145. Push Back – And Let the Wrong People Leave; "You're Going to Disappoint People, and It's Still Worth It."
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The Bright Method Podcast: Realistic Time Management and Productivity for Working Women & Working Moms
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How can I join the Bright Method waitlist and learn more about the program?
Hey you, this is me recording in June of 2026. Wanted to give you a heads up, the dates for my fall opening of the Bright Method program are set. Enrollment for September and October start dates opens on August 6th at 11 a.m. Central. Join the wait list by going to Kellynoland.com slash bright or DM me the word bright program. One word bright program. In September of twenty twenty five, enrollment sold out in just thirty minutes, so joining the wait list helps you make sure you won't miss it. Again, go to Kellynolan.com slash bright or DM me the word bright program. All right, on to the good stuff. Welcome to the Bright Method Podcast, where we'll discuss practical time management strategies designed for the professional working woman.
I'm Kelly Nolan, a former patent litigator who now works with women to set up the bright method in their lives. The Bright Method is a realistic time management system that helps you manage it all personally and professionally. Let's get you fallen asleep proud of what you got done today and calm about what's on tap tomorrow. Alright, let's dig in. Hey hey yeah Alright, today I want to talk about the Kind of fear around pushing back, but the incredible data that pushing back on workload, on projects, on all this kind of stuff can give us. Recently, a client brought up on a call during the 10-week Bright Method program that she said she couldn't decline new work because those people would take their business elsewhere and never come back.
She worked in a very you know, s not saturated, but busy, full, you know, lay of the land of competitors. And if the client wasn't happy, they would just go to someone else. That's what she just stated as a fact. And I get why. You know, there's enough truth to it that we treat it as fact. Plus, at least for me, like anything fear based feels more like big and real than maybe it shouldn't like be warranted to feel. But it does, and I get that. And so I just wanna be clear that I have zero judgment here. Like I've spent I spent a long time in my legal career. And in my business career, operating from that assumption that if I pushed back, I would lose work, lose the relationship, I would lose the opportunity, and so y I didn't I I just kept absorbing.
But we really need to dig into that.
Why do professionals fear pushing back on new work or projects?
Because when our plates are already overflowing, and I know hers was and I suspect yours is as well. Regardless of the reason, taking on more is just living in denial of your real capacity constraints. Like we do have limited capacity. And it's important to really Acknowledge that and realize that if we just keep taking whatever comes at us, we are going to overflow our capacity. We are going to not be able to complete the work. at least not be able to complete the work well and very much not enjoy the way it all feels. indefinitely because of this approach. We have to push back, and that can look different. You know, that can be saying an outright no to a new project. It could also be pushing back on the given deadline.
It could be some other middle ground option. But not it's just not like blessing whatever's asked of you and absorbing it and figuring it out and how you're gonna do it later. that pushback factually just has to happen. You know, we if you take the emotion out of it, you have a limited capacity, you have more work than you can handle coming at you. you have to manage what work gets done or just happenstance will decide what gets done. Like you can work really hard, but if you have an unrealistic amount of workload, some things are not going to get done. And if you haven't decided what to take on and not take on, then it's just whatever happens to not get done doesn't get done. And it could be something that actually is a high priority or very important to you in your life.
So there's that. But in addition to pushback being aimed at getting you an actually realistic workload that matches your capacity and all of the incredible ripple effects that come with that. There's another benefit in that What if pushing back makes the wrong people leave and the right people stay?
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Chapters
8 chapters
1
How can I join the Bright Method waitlist and learn more about the program?
0:00–2:21
2
Why do professionals fear pushing back on new work or projects?
2:21–4:38
3
What are the consequences of constantly taking on work beyond my capacity?
4:38–6:45
4
How can I effectively push back on a project or deadline without burning bridges?
6:45–9:04
5
Can pushing back cause the wrong people to leave and the right ones to stay?
9:04–11:31
6
How did Kelly use pushback to choose the right clients and partners in her legal career?
11:31–13:41
7
What did a board member learn by pushing back on a timeline request?
13:41–16:03
8
How did a finance professional achieve quarterly goals after learning to push back?
16:03–18:33
Speakers
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