Single To Soulmate Podcast with Johnny & Lara Fernandez

S4EP43: Why Is Self-Awareness Important? + the Big Three C's

20 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Are you self-aware of what is happening to you? Self-awareness is key in every area of your life and your love life is included in that.   WHAT YOU W...

S4EP42: Have You Found Yourself Feeling Like "I'm Such a Catch"...but Why Am I Still Single?

19 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Do you feel like you deserve better than what your current situation is? Are you tired of being single even though you are ready to commit to true lov...

S4EP41: Why Does a Man You're With Gawk at Other Women? What Do I With a Guy I Like Who Isn't Into Me?

18 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

This is so annoying! Has this ever happened to you? How did you react? This can be very frustrating and most of all disrespectful to you. You know you...

S4EP40: Men Put Women in 1 of 2 Categories, Can You Move From 1 to The Other?

18 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

This might seem weird but it’s true. Men do this maybe even without noticing, but you need to notice it so you are sure to be in the right one.   W...

S4EP39: 2 QUESTIONS TO ASK YOURSELF... Before Making Your Next Hard Decision

13 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Are you thinking about making that big decision you been holding of on? There are two things to ask yourself that will help you make the right decisio...

S4EP38: Is Dating Really a Numbers Game?

12 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

You ever had the idea that you just need to get yourself out there and meet as much men as possible to find the right guy? Well dating isn’t a numbe...

S4EP37: Why Do So Many Men Tell You One Thing Then Do Something

11 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Are you tired of men straight-up lying to you? Why is it men do this! The answer might be less complicated than you expected.   WHAT YOU WILL LEARN: ...

S4EP36: The Chemistry + Calendar Trap

09 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Chemistry is all that matters right? Well, not really. If you are leading with chemistry then you are falling into the chemistry trap. And what about ...

S4EP35: The WORST Thing You Can Do When Trying to Find Lasting Love

06 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Save yourself a ton of time and effort! You want to make sure you avoid these mistakes when trying to find true lasting love.   WHAT YOU WILL LEARN: ...

S4EP34: Coronavirus, Social Distancing + This Unique Time...a 3 Step Action Plan

05 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

After a year into this pandemic, you might still be confused as to how to operate in this new environment. In this episode, you’ll receive a guide o...

S4EP33: Are You Giving Yourself Time to Feel Your Feelings?

04 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Do you ever feel like you need the world to stop but it just keeps on going? Have you actually done something to stop it? Have you given yourself the ...

S4EP32: How to Make 2021 Start with MOMENTUM Toward Intentionally Finding a Highly Quality Man

03 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

We are 3 months into the year. But that does not mean you can’t still make this your best year ever.    WHAT YOU WILL LEARN: - What you can do to ...

S4EP31: Connecting in New Ways

02 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

After a year into a global pandemic, the way we live our life has temporarily changed. If one thing is clear is that we must adapt while this pandemic...

S4P30: Quick Boost for Your Weekend

27 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Join Lara as she gives you a boost of advice and confidence in your love life for your weekend.    WHAT YOU WILL LEARN: - Why you can find real love...

S4P29: The Tough Truth...

26 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

WHAT YOU WILL LEARN: - What is really holding you back in your love life - What you need to do to make a shift - Why you can find true love   READY T...

S4P28: How to Make Your Dreams Come True & Make Decisions

25 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Are you ready to make your dreams a reality? You can achieve them! But you need to make the right decisions to get there!   WHAT YOU WILL LEARN: How ...

S4P27: Are You Ready for Some Tough Love and Deep Truth?

24 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Do you really want to achieve your dream of finding true love? Are you willing to really commit to getting the love you know you deserve? In this epis...

S4P26: Self Love - What that REALLY means

23 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Are you taking really good care of yourself? Do you truly love yourself and understand what that really means? Self-love is key, to find your soulmate...

S4P25: Is Your History Holding You Back From Your Destiny?

20 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

What is your destiny? Do you know it? What are you doing to get to your destiny? Maybe you are doing something that is holding you back from your dest...

S4P24: Dreams Do Come True

19 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Throwback episode! Today we got an unreleased episode from when Johnny and Lara came back from their romantic trip to Paris. This was Lara’s dream! ...

S4P23: Online Dating Is Exploding-Are You Prepared?

18 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Have you tried online dating? A lot of people are reluctant to try it or have tried it and had terrible experiences. The truth is with the right appro...

S4P22: How to Move Forward SMARTLY in Your Love Life

17 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

What does your mindset have to do with your love life? Have you considered how the frames through which you are looking at your life can affect love i...

S4P21: The 4 Traits You Need to Become a Successful INTENTIONAL Dater

16 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Do you know what dating intentionally is? Dating intentionally is dating with the end in mind. If you are not thinking about your end goal you are not...

S4P20: Why Do Men Send Dick Pics?? + Other Confounding Things About Men

13 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It’s so annoying! And confusing and gross! The truth is you can encounter men you definitely want to avoid. But you should also understand why they ...

S4P19: When Self-Helps Becomes a Block to You Finding Mr. Right

12 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Have you been active in improving yourself and becoming better? If yes, that’s great! But you do need to be careful not to make that block you from ...

S4EP18: My Worth is Not Contingent on How Others Choose to Love Me

11 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Have you been scared from past relationships? Has that made you change the way you view and value yourself? You should not allow this to happen, there...

S4EP17: Authentic YOU is So Needed Right Now

11 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Are you scared of being yourself? Do you feel like you are holding back from being who you really are? Don’t be! Being yourself is the best thing yo...

S4EP16: I Should Know This already... Shouldn't I?

09 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

S4EP16: I Should Know This already... Shouldn't I? This is the month of Valentine’s Day. Many single women can feel pressure on these dates. Are you...

S4EP15: What Are You Focused On?

06 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Have you stopped to think about what you are focusing on? Or are you just winging life with no focus? Your intention and focus is a huge difference-ma...

S4EP14: Kindness Rocks

05 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Do you consider yourself a kind woman? Have you felt like it has helped you or affected you? Well, if managed correctly it is a great thing! Learn how...

S4EP13: 3 Ways Good Women Drive Away Good Men

04 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever met a good man and you want to date but nothing ends up happening? Have you driven away good men and en up wondering what happened? You ...

S4EP12: It's Harder Than Ever to Find Love

03 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Have you felt like it’s so much harder these days to find true love with a high-quality man? You are not wrong on this one! But, this does not mean ...

S4EP11: Why Does He Fade Away After a Date or 2

02 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Tired of running into men that mistreat you instantly? Have you met men that after just one or two dates they start to fall off or even ghost you?  ...

S4EP10: Shame, Blame, and Complain...and What It's Doing to Your Love Life Why Online Dating Is Hot RIGHT NOW & What to Do About It

30 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Have you felt ashamed of something in your love life? Maybe just the outcome of it, maybe you are mad about how your ex treated you. Maybe you keep co...

S4EP9: Why Online Dating Is Hot RIGHT NOW & What to Do About It

28 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Online dating has never been more common. Have you tried it? If so, what has been your experience with it? Learn more about how you can do online dati...

S4EP8: Men Think About Sex a Lot. Women Think About Sex, Too

26 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

You probably have noticed this or had this thought. Men think about sex way too much! Well, you might be right. Learn more about why you might notice ...

S4EP7: Belinda's Soulmate Love Journey

23 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Curious what making a 180 shift on your love life is like? Today we got a very special episode for you. Belinda, a previous client of ours and now par...

S4EP6: Are You Ok? I Mean Really Okay?

21 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Have you paused for a second to check on yourself? How are you doing? Is there something you feel needs change? Sometimes we forget to do this.   WHA...

S4EP5: Why Men Lie + Cheat

19 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Being with a lier is so frustrating! And what about cheaters? It’s even worse! Have you ever been in a relationship with a man that does either? Wha...

S4EP4: Why That Man Does Not Take You Seriously

16 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever felt like you are not being appreciated by the man you are dating? Have you been mistreated and undervalued in previous relationships? I...

S4EP3: How The Common Lies You Tell Yourself Aren't Your Fault

14 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

There are lies you might be telling yourself that are affecting your love life. Do you know what they are? What do you think got them in your mind in ...

S4EP2: Why you're so tired + EXHAUSTED in your love life

12 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Have you felt like both life and your love life are depleting your energy? Have you tried to change that but failed over and over again? Maybe you sho...

S4EP1: Escaping Seduction

05 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

How do you escape from other men’s seduction and commit to soulmate love? Avoid getting seduced as Lara shares her answer and insights on the questi...

S3EP103: To Date a Lot or Date Only When You Connect with Someone

30 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dating can be confusing! You probably have been in situations where you are unsure of where things are going. What have you done when it's happened? H...

S3EP102: Why is it So Hard to Find a Good Man? What Online Dating Sites are Safe?

29 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

It seems like there are no good men left. Is that really true? Where can you find good men? Do you think online dating could be the place? Listen to t...

S3EP101: How to Attract a HIGH QUALITY Man + The Confusion of Mixed Signals

26 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

What are you doing that would attract a high-quality man? Have you thought about it? What about their mixed signals. Have you experienced them?   WHA...

S3EP100: How does a GOOD MAN decide which woman to commit to?

23 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Let's take a look at the other part of a relationship. What are men really looking for? How do they choose their partner? Have you ever stopped to thi...

S3EP99: When is the Right Time to Have Sex

22 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

This can be a tricky one! What has your experienced been in regards to this? Do you feel like it has taken you to find the relationship you wanted? Le...

S3EP98: What This Pandemic-Lockdown Has Shown Some People

18 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

There is no denying that 2020 has been a very different year with all that is going on around the world. However, you would be surprised as to what ou...

S3EP97: Why are you PLANNING to be alone forever?

10 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

You might not notice it but you could be planning for failure in your love life without being aware of it. Take a look at your life planning. Do you e...

S3EP96: Men only want SEX! + other Male Mysteries Demystified

08 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Do men really only want sex? What makes you think this? Have you thought about what you can do to avoid running into this? There are many myths about ...

S3EP95: Jealous Of Someone Else's Soulmate Love Connection

08 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

You want to be happy for your friend’s relationship, but how can you when you’re jealous? Jealous of the fact that she found her soulmate and you ...

S3EP94: Inside The Male Mind

05 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

There is no debate that men and women think differently. For both men and women, this can be a problem when dating, in a long-term relationship, or ev...

S3EP93: Common Questions About Men

03 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Men can seem hard to figure out. You probably have experienced this yourself, being frustrated in a relationship from your past because you just didn’...

S3EP92: How To Not Settle In Love

01 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

We’ve all been told once or more to never settle in love. Don’t be in a relationship where you won’t be able to shine. Don’t settle with a man...

S3EP91: How To Not Be Needy And Know Where You Stand

28 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever been told that you are too needy? Do you feel like you have lost your place in previous relationships? What have you done to change that...

S3EP90: Why Online Dating Has Gained So Much Popularity? + Why This Is The Best Time To Get To It

26 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Online dating has become one of the best ways to meet a high quality man. This is the way more than 50% of our clients meet their soulmate. Why is it ...

S3EP89: You Don't Need a Man He Said So I Said...

24 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

How would you respond when a man you’ve dated told you - “you don’t need a man, you’re too busy!” and you don’t need him?  It’s a great...

S3EP88: Why meeting more guys won't do ANYTHING for your love life

21 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

How many guys have you met and still haven’t found the one? Have you thought that you just have to “put yourself out there” more? Well more is p...

S3EP87: Self-love, self-care, Self-esteem + It's time to honor your dreams and your desires

19 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Do you feel like you have accomplished a lot of your goals but that feeling of success sometimes gets eroded? Have you struggled to conserve your self...

S3EP86: 3 Ways You're Making Your Love Life Harder Than It Has to Be

17 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

You’re actually making your love life harder than it has to be. You’re your own worst enemy. Yes, mistakes are common when it comes to finding lov...

S3EP85: Are You Taking REALLY Good Care of Yourself?

14 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Have you stopped to consider the way you are treating yourself? What do you actually do to take care of yourself? Has that led you to the life you wan...

S3EP84: Honest Checklist for The Best Way to Help Turn Around Your Love Life

12 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

You have probably tried many different ways to change your love life. Or you have tried just one way and it hasn’t worked out. Well, there are many ...

S3EP83: What To Do When A Collective Thought Goes Against Your Desires

10 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

What do you do when a collective thought of a certain culture is so great, it seems as if there's no escaping? In this Q&A episode with Lara, she answ...

S3EP82: Why Men LIE + CHEAT

07 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Are you tired of men who are liars? Have you ever had a man cheat on you? How has this affected you? Do you want to go through any of it again? Learn ...

S3EP81: Give up THIS if You REALLY Want To Find Your Soulmate

05 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

What do you think you have to give up in order to have a thriving relationship with a high quality masculine man? Do you think you need to change who ...

S3EP80: How To Start Your Day Off With A Soulmate Mindset

03 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

The most important part of your day is your mornings. How you start it determines how your whole day is going to be. In this episode we talk about: -...

S3EP79: A Common Lie Single Mothers Tell Themselves

29 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Are you a single mom? Do you feel like this has gotten in the way of your love life? What have you done to change this? It may be time to analyze that...

S3EP78: Who Are You Becoming?

26 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever stopped to think about what you want to have in life? You probably have. But what about who you want to be? Have you thought about it? ...

S3EP77: Ready to Step Into Your OWN EPIC LOVE STORY in 2020?

25 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

2020 has been a very different year. How have you felt about it? How has it gone? Do you think like you are powerless this year? Well, that does not h...

LOVE SPECIAL - TIP #11: A Healthy Masculine Man Will Make an Effort to be with You

24 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever dated men you feel don’t make an effort to be with you? What has that made you feel? Are you tired of that happening? Here we will cov...

LOVE SPECIAL - TIP #10: A Guy Who Calls You High Maintenance Doesn’t Have Much Confidence

23 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever had a guy call you had maintenance? Well, you should not feel bad about taking care of yourself in a healthy way. What you will learn: ...

LOVE SPECIAL - TIP #9: Men Don’t Notice The Small Details, Men Notice The Overall Events

22 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever noticed men not noticing a small change you made? Well, men notice something but for others, they just don’t. Find out why in this epi...

LOVE SPECIAL - TIP#8: Don't Trash Men

21 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

What are your thoughts about men? Have you ever consider men are the problem? If you are this could be hurting your love life. Find out why in this ep...

LOVE SPECIAL - TIP #7: Your Love Life Outcome is Because of You

20 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Have you thought about what you are doing that affects your love life? In this episode you can find out. What you will learn: - The highest probabili...

LOVE SPECIAL - Tip #6: Enjoy Being A Woman

18 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Being a woman is wonderful! Don’t be shy about enjoying it! Here is the reason why: What you will learn: - Why your womanhood is important - How it...

LOVE SPECIAL - Tip #5: Let Yourself Dream Big & Be Willing To Commit To Have Things Be Different

17 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dreaming does not stop when you find your soulmate! Here is why you should keep up dreaming. What you will learn: - The effect dreaming big has on yo...

LOVE SPECIAL - Tip #4:Honor Your Man's Passions

16 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Let’s talk about the importance of your man’s passions and how they benefit both of you! What you will learn: - Why you should hour your man’s ...

LOVE SPECIAL - Tip #3: Create Rituals That Are Sacred

15 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Ready for the next tip? Tip #3: Create Rituals That Are Sacred What you will learn: - How couple rituals impact your relationship - Why you should ...

LOVE SPECIAL - Tip #2: Physical Affection

14 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

On to Tip #2: Physical Affection What you will learn: - The importance of physical affection - The effect it has in your love life READY TO MAKE A ...

LOVE SPECIAL - Tip #1: Date Nights

14 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

We got some great bonus content for you! Starting today we will be releasing an 11 episode special series called “Love Special”. These are 11 tip...

S3EP76: Divergent Are You The Heroine Of Your Life Story

11 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

There's a lot to learn from watching movies with a female protagonist like Tris from the hit movie Divergent! If you've watched the film, you can clea...

S3EP75: The Story of Deann and How She Attracted A Quality Man

10 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Lara interviews Deann as she shares her inspiring journey of attracting her quality man. Before she met her man, she was in a place where she felt st...

S3EP74: The ONE Thing You Need To GIVE UP to Finally Find Epic Love

09 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Have you considered you might be holding on to something that prevents you from finding your soulmate? What would you think you need to stop doing or ...

S3EP73: Balancing Love And Life

08 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

How do you balance love, career, ‘me time’, and life in general? Balance seems impossible when you’re practically busy in every area of your lif...

S3EP72: Creating Your Own Recipe For Finding Your Soulmate

07 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

If finding love is like a cooking recipe for your main course (your man), how would you make it? What ingredients do you need to complete your love re...

S3EP71: How Being A Millennial Screwed You From Love

06 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

This might be surprising in an age with so many ways to connect and find true love, but you millennials have been put in a difficult position to find ...

S3EP70: The COSTS of Being Single

05 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

There are many emotional, heart-driven costs to being single which are a HUGE reason why single women want to find their dream guy, get married, and m...

S3EP69: Why Are You PLANNING To Be Alone Forever?

04 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Have you taken a moment to think about what you are planning for in your life? Do you have a plan at all? What goals are you going after in your love ...

S3EP68: The High Pressure Date

03 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Are you finding it hard to look for Mr. Right? You’ve been out on multiple dates but you’re still nowhere near him. You’re uncertain because you...

S3EP67: 5 Minutes of Joy

02 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

No matter where you are in the spectrum of being single, dating, mating, and relating - this episode is for you! You might feel that at this point i...

S3EP66: How To Trust Yourself

01 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Failing at something causes you to lose trust in yourself. When you make mistakes or when someone judges or criticizes you, your confidence falls to i...

S3EP65: The Place Is Not The Problem

30 Sep 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Finding love is never easy. While some people find their other half in different parts of this world, others prefer to think that they’re in the wro...

S3EP64: How To Heal Scars From The Past

29 Sep 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Your past could be holding you back from your true potential and finding your soulmate. Do you feel like what has happened has damaged your current lo...

S3EP63: Setting Healthy Boundaries With Toxic Family Members

28 Sep 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Are you always challenged to be around toxic family members? Are you tired of getting your family dinners or holidays spoiled?  In this episode we t...

S3EP62: Enjoying Womanhood

27 Sep 2020

Contributed by Lukas

The thing that’s very appealing to a healthy quality man is a woman who’s radiant, loves herself (not in a selfish way), and enjoys every aspect o...

S3EP61: Encouragement For Single Women

26 Sep 2020

Contributed by Lukas

There’s a reason for every season in your life. Yes, you're single, but you don’t have to be unhappy. When you’ve found him, you’ll be gratefu...

S3EP60: Life CAN Be Different + Better! But How?

25 Sep 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Have you felt like you are stuck in your love life and other areas as well? Do you feel like even though you keep trying new things you always end up ...

S3EP59: Should You Make The First Move

24 Sep 2020

Contributed by Lukas

In this modern era, you as a woman, have freedom, a great career, money, independence, and a wonderful future ahead of you. You have things that women...

S3EP58: Gossip Kills Momentum

23 Sep 2020

Contributed by Lukas

In a company, gossiping could kill trust and loyalty. It creates frustration within the circle of people in it. In this episode, Johnny talks about ho...