Nicola Hanney had beaten the odds and survived a terminal cancer diagnosis when she met Garda Paul Moody. At first, she thought it was her happy ever after, but soon his behaviour became extremely controlling and abusive. When she became pregnant, he only gained more power over her. Then, the cancer came back. Nicola fought the cancer while dealing with threats, blackmail and abuse from Paul who felt his position as a Garda made him untouchable. She tells us where she found the strength and how she's been coping since escaping his coercive control. Nicola's book Stronger: What Didn’t Kill Me, Made Me is available now in all good bookshops. Please note: This episode contains in depth discussion of coercive control and abusive relationships, take care when listening. If you or someone you know have been affected by the contents, and can relate to Nicola’s story, please contact Women’s Aid for more information and advice. Freephone their helpline on 1800 341 900 or visit womensaid.ieProudly sponsored by FBT Gyms.

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