Strawberry Letter

Fight or Flight

25 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a forty four year old married man and I'm in a very high leadership role with my company. My wife and our two children enj...

He Is Not Meeting My Basic Needs

24 Apr 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been married for seven years, but we are separated. My husband saw text messages and pictures I sent to another man, and ...

He Makes Excuses For Her Body Count

23 Apr 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, One of my oldest friends got reacquainted with a girl we went to high school with, and he was so excited that she wants him. H...

She Is Going To Push Me To Do It

22 Apr 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm divorced and my ex husband and I are great at co-parenting. My son is fourteen and my daughter is ten, so she prefers to s...

He Doesn’t Want Me To Be With His Brother

19 Apr 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband and I live in a duplex and his brother and the brother's girlfriend live next to us. I don't get along with a girlf...

My Husband’s First Aid Kit

18 Apr 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband and I have been together for twenty five years and married for twenty two. Our youngest daughter finally moved out,...

I'm Gonna Take Him Back Everytime

17 Apr 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm almost sixty years old and I've been a live in girlfriend for over twenty years. When my honey and I started dating, he wa...

My Wife Is An Activist At The Wrong Times

16 Apr 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a thirty nine year old married man. My wife is thirty seven, and she volunteers throughout our community and it's become h...

I’m Falling For Him Not His Daddy

12 Apr 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm fifty six years old and my husband will turn seventy five in May. My husband is a great provider and great daddy, but I do...

Why I Can’t Go With My Friend and Her Cousin

11 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been married for nine years and I've been mad at my husband for the last year. For an entire year, he has questioned my f...

He Smells Like Grease and Moth Balls

10 Apr 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I met a man online and he's a decent guy that's eight years older than I am. He's fifty nine and divorced and I have never bee...

Big, Black, Beautiful and Broke

09 Apr 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, The love of my life is a six ' four beautiful man that is black as tar with the straightest teeth I've ever seen. He's a singe...

I Wanna Tell Her So Bad

08 Apr 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am the baby girl of two older sisters. My oldest sister lives in a gated community and she's a housewife, but she's not too ...

But What Is She Doing In My House

05 Apr 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm remarried and I was living my best life until my stepdaughter graduated college and moved back in with her mom. My husband...

This Is Not The Blended Family I Expected

04 Apr 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a forty seven year old married man and this is my second marriage. I have a twenty one year old daughter from my first mar...

Pre-Existing Conditions

02 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley,  I am a 58 year old single woman.  I have been divorced for four years and my two children are grown.  The man that I have ...

She Gave Me More Than I Bargained For

29 Mar 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I need your help on how to resolve a big mess with one of my girlfriends. I have a non- profit organization for homeless women...

My Husband and Part Time Lover

28 Mar 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been married for four years, but we have been together six years. My husband charmed me and I was head over heels in love...

The Visiting Pastor Is My Sugar Daddy

27 Mar 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I live in North Carolina, and I'm in a long distance relationship with a man I've known all my life. He's a great man that wou...

Why Is My Mom Sharing My Daddy

26 Mar 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm thirty three years old and I moved back to my hometown two months ago. My dad is ill and my mother is doing the best she c...

He’s Late On His Payments

22 Mar 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I think my husband is cheating on me. I found out after a woman called me and said my husband was late on her car payments. Sh...

How Could He Possibly Want More

21 Mar 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm forty four and my partner is forty eight. We've been together for thirteen years total and living together for the past ni...

He Wears More Shapewear Than I Do

20 Mar 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am newly divorced and dating again at fifty three years old. My aunt set me up with a handsome, bald man that has a great sm...

She’s Has No Idea What He’s Doing

19 Mar 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a thirty four year old married woman and I'm staying at my cousin's house temporarily while I'm working on a project in Au...

Should I Keep Competing For A Spot

18 Mar 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I moved to a new city and I met a man at my apartment complex. He doesn't live there, his sister does. He asked me to go out, ...

I Don’t Think My Husband Likes Black Women

15 Mar 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm forty years old and married to an older man. He's an entrepreneur and I'm in the insurance field. He's out and about rubbi...

I Think My Wife Is Ashamed of Me

14 Mar 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a fifty eight year old married man. I'm a dump truck driver. I retired from teaching after thirty years in the classroom. ...

Figure Me Out or Get Out

13 Mar 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband and I met and immediately fell in love. I'm twenty eight and he's thirty four. I met him at work and he relocated a...

He Overthinks Everything

12 Mar 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I love my husband with all of my heart, but I do not like him, and I don't like being around him. I cannot have a conversation...

My Best Friends Are My Exes

11 Mar 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 33 year old married woman and I’ve been with my husband for 8 years, married for 5. My husband just found out that m...

He's My Brizly Bear And I'm His Sugar Baby

08 Mar 2024

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Where Is He Getting His Information

07 Mar 2024

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He’s Feeling Himself But I’m Not Feeling Him

06 Mar 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband and I have been together for fourteen years and married for ten. After our third child, we gained a little too much...

If It’s In The House It’s Mine

05 Mar 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband and I have been married for eleven years and we have a son. My husband is eight years older than I am, and he has o...

I’m About To Take Another Flight

04 Mar 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm married and I have a male best friend that just moved to Hawaii. My husband couldn't be happier that he moved so far away....

The Jump Off Jumped On Him

01 Mar 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m 32 years old and I’ve been dating this guy for almost 8 months and we’ve had fun getting to know each other. He was ...

He Has Clothes Hidden Everywhere

29 Feb 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, My boyfriend and I just moved in together and he had four months left on his lease, so he kept his furniture and a few persona...

Should I Tell Him What His Daddy Showed Me

28 Feb 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband and I met in the seventh grade and I have loved him since then. We got married when we were twenty two years old, a...

He Caught Me In His Backyard

27 Feb 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I got busted and I don't know what to do to get my man back. I will admit that I search his phone and I look for makeup on his...

Clear The Room Before We Start

26 Feb 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm in love with a man that's dramatic and very high strong. He overreacts in everything he does. Whenever he's driving, he sw...

We Love To Do The Switcharoo

23 Feb 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been married for seventeen years, and when our marriage got stale, my husband asked for a Hall pass. He said he didn't wa...

I’m Too Out of Shape For Him

22 Feb 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a forty eight year old divorced female and I'm trying online dating. My niece helped me do my dating profile and we used a...

He Had Nine Missed Phone Calls from His Co-Worker

21 Feb 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband and I have been together for eight years and married for three years. In the beginning, I told him that I had a pro...

She’s Picking Up What I’m Putting Down

20 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, One of my best girlfriends was sleeping with my husband and I feel like a fool for trusting her. She was smiling in my face an...

Why Won’t His Wife Leave Him

19 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m 44 years old, divorced and single for 10 years. My husband divorced me because I cheated on him and the man I cheated wi...

I Can’t Stand How He Dresses

16 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, In relationships, I know you have to take the good with the bad, but my boyfriend is a terrible dresser. He's fifty two years ...

Who Is They

15 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm married to a forty six year old gossiper and my life went downhill when I let him get on Instagram. He loves to take pictu...

He Re-gifted A Teddy Bear She Gave Him

14 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, My honey and I are on shaky ground and I'm not in a loving mood. This Valentine's Day, we celebrated our two year anniversary ...

Less Is More and He Loves It

13 Feb 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm twenty nine years old and my boyfriend of two years broke up with me and when I asked for closure, he finally agreed to te...

He Can Light The Candle But Can’t Keep It Lit

12 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a Christian woman and new to dating. I was married for twenty two years and my husband divorced me in 2022. I have dated m...

She Gives My Husband Marital Advice

09 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband played a significant role in politics in our city for fifteen years, and then he started a business that we now run...

Her Pillow Talking Made Me Homeless

08 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm staying with my sister because my husband said he needs space. I can't blame him for how he feels about me, but I can blam...

He Picked Me Up In My Pajamas At 3am

07 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm forty six years old and married, but over the past two years, my relationship with my husband has tanked. We've been sleep...

Let's Stay At Your House Tonight

06 Feb 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm thirty one years old and my boyfriend and I have been together for eight months. We live almost an hour apart, so he gradu...

I Need To Move Out He Won’t Let Me

05 Feb 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm thirty seven years old and my sister is forty five. I'm staying with her and her live in boyfriend of seven years. I've be...

Every Time She Calls Him He's Over Here

02 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, My boyfriend is married and we've been together for a year and a half. He calls me his wife two point zero or the new and impr...

It’s Not My Fault He Fell in the Bushes

01 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a single mother of a seventeen year old high school senior. I had my daughter when I was forty, and my grandma loves to s...

Line Them All Up And I Still Win

31 Jan 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been in a relationship for twelve years and my girlfriend confessed that she cheated on me seven years ago. She blurted i...

Please Get Off Of Me

30 Jan 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm thirty eight years old and I have a two year old and a two month old. My husband and I have been married two years and we'...

I Plan To Move No Matter What

29 Jan 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband and I live about thirty minutes away from the city on his family's land, and we're renovating the home he grew up i...

Am I Dating Cinderella

26 Jan 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, When I met my new friend, it was like a fairytale romance. I'm twenty eight and he's thirty five and perfect for me because I ...

Do I Stay Or Move On To Number Five

25 Jan 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm fifty four years old and I'm married to my third husband. I have a tendency to get bored in relationships, so I was really...

Can We Please Close The Door

24 Jan 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm married to a caveman and he invades my space all day every day. We've been together for eight years and married for four y...

She’s Only Sexy Outside The House

23 Jan 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley,  As a man, I'm ashamed to write you for help, but I don't know what to do with my girlfriend. I met her at a cookout and we b...

He Needs New Underwear

22 Jan 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband is very particular about all of his things. He had a professional organizer come and do his side of the closet and ...

He Needs Hennessy To Holla

19 Jan 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm thirty two years old and single because I will not tolerate a drunk living in my house. My ex and I got into a big argumen...

Her Injury Is Not My Fault

18 Jan 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am dating a cheater and he just asked me to marry him, and I was thinking of saying yes, but then one of his side chick's pr...

He Wants To Talk To My Ex

17 Jan 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I was married for four short years and my ex husband and I are still really good friends, but we can't seem to get along well ...

If He Can’t Share Neither Can I

16 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm thirty nine years old and my husband is forty two. I stopped working a nine to five when my tax business took off two year...

I Really Love Our Mail Man

12 Jan 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband of fourteen years must be losing his mind because he cheated on me once and I took him back. So he's got to be craz...

Why Does He Like To Eat In Bed

11 Jan 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a teacher and I cater events and I do weekly meal prep for three people. My husband gets to feast on the leftovers, and he...

The Motion of the Ocean

10 Jan 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I caught my husband on the phone with a female reminiscing about the sex they had earlier that day. I tried to control my laug...

His Sister Catfished Me

09 Jan 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm thirty eight years old and I've been with the same man for five years and he's not focused on marriage or taking our relat...

New Year, New Me

08 Jan 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been married for eleven years and can honestly say that I trusted my wife and loved her unconditionally, but now I'm qu...

Three Years Later We’re Still Friends

05 Jan 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m 34 years old and my significant other is 39 and we’ve been together for 3 years. I call him my significant other becau...

I Don’t Know My Husband At All

04 Jan 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am an older married woman and this is my second marriage. When I met my husband, he was extremely handsome and generous. We ...

His Ex-Wife Won’t Let Me Visit

03 Jan 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 5 months and he’s the best man I’ve ever been with and he treats me really g...

My Best Friend’s Wife Too Much

02 Jan 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 27 year old man and I have a best friend and we've been super tight for years. We have been thru all the good and bad g...

She Took Away All My Joy

01 Jan 2024

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am having a major problem. My fiancé and I have been together for almost 2 years. She is 37 and I am 29. In the early stage...

Choosing Between Two Toothless Men

29 Dec 2023

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 48 year old single, educated and professional woman that has never been married. I have dated 3 guys in the last 8 year...

My Homie Is My Sidepiece

28 Dec 2023

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 32 year old single man and I started a sexual relationship with a female that hangs out with me and my boys. She’s lik...

He's Got The Sugar, But He's Not Being Sweet

27 Dec 2023

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Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband and I are in our late 30s and we’ve been together for almost 20 years. We have 4 children and we always had a rob...

There's No Way To Bless This Mess

26 Dec 2023

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been kicked out of my church and I need some advice. I attended a very messy church and if you did not do things the wa...

Is This Considered Cheating

22 Dec 2023

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been in a relationship for 4 years and my boyfriend and I live 3 hours apart. We’ve always been in a long-distance re...

He Picked The Wrong Sister

21 Dec 2023

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Dear Steve and Shirley, about 2 years ago I messed around with my sister’s husband after a drunken night out. I made him swear that nothing would ev...

His Ex-Wife Got A Real Christmas Tree

20 Dec 2023

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm on my second marriage and there's an issue in my marriage. My husband was married for 18 years and he's got two daughters ...

I Am Emotionally Drained

19 Dec 2023

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 42 year old single mother of a son that is 20 years old. My son’s girlfriend just had a baby that is fair skinned an...

Behind The Christmas Tree

18 Dec 2023

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been married for 14 years and I have a busy schedule as a high school basketball coach. After years of marriage, my wif...

Smoke and Mirrors

15 Dec 2023

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm in a long distance relationship with a man that my daughter hooked me up with. He's a bodybuilder, and my daughter met him...

Trying To Get Through Holidays

14 Dec 2023

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm in love with another man, and I just need to make it through the holidays with my current boyfriend so I can dump him and ...

He Can Laugh But I Can't

13 Dec 2023

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Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband and I have been married for eight years and we have three children under age six. That means I'm always tired and t...

Went Undercover and Ended Up Under The Covers

12 Dec 2023

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Dear Steve and Shirley, One of my sister's best friends has been dating a man for ten years and he hasn't proposed to her yet, but he's cheated on her...

He Can't Talk Without Touching Me

11 Dec 2023

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Dear Steve and Shirley. I met a man online and he's a decent guy with a good job and a great set of friends. We've gone on double dates with my friend...

He's A Big Man With A Small Mind

08 Dec 2023

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Dear Steve and Shirley. I used to think I was the luckiest girl in my city because of who I was dating. My boyfriend is tall, with creamy brown skin a...

He Always Does Too Much

07 Dec 2023

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm dating a man that goes overboard to please me. We've been together for three years, and from our first date until today, h...

She's Getting More Than Money From Him

06 Dec 2023

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a fifty one year old man and I have a wife, but I haven't lived with her in four years. It's a long story, but I'll try to...

He Says He Loves Her Every Time They Talk

05 Dec 2023

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been friends with my boyfriend for seven years.  I met him at work and there's another girlfriend of ours that is our be...

Is His Mama That Important

04 Dec 2023

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I Know My Man's Hands

01 Dec 2023

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3 Times In A Row Should I Go

30 Nov 2023

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