Single To Soulmate Podcast with Johnny & Lara Fernandez

Can Your Love Life Become a Burden?

17 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Love can be tough, there’s no denying that.  Even when you find your soulmate, it won’t be all smiles 100% of the time. That’s just reality.  ...

What’s Stopping You From Finding Love?

15 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Have you been trying to find your soulmate without any success for a LONG time?  Are you tired of feeling held back by a mysterious cause?  Listen t...

The Type of Love Life Needed to Find Love

13 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

If you want to attract your soulmate you have to be the perfect woman… Right?  You might think so, but how true is it really?  Do you REALLY need ...

Good Men No Longer Exist!

12 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever felt like no matter where you look, there’s just no more good men?  That your married friends took the last of them and you just can’...

Seeing Yourself as a Role Model

12 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Are you aware that you’re a role model?  This has nothing to do with whether you have kids or not, but about the people that are close to you. You ...

Can You See Your Own Beauty?

10 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Do you ever have doubts about your looks? Ever felt like maybe you aren’t beautiful?  I understand you might feel this at times.  So here’s a me...

What High Quality Men Look For

08 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

What do quality men want from women?  What do you need to do to attract one? This can be so confusing and frustrating!  You want to attract a qualit...

Stop Lying to Yourself!

06 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Everyone knows that lying is bad, but what is even worse is lying to yourself. You might not even notice it but you could be lying to yourself about o...

4 Things In Your Control to Attract Love

05 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Look you can’t control everything in the world, you know that already. But! That doesn’t mean you have NO CONTROL! You absolutely are in control o...

Why Confidence Matters in Your Love Life

03 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Confidence is HUGE in your love life. It’s important you have the right type of confidence, being very self aware and truly understanding your love ...

How Important Should Your Love Life Be?

01 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

If you are reading this love is obviously a BIG priority of yours. You are serious about it, you want to finally attract your soulmate. But how import...

The 7 Reasons Dating Is Harder Now

30 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Dating has never been more complicated than it is in this day and age. To an extent, it’s no surprise. Times change, people change, culture changes....

Is Being Alone Becoming a Habit?

29 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

All this time not finding your soulmate after so much desire might be hurting you. We are not saying it’s your fault that you haven’t found love y...

Good Men Are NON EXISTENT!

28 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s dating culture, it is CLEAR that good men are GONE! No more gentlemen out there!  Is this true? How have men changed and why is so hard ...

Finding Love Is EXTREMELY Hard!

25 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Finding true lasting love is no easy task! You might know this already if you’ve been seriously trying to find a high quality man with no success. H...

Are You Ready for Marriage?

23 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

So you want to have it all with your soulmate. You are ready to find him and live happily ever after. But are you TRULY ready for marriage? Marriage i...

The Fear of Not Finding Love

22 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

You’ve wanted true love for so long but just haven’t found it yet.  You’re getting exhausted, and maybe even AFRAID of never finding love.  Th...

How to Be More Confident In Your Love Life

21 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

If your confidence in your love life has been damaged by heartbreak, overwhelm, or even trauma, this episode is for you. You’ll never find Mr. Right...

Why Your Relationships Always Fail

18 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

So you’ve dating again and again and again with no success. It seems like no matter what you try you just can’t seem to find soulmate love. What i...

Intention MATTERS When Dating

16 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Dating is hard for almost everyone regardless of who they are. It can be one of the must frustrating things to try to find love. What makes it harder ...

These 2 Things are POISON for Your Love Life

15 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

There are two things that you could be doing that are killing your love life. To your surprise, they could not even be related to how you deal with me...

You NEED a Plan to Find Love

14 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

But you also need the RIGHT plan. But what does that even look like? Let’s talk about that.   WHAT YOU WILL LEARN: - Why you need a plan to find lo...

Are You a Reluctant Dater?

11 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

So you REALLY want to find your soulmate but it seems like nothing is working. You are putting yourself out there and doing all the “right” things...

Is Your Dating Life a Circus?

09 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Does your dating life feel like you just keep attracting nothing but the wrong men for your life? If so, have you ever asked yourself why is that? It’...

Don’t Overcomplicate Men!

08 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Men are NOT like women! So stop using the same logic for them. The truth is men and women are wired differently, so if you think they are thinking jus...

Attracting Commitment-Phobes!

07 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Aren’t you tired of attracting men who aren’t willing to commit? They are a total waste of time! You need to stop attracting these men, they are m...

Are You an OVERGIVER in Relationships?

06 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Could you be giving too much when in a relationship? How is that even possible!? To your surprise, yes, you could be an overgiver. And giving too much...

Your BELIEFS & BEHAVIORS Around LOVE

04 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Your choice in men is not the only thing that are making your love life harder than it needs to be. You need to look further than that.  Your beliefs...

Magic & Miracles Are Possible

02 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Believe it or not, you really can have it all! However, it won’t be easy and it certainly won’t happen if you don’t make any changes in your lif...

Tired of Liars, Cheaters, and Knuckleheads?

01 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Aren’t you completely done with dealing with low quality men that bring no good to your life? Why even bother to keep giving men like this a chance?...

Boundaries or Brick Walls?

30 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

So you’ve decided it’s time to set some boundaries in your relationships. No more being pushed around and manipulated! That’s a great step! But ...

What’s Your Feminine Radiance Score and Why Does It Matter?

29 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Are you feminine enough to attract the man of your dreams? Now before you get rattled up about this question, let me be clear on something. Your femin...

Healing From Narcissistic Trauma

27 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Have you been hurt by having a narcissistic ex? More and more we see women dealing with narcissistic men that have caused deep wounds in them. So how ...

Does True Love Really Matter?

25 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In this day and age is true love really as important as it was before? You certainly don’t need a man to provide for you. You have your career and h...

Must You Be Perfect for Your Soulmate?

24 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

So you want a high quality man… but wanting such an amazing guy has led you to feel pressured to be “perfect” in order to attract someone so inc...

What Do You Bring to the Table?

22 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

What do you think you’ll bring to the table in a relationship and why is that a valuable thing? Everyone has something they can bring to a relations...

Dating Has Gotten Harder in the Last 10 Years...

20 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

It is no secret that dating has gotten MUCH harder these days. It seems like men and women that are committed to finding REAL, healthy, lifelong love ...

Plant the Seeds for Valentine’s Day Now

18 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Many years, maybe even decades, have gone by where you’ve told yourself over and over that you don’t want to be alone for Valentine’s Day… aga...

You’ve Been Lying to Yourself

17 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

You might be lying to yourself. It’s possible that, no matter how hard you’ve been trying to find love, that you’ve been holding yourself back b...

Are Your Feelings Hurting Your Chances at Love?

15 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Your FEELINGS could be hurting your chances at love. What does that even mean? If your love life has been going down a road you don’t want, listen t...

Bed, Bath, & Beyond Dreams as a Single Woman

14 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

As a single professional woman who doesn’t want to be single anymore, you have dreams of true love with a quality masculine man who will step up, tr...

Why Finding Real Love Has Been So Hard

13 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Your whole life you’ve struggled to find a man that is worth your time and your love. Why is that? You’ve only ever attracted playboys, narcissist...

Do This to Attract The Man of Your Dreams

11 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Attracting your soulmate isn’t easy for everyone. Some people get lucky and meet their soulmate young without any intentional effort. But for most o...

Finding Love After Your 30s

10 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

You've spent most of your life dedicated to your career and financial success… Which worked out… mostly great. You’ve got a gorgeous home, succe...

Planning for Your Love Life

08 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

If finding love is as important to you as you say it is… then it’s time to have a real strategy and a PLAN for finding love. Just swiping on datin...

Why Your Relationships NEVER Work

06 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Aren’t you tired of painful, damaging relationships that just leave you scarred, frustrated, and more confused than ever about your love life? The g...

Finding Love as a Single Mom

04 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Being a single mom can be really demanding! You’ve got ALL the responsibilities of regular adult life (which is plenty as it is) along with the resp...

Boundaries Matter

03 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Have you had relationships where, in one way or another, your boundaries were not respected? We know how that feels. It’s deeply hurtful and frustra...

Don’t Let Other People Determine Your Value

01 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Have you had relationships that left you with your self-confidence shot, feeling insecure, and with a deeply negative self-image? Yep. We understand. ...

Why Men Date You Once… and Stop There

30 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

So you meet a man, you seem to hit it off, you go on a date, things seem to have gone well on the date… but then you never hear from him again. WTF,...

Why You Can’t Find a Man Ready to Commit

28 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

There’s plenty of men out there who are only looking for one thing… and it’s not a relationship. But there’s also plenty of men who are, just ...

Before Going Out On a Date Do This

27 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

If you want to avoid dating the wrong men and going through even more years of crappy dates, you’ll want to learn an approach to love and dating tha...

Don’t Waste Your Time with Matchmakers

26 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

If you’re a successful, professional woman who’s ready to find love, you might already know that you want a professional’s help with your love l...

Your Past Is Holding You Back

23 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

We all have wounds in our past. But if those wounds are staying with you and affecting your love life to this day, it’s time to take a look at it an...

How to Stop Getting Mistreated by Men

22 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Do you have a history of being treated badly by men? Maybe you were cheated on, lied to, stolen from, or even abused in one way or another. If that’...

When You Do THIS You Turn Men Off

20 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

As a strong, successful, high-achieving woman, you're used to doing THIS certain thing at work, and yes, it’s a great thing for your career. It's ne...

Don’t Make Finding Love Hard for Yourself

18 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

You might be making it WAY harder than it needs to be to find love. It’s easy to self-sabotage without even knowing it. But if you’re ready to STO...

Stop Doing Things You Don’t Need To!

16 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Trying to go for your dreams can be a really complicated process as it is. And sometimes, people make it even harder than it needs to be by doing a LO...

How to Boost Your Confidence in Your Love Life

14 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

If your confidence has taken hit after hit throughout your love life, through betrayal, liars, cheaters, or even abusive men, and you’re not sure ho...

What HIGH QUALITY Men Look For

13 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

You probably know firsthand what crappy guys look for. What cheaters look for. What narcissists look for. Because you’ve dated all these guys and mo...

The Dating Tips You Should NEVER Take

11 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

It's increasingly common for people to try to solve their problems with quick fixes or overnight “solutions”, which sooner or later, people discov...

How to Finally Figure Out MEN

09 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Most women would probably agree that men are confusing. And it makes sense why you’d think that. Men and women think differently, so until you learn...

What You Need to Find EPIC LOVE

07 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Are you worn out, confused, and frustrated with the endless cycle of "putting yourself out there," constantly looking for true love, and yet… nothin...

Navigating Today’s TOXIC Dating Culture

06 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Most people today would probably agree that today’s dating culture can be TOXIC. From the world of online dating, to ghosting, hookup culture, situa...

Becoming The Best Version of Yourself

04 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Almost everyone wants to become “the best version” of themselves.   But what does that really MEAN? And what does that look like in practice, esp...

Do You Know What YOU Want?

02 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Saying you know what you want… and REALLY knowing what you want and ACTING according to that, are two totally different things.    Wondering if yo...

Have You Lost Your Confidence In Your Love Life?

31 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

You’re an accomplished woman. You’re successful in almost every area of your life and are pretty confident overall… but your heartbreaks and tra...

Why Men Have Been Doing You Wrong

30 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Your whole life, you’ve been looking for a high quality man that treats you well, and you just can’t seem to find him! All you’ve found are chea...

Have You Ever Been “Slow Ghosted”?

28 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

As a woman in the modern dating world, you probably know all about ghosting and have maybe experienced it yourself a few times.   But there’s anoth...

Love Is Not Waiting for You

26 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Here’s the thing… Love ISN’T going to just fall into your lap.   It’s tough to hear, I know, but the truth is, if you were going to be one of...

You Are SABOTAGING Your LOVE LIFE!

24 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Without even knowing it, you might be sabotaging your love life. Now, are there a lot of factors that go into why you haven’t found love yet? Of cou...

If Nothing Is Working for You, Try This…

23 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Struggling to find true love despite trying EVERYTHING in the book?   You’ve tried books, dating apps, blind dates, singles events, podcasts (!), m...

The Hope That Is HURTING YOU

21 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Not many people know this, but hope can actually be HARMFUL, especially on your journey to love.   And yes, hope is a crucial part of starting on you...

How to Deal with Modern Dating

19 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

The dating world just isn’t the same as it was when your mother or grandmother were dating. And the advice that would have helped women as recently ...

Are the Guys You Are Dating the Problem?

17 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

If you’ve been struggling to find soulmate love for YEARS, maybe you’ve started to wonder WTF is going on and what the real problem is. Maybe you'...

Can You Find Love On a Dating Site?

16 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Everyone has heard of online dating by now, and most people have tried it.  But lots of people, especially women, have had bad experiences with datin...

Are You Scared of True Love?

14 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Are you SCARED of true love? So many women are subconsciously blocking themselves from love because they fear intimacy, vulnerability, and love. This ...

Stop Overcomplicating Love

13 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Could you be making love out to be WAY more complicated than it actually needs to be? But what does this mean? EVERYONE knows love is super complicate...

Fix Your Picker… It’s Broken

10 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

If you’ve been dating all the wrong men for ages, no matter HOW hard you try to meet Mr. Right, and you have no idea what to do about it… This epi...

2 Traps Professional Women Fall Into That Hurt Their Love Life

09 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

3 Myths That Are Killing Your Chance at Love

07 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Without you even noticing it you are letting myths kill your love life!   You could be trying hard to attract your soulmate and maybe you don’t und...

Why It’s NOT Your Fault You’re Still Single

05 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

“I’m broken.” “I’m unlovable.” “I’m too lazy.” “I’m too picky.” If any of these sound familiar to you, you are BLAMING yoursel...

Awe vs. Anger

03 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Which POP Cycle Are You In?

02 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

“What is the POP cycle?” you may be wondering.   Well, it’s a vicious mental cycle that could be holding you back from true love and the life o...

Don’t Project Manage That Man!

30 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

So you’re finally dating a great guy and it’s going well so far! Fantastic!   But wait… Now you need to think about if you have enough chemistr...

The Hidden Fears That Men Can Tell You Have

28 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

If every time you date a new guy, things quickly go south… listen in: this episode is for you. There are probably some hidden FEARS about men that t...

Enjoying the Single Life… Until You’re Not?

26 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

“I’m happy being single! I get to travel, be independent, and do whatever I want.”   It's great that you’re able to be happy while being sing...

5 Steps to Soul-Stirring Love: Mindset #5 - Love as Personal Growth Opportunity

25 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

NOTICE: This is Step #5 in Dr. Lara’s 5 Step series. If you haven’t heard Steps 1, 2, 3, and 4 yet, go back and listen, then come back here for th...

5 Steps to Soul-Stirring Love: Mindset #4

23 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

NOTICE: This is Step #4 in Dr. Lara’s 5 Steps to Soul-Stirring Love series. If you haven’t heard Steps 1, 2, and 3 yet, go back and listen, then c...

5 Steps to Soul-Stirring Love: Mindset #3

22 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

NOTICE: This is Step #3 in Dr. Lara’s 5 Steps to Soul-Stirring Love series. If you haven’t heard Steps 1 and 2 yet, go back and listen, then come ...

5 Steps to Soul-Stirring Love: Mindset #2

19 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

NOTICE: This is Step #2 in Dr. Lara’s 5 Steps to Soul-Stirring Love series. If you haven’t heard Step 1 yet, go back and listen, then come back he...

5 Steps to Soul-Stirring Love: #1 Mindset to Attract Love

18 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Attention everyone: Dr. Lara is starting a NEW 5 episode series, “5 Steps to Soul Stirring Love”!!   This is a series you’ll want to keep up wi...

When You’re Tired of Being Tired, Listen to This…

16 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Aren’t you tired of being so TIRED?? Tired of going through the hard parts of life alone, tired of not finding love no matter what you do… and may...

Breakups, Co-Parenting, Healing and NEW LOVE

14 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Breakups, divorce, and co-parenting with an ex… these can be some of the HARDEST things to do and go through. We understand. Many of our clients com...

Is The Perfect Person Out There?

12 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

You’ve been searching for that perfect guy, your Mr. Right, for years… maybe decades now. And even with EVERYTHING you’ve tried, nothing has wor...

Why You Can’t Find a Man That’s Ready to Commit

11 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Do you seem to only attract guys who just can’t commit to you? They leave you hanging, don’t want a serious relationship (but will still string yo...

What Soulmate Love Truly Looks Like

09 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, we’ll dive into the TRUTH about soulmate love that most people won't tell you. Is it really the neverending fairytale you've seen i...

Why Men Aren’t Taking You Seriously

07 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever felt like most of the guys you date don’t take you seriously? They disregard you, talk over you, belittle you and your capabilities, o...

When Is It Okay to Have Sex?

05 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Why Finding an Actually Good Man Is So Hard

04 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever felt like finding a truly good guy seems almost impossible? Do you feel like you run into way too many creeps, ghosts, cheaters, or just...