Single To Soulmate Podcast with Johnny & Lara Fernandez

S5EP26: A Simple List to Turn Your Love Life Around

04 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

You have been trying and trying to turn your love life around, but it can be frustrated at times and have you feeling lost. Maybe what you need is a g...

S5EP25: How to Stand in Your POWER and NOT Come Across as NEEDY

03 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever felt or been told that you are too dependent on others? Maybe you feel weak and powerless? It doesn't have to be that way and you can be...

S5EP24: How High Quality Men Choose Women

31 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

How do men think and how is it that they decide who they want to be with? You might be wondering this and if you are not you should if you want to att...

S5EP23: The Online Dating Dilema

31 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Online dating can be very tricky if you don't know what you are doing. It's hard, we know, however you can definitely find a quality man that way.   ...

S5EP22: Don’t Settle in Love!

26 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

We’ve all been told once or more to never settle in love. Don’t be in a relationship where you won’t be able to shine. Don’t settle with a man...

S5EP21: How High Quality Men Choose Women

24 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Let's take a look at the other part of a relationship. What are men really looking for? How do they choose their partner? Have you ever stopped to thi...

S5EP20: What You Need to Attract a High Quality Man

19 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

What are you doing that would attract a high-quality man? Have you thought about it? What about their mixed signals. Have you experienced them?   WHA...

S5EP19: Why Being Single Is EXHAUSTING

16 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Have you felt like both life and your love life are depleting your energy? Have you tried to change that but failed over and over again? Maybe you sho...

S5EP18: Is That Man Worth It?

14 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

How do you escape from other men’s seduction and commit to soulmate love? Avoid getting seduced as Lara shares her answer and insights on the questi...

S5EP17:The Dreaded Question... So, What Are We?

12 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dating can be confusing! You probably have been in situations where you are unsure of where things are going. What have you done when it's happened? H...

S5EP16: Give Up THIS to find True Love

06 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Have you considered you might be holding on to something that prevents you from finding your soulmate? What would you think you need to stop doing or ...

S5EP15: Facing the Fear of Staying Single

17 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Are you simply tired of being single? Do you sometimes feel like just giving up on love? You don’t have to if you know what you need to do, learn ho...

S5EP14: Comparing How Men and Women Think About Sex

21 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

You probably have noticed this or had this thought. Men think about sex way too much! Well, you might be right. Learn more about why you might notice ...

S5EP13: Why Men Might Not Take You Seriously

19 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever felt like you are not being appreciated by the man you are dating? Have you been mistreated and undervalued in previous relationships? I...

S5EP12: The 5 Biggest Lies Modern Culture is Telling You About Men

14 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

The dating world has changed so much and there’s no denying it. In recent years, some huge misconceptions about the relationships between men and wo...

S5EP11: Why No 2nd Date?

12 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever found yourself going on a first date, thinking it went well, until you realize the man seemed to have no desire for a 2nd date? You migh...

S5EP10: What that man REALLY wants from you

11 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Men and women think and are very different. If you’ve EVER been confused about why a man is thinking or acting a certain way, or thinking “what do...

S5EP9: How to Find Love Intentionally- ASAP!

07 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Finding love is something you NEED to be intentional about. I mean, not being intentional hasn’t worked, because here you are, right? But what can y...

S5EP8: The Importance of the First 3 Minutes with a Man

05 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

You have 3 minutes with a man. First impressions are endlessly important- and they happen quicker than you think. Have you ever wondered what men are ...

S5EP7: Shame, Regret & Worry

03 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Do you feel trapped in your love life? Wondering WHY and how you came to feel that way? Over our 16 years of coaching experience, we’ve noticed thre...

S5EP6: YOU Are Not the Problem, But It Is YOUR Problem

24 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Had any relationships where the man you were dating was CLEARLY the problem? Where you’d done nothing wrong- and yet he kept causing problems? Have ...

S5EP5: Something For Your Weekend

22 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Join Lara as she gives you a boost of advice and confidence in your love life for your weekend.    WHAT YOU WILL LEARN: - Why you can find real love...

S5EP4: The REAL Impact of Men on Your Life and Your Potential

20 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Whether you realize it or not, the man you choose to date, marry, or have children with has a direct and HUGE impact on your present and future self. ...

S5EP3: Beware of Hopium, The Drug That’s Ravaging Lives and Stealing Dreams!

17 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Hope is, of course, critical for you to achieve your dreams- but you need more than that, right? Are you depending on hope alone to find your soulmate...

S5EP2: Is Your Age a HELP or a HINDRANCE to Your Love Life?

15 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Age can be tricky. Or at least it feels like it… You might feel like being “too young” attracts immature men, or being “too old” means it’...

S5EP1: Life CAN be better than you can imagine!

14 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Do you feel stuck in your current situation? Not just struggling, but so down that you believe that life won’t get better? It doesn’t have to be t...

S4EP117: Could You Be Killing Your Chances of True Love Without Noticing?

10 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Do you think you are blocking yourself from love? Well, you might be doing it without even noticing it.   WHAT YOU WILL LEARN: - What you might be do...

S4EP116: The Problem with Dating

08 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dating can be such a huge headache! So much stuff that goes into it and dealing with other people can be complicated. But what is really the dating di...

S4EP115: Do You Feel Frustrated About Still Being Single?

06 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Do you feel like you deserve better than what your current situation is? Are you tired of being single even though you are ready to commit to true lov...

S4EP114: The Real Meaning of Self Love

03 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Are you taking really good care of yourself? Do you truly love yourself and understand what that really means? Self-love is key, to find your soulmate...

S4EP113: Something For Your Weekend!

01 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

oin Lara as she gives you a boost of advice and confidence in your love life for your weekend.    WHAT YOU WILL LEARN: - Why you can find real love ...

S4EP112: What You Need to Do to Make Your Dreams a Reality

30 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Are you ready to make your dreams a reality? You can achieve them! But you need to make the right decisions to get there!   WHAT YOU WILL LEARN: How ...

S4EP111: How to Become an Intentional Dater?

08 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Do you know what dating intentionally is? Dating intentionally is dating with the end in mind. If you are not thinking about your end goal you are not...

S4EP110: Why Are Men Such Liars?

05 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Are you tired of men straight-up lying to you? Why is it men do this! The answer might be less complicated than you expected.   WHAT YOU WILL LEARN: ...

S4EP109: Will More Dates Help You Find Your Soulmate?

03 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

You ever had the idea that you just need to get yourself out there and meet as much men as possible to find the right guy? Well, dating isn’t a numb...

S4EP108: Is Self Help Keeping You From Finding Your Soulmate?

22 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Have you been active in improving yourself and becoming better? If yes, that’s great! But you do need to be careful not to make that block you from ...

S4EP107: Why Are Men So Gross?

20 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It’s so annoying! And confusing and gross! The truth is you can encounter men you definitely want to avoid. But you should also understand why they ...

S4EP106: Do You Need a Matchmaker?

18 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Love can be tiring. Have you ever felt like you just need someone to pick the right man for you? What if you hired a matchmaker? Could this be your so...

S4EP105: Could You be Driving Away Good Men?

15 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever met a good man and you want to date but nothing ends up happening? Have you driven away good men and en up wondering what happened? You ...

S4EP104: You're Value is NOT Determined by Others

13 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Have you been scared from past relationships? Has that made you change the way you view and value yourself? You should not allow this to happen, there...

S4EP103: What's Really Holding You Back...

11 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

WHAT YOU WILL LEARN: - What is really holding you back in your love life - What you need to do to make a shift - Why you can find true love   READY T...

S4EP102: You Don't Have Much Time!

04 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

“Don’t worry about it! You got time” your girlfriends say. But, are they right about it? How much time to find true love do you really have? Lif...

S4EP101: How to Treat a Man in a Relationship

02 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Is masculinity toxic? Or is masculinity good? When you have a high quality man you’ll be in a relationship where you’ll see what real healthy masc...

S4EP100: Self Value Matters

01 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Are you valuing yourself properly or are you mistreating yourself? Your self-value matters and it matters a lot. Find out why in this episode.   WHAT...

S4EP99: STOP Getting BAD Relationship Advice

30 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Where do you get your relationship advice from? Are you getting advice that has helped? If you are still single then the advice you have gotten is not...

S4EP98: How to Find a Man That Cherishes You as High Quality Woman

18 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

You ever felt like men don’t appreciate the good qualities in you? Have you left wondering what kind of man will be attracted to the good in you? He...

S4EP97: You NEED to Establish Boundaries

16 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever felt like your boundaries were not respected? Boundaries are important, but you might be underestimating how important they are.    WH...

S4EP96: Are You Making the Right Decisions?

14 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Which way are you going? Do you know that? Do you have a plan? If you do then you have to ask yourself if it’s the right plan.   WHAT YOU WILL LEAR...

S4EP95: What You Can Do to Turn PAIN Into POWER

11 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Going through something that causes you pain can be very difficult, but you can always turn pain into power.   WHAT YOU WILL LEARN: - How to turn pai...

S4EP94: How Important Are Looks?

09 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever felt like your physical appearance is what’s keeping you from finding true love? Have your insecurities gotten the best out of you? Lo...

S4EP93: Is It Just a Matter of Time Until You Find Your Soulmate?

08 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

“Don’t worry about it! You got time” your girlfriends say. But, are they right about it? How much time to find true love do you really have? Lif...

S4EP92: Ask This to Yourself Before Making a Hard Choice

04 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Are you thinking about making that big decision you been holding of on? There are two things to ask yourself that will help you make the right decisio...

S4EP91: How to Face the Fear of Staying Single

02 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Are you simply tired of being single? Do you sometimes feel like just giving up on love? You don’t have to if you know what you need to do, learn ho...

S4EP90: Don't Make Your Relationship You Only Priority!

02 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Your relationship SHOULD be a priority but it should not be your ONLY priority. On this episode we’ll explain what you should do.   WHAT YOU WILL L...

S4EP89: Are You a Victim of One of These Lies?

27 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

There are lies you might be telling yourself that are affecting your love life. Do you know what they are? What do you think got them in your mind in ...

S4EP88: Are You Focusing in the CORRECT Thing?

25 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Have you stopped to think about what you are focusing on? Or are you just winging life with no focus? Your intention and focus is a huge difference-ma...

S4EP87: What a High Quality Man is Attracted To

24 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Let's take a look at the other part of a relationship. What are men really looking for? How do they choose their partner? Have you ever stopped to thi...

S4EP86: You Need to Start Honoring Your Dreams

20 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Do you feel like you have accomplished a lot of your goals but that feeling of success sometimes gets eroded? Have you struggled to conserve your self...

S4EP85: Will Meeting More Guys REALLY Help Find Your Soulmate?

18 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

How many guys have you met and still haven’t found the one? Have you thought that you just have to “put yourself out there” more? Well more is p...

S4EP84: Are You Jealous of Someone Else's Soulmate Love

16 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

You want to be happy for your friend’s relationship, but how can you when you’re jealous? Jealous of the fact that she found her soulmate and you ...

S4EP83: Avoid This if You Want to Find True Love!

13 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Save yourself a ton of time and effort! You want to make sure you avoid these mistakes when trying to find true lasting love.   WHAT YOU WILL LEARN: ...

S4EP82: The 2 Traps You Want to Avoid in Dating

11 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Chemistry is all that matters right? Well, not really. If you are leading with chemistry then you are falling into the chemistry trap. And what about ...

S4EP81: Ask Yourself These Questions Before a Hard Decision

09 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Are you thinking about making that big decision you been holding of on? There are two things to ask yourself that will help you make the right decisio...

S4EP80: How Long Should You Wait to Have Sex?

06 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

This can be a tricky one! What has your experienced been in regards to this? Do you feel like it has taken you to find the relationship you wanted? Le...

S4EP79:What Men Are Really Thinking

04 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

There is no debate that men and women think differently. For both men and women, this can be a problem when dating, in a long-term relationship, or ev...

S4EP78:What You Need to Do For a Better Love Life

30 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

What does your mindset have to do with your love life? Have you considered how the frames through which you are looking at your life can affect love i...

S4EP77: 3 Ways You Could be Driving a Good Man Away

28 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever met a good man and you want to date but nothing ends up happening? Have you driven away good men and en up wondering what happened? You ...

S4EP76: Finding True Love is Getting Harder

26 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Have you felt like it’s so much harder these days to find true love with a high-quality man? You are not wrong on this one! But, this does not mean ...

S4EP75:The Truth About Why Finding a Good Man is Hard

23 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It seems like there are no good men left. Is that really true? Where can you find good men? Do you think online dating could be the place? Listen to t...

S3EP74: Are You Making Your Love Life Harder Than it Needs to Be?

21 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

You’re actually making your love life harder than it has to be. You’re your own worst enemy. Yes, mistakes are common when it comes to finding lov...

S4EP73: The Importance of Taking Care of Yourself and Your Dreams

19 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Do you feel like you have accomplished a lot of your goals but that feeling of success sometimes gets eroded? Have you struggled to conserve your self...

S4EP72: Are You Afraid of Intimacy?

16 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Though you yearn for intimacy you are afraid. You avoid emotional and physical closeness due to your past. Little by little, because of that fear you'...

S4EP71: Do You Have a Plan For Your Love Life?

15 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Have you taken a moment to think about what you are planning for in your life? Do you have a plan at all? What goals are you going after in your love ...

S4EP70: Is Comfort Killing Your Love Life?

14 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

We are all addicted to comfort and convenience. I mean, who doesn’t want to feel comfortable. But did you now, being addicted to comfort can be quit...

S4EP69: Is Dating a Numbers Game?

27 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Are you going by your love life as if it were a numbers game? Do you think you just have to put yourself out there more? That’s not really the case,...

S4EP68: What's Really Going on With Dating Sites.mp3

24 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Have you tried dating online? Do you think dating sites are the problem? Well for the most part they are not the problem. Dating sites work, if you kn...

S4EP67: Will You Get Lucky and Find Your Soulmate?

23 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Are you counting on luck to find your soulmate? Or maybe you don’t call it “luck” but you think it will just happen. Do you think you’ll find ...

S4EP66: How To Spot a Liar

22 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Nowadays it seems like liars are everywhere. You might not be so wrong about that, but that does not mean that everyone is a liar. So how do you spot ...

S4EP65: Why You Have Been Getting Bad Relationship Advice

21 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Where do you get your relationship advice from? Are you getting advice that has helped? If you are still single then the advice you have gotten is not...

S4EP64: The Importance of Self Value

20 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Are you valuing yourself properly or are you mistreating yourself? Your self-value matters and it matters a lot. Find out why in this episode.   WHAT...

S4EP63: Making a Man Feel Like a Man in a Relationship

17 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Is masculinity toxic? Or is masculinity good? When you have a high quality man you’ll be in a relationship where you’ll see what real healthy masc...

S4EP62: What NOT To Focus On

16 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

What are you focusing on? Wherever you put your focus and energy will keep you from seeing the rest of the view, so if you are focusing on the wrong t...

S3EP61: Are Looks All That Matters?

15 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever felt like your physical appearance is what’s keeping you from finding true love? Have your insecurities gotten the best out of you? Lo...

S4EP60: The MYTH of "Having More Time" to Find Your Soulmate

14 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

“Don’t worry about it! You got time” your girlfriends say. But, are they right about it? How much time to find true love do you really have? Lif...

S4EP59: Why You Relationship Should Not Be Your ONLY Priority

14 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Your relationship SHOULD be a priority but it should not be your ONLY priority. On this episode we’ll explain what you should do.   WHAT YOU WILL L...

S4EP58: Why Men Go From "All In" To Not Sure, Yet Still Want to Be Friends

10 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever felt confused by mend that seem to be “All In” only to find end up with a non committed man? Why does this happen? Learn why, in thi...

S4EP57: Concerned About Being Single Much Longer?

09 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Are you simply tired of being single? Do you sometimes feel like just giving up on love? You don’t have to if you know what you need to do, learn ho...

S4EP56: Perfectionism & Your Love Life

07 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Perfectionism can make things way more complicated than they are. Do you consider yourself a perfectionist? Well, this is for you.   WHAT YOU WILL LE...

S4EP55: Should I Just Hire a Matchmaker?

07 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Love can be tiring. Have you ever felt like you just need someone to pick the right man for you? What if you hired a matchmaker? Could this be your so...

S4EP54: How To Find a Man Who Is Not Just Looking For Sex

06 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It’s no secret that finding a good man is though. You might feel like you find a good man and he ends up just looking for sex. Has this happened to ...

S4EP53: How to Boost Your Self Love and Confidence When Everyone Else is Struggling

04 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Self-love and confidence are very important. Are you taking real good care of this for yourself? If you are not you need to listen to this.   WHAT YO...

S4EP52: Do You Have What It Takes to Go From Single to Soulmate?

03 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Do you feel like you are finally ready to go from single to soulmate? Listen to this episode and find out.   WHAT YOU WILL LEARN: - How to know if yo...

S4EP51: Don't Believe The Lies

02 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

What do you believe in? What is your philosophy on love? Have you ever asked yourself these questions?   WHAT YOU WILL LEARN: - What lies might be fo...

S4EP50: How That “Overwhelmed” and “Frazzled” Feeling Is Driving Away Good Men

01 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Do you feel like for some reason you are driving away good men and can’t quite get why? Are you tired of “missing out” on good men? You can fix ...

S4EP49: What Are You Saying Almost Daily That's Blocking You From Love?

01 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Do you think you are blocking yourself from love? Well, you might be doing it without even noticing it.   WHAT YOU WILL LEARN: - What you might be do...

S4EP48: Momentum Matters... Which Direction Are You Going?

27 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Which way are you going? Do you know that? Do you have a plan? If you do then you have to ask yourself if it’s the right plan.   WHAT YOU WILL LEAR...

S4EP47: Turn Pain Into Power

26 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Going through something that causes you pain can be very difficult, but you can always turn pain into power.   WHAT YOU WILL LEARN: - How to turn pai...

S4EP46: What Kind of Men Find Self Respect, Self Love, and Self Assurance Attractive

25 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

You ever felt like men don’t appreciate the good qualities in you? Have you left wondering what kind of man will be attracted to the good in you? He...

S4EP45: Boundaries. Why It Matters...More Than You Think

24 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever felt like your boundaries were not respected? Boundaries are important, but you might be underestimating how important they are.    WH...

S4EP44: The Dating Dilemma

21 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dating can be such a huge headache! So much stuff that goes into it and dealing with other people can be complicated. But what is really the dating di...