The Art of Love With Lucia

Why You Should Date Someone You're NOT Into

29 Apr 2015

Contributed by Lukas

Is there ever a good reason to date someone you're not really interested in?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia says there are 3 reasons you should go...

Don't EVER Write a Letter

23 Apr 2015

Contributed by Lukas

A woman wants to know if she should write a letter to a guy who is doing the slow fade.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why you should NEV...

I Spied on My Boyfriend

15 Apr 2015

Contributed by Lukas

This week's podcast is in response to a girl who checked her boyfriend's facebook messages and didn't like what she saw.  Dating/relationship expert ...

The Four C's of Relationships

01 Apr 2015

Contributed by Lukas

There are four things that every relationship needs if it's going to last.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what the four c's of relationshi...

Mixed Signals?

25 Mar 2015

Contributed by Lukas

This week dating/relationship expert Lucia answers an email from a guy who can't understand why his "lady friend" gets upset when he doesn't call or t...

Texting Games

04 Mar 2015

Contributed by Lukas

Most people play "texting games" because they think it shows high value. Does it really?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals why waiting to tex...

Why Dating Sucks

25 Feb 2015

Contributed by Lukas

Does dating really "suck" or do most people approach it with the wrong mindset?  Why do so many people dislike dating?  Dating/relationship expert L...

No Relationship Is Ever a Failure

18 Feb 2015

Contributed by Lukas

When a relationship doesn't work out the way someone expected or hoped, they usually consider it a failure.  But is it?  Dating/relationship expert ...

How to Connect Emotionally with a Guy

28 Jan 2015

Contributed by Lukas

This week's email is from a woman who is dating a new guy who let her know he didn't want an emotional attachment.  Should she let him go if she want...

Why Didn't They Call Back After The First Date?

21 Jan 2015

Contributed by Lukas

What happened when you had a great first date with someone and then never heard from them again?  Was it something you said or did?  Dating/relation...

Why Did They Back Away?

14 Jan 2015

Contributed by Lukas

What's happening when it seems as if everything is fine and then suddenly the person you're dating starts to back away, or even leave?  Is it fear of...

How to Date Better People

07 Jan 2015

Contributed by Lukas

Are you happy with the type of people you've been dating?  If not, how can you start to date better people?  Dating/relatonship expert Lucia reveals...

How to Get What You Want

16 Dec 2014

Contributed by Lukas

In dating, how do you get what you want?  Is it by asking for it, needing it or wanting it?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals how to get wha...

My Boyfriend Won't Marry Me

03 Dec 2014

Contributed by Lukas

What should a woman do when she's in love with a divorced man who said he doesn't ever want to remarry.  Should she believe him and move on or stay a...

What Do Women Want In and Out of the Bedroom?

18 Nov 2014

Contributed by Lukas

What are women looking for in a man?  What do women want in bed?  What are some of the mistakes men are making - often without knowing it?  Find ou...

If You Want to be Successful, Date an Older Woman

05 Nov 2014

Contributed by Lukas

Why should you date an older woman if you want to be successful?  Why does dating younger women or being single and on the prowl often keep young men...

He Disappeared After Sex

29 Oct 2014

Contributed by Lukas

Why do guys disappear after they have sex with you?  Is it because that's all they wanted or is it something else? Should women wait to have sex, in ...

How to Make a Great First Impression

15 Oct 2014

Contributed by Lukas

What's the easiest and fastest way to make a great first impression?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what's known as "white magic" when it ...

How to Stop Someone from Cheating

08 Oct 2014

Contributed by Lukas

Is it possible to stop someone from cheating?  If so, what is it?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the one thing that will drastically lowe...

We Teach People How to Treat Us

09 Sep 2014

Contributed by Lukas

A woman wants to know if she is disrespecting herself by sleeping with her ex-husband in order to continue to get spousal support.  Lucia discusses w...

My Thoughts on the Mariah/Nick Split

26 Aug 2014

Contributed by Lukas

Why are Mariah Carey and Nick Cannon divorcing after 6 years together?  Can their marriage be fixed or is it a victim of the 50% divorce rate?  Find...

Just Be Faithful...Dammit!

20 Aug 2014

Contributed by Lukas

Are there advantages to focusing on dating one person at a time, even though you're not exclusive, instead of juggling several people.  What are the ...

Is The Grass Greener On The Other Side?

12 Aug 2014

Contributed by Lukas

Is the grass really greener on the other side, or does it just look that way because you're not close enough to see the weed?  Should you leave when ...

Am I Attractive Enough to Date?

06 Aug 2014

Contributed by Lukas

How important are looks when it comes to dating?  If you don't feel good about your looks, should you even bother with dating?  Find out if beauty r...

Einstein and "The One"

25 Jul 2014

Contributed by Lukas

How can Albert Einstein help you find "the one"?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how a law of physics can help you to find Mr/Ms Right or ...

How to Break Up

15 Jul 2014

Contributed by Lukas

What's the best way to break up with someone?  Should you let them know you're not happy or just end it?  Should you do it via text, phone, facetime...

No Guarantees in Love

08 Jul 2014

Contributed by Lukas

Love can be the highest feeling you've ever had, which is also the reason that's it can also be the scariest.  We all know there are no guarantees in...

Is he/she the One?

18 Jun 2014

Contributed by Lukas

How do you know if someone is the one for you, especially if you have doubts or society doesn't agree with your choice?  Dating/relationship expert L...

Sex With My Personal Trainer

11 Jun 2014

Contributed by Lukas

This week's podcast is about a woman who wants to have sex with her personal trainer however he's not making any moves, even though she's given him th...

Romance Killers

04 Jun 2014

Contributed by Lukas

Why does dating start out as being fun and eventually burn out and turn into boredom?  It's usually because you're doing one or more of these three "...

What Do You REALLY, REALLY want?

27 May 2014

Contributed by Lukas

Why do you want a lover or a romantic partner?  Why do you drive a certain car or dress a certain way?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia believes th...

Sexual Frustration

14 May 2014

Contributed by Lukas

What should you do if you're sexually frustrated because you don't have a lover?  Should you settle and just take whoever is willing and able or is t...

Online & Flaky

07 May 2014

Contributed by Lukas

Are people on dating sites or social media flakier than the norm?  If so, why and how should you deal with it?  Dating/relationship expert breaks it...

Do Jerks Really Exist?

29 Apr 2014

Contributed by Lukas

Are most guys really jerks or is there something else going on?  Why are guys so nice in the beginning and then turn into jerks?  Dating/relationshi...

Less is More

23 Apr 2014

Contributed by Lukas

When you first start dating someone, how often should you text or call?  How often should you see them?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals ho...

Anticipation

16 Apr 2014

Contributed by Lukas

When was the last time you felt anticipation?  Although most of the world may function on instant gratification, dating and relationships cannot and ...

Nice but no Chemistry

08 Apr 2014

Contributed by Lukas

What should you do if you're dating someone who is "nice" but there is little to no chemistry?  Should you wait to see if things change or end it rig...

The 3-Day Rule is Dead

01 Apr 2014

Contributed by Lukas

Does the 3-day rule still work, or did it ever?  Should you wait to call someone when you get their number or is it okay to call within 24 hours?  D...

Dating Without a Job/Car

26 Mar 2014

Contributed by Lukas

This week's email is from a guy who's interested in a woman on a dating site who seems to be out of his league.  He currently doesn't have a job or a...

Impatient to Find "The One"?

19 Mar 2014

Contributed by Lukas

Are you impatient and restless about finding the love of your life?  Do you wish they were here already and wonder what's taking so long?  Find out ...

Should You Ask Your Friends For Dating Advice?

11 Mar 2014

Contributed by Lukas

Is it a good idea to ask your friends for advice on your love life?  What are the downfalls of getting help from someone who isn't a professional?  ...

How to Bond with a Guy

05 Mar 2014

Contributed by Lukas

What's the best way to bond with a guy?  Does having long phone conversations or texting sessions lead to bonding?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia...

Is Friends With Benefits A Good Idea?

25 Feb 2014

Contributed by Lukas

Is a "friends with benefits" relationship a good idea or should you hold out for someone who wants a real relationship?  What are the benefits and wh...

What Do Photoshop & Breaking Up Have in Common?

19 Feb 2014

Contributed by Lukas

Is there anything good that can come from a breakup, even a temporary one?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia discusses what updating an app has in co...

February 14 - The Day We Love to Hate

13 Feb 2014

Contributed by Lukas

Whether you're male or female, single or in a relationship, you have an opinion about Valentine's Day.  Love it or hate it, find out how to get throu...

How NOT to approach a woman online

31 Jan 2014

Contributed by Lukas

If you're not having much luck with online dating, you may be making a mistake in your first email, when you contact a woman you're interested in.  D...

Why He Broke Up With You

29 Jan 2014

Contributed by Lukas

Did a guy break up with you and not give you a good reason as to why?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the common mistake women make that le...

What Type of Woman Do Men Want?

21 Jan 2014

Contributed by Lukas

Is there a certain type of woman that men are more drawn to?  Yes!  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what it is and what to do to be that wo...

My Girlfriend Won't Have Sex With Me

15 Jan 2014

Contributed by Lukas

What can you do if your girlfriend doesn't want to have sex with you, even though your sex life was hot and heavy in the beginning?  Dating/relations...

Guys: Your Dating Profile Photos Suck!

06 Jan 2014

Contributed by Lukas

Most, if not all dating sites, have a lot more men than women, so the odds are stacked against you if you're a guy.  If your calling card, your profi...

Love Is Life

02 Jan 2014

Contributed by Lukas

"Love is life.  If you miss love, you miss life."  Don't miss out on love!  Find out what you can do to be more open to bringing love into your lif...

Should You Date A Co-Worker?

17 Dec 2013

Contributed by Lukas

Is it ever a good idea to date a co-worker?  What are the pros and cons of dating someone you work with?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia breaks it...

How to Meet Women at the Gym

09 Dec 2013

Contributed by Lukas

Is it a good idea to date a woman from the gym or is it taboo?  What's the best way to meet a woman while working out?  Dating/relationship expert L...

Last Minute Date?

04 Dec 2013

Contributed by Lukas

Is it ever ok for a guy to ask a woman out at the last minute?  How do women feel about being asked out on short notice?  Dating/Relationship expert...

"I'm Dating My Ex's Friend"

19 Nov 2013

Contributed by Lukas

What advice does dating/relationship expert Lucia have for a woman who is still living with her ex while dating one of his friends?  You don't want t...

Rushing into Relationships

07 Nov 2013

Contributed by Lukas

Is rushing into a relationship/marriage, ever a good idea?  if not, is there an exception?  Dating/Relationship expert Lucia sets the record straigh...

Are You Working Too Hard To Find Love?

05 Nov 2013

Contributed by Lukas

Are you working too hard to find love?  Are you worn out from reading all your emails on dating sites or mindless socializing that doesn't lead to an...

4 Signs They Really, REALLY Like You

29 Oct 2013

Contributed by Lukas

Is there any way to know when someone is really, really into you, without actually having to ask?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals 4 surefir...

If A Woman Has Stopped Speaking To You

21 Oct 2013

Contributed by Lukas

What's the best way to handle a situation when a woman you're dating has stopped speaking to you?  Is there any way to get her to talk?  Dating/Rela...

He Disappeared After Sex

12 Oct 2013

Contributed by Lukas

What's going on when you have sex with a guy for the 1st time and you don't hear from him again?  Dating expert Lucia reveals all the possible explan...

Can He Be Trusted?

07 Oct 2013

Contributed by Lukas

Do you have trust "issues"? Do you find it hard to trust men?  Dating expert Lucia reveals the easiest way to know if someone can be trusted.

I'm Afraid My BF Is Going to Dump Me

15 Sep 2013

Contributed by Lukas

This week's email comes from a woman who has been dating a  much younger man for 2 years and she's afraid he's about to dump her.  What should she d...

Should You Make The First Move?

14 Sep 2013

Contributed by Lukas

Is it ever ok for a woman to make the first move?  If so, how should she do it?  If not, why not?  Find out in this audioblog by dating/relationshi...

The Freakout

20 Aug 2013

Contributed by Lukas

What makes someone freak out when it comes to dating and is there any way to redeem yourself afterwards?

Beware the "Ex"

06 Aug 2013

Contributed by Lukas

What happens when the "ex" of the person you recently started dating, finds out he/she is dating someone new?  There is a common,  predictable react...

Relatiionship with No Sex

13 Jul 2013

Contributed by Lukas

What happens when one partner in a relationship no longer wants to be sexually intimate?  Find out in this audio blog from Lucia about how to handle ...

"Kill Them While They're Young"

17 Jun 2013

Contributed by Lukas

Lucia's audio blog about heeding red flag warnings when you meet/start to date someone.

Internet Dating Profile Review

31 May 2013

Contributed by Lukas

Dating expert Lucia answers an email from a woman who says she is only being contacted by "losers" on a dating site. Lucia reviews the profile to see ...

Is He "Really" Interested In You?

13 Mar 2013

Contributed by Lukas

How can you know if the guy you're interested in is also interested in you?  What does it mean if you're not sure?  Find out in this audioblog!

How to Make Someone Fall In Love With You in 90 Minutes or Less

17 Feb 2013

Contributed by Lukas

Is it possible to create an instant connection and have someone fall in love in 90 minutes?  Find out in this fascinating interview with Nichola...

Was It Something I Said?

23 Jan 2013

Contributed by Lukas

When should you add or defriend a guy on Facebook?  How can you get him to change his status to "In a relationship"?  Find out in this interview...

The Caveman Formula

19 Jan 2013

Contributed by Lukas

Why do women not like "nice guys"?  Why do women cheat or end relationships? What's the #1 quality women look for in a man?  Find out in this...

Anatomy of a Cheater

18 Dec 2012

Contributed by Lukas

Why do people cheat?  What are the signs that someone is cheating?  Once a cheater always a cheater?  Find out in this exciting interview with ...

The Men's Code of Honor

17 Dec 2012

Contributed by Lukas

Is there a "secret" code among men?  What does it mean to "act like a man"?  Do men regret how they treated women in their past?  Find out in t...

Romantic Suicide: The 45 Unbreakable Rules of Dating

14 Oct 2012

Contributed by Lukas

Do you always mess up potential relationships in the first 3 months?  Find out how to turn that around in this real talk interview with Monroe ...

Bitch Are You Retarded?

14 Sep 2012

Contributed by Lukas

It's not true men don't like to talk on the phone, say "I love you", wait to have sex, be faithful or get married.  Find out why in this shockin...

The Relationships Men Commit to and Why

16 Jul 2012

Contributed by Lukas

What's the difference between a bad dater and a bad guy?  How can you tell whether a guy is looking for love or sex?  Find out in this fun inter...

The 7 Self-Sabotaging Behaviors That Keep Women From Finding Mr. Right

16 Jul 2012

Contributed by Lukas

Are you unknowingly sabotaging your love life by playing hard to get or being too picky?  Find out in this fast paced interview with Devon Brown,...

We Could've Had A Great Date If It Weren't For You

14 Jul 2012

Contributed by Lukas

Why do you only get the relationship you're ready for, regardless of what you want?  Why can you only attract someone who is at the same level...

Confessions of the World's Worst Dater

13 Jun 2012

Contributed by Lukas

Are you unknowingly sabotaging your first dates?   What does it mean to "date like a grown-up?"  What can you do to determine whether a guy ca...

Naked: How to Find The Perfect Partner by Revealing Your True Self

14 May 2012

Contributed by Lukas

Why should you decide who to date based on their energy?  Who is responsible if your partner cheats?  Why is there no such thing as "rejection"?...

Big Red Flags: Relationship Warning Signs You Totally Spotted but Chose to Ignore

16 Apr 2012

Contributed by Lukas

How can you know if a guy sees you as girlfriend material?  If he's "too good to be true", should you be concerned?  What does his "after-sex" etiqu...

How to Catch a Cougar

14 Mar 2012

Contributed by Lukas

How should you approach an older woman and how can you know if she's interested? What are the 2 types of Cougars?  Find out in this fun show abou...

Taming Your Alpha Bitch

13 Mar 2012

Contributed by Lukas

Does being a bitch help or hinder your love life?  How do men react to bitches?  Is there power in femininity?  Find out in this enlightening i...

The Selfish Path to Romance

18 Jan 2012

Contributed by Lukas

Is it possible to combine passion and reason?  What is romantic love based on?  Is it ok to be selfish when it comes to love and romance?  Find out...

Are All Guys A**holes?

13 Dec 2011

Contributed by Lukas

Are guys truly jerks or is it all just an act? Are they destined to cheat? Is being hot the most important factor if you want to get a guy? Find ou...

Big Fat Lies Women Tell Themselves

15 Nov 2011

Contributed by Lukas

Not for women only!  We all have the "inner critic" that tells us we're not good enough, unlovable, need someone else to complete us and many other l...

French Women Don't Sleep Alone

18 Oct 2011

Contributed by Lukas

What makes French women so seductive, mysterious and charming? Why don't they go on actual "dates"? Find out their secrets in this nouveau-thinkin...

The Magnificent 10: Crucial Dating Tips For Men".

20 Sep 2011

Contributed by Lukas

Why should a man have sex with his female friends at least once? How should you deal with a woman who isn't returning your phone calls? Find ou...

How to Escape From Relationship Hell

15 Sep 2011

Contributed by Lukas

The right person can take you to heaven and the wrong person can take you to hell. Find out how to make sure you pick the right person in this imp...

From Friends to Lovers: Stop Being Her Emotional Cookie Man

06 Jun 2011

Contributed by Lukas

Is it possible for a man to go from friend to lover? How can you be a nice guy yet still have an "edge"? Find out in my very informative interview ...

The Four Man Plan

23 May 2011

Contributed by Lukas

Do you suck at love?  Do all your relationships end with drama?  Are you an over-giving, serial monogamist with a suspicious streak?  You won't be ...

Men: Ten Secrets Every Woman Should Know From Two Guys That Do

10 May 2011

Contributed by Lukas

Is there a way to ask a man a question so that he will tell you what he's really thinking? Is there a way to get a man to give you what you want w...

The Answers Book

19 Apr 2011

Contributed by Lukas

Why do men love bitches? What is chemistry? Why do your ex's usually call back? Find out in my interview with Dr. Pat Allen, renowned Jungian th...

Tweet Her and Meet Her

12 Apr 2011

Contributed by Lukas

What are the 5 things you should never do on Twitter if you want to meet women?   How can you use Twitter to easily meet women at a nightclub, ...

More Love Tactics

04 Apr 2011

Contributed by Lukas

Why should you ignore what someone says or does when you are trying to win them over? Is it true difficult times make relationships stronger? Wha...

How Not to Marry the Wrong Guy

21 Mar 2011

Contributed by Lukas

Is he the "One" or should you run? Is it cold feet or just pre-wedding jitters? Find out in this very important interview with Jennifer Gauvain, M...

How to Get the Woman You Want

28 Feb 2011

Contributed by Lukas

What's the best way to approach a woman you're interested in?  How can you tell whether she's just being friendly or she's flirting with you?   Fin...

His Ingredient Label

14 Feb 2011

Contributed by Lukas

Just as food comes with an ingredient label, so do men.  Find out how to easily read it in this fun interview with Jennifer Tardy, relationship ...

Laws of the Bedroom: What Men Need to Know About Sex and Pleasing a Woman

31 Jan 2011

Contributed by Lukas

What is the #1 problem with sex today? What is the #1 solution to satisfying a woman? How can you tell if a woman has faked an orgasm? Both men...