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Suave

A Homecoming - Ep. 6

Tue, 20 May 2025

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After the crisis he’s been going through, Suave could use a change of scenery, so the whole team decides to go on a trip to Puerto Rico. It’s Suave’s first time back since he was a child to the island where his mother was born and raised— a moment he used to fantasize about in prison. There he reconnects with family who come from a long lineage of survivors… and of Santería practitioners. A spiritual belief his mother always believed would be linked to his salvation.Season 2 of Suave was made possible by The Mellon Foundation. Mellon makes grants to support the visionaries and communities that unlock the power of the arts and humanities to help connect us all. More at mellon.org. Want to support our independent journalism? Join Futuro+ for exclusive episodes, sneak peaks and behind-the-scenes chisme on Suave and all our podcasts. www.futuromediagroup.org/joinplus.

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Chapter 1: What is the significance of Suave's trip to Puerto Rico?

6.758 - 21.531 Julieta Martinelli

Season two of Suave was made possible by the Mellon Foundation. Mellon makes grants to support visionaries and communities that unlock the power of the arts and humanities to help connect us all. More at Mellon.org.

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23.137 - 25.399 Unnamed Speaker

Join now at futuromediagroup.org backslash join plus. Hello? Yes.

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53.547 - 57.489 Suave (David Luis Suave Gonzalez)

Hey, what's up? How are you doing? I'm good.

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58.73 - 66.213 Unnamed Speaker

It's the summer of 2024. I call Suave to check if he's ready for a big trip that we're all supposed to go on soon.

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66.233 - 77.819 Suave (David Luis Suave Gonzalez)

Okay, so you got the dates, right, for Puerto Rico? Yeah, the ones you sent me. Yeah. Everything is set up down there. They're going to cook clothes and everything.

77.959 - 104.487 Unnamed Speaker

Oh, that's so exciting. I'm excited because Suave, Maria, and I are all about to go on a trip to Puerto Rico together. Suave's first time back since he was a kid. And after everything that's happened with Suave's car, we know he desperately needs a break, a change of scenery. Except at this point, things are a little awkward between him and Maria.

104.507 - 111.409 Suave (David Luis Suave Gonzalez)

So what's up with Maria? She texted me. I didn't catch that.

112.51 - 134.335 Unnamed Speaker

They've been in a bit of a rough patch since the whole car situation. But honestly, even before. But this? It's a trip that's supposed to be about healing for Suave. About reconnecting and helping Suave reunite with his family there. And frankly, Suave doesn't sound very interested in patching things up.

134.355 - 165.129 Suave (David Luis Suave Gonzalez)

I don't want to talk about that shit no more, man. I literally don't. You give all the offerings you want. Last time I was talking, it was a headache. Yeah, I remember. That's why I was wondering. You ain't going to apologize to me. I'm Maria. I ain't a horse. Nobody goats me. And I was like, all right, bye. Oh, man. Yeah. My mind is made up. Once this shit is over, I'm goats.

Chapter 2: How does Suave feel about reconnecting with his family?

240.703 - 250.052 Unnamed Speaker

Before we left, I spoke with you, Maria, and Suave separately, just to try and set aside any tension so we can hopefully just focus on Suave's family.

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250.732 - 273.769 Julieta Martinelli

Because, like, the truth is, things have been really touch and go between me and Suave for a while now, like a couple of months. And this trip was definitely at a low point. You know, we hadn't really been speaking before we left. But I really wanted us to have a good time and for this to really be about Suave and him reconnecting with his island.

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It's U.S. laws, Suave. They don't enforce that in Puerto Rico. I don't want to hear that.

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As we ride away from the airport, Suave is enthralled by what he sees out of his window. A bridge dotted with Puerto Rican flags, beachside restaurants and tourists in tiny bikinis, locals and motorcycles blasting music as they pass us on the road. And to our right, endless ocean.

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303.062 - 306.105 Julieta Martinelli

Suave, can you just tell me what you're seeing right now?

306.205 - 315.349 Unnamed Speaker

I'm seeing bougie Puerto Rico people. I'm not endorsing it. But it's beautiful sand, beautiful white sand.

316.51 - 335.761 Julieta Martinelli

So the last time Suave was here, he says that he was like seven or eight years old. He'd spent some summers with his grandfather. But that time, he stayed almost a whole year. So he's eager to see everything all at once, in a way. But so far, it just doesn't feel like the Puerto Rico that he remembers.

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I didn't come to this part when I came to Puerto Rico with my grandfather. We went to Santusa.

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Santurce is a historically working class and a very black part of the capital, with deep history and connection to its African roots. It's actually just a few minutes from the beachfront hotels. Suavez says that's where we're going to be visiting his family. But for now... The water, it's just fun.

Chapter 3: What memories does Suave have of his childhood in Puerto Rico?

587.202 - 605.57 Unnamed Speaker

My mom used to twerk before twerking was good. I'm serious. My mom was that dancing. She had a nice, big booty, and people used to be like, But there was a lot of drama and trauma in her life.

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She got pregnant as a teenager.

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608.581 - 625.413 Unnamed Speaker

My mom was like 16 when she had my oldest sister. My oldest sister right now is 63. She had my oldest sister. Then she had the twins. Then she had me and my sister. Then she had my little sister.

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626.213 - 638.182 Julieta Martinelli

In her early 20s, Suavez says that she moved to the Bronx after yet another relationship where she ended up being a victim of domestic violence. But they would go back to PR.

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Did you travel with your mom to Puerto Rico when you were a kid?

641.388 - 644.85 Unnamed Speaker

We lived in Puerto Rico for a while. As far as I can remember, I was like seven.

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Do you know why you went to Puerto Rico?

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Because of my little sister's father. And I also remember that one time my mom got into a fight with him and he tried to throw my mom out the window.

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But in Puerto Rico, there was always someone there to step in and protect them. It taught Suave that he wasn't alone.

Chapter 4: How did Suave's mother's life impact his upbringing?

712.983 - 728.315 Unnamed Speaker

Suave doesn't know much else about his mom's childhood. It's actually one of the big reasons that he's so excited about tomorrow. He's really eager to see Pelú. Pelú's the family elder, the keeper of stories, stories that Suave desperately wants.

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729.508 - 751.079 Julieta Martinelli

And Suave has long wondered about his mom's past, what she was like growing up, the things she didn't talk about. But you have to remember that Suave was in prison for 31 years. He was the baby, and he's 55 now. So he never got to ask those questions like, you know, sit with your mom and look through photo albums or hear the funny anecdotes.

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751.799 - 781.853 Unnamed Speaker

You know, there's gaps in his past that he really would like to fill. And so maybe, could Puerto Rico hold some answers for Suave? The next day finally arrives. As we approach the neighborhood Suave remembers so clearly, he's taken aback by the change. He doesn't recognize his own childhood home. We're like two turns away.

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785.037 - 792.621 Unnamed Speaker

I know when I was here, when my grandfather, none of this shit was here. It was all casitas. It was all casitas.

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792.801 - 794.422 Unnamed Speaker

It wasn't this. That makes sense.

794.502 - 805.348 Julieta Martinelli

This is all new. And that's because, you know, Santurce has now become a hotspot for gentrification. Like, there's a high rise in the middle of all of these tiny houses.

806.309 - 812.972 Unnamed Speaker

It might be old to them, but it's new in the sense that when I came here 45 years ago, this wasn't here.

817.042 - 834.81 Unnamed Speaker

But then we turn into a small alley. An older man walks out into the street, dark skin, tall, wearing colorful beads around his neck. Before I can even park the car, Suave jumps out. I watch them hug and greet behind the steering wheel.

843.776 - 855.621 Julieta Martinelli

And it's actually Suave's cousin, Pelú. He calls him Davidcito, little David, even though Suave is a full 55-year-old man now.

Chapter 5: What revelations does Suave discover about his grandfather?

Chapter 6: How does Suave's family history shape his identity?

1153.513 - 1174.772 Julieta Martinelli

They said that she liked to run off with her friends and that the family got really worried that she was going to get in some kind of trouble, you know, on the streets. And so they were working parents. They didn't have a lot of resources. And so they did what they thought was best at the time. And the thing is, Suave had never heard this story. His mom had never told him.

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1175.433 - 1197.726 Unnamed Speaker

Like Suave, she was essentially locked away in her teens. They say that she lived at the school full-time. Millie even recalls visiting her on Sundays. The rest of the time, Saro was alone, a story that later repeated with Suave, a teenager in another type of cell, but isolated all the same.

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1206.69 - 1228.932 Julieta Martinelli

Now, over the years, Suave always really made it clear to me how much he respected his mom for doing it all alone as a single mom. In terms of his father, he only knows his name, and it's a painful topic. We really haven't talked about it. And Suave was told pretty early on in life that he and his sister, his twin sister Eva, were the result of a sexual assault.

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1230.345 - 1244.381 Julieta Martinelli

So even without the support of her children's fathers, the thing is, is that Suave's mom made it work. She was doing it in her own way. She had her own parental philosophy about how you raise kids who need to be ready for the world.

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1245.236 - 1264.93 Unnamed Speaker

Now, she, my mom was liberal. Like, you want to smoke a joint, let's smoke a joint together. She did that. But you told me that your mom actually was using. Yeah, but it wasn't addictive. She used because we want to get high. And, okay, I'm going to get high with y'all. She was a liberal. She let us do what we wanted to do. But she was using heroin? I mean, she got high with us.

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She got high with us.

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In New York, Ava had little familial support. Besides her sisters and a couple of cousins, the women were all pretty much on the same boat, you know, so everyone did the best that they could to survive. And sometimes those decisions may have been, well, a little misguided.

1285.223 - 1305.871 Julieta Martinelli

I will never forget when Suave told me about the time that he first tried heroin. This was a drug that he was selling on the street corners, right, when he got into the confrontation that landed him in prison for murder. But, you know, when he was younger, he hadn't tried it, and then he did with his mom. And he wasn't even a teenager yet.

1307.191 - 1311.353 Unnamed Speaker

Mommy always said, to get him out on the street, I better do it here at home.

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