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Strangers on a Bench

EPISODE 90: So Glad I Didn't Hide Away

01 Jun 2026

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Chapter 1: What prompted Tom to start conversations with strangers on a bench?

4.182 - 50.787 Tom Rosenthal

hello sorry to bother you um can i ask you a slightly odd question um i'm making a podcast um called strangers on a bench where essentially i talk to people i don't know on benches for 10 or 15 minutes um are you up for that do you want to give it a go So... You've already heard two episodes.

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51.387 - 62.921 Unknown

They were great. One was about throwing the mobile in the pond. That was the second one. And the first one was the guy, he'd been to prison. Yeah, and that was brilliant.

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62.941 - 63.642 Tom Rosenthal

So you're two down.

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64.043 - 64.523 Unknown

I am.

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Chapter 2: What interesting experiences have guests shared in previous episodes?

65.064 - 66.145 Unknown

Many, many more to go.

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66.165 - 66.926 Tom Rosenthal

And here we are.

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67.227 - 69.65 Unknown

Here we are. That's so strange.

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69.87 - 78.693 Tom Rosenthal

Can we say where we are? Are we allowed to say where we are? Yeah, why not? We're in Lewes, on a bridge that I don't know the name of, nor the river we're over. Do you know the name of the river?

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78.713 - 81.618 Unknown

I should probably know that, but no, I can't remember.

Chapter 3: How does the guest feel about being on jury service?

82.279 - 90.012 Unknown

But it's a good spot. It's a lovely spot, yeah, that's why I chose this bench. The reason I'm here is because I'm on jury service.

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90.548 - 92.67 Tom Rosenthal

See, that's a first. 300 plus down.

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92.93 - 93.311 Unknown

Yeah.

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93.331 - 95.453 Tom Rosenthal

Not had anyone on jury service. Yeah. At that moment.

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95.473 - 95.613 Unknown

Yeah.

Chapter 4: What insights does the guest share about civic duty?

96.133 - 103.02 Unknown

And I haven't been picked, so that's why I've got a moment to sit here and I brought my workbook along and I've just come out and thought I'll have a moment.

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104.962 - 112.65 Tom Rosenthal

Not much of a moment. No, no. Another moment. Well, I had had a moment before, so that's all right. Do you know why they pick certain people and not another? All random.

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112.69 - 117.961 Unknown

So there's a certain amount of you that go in and then your names are all on cards and then they... I picked 12.

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118.241 - 121.727 Tom Rosenthal

Were you very excited to get the call up?

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Chapter 5: What personal experiences shaped the guest's views on communication?

121.987 - 133.644 Unknown

It was interesting. It's actually the second time. So I was surprised to get it again, I suppose, in a way, because you think, what are the chances? But it's just random. I've not had it once. No, and lots of people won't, will they? But, yeah.

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133.664 - 135.768 Tom Rosenthal

No, that's just something to come and get me, please.

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137.748 - 138.85 Tom Rosenthal

To the authorities.

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Chapter 6: How does the guest define intimacy in relationships?

139.07 - 140.792 Tom Rosenthal

I don't know who won. Civic duty.

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141.313 - 142.835 Unknown

Civic duty, absolutely.

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143.136 - 146.881 Tom Rosenthal

Funny word, civic duty. I don't quite know what other things count as civic duty.

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146.901 - 147.842 Unknown

No, what else comes under that?

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147.862 - 152.889 Tom Rosenthal

It's just kind of not committing a crime. It's just not pushing someone over on the street. You know what I mean? What is it?

Chapter 7: What impact has the guest's partner had on their personal growth?

153.109 - 153.51 Unknown

What is it?

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153.53 - 153.81 Tom Rosenthal

Waving.

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153.83 - 154.772 Unknown

We should look that up.

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154.832 - 156.033 Tom Rosenthal

Say good morning to people.

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157.175 - 160.099 Unknown

Yeah, we should look it up and see what comes under civic duty, shouldn't we?

160.119 - 165.587 Tom Rosenthal

But it's one of those rare ones which is just like definitively jury service is civic duty. Yes, you know that, don't you? That's pretty much it.

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Yeah.

175.345 - 177.267 Tom Rosenthal

So you've listened to two of these programmes, do you remember how they start?

Chapter 8: What reflections does the guest have about their past relationships?

177.467 - 180.13 Unknown

Yes, I think so. You ask about favourite day of the week.

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180.19 - 181.051 Tom Rosenthal

Yeah, there you go.

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181.071 - 181.251 Unknown

Yeah!

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181.451 - 192.622 Tom Rosenthal

I don't even need to be here, I just, I show myself out. What would he ask next? Well, he would ask me, actually quite an interesting idea. I've yet to do that, just leave someone on a bench. To talk. You just talk as long as you can.

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I've got to go.

194.864 - 201.471 Tom Rosenthal

Yeah. You know what, now we've said that, maybe, you know, if we're happy enough in a certain amount of time, if I leave you for three minutes and just see what happens.

201.491 - 204.009 Unknown

See what happens to us. That would be a first.

204.31 - 208.135 Tom Rosenthal

I feel like once you're on a roll with first, you should just go with the flow first.

208.155 - 208.676 Unknown

Yeah, yeah.

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