 Oct 2013
Contributed by Lukas
Season 15 approaches! The new season will start on October 22. Be sure to go to www.savagelovecast.com then, to renew or or subscribe for the first ti...
Savage Love Episode 362
01 Oct 2013
Contributed by Lukas
There's a lot of bisexuality sloshing around this show. Dan speaks with Ellyn Ruthstrom of the Bisexual Resource Center on coming out, and seeking acc...
Savage Love Episode 361
24 Sep 2013
Contributed by Lukas
Are young ladies allowed to call or "text" unattached, young men to ask for a date? Or would this tarnish a girl's valued reputation? A sex worker...
Savage Love Episode 360
17 Sep 2013
Contributed by Lukas
A gay man's truly evil step-mother falsely accused him of sexually assaulting his younger siblings. His father never rose to his defense. Should he fo...
Savage Love Episode 359
10 Sep 2013
Contributed by Lukas
Dan speaks with pro-gay rights Christian John Shore about the NALT Project. Non-douchey Christians: here's your chance to speak up. www.NotAllLikeThat...
Savage Love Episode 358
03 Sep 2013
Contributed by Lukas
A man (with a British accent that had the tech-savvy, at-risk youth panting like hound dogs at noon,) likes to cat around town, despite his ostensib...
Savage Love Episode 357
27 Aug 2013
Contributed by Lukas
Dan helps a woman determine the fine line between over-permissiveness and slut-shaming for her 14 year-old step-daughter. In more hand-wringing, a y...
Savage Love Episode 356
20 Aug 2013
Contributed by Lukas
"Cum Dumpster." Is this a sweet, sexy term, or just plain nasty? A straight woman in Texas feels like a nelly gay man trapped in a woman's body. How...
Savage Love Episode 355
13 Aug 2013
Contributed by Lukas
After over a year of dating a woman online that the caller had never met, he is horrified to learn that she isn't at all who she said she was. What no...
Savage Love Episode 354
06 Aug 2013
Contributed by Lukas
A straight man has been the recipient of some rather shoddy pegging. Dan sets him on a better course. A woman's older boyfriend insists her gay frie...
Savage Love Episode 353
30 Jul 2013
Contributed by Lukas
A woman has become a regular third (unicorn) for a couple's three-ways. They buy her dinner and drinks. Should she get get over feeling like a mooch a...
Savage Love Episode 352
23 Jul 2013
Contributed by Lukas
Listen in as Dan Savage and Ari Shapiro (fancy-pants White House correspondent for NPR) drink, talk about monogamy and Dan's book, drink, talk abou...
Savage Love Episode 351
16 Jul 2013
Contributed by Lukas
Her boyfriend wants it every day. She can manage 4-6 times per week but he still berates her for not putting out enough. Who's side will Dan come down...
Savage Love Episode 350
09 Jul 2013
Contributed by Lukas
Hooray for happy rants! Dan tells you how he felt and what he did when he found out that DOMA was repealed. A man's random ejaculation resulted in a...
Savage Love Episode 349
02 Jul 2013
Contributed by Lukas
First off, prepare yourself for the most Depressing Rant Ever. (We recorded this show well before DOMA went DOWN.) A young gay man connected with anot...
Savage Love Episode 348
25 Jun 2013
Contributed by Lukas
Kids today! A woman agrees to give her new lover her used panties. He then reports that his eleven-year old nephew got a hold of them and did unspeaka...
Savage Love Episode 347
18 Jun 2013
Contributed by Lukas
How soon is too soon for anal? A woman who had a brief foray into sex work long ago wonders how to tell her partners without shame, rejection or tit...
Savage Love Episode 346
11 Jun 2013
Contributed by Lukas
On this week's Micro version, how should you comport yourself when you're the Dungeon Monitor, and you have to watch your ex-girlfriend be some other ...
Savage Love Episode 345
04 Jun 2013
Contributed by Lukas
This show is for the ladies. First Dan attempts to smash the patriarchy with his opening rant. Then he sticks up for a woman whose military husban...
Savage Love Episode 344
28 May 2013
Contributed by Lukas
A woman met a man in a bar and they exchanged numbers. Then she sent him some steamy, hot, erotic fiction that she wrote. About him. What's the readin...
Savage Love Episode 343
21 May 2013
Contributed by Lukas
"She wants a dom, not a dick." Gather round everyone, and listen in as Dan Savage and Mistress Matisse gab about BDSM, where kink comes from, fantasy ...
Savage Love Episode 342
14 May 2013
Contributed by Lukas
This week on the Savage Lovecast: Tales of open relationships gone horribly wrong. Is it so wrong to move in with your boyfriend to save on rent? Also...
Savage Love Episode 341
07 May 2013
Contributed by Lukas
How should you respond when your cousin accidentally sends you a naked pic? Dick growing pills. Any money in that racket? Dan speaks with Dr. Thom...
Savage Love Episode 340
30 Apr 2013
Contributed by Lukas
"Am I just his beard?" asks a woeful girlfriend. Another gal did a little snooping, and discovered that her man has a "happy endings map" of all the...
Savage Love Episode 339
23 Apr 2013
Contributed by Lukas
Dan helps a sneeze fetishist concoct a plan to make her sex life more…sneezy. Growing up, a man had insufficient testosterone. Now that he's takin...
Savage Love Episode 338
16 Apr 2013
Contributed by Lukas
Dan speaks with Slate editor Emily Bazelon on sexting, slut-shaming, bullying and suicide. A meddling friend watches in horror as her Mormon friends p...
Savage Love Episode 337
09 Apr 2013
Contributed by Lukas
A woman caring for her father with dementia discovers that he is a pedophile, though she thinks he never acts on his desires. Should she tell her mom?...
Savage Love Episode 336
02 Apr 2013
Contributed by Lukas
What a chatterbox Dan Savage is this week! He speaks with a foot model about creepos in the foot fetish community, and tears 14 new…apertures into a...
Savage Love Episode 335
26 Mar 2013
Contributed by Lukas
Meet Naughty Dr. Pee-Pee and the Patient with a Secret. Those of you in the medical or dental professions will find this episode most… illuminating....
Savage Love Episode 334
19 Mar 2013
Contributed by Lukas
This week Dan speaks again with Slate reporter Daniel Engber now that Gilberto Valle, AKA the Cannibal Cop, has been found guilty. Sleep a little easi...
Savage Love Episode 333
12 Mar 2013
Contributed by Lukas
It seems like everyone is angry at the gays. Hear the super-sad tale of a father outed and then hated by his own daughter. But she doesn't hate him to...
Savage Love Episode 332
05 Mar 2013
Contributed by Lukas
How does one go about inviting a man over for dinner, when you really want to initiate the three-way sequence? Pointy-headed science writer Jesse Be...
Savage Love Episode 331
26 Feb 2013
Contributed by Lukas
This week Dan welcomes two guests. Joan Price, author of "Naked at Our Age" talks about sex in your golden years. And John Schwartz author of "Oddly N...
Savage Love Episode 330
19 Feb 2013
Contributed by Lukas
This is the live taping of the freaky show we did at the Neptune Theater featuring Simon Rich, Mistress Matisse, Audrey from Babeland and others. Have...
Savage Love Episode 329
12 Feb 2013
Contributed by Lukas
A young lesbian is offended that her parents won't let her have her best friend, also a lesbian, join her for a sleepover. Are her parents being homop...
Savage Love Episode 328
05 Feb 2013
Contributed by Lukas
Dan desperately tries to convince a young gay man to use a condom when hooking up with random hot Australians. The amazing Buck Angel speaks with Da...
Savage Love Episode 327
29 Jan 2013
Contributed by Lukas
All hail Planned Parenthood! On today's show the Lovecast welcomes Dr. Anna Kaminski, senior physician for the venerable organization, who can calmly ...
Savage Love Episode 326
22 Jan 2013
Contributed by Lukas
Tales of addiction; A woman in recovery worries that if she introduces S&M into her relationship that it will consume her life like booze or heroin. A...
Savage Love Episode 325
15 Jan 2013
Contributed by Lukas
Dan welcomes very special guest star Mistress Matisse to discuss S&M when you're really, really mad. Also Dan goes into the finer details of hickey et...
Savage Love Episode 324
08 Jan 2013
Contributed by Lukas
A gay man started his coming out process by announcing that he was bi to his parents. Now that he knows he's a full 'mo, how can he convince his skept...
Savage Love Episode 323
01 Jan 2013
Contributed by Lukas
Welcome to 2013 where the sexual landscape seems just as freaky as it did in 2012. Highlights from todays show: a woman dating a closet asexual, a dau...
Savage Love Episode 322
25 Dec 2012
Contributed by Lukas
Well, well, well. What heartwarming tales have we to share on our very special Christmas Lovecast? Why, here's one about the crippling guilt and shame...
Savage Love Episode 321
18 Dec 2012
Contributed by Lukas
There's a lot of cheating in this episode. Through the miracle of audio, you'll experience the world through the eyes of a former cheater, an aspiring...
Savage Love Episode 320
11 Dec 2012
Contributed by Lukas
Is there reasonable etiquette regarding the casual eating of pussy? A man refuses to go down on ladies he doesn't know well. Does this make him an ass...
Savage Love Episode 319
04 Dec 2012
Contributed by Lukas
Lesbians! Have you noticed that wherever you go you run into your lover's ex and your friends are all the same and there's only one lesbian bar in tow...
Savage Love Episode 318
27 Nov 2012
Contributed by Lukas
A bride-to-be faces a problematic wedding guest list. Should she invite her gaggle of gay friends and let them commingle with her conservative, bigote...
Savage Love Episode 317
20 Nov 2012
Contributed by Lukas
A man receives a mysterious image of a woman's pregnant belly, accompanied by a simple message telling him he's the father. Does he have the right to ...
Savage Love Episode 316
13 Nov 2012
Contributed by Lukas
Cock blocked! A man's friend did his best to steal the girl. How can the caller tell his "buddy" to get lost? Can Dan Savage prevent a potentially d...
Savage Love Episode 315
06 Nov 2012
Contributed by Lukas
Hear a nail-bitten, wretched Dan Savage counsel the lovelorn despite a wracking flu, and election day jitters. Topics! Coming out at your cousin's bar...
Savage Love Episode 314
30 Oct 2012
Contributed by Lukas
Face-eating zombies, infested snacks, and buckets and buckets of blood! It's the Lovecast Halloween show, featuring true tales of sex-related horror. ...
Savage Love Episode 313
23 Oct 2012
Contributed by Lukas
Dad likes to wear women's clothing. This doesn't bother his daughter, but she doesn't want to hear much more. (But knowing his dress size might come i...
Savage Love Episode 312
16 Oct 2012
Contributed by Lukas
An autistic virgin woman wants to get into the swinging lifestyle. Should she get sterilized now, or kick that can down the road? During a fight with...
Savage Love Episode 311
09 Oct 2012
Contributed by Lukas
Paging Miss Manners! A man's mother detests his wife's mother so much, that she wants to exclude her from the baby shower. How can he tip-toe his way ...
Savage Love Episode 310
02 Oct 2012
Contributed by Lukas
A man's ex-lover nearly blabs some very personal info about him to the caller's sister. How much should he now reveal to her? Does he owe his sister t...
Savage Love Episode 309
25 Sep 2012
Contributed by Lukas
Ah, the sex toy double standard. He doesn't mind her vibrator, but she feels threatened by his Fleshlight. Is it reasonable to be in favor of gay ...
Savage Love Episode 308
18 Sep 2012
Contributed by Lukas
This week the Lovecast welcomes Cindy Gallop, creator of . Dan and Cindy discuss her project, the effect of pornography on real sex and relationsh...
Savage Love Episode 307
11 Sep 2012
Contributed by Lukas
When you're an 18 year-old homo living in the South, and your mother is a conservative Christian pastor, how on earth do you come out? Oooooh, how t...
Savage Love Episode 306
04 Sep 2012
Contributed by Lukas
If you knew a gal had an unreciprocated crush on you, would you kiss her on the forehead and cuddle with her, knowing these actions would be misconstr...
Savage Love Episode 305
28 Aug 2012
Contributed by Lukas
It's the One-Minute Wonders show! All questions less than a minute! Fast! Topics: Prostate massage, kinky punishment, kiss-o-phobes, deep throat br...
Savage Love Episode 304
21 Aug 2012
Contributed by Lukas
Is it stalking if you know where a cute girl works and you just happen to…pop in? A man's friend sends him unwanted pictures of his dick. How can...
Savage Love Episode 303
14 Aug 2012
Contributed by Lukas
Meet the Savages! This week, in deepest, darkest Iowa, Dan sat down with his sister and two brothers to discuss strippers, the word "vagina," and good...
Savage Love Episode 302
07 Aug 2012
Contributed by Lukas
Damaged buttholes? Penis cracking? Molluscum contagiosum? Dr. Vy Chu fears nothing! Hear Dan and the venerable men's health expert discuss everything ...
Savage Love Episode 301
31 Jul 2012
Contributed by Lukas
Isn't it sad when your kink makes you sad? A woman who likes (and even needs) to be cuckolded wishes her kink wasn't all about her own humiliation. ...
Savage Love Episode 300
24 Jul 2012
Contributed by Lukas
We're back! And what did we come back to? Online dishonesty, webcam addiction, and incest paranoia. Ah, you people. It's nice to be home. 206-...
Savage Love Episode 299.5
17 Jul 2012
Contributed by Lukas
Sorry folks- no show this week. Dan is on "vacation," in deepest, darkest Europe, "relaxing." Or something. Call us and cry about it: 206-201-2720 ...
Savage Love Episode 299
10 Jul 2012
Contributed by Lukas
A man's boyfriend's super-hot ex-lover is coming back to town. Should he feel jealous and insecure when they go out for drinks, or start scheming to m...
Savage Love Episode 298
03 Jul 2012
Contributed by Lukas
A most magnanimous woman is married to a man who likes trans women. Instead of buying her an anniversary present, he bought himself time with a trans ...
Savage Love Episode 297
26 Jun 2012
Contributed by Lukas
Do you know what a "'bater" is? A 'bater only wants to masturbate. No sex. Now, now would a relationship between a 'bater and a sex-loving fella work ...
Savage Love Episode 296
19 Jun 2012
Contributed by Lukas
This week, we present a live recording of the Savage Lovecast. We recorded the fundraiser show in Seattle at the Neptune Theatre, along with musical g...
Savage Love Episode 295
12 Jun 2012
Contributed by Lukas
Naughty butt plug! Why must you fly out of my bottom?! A lesbian has a male best friend—her “dyke Mike.” But this gentleman has been sending ...
Savage Love Episode 294
05 Jun 2012
Contributed by Lukas
Isn't it sad when a lady can't come? Hear two tales of ladies who can't come with another person involved, and Dan's elegant solutions. You know wha...
Savage Love Episode 293
29 May 2012
Contributed by Lukas
Ugh! She's so BORED. Bored of tying up her boyfriend and having sex with another woman. Bored with calling him a "little bitch." The real problem is t...
Savage Love Episode 292
22 May 2012
Contributed by Lukas
Gentle listeners: Are you sitting down? Now that you and Dan have been communing lo these past six years, he feels that he can trust you enough to sha...
Savage Love Episode 291
15 May 2012
Contributed by Lukas
Dan advises a recovering alcoholic on how to let people know why he's drinking ginger ale in the bar without causing the date to come to a screeching ...
Savage Love Episode 290
08 May 2012
Contributed by Lukas
A woman gets paid to dress up like a superhero and roll around in bed. Nothing sexual. Is she obligated to tell her boyfriend about this revenue strea...
Savage Love Episode 289
01 May 2012
Contributed by Lukas
How do you hit on someone with Aspergers? This week on the Savage Lovecast, Dan speaks with Maxine Aston, author and relationship counselor who specia...
Savage Love Episode 288
24 Apr 2012
Contributed by Lukas
Bisexuals! Grab your pitchforks and fire up those torches. This show is all about you. Also, does a BJ get you into the Mile High Club? A ma...
Savage Love Episode 287
17 Apr 2012
Contributed by Lukas
Dan counsels a very GGG woman on how she can lovingly kick her boyfriend in the nuts. Rape scenarios are tricky, aren't they? You have to plan and ...
Savage Love Episode 286
10 Apr 2012
Contributed by Lukas
A gay man is being stalked by a sexually aggressive woman… in his DREAMS. Another man is being stalked by an actual lady in a waking nightmare. Also...
Savage Love Episode 285
03 Apr 2012
Contributed by Lukas
Dan welcomes his old MTV tour wife, the ever-gigglin' Lucy to talk about getting dumped, gender queers and furry pride. Let Lucy's infectious mer...
Savage Love Episode 284
27 Mar 2012
Contributed by Lukas
How can a chronically adulterous lass embark on an open relationship when she is also chronically jealous? When he was a youth, he and his cousin us...
Savage Love Episode 283
20 Mar 2012
Contributed by Lukas
When lesbians flirt: What is a red-blooded lad to think when his lesbian pal makes goo-goo eyes at him? Are parents today too sex-positive? Dan and ...
Savage Love Episode 282
12 Mar 2012
Contributed by Lukas
Introducing… the Panty Bandit! Coming to a bed near you? A woman is enjoying a friends-with-benefits relationship. But the lad always bolts out...
Savage Love Episode 281
06 Mar 2012
Contributed by Lukas
We begin our podcast with arguably the sleaziest caller we've ever encountered. It really has to be heard to be believed. How can you help a friend ...
Savage Love Episode 280
29 Feb 2012
Contributed by Lukas
Yet another snooping girlfriend finds a cache of straight anal porn on her boyfriend's computer. Does this mean he should try sleeping with men? Po...
Savage Love Episode 279
17 Feb 2012
Contributed by Lukas
A lesbian's partner shows her love by paying for everything. Unfortunately, she's kind of a jerk otherwise. A man can't please his lady in bed unles...
Savage Love Episode 278
14 Feb 2012
Contributed by Lukas
The doctor is IN. Kindly, long-suffering Doctor Barak is back to answer your medical questions and submit to Dan's unique brand of torture. Dan and Do...
Savage Love Episode 277
07 Feb 2012
Contributed by Lukas
This week on the Savage Lovecast, a topless maid agonizes over her role in the aiding and abetting of infidelity. A man's sister employs a nanny. The ...
Savage Love Episode 276
31 Jan 2012
Contributed by Lukas
Swoon! It's Ira Glass, off his perch at This American Life, to join Dan in dispensing both sex advice and fart jokes. It's Ira as you've never heard...
Savage Love Episode 275
21 Jan 2012
Contributed by Lukas
We've been getting lots of calls about losing one's virginity. Dan addresses a couple of them. Hey, 17-year-old boy: The tech-savvy at-risk youth woul...
Savage Love Episode 274
17 Jan 2012
Contributed by Lukas
A newly employed dishwasher wants to have sex with both of his bosses because he suspects they may be swingers. Is this a wise course of action? Dan...
Savage Love Episode 273
06 Jan 2012
Contributed by Lukas
If your lady has a dream about being penetrated by five dicks, does that mean she actually wants to be penetrated by five dicks? Have you ever masturb...
Savage Love Episode 272
03 Jan 2012
Contributed by Lukas
Dan speaks with Dr. James Cantor, professor of Psychiatry at the University of Toronto, about pedophilia. What the hell can be done? Also, Scienc...
Savage Love Episode 271
27 Dec 2011
Contributed by Lukas
It's the long-anticipated holiday horror show! We asked for your tales of holiday lovin' gone wrong, and you delivered in force. You'll hear some fr...