Strawberry Letter

My Lover Needs To Be More Patient

23 Jul 2018

Contributed by Lukas

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He Had Me Fooled

20 Jul 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been dating a guy for a year and he treats me really nice. We live in neighboring states but we're less than an hour ap...

I Gave My Husband a Hall Pass

19 Jul 2018

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 22 year old married woman. My husband and I have been together for over five years but we've only been married six month...

My Husband Is A Wimp

18 Jul 2018

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been married for five years but my husband is missing a P. He provides for the family and he professes his love for me bu...

Working Overtime With My Boss

17 Jul 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 34 year old married woman. I work hard and I feel very accomplished since I've worked my way out of the hood. I love my...

The First Lady Special Offering

16 Jul 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a happily married man and I need your advice. Last summer I loaned a female friend three hundred and twenty dollars for a...

She's Making Me Want To Fight Her

13 Jul 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a wife and a mother of two children. I've been married for 11 years to my wonderful husband, but I recently found out he ...

My Fiance Might Need To Go Back To His Ex

12 Jul 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am an engaged 33 year old female. I don't have any children but my fiance has two children aged 17 and 14. When the children...

I Need Way More Than He Is Giving Me

11 Jul 2018

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Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband and I are in our early 30s and he is the most amazing man I've ever been with. He is my best friend and we have the...

I'm Addicted To My Best Friend's Girl

10 Jul 2018

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 35 year old hardworking single male. I'm tall dark and handsome and the ladies love me, but there is one lady in particu...

I Want a Sexlationship

09 Jul 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley I'm a 31 year old single mom fresh out of a nine year relationship with my child's father. After we broke up, I focused on scho...

Let's Get It Started

06 Jul 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley I am I am darn near 50 years old and my wife is 40. We've been married for almost ten years and have two children both under th...

They Don't Make 'Em Like They Used To

05 Jul 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I want your honest opinions. I'm young and I have a great job, my own place and I'm happily single for now. Here's my issue. I...

Don't Hold My Past Against Me

04 Jul 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have a question and I need your advice. When should I tell a new love interest that I have been to prison? I'm not the avera...

My Husband Lives With My Brother

03 Jul 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been married for five years but my husband moved out three years ago and moved in with my brother after he got into a b...

Lots Of Mess No Sex

02 Jul 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley I am a 25 year old woman. I married my husband when I was 19 years old and I am starting to believe that it was a mistake. We b...

She Won't Get In My Bed

29 Jun 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steven Shirley, I've been dating a beautiful woman for about five months. Everything is great. She's special and she does a lot for me. Here's th...

Without A Doubt

28 Jun 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 27 year old that is married and together my husband and I have three kids. About 2 years ago, my in-laws and their 21 y...

Why Do I Need A Man

27 Jun 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 27 year old divorced female with no children. I work full time and I am in school full time. I am finally able to pursu...

Too Many Bodies In One Bed

26 Jun 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been dating a man for six months now. He is divorced and has two kids, a 12 year old daughter and a 10 year old son. I ha...

She Should Not Have Two Good Men

25 Jun 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 45 year old single black female. My best friend is a 55 year old married female. She and I are on the same dating websi...

I Have Been With Both Of Them

22 Jun 2018

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I was married for 17 years and I've been divorced for six years. After my divorce, I was buckwild for a little bit dating many...

My Husbands Ex Is So Disrespectful

21 Jun 2018

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Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband and I have been together for 13 years and we've been married for five years. Before we got married, we broke up for...

We Both Did It But Now She Is Mad

20 Jun 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I need the code cracker. I am a 31 year old man who's been dating this girl for over a year now and everything is going great....

The Whole Town Is Laughin' At Me

19 Jun 2018

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 37 year old man and I've been dating a 31 year old woman for three years. She is the love of my life and I want to ask ...

I Can't Believe I Did That To Him

18 Jun 2018

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 30 year old woman and I've been divorced for four years. I'm finally ready to start dating. So I agreed to let my siste...

I Don't Deserve Any Of This

15 Jun 2018

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I have coached baseball for ten years and in those ten years I have never had a child quit my team nor have any parents ever c...

He Must Think I'm Crazy

14 Jun 2018

Contributed by Lukas

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My Husbands Girlfriend Has Got To Go

13 Jun 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm 27 years old and my husband and I have been legally separated for three years. I recently filed for divorce and I cannot b...

Let's Get It On

12 Jun 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, In the spring of 1976 during my senior year of college, I met a girl….she was a sophomore. We hit it off immediately and we...

I Can Date Whoever I Want When I Want

11 Jun 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I need your point of view on my situation. I'm a very successful black male in my late 30s. I have a career and I'm working on...

Closer Than Close Best Friends

08 Jun 2018

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I have a male best friend that I want to be more than friends with. I was taught that the man is supposed to pursue the woman ...

Can a Menage A Trois Save My Marriage

07 Jun 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have known my husband for 20 years and we've been married for three years. He cheated on me multiple times with multiple wom...

I'm In Love With a Republican

06 Jun 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been in love in a loving relationship for about a year with a man who for the most part has provided protected and prof...

I Can't Get Back In Bed With Him

05 Jun 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am dating a man that I consider to be my soul mate. We have a long distance relationship but we see each other often. He alw...

Have I Been Acting Bad and Boujee

04 Jun 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a hairstylist and in the last few years I've built up a great clientele and I'm enjoying the fruits of my labor. I was ab...

My MInd Is Telling Me No, But My Body Is Saying Yes

01 Jun 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am in desperate need of advice. I am a 30 year old female and I am still a virgin. I grew up in the church and I was taught ...

My Boyfriend And My Boss Are About To Brawl

31 May 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I recently got a great government job. I love my new job and I make really good money but I'm having a big problem with my new...

You Can't Get Anything For Free From Me

30 May 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I used to be a working girl, but I've been out of the game for five years. Since I made this big lifestyle change, I have only...

Is Sex The Answer For Everything

29 May 2018

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Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband and I have been married for 24 years and he thinks sex is the answer to everything. A prime example of this is last...

Who's Is It

28 May 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, This past Valentine's Day started out as the most amazing day with the man of my dreams. We planned to go out to dinner. So af...

Me And My Man Have A Little Situation

25 May 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley I met a gentleman seven months ago. I'm 45 and he's 37 when we met he lived 3 hours away so he decided to move to my area. It's...

My Ex-Girlfriend Is A Huge Problem

24 May 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have a big problem. Two years ago I relocated for work. Before I moved I had a special lady that I enjoyed spending time wit...

Why Is My Son In Law Watching Me

23 May 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm writing you for advice on a family matter. When my daughter had her first child, she and her husband asked me to move in w...

My Husband And His Groupies

22 May 2018

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been married 22 years and we have three children. My husband and I have a great marriage and he still takes me out on ...

Is He My Kids Daddy Or Granddaddy

21 May 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley as Nephew Tommy would say buckle up and hold on tight. There is no easy way to explain my situation. I am a 28 year old married...

His Ex-Wife Is A Real Problem

18 May 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband and I got married two years ago and we couldn't be happier. This is my first marriage his second. We have a total o...

My Freaky Friend And His Wacky Wife

17 May 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm still best friends with my high school sweetheart. He's happily married now and his wife and I are good friends too. Here'...

My Husband Has Lost His Mind

16 May 2018

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Dear Steve and Shirley I am a 47 year old female in my third marriage. My husband and I have been married for five years and he treats me like a queen...

My Sexy Neighbor

15 May 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, You're not going to believe this. I'm a married man and my wife and I just purchased our first home in a new community. To cel...

Can't Judge A Book By Its Cover

14 May 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been dating the 6’4 tall drink of water for a few months. He is honest generous humorous and fun to be around. We decid...

You Ain't My Momma (LIVE)

11 May 2018

Contributed by Lukas

This is a special Strawberry Letter that went live on the air. Nephew Tommy's wife checks in and is the center of the letter. Learn more about your a...

He Had Me Fooled

10 May 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been dating a guy for a year and he treats me really nice. We live in neighboring states but we're less than an hour ap...

Please Don't Hold My Past Against Me

09 May 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have a question and I need your advice. When should I tell a new love interest that I have been to prison? I'm not the avera...

A Stinky Situation

08 May 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I met a very nice man three months ago and we hit it off pretty quick. He's been taking me on a lot of nice dates and we have ...

I Want A Little Extra Too

07 May 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, This one is short and sweet. I actually want Tommy's opinion too if that’s ok. I've been married to a wonderful man for the ...

My Husband is not handling his business.

04 May 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Hi Steve and Shirley, I really need your advice. I'm a 32 year old woman and my husband is 37. When we first got married, our sex life was amazing. Ab...

He Cursed His Own Mother Out

03 May 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steven Shirley, I prayed and asked God to send me a great man. It took ten long years but my prayers were answered and I got an amazing man. We'r...

Something Ain't Right with My fiance and his BFF

02 May 2018

Contributed by Lukas

  Dear Steve and Shirley, I reconnected with an old high school flame in January and we got engaged a couple of weeks ago. Well before he asked me to...

My Fiance Won't Give Me His Password

01 May 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, My fiance and I have been together for four years. When we were dating I would sneak and go through his phone to see his text ...

This is Tearing my Heart Apart

30 Apr 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley I am a 37 year old wife and mother I've been married for 14 years and my husband and I have four children and we are raising a ...

He's pulling out tracks and giving me whiplash

27 Apr 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm in a new relationship and about two months ago, we started our sexual adventures. He is an amazing man in and out of bed. ...

He's Got To Pay to Play

26 Apr 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I think that I have it all figured out when it comes to dating, yet I'm still single. I have created a few dating guidelines f...

He Chose his Wife over Me

25 Apr 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley. I need your advice because I really want to kick my dad's wife’s behind. I am a 42 year old single mother of two kids. My ch...

If I Get Red Roses One More Time

24 Apr 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a wife and a mother with a great career. I love my husband he is my best friend and an amazing father. But sometimes I fe...

She's Doing Too Much on The Gram

23 Apr 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have an issue with my wife's image on social media. My wife has an Instagram account and I feel like the picture she posts a...

It is Over Before You Know It

20 Apr 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley. I'm a 29 year old married woman. My husband and I have been married for almost three years. We met at work and we fell for eac...

Should I Tell My Wife About These Women

19 Apr 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, Four months ago I married the love of my life. So far, our marriage is great. I'm a head chef at a high end restaurant and I l...

Her Mother and Daddy Have to Go

18 Apr 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steven Shirley I'm a 41 year old married man. My wife and I have been married for 19 years. We've also been living with her parents for the entir...

I'm in Love But Not with My Husband

17 Apr 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 30 year old mother of two and I've been married since I was 18. Well recently I met a man online and initiated the conv...

I Left in the Middle of the Night

16 Apr 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley I need your honest advice here because I don't know how to handle this situation. I'm in my late 40s and in a good relationship...

Empty Promises

13 Apr 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Shirley Strawberry, I've been dating this guy's whole lot of empty promises. I let him in my life. He had potential. Nice looking, in school rece...

How Do I Compete With His Mama

12 Apr 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been with my husband for 30 years. He's a great father and a great son to his mother, but he falls short on being a good ...

She is Making Me Want to Fight Her

11 Apr 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a wife and a mother of two children. I've been married for 11 years to my wonderful husband, but I recently found out he ...

Should I Overlook His Trust Issues

10 Apr 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steven Shirley I'm a 32 year old divorced mother of five. Recently I met the man that I am now in love with. The chemistry was bananas from the m...

I'm Sprung and I Can't Move On

09 Apr 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, my ex-girlfriend and I had been together for many years, but we recently broke up because she was selfish and didn’t want to...

He Doesn't Call Anymore

06 Apr 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Hello Stephen Shirley. I met a guy about a month ago. We met at a restaurant he co owns with a friend. We sat there for the whole night chatting the n...

Withholding Sex as a Punishment

05 Apr 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I need you advice concerning an issue that is going on in my marriage. I sincerely and wholeheartedly love my wife and have ne...

So Angry I'm Seeing Red

04 Apr 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I begin this letter by saying I hate my husband of 12 years. I feel as though he has made a fool of me and I feel stupid. The ...

What Should I Do Here?

03 Apr 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Good morning everyone there in the studio. I got this problem that I always find the perfect woman. Well sort of perfect to be with me. I'm a tall dar...

No Kissing and No Loving

02 Apr 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, for the past two years, I have been friends with a really nice guy. He is very handsome, until he opens his mouth and shows hi...

I'm Sick of My Husband

30 Mar 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Steve and Shirley. I met my husband on a blind date and eventually we got married. Now by no means am I perfect and I don't make myself out to be perf...

I Don't Have Time for these Games

29 Mar 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband and I have been married for 11 years and one of our main problems is his 14 year old daughter, my stepdaughter. To ...

Love or Principles

28 Mar 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Good morning everyone. Steve I know you like to turn every problem into a joke but please be kind. I'm a 39 year old black male who turned his life ar...

Totally Confused

27 Mar 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been dating this guy for the past couple of months. We actually moved in with each other. He is married and expecting a b...

Situationship at the Office

26 Mar 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, My co-worker and I have developed feelings for each other. The problem is, he is already in a situationship with another co-wo...

Diabetic Husband

23 Mar 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been with my husband for almost 16 years. We have three beautiful healthy children. After our second child was born, my...

Wait That's Yo Daddy

22 Mar 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I just started dating this guy and he is great. I'm 28 and he is 31. Here's where it gets tricky. Last week he invited me to h...

I Want To Call it Quits

21 Mar 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, My life could not be more complicated. I'm a 36 year old woman and I've been dating the same man for 21 years. Yes that's righ...

My Husband Pays for Sex

20 Mar 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Shirley and Steve, I am 45 and my husband is 46. We've been married for almost 18 years and have four children. Sex between us was really good an...

He Complains and Nags like a Woman

19 Mar 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 32 year old wife and mother. My husband and I have three children. When I first met my husband seven years ago he was ki...

Nothing Is Free Over Here

16 Mar 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, for the past year, I have been seeing an older, married man. And yes, I know it is wrong... Learn more about your ad-choices ...

Bootylicious

15 Mar 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, let me start off by saying that I am young man in my mid-twenties, but I have been fully committed to my beautiful girlfriend ...

What Am I Supposed To Do With That?

14 Mar 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been dating a man for four months, and recently we decided to be exclusive and to start being intimate. The other night...

Pregnant, Single, and Raising a 13 Year Old Boy

13 Mar 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Good morning to all. Steve I've been waiting for the chance to speak to you and Shirley or have you speak into my life. I'm a single parent of a 13 ye...

Yo Mama Has Got To Go!

12 Mar 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley I'm hoping I can get some advice on this issue because it's driving me crazy. My husband's mom has been living with us and slee...

Is It Possible?

09 Mar 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Hi Steve I am 23 years old and I am married to a 21 year old man. We have two babies together. He's in the military and I stay at home and watch the k...

It's So Good I Can't Think Straight

08 Mar 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I need some real advice here. I've been married for a year and my wife recently started a new job... Learn more about your ad...

How Important Is Physical Attraction

07 Mar 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley I am a 40 year old female no kids and never been married. I've been dating a man for two months and he's a great guy that's con...

They Don't Make Em Like They Used To

06 Mar 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley I want your honest opinions. I'm young and I have a great job, my own place and I'm happily single for now. Here's my issue... ...