At just 36, eight months married, Orlagh Winters was diagnosed with an aggressive form of breast cancer - with no lump, only pain in her breast. Her story is a powerful reminder to always get checked and trust your instincts when it comes to your health.In this episode, Orlagh opens up about her breast cancer diagnosis, the gruelling rounds of chemotherapy and the side effects that came with it - from hair loss to being put into early menopause, which shattered her dreams of having a family. She also shares the emotional fallout of discovering her husband’s affair while grieving her dad, and how she eventually found strength and self-worth through it all.Now married to the love of her life, Luke O’Hea, Orlagh talks about finding happiness again. She’s also raised thousands for charities and continues to be a voice for awareness, especially during Breast Cancer Awareness Month.Orlagh says she lives by one motto that keeps her grounded:“If they’re not in your head, or the heart of your bed - their opinion doesn’t matter.”From coping with grief to finding hope after heartbreak, this is a story about courage, survival, and choosing to live life on your own terms.This episode is proudly sponsored by ADHD Now - the online clinic transforming ADHD assessment and care across Ireland. If you’re seeking an ADHD assessment or support, visit adhdnow.com today.Timestamps00:00 – Intro & Setting the Scene01:00 – Early Life & Family08:23 – Cancer Diagnosis & Chemotherapy Journey10:24 – Medical Menopause & Infertility11:46 – Egg Donation & Divorce12:21 – Family Court & Misogyny in the Irish System15:44 – Journaling, Fundraising & Finding Purpose17:54 – Meeting Luke25:26 – Ghosting, Boundaries & Self-Worth29:05 – Motherhood, Regret & Reflection31:08 – Irish Family Courts & Lockdown Impact33:14 – Cancer Awareness & Getting Checked35:31 – Life Before & After Cancer37:00 – The Little Things & Love with Luke38:28 – The Three Questions Finale39:33 – Closing & Sign-OffConnect With Me:Instagram: @thecomebackwithbrenda @brendasbitsContact: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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