Strawberry Letter

My Sister & My Mister

28 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, a year ago I found out that my husband cheated on me with my sister. We were married for 9 years so it was not unusual for him...

Am I Number One Or Two

27 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, my husband and I have been together for 6 years and married 3. He’s 37 and I’m 31. He’s divorced and has a son and a dau...

Should I Punch Her Or Pray For Her

26 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 57 year old single mother and I am all up in my daughter’s business. My daughter is 31 years old and a professional ...

Oh No She Didn't!

23 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m in my late thirties and I found out that my husband of 10 years has a girlfriend on the side. I have been tracking his c...

He Doesn't Like Different Types Of Cookie

22 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am 35 year old married woman and I have been married for three years, but, I've been with my husband for over 8 years. He wa...

I’m In Love With My Godson

21 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 62 year old widow and I live in the great city of Chicago. I was married for 34 years to a wonderful man and he died 3...

She Used To Be My Sugar Baby

20 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 49 year old retired businessman. I had a start-up in the early 2000s that did very well and I sold it in a multi-millio...

This Drinking And Cussing Has To Stop

19 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, my husband of 22 years has made a lot of changes in the last 6 months. He’s been in the military since I met him and he reti...

It’s The D For Me

16 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 38 year old woman that has been married for 14 years and we have two children together. I realize when you are married ...

You Have To Watch The Babysitter

15 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I need your advice on an issue with my husband. We’ve been married almost 2 years and we are parents of a 7 month old baby g...

He's Always Sharp And Smelly

14 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m in my late fifties and I’m dating a man that is a few years younger than I am. We’ve been together for 8 years and i...

I Lost My Girl Over A Glass Champagne

13 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I met the love of my life 4 years ago right after I got out of a terrible marriage. My woman is educated, very established and...

Why Won’t His Wife Leave Him

12 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m 44 years old, divorced and single for 10 years. My husband divorced me because I cheated on him and the man I cheated wi...

I Need It And I Need It Now

09 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been with my man for two years and we have lived together for the past year. We have a really good relationship but there...

He Wants Me and Not the Children

08 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 49 year old female married to a 49 year old man. I have five children and five grandchildren. Here is the problem. My c...

My Best Friend Cannot Be Okay

07 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley I've lost my best friend. We've been best friends for over 15 years. Thee best of friends. We were thick as thieves and nothing...

I'm In Love But Not With My Husband

06 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 30 year old mother of two and I've been married since I was 18. Well recently I met a man online and initiated the conv...

When Role Playing Goes Too Far

05 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am in my early twenties and I’m dating a guy that I've known this since high school. He was my high school crush and I alw...

Ain't Nothing Holy About His Behavior

02 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, my family has a church that they’ve been going to all their life and I recently joined. I decided to devote my life to fello...

Variety Is The Spice Of Life, Right

01 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I met a guy that I thought would be the man of my dreams, when we first met. He is a man of God and he would be a great father...

The Ladies At The Church Love Me

30 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am an ordained minister and I’ve been a pastor at my church for 13 years. I’ve been married three times so I’m single ...

Me, My Husband, The Girlfriend, And The Kids

29 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am 42 year old married woman and I’ve been married for 4 years. I have 2 children from my first marriage and he came with ...

I Didn’t Know There Was Sidepiece Etiquette

28 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 34 year old woman and in my past I messed around with a man that was married and I was living my best single life. I wa...

I’m Selfish and Tired Of Sharing

25 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 32 year old man and my girlfriend is 30 years old. We’ve been together almost 4 years and at the start of our relati...

She’s In The Middle Stirring Up Mess

24 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I was in an emotionally abusive marriage for 8 years. I have been divorced for 2 years and I’m trying to get on with my life...

He Has Never Been With A Woman

23 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 31 year old woman and I’ve been divorced for 5 years. I hate dating but I do want to be settled in a relationship soo...

I Don’t Know My Husband At All

22 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am an older married woman and this is my second marriage. When I met my husband, he was extremely handsome and generous. We ...

My Best Friend’s Wife Too Much

21 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 27 year old man and I have a best friend and we've been super tight for years. We have been thru all the good and bad g...

Three Years Later and We’re Only Friends

18 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m 34 years old and my significant other is 39 and we’ve been together for 3 years. I call him my significant other becau...

My Mama Needs Some Clothes

17 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 26 year old married woman and I’ve let my mother stay with me for 3 months. We live four hours apart so when I had my ...

My Homie Is My Sidepiece

16 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 32 year old single man and I started a sexual relationship with a female that hangs out with me and my boys. She’s lik...

What More Does He Want From Me

15 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been with my fiancé for 3 years and we’ve been engaged for almost a year. We have had sex almost every night since w...

He Who Finds A Wife

14 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am in need of advice. I am a 36 year old divorced man and I’m engaged to be married. I’m a middle school teacher and I h...

Watch How You Talk To My Baby

11 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, my boyfriend and I have been together 2 years and we had planned to get married soon but I got pregnant instead. He’s 27 and...

Casanova Is Living In My House

10 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 55 year old mother, still raising a 24 year old man and he’s still living in my house. All of my family calls him Cas...

My Daddy Loves My Friends

09 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 30 year old single woman, forced to live with my 46 year old father for the first time ever in my life. I moved in with...

Is This Considered Cheating

08 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been in a relationship for 4 years and my boyfriend and I live 3 hours apart. We’ve always been in a long-distance re...

Choosing Between Two Toothless Men

07 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 48 year old single, educated and professional woman that has never been married. I have dated 3 guys in the last 8 year...

His Ex-Wife Won’t Let Me Visit

04 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 5 months and he’s the best man I’ve ever been with and he treats me really g...

My Wife’s Young Friend

03 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been married for 8 years and my wife has owned a trendy clothing boutique for 4 years. She decided to hire young, attra...

I Married A Social Media Thot

02 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I really hope you can help. I am 41 and my husband is 43 years old. We’ve been together for a total of 13 years and married ...

He Picked The Wrong Sister

01 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, about 2 years ago I messed around with my sister’s husband after a drunken night out. I made him swear that nothing would ev...

I Can’t Stand A Sorry Man

31 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have a problem and I've been praying over it for years but I can’t seem to get over it. I married a man when I was 26 year...

I Don't Do Black or Broke

28 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have a loving heart and always try to help others. That being said the other day I was in the discount store buying toiletri...

He’s Doing The Job For Now

27 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 47 year old divorced female and I am in need of advice. I am in management at my company and I own two properties and a...

He Thinks It’s Way Better Than It Is

26 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been dating a great man for almost 2 years and before the pandemic, I moved in with him. He had high hopes of having sex ...

In Between Lovers

25 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 34 year old woman and I'm married. I found the man of my dreams and he’s treated me like a queen since the beginning o...

My Ex Won’t Let Me Meet His Boo

24 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, my ex-husband and I are both in our 40s and we have three children under age 12. We divorced over two years ago and recently h...

She Took Away All My Joy

21 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am having a major problem. My fiancé and I have been together for almost 2 years. She is 37 and I am 29. In the early stage...

He Treats My Mother Like A Dog

20 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 28 year old woman and I recently got engaged to a man who's almost perfect. We're on the come up and have promising care...

Girlfriend, Fiance’ and Side Chick

19 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 29 year old single female and I am in love with a man that I can’t have. We started out as friends ten years ago and ...

She Acts Like A Bitter Old Bitty

18 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 50 year old married man and my wife and I have been married for 11 years. When we got married, I was working on my doct...

My Mama Saw The Video

17 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am 34 years old and I’ve been dating a sexy, chocolate man for four years. We have a very active sex life and during the l...

He Assumed I Was Stupid

14 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am 34 years old and I was dating a guy that’s 32 years old and we broke up because he said I am not a team player. A week ...

Our Nanny Takes Care Of Everyone

13 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 33 year old married woman and my husband and I had our first child 6 months ago. My husband is a musician and he’s b...

She’s Getting More From Him Than Money

12 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 51 year old man and I have a wife but I haven’t lived with her in 4 years. It’s a long story but I’ll try to mak...

She Loves Me I Love Her Not

11 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 36 year old male and I misjudged my fiancé. I met her on social media and we had a long-distance relationship for fiv...

He's Living A Double Life

10 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I was a late bloomer and did not have a lot of dating experience until I was in my early twenties when I got braces and lost a...

I Fell in Love With The Cookie Monster

07 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, In 2017 I met a handsome man at a nail salon. He stared at me the entire time so I gave him my card as I left. He called and i...

I'm Tired Of Sneaking Around With Her

06 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 27 year old single man and I would love to stop sneaking around with the love of my life. I have been friends with my ...

I Fell For the Okie Doke

05 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 38 year old single mother and I’m in a crazy situation with my exes. I was married eight years to a man that cheated...

All Of Her Men Are In The Jail

04 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a single mother of two children and I had my first child when I was 16 years old. My oldest daughter is 28 years old now ...

He Can’t Stop Looking At Butts

03 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m dating an awesome guy and he treats me very well. Anything I want or need, he supplies for me. He’s a gentleman and ou...

The Secret Is Bound To Come Out

30 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 36 year old man and my wife and I split up almost 2 years ago. She moved on and is dating someone she met at church. Sh...

All Of My Ex’s Friends Are Fine

29 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 31 year old single female and I met a really good man on a dating app. We’re from the same city and we know a lot of...

He Tells His Mama Everything

28 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 28 year old woman that just eloped with the love of my life. We dated for 7 years and we did not want to waste money o...

He Brought Home Bedbugs

27 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am in my late thirties and I’m married to an older man. We dated for a short period of time and he moved in with me before...

You Ain’t My Step Mama

26 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been dating a man for 8 years and he proposed last month. Shortly after we met, he found out about a 2 year old daughte...

She Had All My Passwords

23 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 34 year old male and my fiance is 31 years old. Our wedding is planned for this November but I may have to call it off....

If He Wants It, He Has To Pay

22 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 37 year old single mom and I have been divorced since my child was three years old. My ex-husband did not contribute fi...

He Wants Women On The Side

20 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 28 year-old professional woman, living with my 33 year old boyfriend. We’ve been dating for almost 2 years and we’v...

I Don’t Want Your Step Daddy

19 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I need your help! My husband’s mother is separated from her husband and she’s staying with us temporarily while she works ...

My Bestie Got Fired Because Of Me

16 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, my best friend worked as a bartender at a popular restaurant and she introduced me to the new manager of the restaurant recent...

Please Stop Me From Cheating

15 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 53 year old man and I have been married for going on 25 years. My wife and I use to have an active sex life, but for th...

He Won't Let Me Fight Her

14 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been dating an amazing guy for two years and I feel like I have finally found my future husband. He is great with my ki...

I Don’t Like The Gifts He Buys For Me

13 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I love my husband to death although he and I are different in a lot of ways. They say opposites attract and we are living proo...

I Don’t Like How He Treats His Ex-Wife

12 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m 36 years old and recently divorced. I met a guy 8 months ago and he just got divorced too. We bonded over our divorce di...

He’s Got Two Different Personalities

09 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m 28 years old and I met a great man a year ago and things progressed quickly in our relationship and it seemed like he wa...

My Fiance Is For The Streets

08 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 29 year old hard working mother of 2 and I’ve been engaged for almost a year. I won’t set a date with this man bec...

Martell Holt- Love And Marriage Huntsville

07 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Martell Holt, reality TV star of Love and Marriage Huntsville, on the OWN Network joins us LIVE. Martell is here to get advice on his very public scan...

How Big Is Too Big

06 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am in a struggle right now and I need a little advice for a big problem. I have a male friend that I’ve known since 1st gr...

I Don't Wanna Be In This Wedding

05 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been asked to stand with my friend in his wedding. I’m a female, so I can’t be a groomsman but I’ll be at his sid...

My Mans Daughter Saw It All

02 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, My fiance and I have been together for a while but we don't live in the same city so we do everything we can to keep the spice...

We Can See Ya’ll

01 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 44 year old married woman and we have new neighbors across the street. They moved in during the pandemic, so we see the...

His Body Count Too High

31 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been married 2 years to a man that is my everything. Things were great for the past 2 years but now the marriage may be...

She Gave Me More Than I Bargained For

30 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I need your help on how to resolve a big mess with one of my girlfriends. I have a non- profit organization for homeless women...

I Smacked His Mamma In The Face

29 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, my husband's father just passed away so we went to his parents’ home to make the arrangements with his mother and his sister...

Praise And A Raise

26 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 31 year old married woman and my marriage is basically over. A year ago, a 24 year old female called me and said she’...

He FaceTimes With Me When He Is With Her

25 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I met the love of my life 7 years ago and I was 21 years old at the time. He’s 3 years older than me and had already had a c...

She Wants To Be The Man Of The House

24 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m 38 and I married my beautiful wife 5 years ago. We both have great jobs and we bought a big house for our family. When w...

His Ex-Wife Wants To Sleep Over

23 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been married for 2 years and when I met my husband four years ago, he had just gotten divorced and he was in a bitter c...

Am I In An Open Relationship

22 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 36 year old married woman and my husband just turned 40 so we went on a weekend getaway to Las Vegas with another marri...

My Sugar Daddy Set Me Up

19 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 34 year old woman grieving the loss of my 77 year old best friend and sugar daddy that had been in my life since I was ...

He Jumped In Feet First

18 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 28 year old woman and I’ve been having bad luck on the dating scene. Finally, I met someone and thought he was great....

My Girlfriend Is Talking Behind My Back

17 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been with my girlfriend for close to a year and she has a problem with talking behind my back. I noticed a change in ho...

The Bartender’s Big Tip

16 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been married for 12 years and my husband and I are in our mid 30s and are regulars at a local bar by our house. We’ve...

He Came Home The Next Day With A Clean Shirt On

15 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 29 year old woman and I’ve been engaged for 2 years. I’ve never questioned my man’s loyalty to me and in the 5 y...

He’s Mine Sometimes, But He Belongs To Her

12 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been friends with a great guy for three years and we have become the best of friends with the best sexual chemistry. Ou...

I Had The Drummer But I Want The Pastor

11 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, about a year ago I left my home church to join another church. I was dating the church’s drummer and he invited me to join. ...

Side Chick Title With Main Chick Duties

10 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I may need Tommy and J to offer some advice with this one, if you don’t mind, since they’re the side piece experts on the ...