Wedding Regrets : How to Move On? TBB S2EP6
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How do wedding regrets show up for brides right after the big day?
Welcome to The Budgetarian Bride, the podcast. Kung isa ka sa mga brides na hindi pa rin makamove on sa mga what went wrong sa wedding mo, this episode is for you. Napansin mo ba na kahit kaano kakasaya noong wedding day mo, may mga bagay ka pa rin na gustong baguhin? Things that you could have done better. Maybe may mga supplier na pumalpak, may part ng program na hindi nasunod, or simply hindi lang talaga siya kasing perfect ng ine-expect mo. You're not alone. Maraming brides ang nakakaramdam ng wedding regrets. Yung tipong paulit-ulit mong iniisip, yung mga pagkakamali, at imbes na mag-focus ka sa mga magagandang nangyari, mas naaalala mo pa yung hindi natupad sa wedding ninyo. Today, pag-uusapan natin ang tatlong dahilan kung bakit maraming brides ang may wedding regrets. At syempre, hindi natin hahayaan na forever kang stuck dyan. I will also share with you yung 4 tips kung paano ka makaka-move on mula sa mga wedding regrets mo so you can finally look back at your big day with love, not disappointment. Ready ka na ba? Let's dive in!
So for this episode, meron tayong sender na nag-send ng kanyang message about her wedding regrets. Huwag na nating patagalin pa. Babasahin ko sa inyo yung message niya. Sabi niya, Sis, please make me anonymous. Just want to know how can I move on from what went wrong sa wedding. As a bride, alam ko lahat ng mali. Lahat ng hindi nasunod. Pero syempre, hindi yun alam ng guests. The reviews after the wedding were great. They perceived it as grand. Sobrang saya ang sarap ng food. Pero yung tumatak sa akin ay yung mga mali at hindi ko nagawa. How to move on? Sobrang bigat sa pakiramdam. Umiiyak ako gabi-gabi. Paulit-ulit ko ang pinapanood ang SDE to remind na maganda naman yung kinalabasan. Yet yung mga hindi nasunod ang nagbabangungot sa akin.
Grabe, no? Parang ang bigat, ang sakit ng message ni bride. And... Actually, hindi siya rare scenario. There are a lot of brides who experience the same. Maraming brides ang nagkakaroon ng wedding regrets. And let me give you the three reasons kung bakit nga ba maraming brides ang nagkakaroon ng wedding regrets. Number one, first time nating ikakasal. Wala tayong idea how to plan this wedding. Most of the times, nanguhula tayo. Especially before the budgetarian bride, diba? Wala pa talagang page that will help you step-by-step guide. Pero ngayon, diba, sa The Budgetarian Bride, that was my mission para hindi na kayo kailangan maunghula. Meron tayong page. Ito, meron tayong The Budgetarian Bride, the podcast, and of course, meron tayong wedding planning e-book. It's a step-by-step wedding planning guide from day one of planning hanggang big day ninyo. Naka-map out na yan. Naka-timeline, naka-checklist. Susundin mo na lang.
Pero kung hindi sila aware sa ganitong klase ng solutions, a lot of brides, first time nating ikakasal, we have no idea. Wala ditong dress rehearsal, walang take two. Kung ano yung mangyari on the day of the wedding, yun na. Everything will happen on the spot. For some, I understand, sa ibang religion... Meron silang rehearsal. Paano maglakad sa aisle, paano yung mga abay maglalakad sa aisle, paano yung music. You can practice that. Pero meron din namang iba na walang ganun. Sasabihin lang nito, dito ka maglalakad, pag nag-open na yung door, papasok ka na, then walk slowly. But you really don't have any idea how slow ba dapat yung slow na lakad. Akala niyo sobrang liit na detail yun, pero there are a lot of brides na pakiramdam nila sobrang bilis pala nilang maglakad. Dapat pala nag-emote pa ako ng mas kaunti pa. Or yung iba naman, pakiramdam nila ay sobrang bagal ng lakad nila. Dapat daw binilisan pa nila ng konti kasi parang naging dead air na yung sobrang tagal nilang paglalakad. So, these tiny things, wala tayong idea.
Hindi natin siya napapractice. Walang take-two sa wedding. Unlike birthdays, di ba? You celebrate your birthday every year. So, kung hindi mo na gusto yung ganitong klase ng celebration, hindi masarap yung napamungkater, kukuha ka ng iba sa next birthday mo. And you get to redo it hanggang ma-perfect mo na. Every birthday mo, dito ka na nagse-celebrate kasi na-perfect mo na siya. Sa wedding, walang ganun.
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