31 Life-Changing Lessons from Marcus Aurelius

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What is the significance of Marcus Aurelius' Meditations?

Ryan Holiday 0:00
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Ryan Holiday 1:42
It was one man writing to himself, and that man happened to be the emperor of Rome, Marcus Aurelius, the most powerful person on the planet. And that's what we're gonna talk about today, the best lessons from Marcus Aurelius' meditations, and most importantly, how to actually use them. I think one of the reasons we have trouble with motivation is that we know deep down that this thing we're doing, it doesn't really matter. It's not important. That's why Marcus Aurelius' question is so imperative. He says, ask yourself, is this essential? He says, because most of what we do and say and think is not essential. It's getting us further from where we want to go. It's something that society made up for us.
Ryan Holiday 2:27
It's just what everyone... else is doing. It's piddly busy work. You know, he says, are you really afraid of death because you won't be able to do this thing anymore? Right? He's saying that we waste our time with frivolous, unimportant, meaningless things. So he says, when you ask yourself, you end up eliminating the inessential. And then he says, you get this double benefit of doing the essential things better. But I would say that the real benefit is that if we only have a finite amount of motivation, if getting up the motivation, if maintaining motivation is this difficult task, Well, then we want to save it for the precious few things that really matter. What's the main thing for you? You eliminate the things that are not the main thing, and then that marshals more resources, more energy, more motivation for the things that are the main thing.
Ryan Holiday 3:13
If everything is this battle between the higher self and the lower self, If you're exhausting that resource, battling for things that don't matter, that you don't actually care about, that you could say no to, you're gonna have to have so much more motivation than someone who has winnowed down their frame of reference, their to-do list, only to the things that truly matter, that truly are essential. Marcus Aurelius had a lot to complain about. A lot goes wrong. He doesn't meet with the good fortune that he deserved. He's betrayed. He's misled. People lie to him. People try to take things from him. He has a job that he doesn't even want. And yet, nowhere in Meditations, what he thinks is his private diary that no one is going to read
Ryan Holiday 3:56
we never once see him complain about any of it. He doesn't complain about being unappreciated. He doesn't complain about being abused. He doesn't complain about being put upon. He doesn't complain about the stress.

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