The Art of Love With Lucia
Episodes
The Major Mistake You're Making with Online Dating
27 Apr 2017
Contributed by Lukas
In between matching and meeting someone from a dating site, many people are making mistakes when they start to communicate with their match. Dating/...
How to Stop Wasting Time With Online Dating
20 Apr 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Are you getting burned out with online dating? Do you spend days or weeks chatting with a potential love interest online, only to find out there's n...
Jealousy + Insecurity = Breakup
12 Apr 2017
Contributed by Lukas
It was recently announced that Mariah Carey & her backup dancer boyfriend Bryan Tanaka had broken up over his jealousy & insecurity over Maria...
The 30-Day No Contact Rule is BS
06 Apr 2017
Contributed by Lukas
If you follow the 30-Day no contact rule and reach out to your ex after 30 days, you're in for an unpleasant surprise. Any "expert" that touts this ...
The Heart Wants What The Heart Wants
30 Mar 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Does crying and begging someone that has broken up with you ever work? Should you get back with someone who broke up with you, because, after all, t...
Who Cares About Rejection?
22 Mar 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Why do we fear rejection, even if it's with someone who doesn't know us? Is it possible to have a "who cares" attitude when it comes to rejection? ...
What Can a Con Woman Teach You About Love?
16 Mar 2017
Contributed by Lukas
In the Bravo TV show "Imposters", Maddie is a con woman who get guys to fall in love with her, propose, get married and then she runs off with their m...
THIS Is What Happens If You Move Too Fast
09 Mar 2017
Contributed by Lukas
When you first meet someone you feel a strong connection with, it's instinctual to want to move things along as quickly as possible. In this podcast...
Who Should Pay?
02 Mar 2017
Contributed by Lukas
This week's email is from a woman who broke up with her boyfriend because his views on how to divide expenses in a relationship weren't "traditional"....
Yoga Ended My Relationship
23 Feb 2017
Contributed by Lukas
What should you do if your partner's family doesn't approve of you? Should you still try to make it work or move on? In this week's podcast, datin...
Ghosting, Benching & Breadcrumbing
16 Feb 2017
Contributed by Lukas
What the heck is ghosting, benching and breadcrumbing when it comes to dating? How do you know if you've been ghosted, benched or breadcrumbed? Da...
Are You A Text Stalker?
09 Feb 2017
Contributed by Lukas
What is a text stalker? What makes someone continue to send texts when the other person isn't responding? In this week's podcast, dating/relations...
She Went Back to Her Ex!
02 Feb 2017
Contributed by Lukas
What should you do if you break up with your partner, they go back with their ex and you regret your decision. In this week's podcast, Lucia answers...
How to Be A Woman That Men Desire
25 Jan 2017
Contributed by Lukas
What type of woman do men want? Which personality traits attract them? Which traits are a turnoff? Dating/relationship Lucia explains in detail th...
What Can You Learn From Matthew McConaughey's Wife?
19 Jan 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Matthew McConaughey recently talked about what happened the night he met his now wife Camila. What did she do/not do and say/not say that got his at...
How to Find Out What Someone Is REALLY Like!
12 Jan 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Even if someone looks good on paper or has a great dating profile, until you do THIS, you won't know what they're REALLY like. Dating/relationship...
He Keeps Breaking Up With Me!
05 Jan 2017
Contributed by Lukas
What should you do if someone keeps breaking up with you? How many times should you go back? Dating/relationship expert Lucia advises 2 women in o...
Should You Give Expensive Gifts?
28 Dec 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Should you buy a birthday gift for someone you've been dating for 2 weeks? How much should you spend? Should you decide how much you spend based o...
Long Distance Cheater?
15 Dec 2016
Contributed by Lukas
This week's podcast is about a woman who has a long distance relationship with a man in another country. She found out he was being unfaithful and...
The "30 second" Date
06 Dec 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever been on a date that lasted 30 seconds? What could someone do or say that would end a date before it had even started? Dating/relatio...
Bad Boy or Nice Guy?
30 Nov 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Why do women often choose the bad boy over the nice guy? Is there something nice guys can do to make sure they don't "finish last"? Using the exam...
The Way to a Man's Heart?
20 Nov 2016
Contributed by Lukas
You've most likely heard "the way to a man's heart is through his stomach" but is it really true? Is a woman who feeds her man or cooks for him what...
Will They Cheat?
16 Nov 2016
Contributed by Lukas
While there is no foolproof way to know if someone will cheat, there IS one factor that is quite reliable in determining how faithful someone will be....
THIS Is How You're Turning Women Off
09 Nov 2016
Contributed by Lukas
What's the number 1 question guys have about dating? How are guys getting in their own way when it comes to meeting women? Dating/relationship exp...
Are You Too Picky?
02 Nov 2016
Contributed by Lukas
We're all entitled to try to find a relationship that really works for us, and if you haven't found it yet, is it because you're too picky or maybe no...
Are You Afraid of Intimacy?
26 Oct 2016
Contributed by Lukas
This week's podcast is from a man whose fiancee has left him twice and cheated on him 3 times, yet he wants her back. Most people would advise him t...
Don't Do THIS After An Argument
17 Oct 2016
Contributed by Lukas
What should you do after an argument? Should you contact your partner the next day to patch things up or wait for them to contact you? What if you...
When Does A Woman Know If She'll Have Sex?
12 Oct 2016
Contributed by Lukas
When does a woman know whether or not she'll have sex with a man? How long does it take for her to make up her mind? Dating/relationship expert Lu...
If You Make More Money Than Your Man, Do THIS
05 Oct 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Do men have issues with women who make more money than they do? What should you do if you're more financially successful than your partner and it's ...
The Brangelina Breakup: What Can We Learn?
27 Sep 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Everyone was shocked to learn that Angelina Jolie had filed for divorce from Brad Pitt. Dating/relationship expert Lucia discusses what supposedly...
"I'm Not Sure What I Want"
21 Sep 2016
Contributed by Lukas
What does it mean when someone says they're "not sure what they want"? Are they confused or is it an excuse to back away from you? Dating/relation...
When Should You Have "The Talk"?
12 Sep 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Should you ever have "the talk" when you start dating someone? If so, when is the right time to discuss exclusivity? As usual, dating/relationship...
Don't Do THIS If You're Not Engaged!
06 Sep 2016
Contributed by Lukas
This week's podcast is about a woman who broke up with her boyfriend, but the break up could have been avoided if the woman had waited to do what she ...
What Do Dating & Vegas Have in Common?
29 Aug 2016
Contributed by Lukas
If you're not doing THIS in your relationship, you're at risk of a breakup. You may think you're not doing anything wrong, but it's the kiss of deat...
Doing THIS Will Turn Men Off!
24 Aug 2016
Contributed by Lukas
There is something that most women do which men wish they didn't do! Are you guilty of this? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what it is a...
Why I Didn't Go On A Second Date
16 Aug 2016
Contributed by Lukas
In this week's podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia analyzes a recent date to reveal the incompatibilities (also known as yellow flags and orange...
How to Approach Women Online
10 Aug 2016
Contributed by Lukas
What does it take to be successful with women online? Is there an opening line that most women will respond to? Dating/relationship expert Lucia r...
What To Do If He/She Is Ignoring You
03 Aug 2016
Contributed by Lukas
What should you do if your partner or the person you're dating starts to ignore you when you're together? Should you tell them they're being rude? ...
Is it Infatuation or Love?
27 Jul 2016
Contributed by Lukas
How do you know if what you're feeling is love or infatuation? What are the signs that you're infatuated? How do you know if it's real love? Dat...
How to Know If Someone Will Cheat
19 Jul 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Is it possible to know if the person you're dating is going to cheat? Is there a foolproof way to know beforehand? Dating/relationship expert Luci...
This Person is Undateable!
12 Jul 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Is there ever a time when someone who is an otherwise a "good catch", someone that you should temporarily avoid? If so, how long should you wait to ...
How To Know If He's A Player
05 Jul 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Is it possible to know if someone is a player? Is there something that all players do or say that reveals that they're not who you think they are? ...
How To Get Him To Commit
24 Jun 2016
Contributed by Lukas
How does a woman get a man to commit? What are the mistakes that women make in relationships that cause men to not want to commit? Find out in thi...
I Want My Ex-Girlfriend Back!
21 Jun 2016
Contributed by Lukas
This week's podcast is about a guy who wants to get back with his ex, even though he broke up with her 3 times in the past! Should he try or just gi...
My Cat Made Me Break Up With Him!
15 Jun 2016
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia tells the story of how her cat Boo Boo helped her break up with someone first as a girlfriend and th...
"It's Not You, It's Me"
08 Jun 2016
Contributed by Lukas
What does it mean when someone breaks up with you and says, "it's not you, it's me"? Is it true or does it mean something else? Dating/relationshi...
Are You A People Pleaser?
01 Jun 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Do you worry that if you say "No" to the people you're dating, that they won't like you anymore or that they'll leave? Do you constantly put others'...
How To Keep The Sex Amazing
24 May 2016
Contributed by Lukas
How do you keep the sex exciting in a long term relationship? What are some common misconceptions people have about sex? Dating/relationship exper...
Should You Stay Friends With An Ex?
18 May 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Is it ever a good idea to remain friends with an ex? If so, under what circumstances? A recent study shows that staying friends with an ex says so...
How to Lose a Girl in 5 Emails
11 May 2016
Contributed by Lukas
It's safe to say that most people are not totally honest in their online dating profile. What do men lie about vs what do women lie about? If you ha...
Love Zombies
03 May 2016
Contributed by Lukas
What is a "love zombie" and what should you do when you encounter one? Should you run screaming in the other direction or embrace them? Dating/rel...
Should You Date Someone "Ugly"?
27 Apr 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Should you date someone less attractive than you normally would, so that they'll treat you better? Will a relationship with someone "ugly" work out ...
How to Handle A Breakup
20 Apr 2016
Contributed by Lukas
What's the first thing you should do when someone breaks up with you? Should you ask why, beg them to reconsider or simply say "Ok"? Dating/relati...
Don't Play Yourself!
13 Apr 2016
Contributed by Lukas
When it comes to dating and relationships, people often "play themselves". They don't know how to relieve the anxiety they feel, so they behave in w...
My Girlfriend Cuddles With Other Guys!
06 Apr 2016
Contributed by Lukas
What should you do if your girlfriend regularly cuddles with other guys but says it's because they're childhood friends? Is it cause for concern or ...
He's Not Over His Ex!
30 Mar 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Should you date someone who recently got out of a relationship? If not, how long should you wait to make sure they're emotionally available? Datin...
I Want My Ex Back!
23 Mar 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Is it possible to get an ex back when you pushed them out of your life because of your insecurities? What should you do and not do when you're tryin...
Are You A Bad Dater?
13 Mar 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Do you constantly go on 1st dates that never turn into 2nd dates? Are you dating the wrong people or is it something you're doing? Dating/relation...
The Goodnight Kiss
09 Mar 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Should you go in for a kiss on the first date? If a woman gives you her cheek when you try to kiss her for the first time, should you forget her num...
How to Be More Confident
02 Mar 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Confidence is the #1 quality women look for in men. In this podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia interviews Scott, a personal trainer (www.dofi...
How to Deal With Insecurity
24 Feb 2016
Contributed by Lukas
The irony about insecurity is that you're afraid you're going to lose your partner, but often, it's your own insecure actions and words that cause you...
My Recent Breakup
17 Feb 2016
Contributed by Lukas
A breakup is a breakup - whether it's with a lover, business relationship or your cable provider. It always follows the same pattern. Find out abo...
My Boyfriend Forgot My Birthday!
10 Feb 2016
Contributed by Lukas
What should you do if you forgot your partner's birthday or they forgot yours? Does it mean they don't care about you? Should you break up with th...
I'm Dating My Aunt!!!
01 Feb 2016
Contributed by Lukas
This week's email is from a young man who is dating his aunt. He claims they're in love and he's wondering how to handle the situation. Dating/exp...
He Doesn't Want a Relationship
25 Jan 2016
Contributed by Lukas
What should a woman do if she begins to date a man and he tells her he's not interested in a relationship but is looking for "adut play". Should she...
How to Stop An On-Again/Off-Again Relationship
18 Jan 2016
Contributed by Lukas
This week's podcast is about a guy who has been in an on-again/off-again relationship for 4 years! He says he treated his girlfriend like a queen an...
Is He a Player?
13 Jan 2016
Contributed by Lukas
This week's email is from a woman who is dating a man who said he is not dating anyone else. However, she thinks he's seeing at least 2 other women....
My Insecurity Messed Up My Relationship
06 Jan 2016
Contributed by Lukas
What should you do if you're insecure, maybe even paranoid, that your partner is going to cheat? Should you spy on them? Should you confess your f...
I'm in Love With My Personal Trainer!
29 Dec 2015
Contributed by Lukas
What should you do when you want to date your personal trainer? He's friendly and has long conversations with you at the gym and online, but isn't i...
I Want to Cheat on my Husband
16 Dec 2015
Contributed by Lukas
This week's podcast is about a woman who wants to be unfaithful to her husband because although she's "happily married", she's not happy with their se...
How Can I Go From FWB to Girlfriend?
05 Dec 2015
Contributed by Lukas
This week's email is from a woman whose boyfriend broke up with her and they are now in a FWB situation. She wants to know how to make him "fall for...
She Told Me to Slow Down!
23 Nov 2015
Contributed by Lukas
What does it mean when a woman you're dating tells you to "slow down"? Is she playing hard to get or does it mean something else? Dating/relations...
11 Questions by 11 Women
18 Nov 2015
Contributed by Lukas
Should I ask him out? Why would he show interest and then ghost me? Why won't he date me if he likes me? Should you tell your bf you cheated? ...
He's Not Interested In Me!
09 Nov 2015
Contributed by Lukas
What should you do if the guy you're into doesn't show any signs of being interested in you or they've already told you they're not interested? Shou...
I Don't Want to Break Up!
04 Nov 2015
Contributed by Lukas
This week's email is from a woman who realized she did all the things dating/expert Lucia advised NOT to do when your partner leaves you. Her husban...
She Won't Have Sex With Me!
28 Oct 2015
Contributed by Lukas
What should you do if you've been dating a woman for 5 months but she still won't have sex with you? Is she playing games, not interested or is some...
Is He Backing Away?
19 Oct 2015
Contributed by Lukas
This week's email is from a woman who's been dating a guy for 4 months and things seem to have changed. Did she do something wrong or has he lost in...
Is He A Narcissist?
12 Oct 2015
Contributed by Lukas
Dating/relationship expert Lucia answers an email from a listener who wonders if her former boyfriend is a narcissist. He wanted her to spend money ...
Does Begging Ever Work?
06 Oct 2015
Contributed by Lukas
Is it ever appropriate to beg your partner when they are breaking up with you? As a follow up to last week's podcast, "How to Easily Get Your Ex Bac...
How to EASILY Get Your Ex Back
29 Sep 2015
Contributed by Lukas
What should you do if someone breaks up with you? Should you agree or beg them to stay? What about the 30 day "no contact" rule? Does that work?...
Why You Don't Need "Closure"
23 Sep 2015
Contributed by Lukas
Why did your ex break up with you? Is it possible to find out the truth? Can you move on without getting "closure"? Dating/relationship expert L...
Do You Need a Dating Coach?
15 Sep 2015
Contributed by Lukas
If you're having issues with your love life, should you see a psychiatrist, psychologist or a dating coach? What can private coaching do for you? ...
How to Attract More Women by Being an Alpha Male
08 Sep 2015
Contributed by Lukas
Most women prefer alpha males but many people are confused as to what his traits really are. Is he the jerk who is rude and tries to control women? ...
He Won't Make Me His Girlfriend!
02 Sep 2015
Contributed by Lukas
What should a woman do when she has been dating and sleeping with a guy for 3 months without a title because he wants to take things "slow"? Should ...
When Should You Have Sex With Him?
25 Aug 2015
Contributed by Lukas
How long should you wait to have sex with a new guy? Is it okay to wait 3 months or should you do it sooner rather than later? Dating/relationship...
How to Identify a Fake Dating Profile
20 Aug 2015
Contributed by Lukas
According to the FBI, an estimated 1 in 10 online, dating profiles are fake. How can you spot a fake profile? Dating/relationship expert Lucia poi...
Dating Dealbreakers
12 Aug 2015
Contributed by Lukas
This week's email is from a guy who is dating a woman who is very religious, whereas he's not. Also, she doesn't want to have children but will have...
Should I End This Long Distance Relationship?
05 Aug 2015
Contributed by Lukas
What do you to when the person you've been in a long distance relationship gives you an ultimatum - move in together or end it? Yet you're not sure ...
My Boyfriend is Addicted to Porn
29 Jul 2015
Contributed by Lukas
What can you do when you discover your partner has an addiction and it starts to affect your relationship? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains...
He Cheated But Wants Me Back
23 Jul 2015
Contributed by Lukas
What do you do when someone has been unfaithful several times, you've moved on and then they want you back? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explain...
The Only Dating Advice You'll EVER Need
14 Jul 2015
Contributed by Lukas
There is so much dating advice available these days for both sexes, that it can be overwhelming & confusing. Dating/relationship expert Lucia si...
Are You Needy In Love?
07 Jul 2015
Contributed by Lukas
Do you desperately want to be in a relationship? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why feeling as if you need to have someone in your life i...
He Wants To Take a Break
30 Jun 2015
Contributed by Lukas
This week's email is from a woman who has been in a long distance relationship for 4 months and her boyfriend now wants to take a break. Lucia expla...
Is He Doing The "Slow Fade"
22 Jun 2015
Contributed by Lukas
This week's email is from a woman who went on a few dates with a guy whose "eyes lit up" when they were first starting to get to know each other but n...
He Won't Commit!
17 Jun 2015
Contributed by Lukas
This week's email is from a woman who broke up with a guy after dating for 9 months because he didn't want to make a commitment. Dating/relationship...
Social Media Ruined My Relationship
03 Jun 2015
Contributed by Lukas
People who feel they have unfinished business with someone from the past, often decide to re-connect on social media. This isn't a problem, unless o...
Rejection - It's Not Personal
27 May 2015
Contributed by Lukas
Rejection is painful and something that everyone experiences sooner or later. Is there a way to respond to rejection so that it doesn't hurt so much...
How to Ask A Woman Out Correctly
20 May 2015
Contributed by Lukas
What's the right way to ask a woman out so there's a better chance that she'll say yes? Should you compliment a woman you want to date? Dating/rel...
The List
06 May 2015
Contributed by Lukas
Everyone has a list - whether it's mental or an actual list - of their ideal partner. However, most people are missing one important criteria on the...
How Long Should You Wait for Someone?
06 May 2015
Contributed by Lukas
This week's podcast is in response to an email from a woman who has been dating a guy for 1 year and still has no "title". Dating/relationship exper...