BONUS | Ryan Holiday's Best Book Recommendations for Dr. Becky Kennedy
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What is the main topic discussed in this episode?
Welcome to the Daily Stoic Podcast, designed to help bring those four key Stoic virtues, courage, discipline, justice, and wisdom into the real world. Other than yours, do you have any favorite parenting books?
Oh my goodness. I mean, I'm looking at these. You know, I love Emily Oster. I love Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents.
She's coming out with a new book soon. That's such a crazy book because it was like basically self-published and just became this sort of word-of-mouth enormous thing.
E. Brodsky is a friend and I love her work. I love Siblings Without Rivalry and how to talk to your, you know, how to talk so your kids will listen, listen so your kids will talk.
Have you read this one?
No.
So Kafka had a difficult relationship with his father. He's an artistic kid, his father's a businessman, they never got along.
Which parenting books does Dr. Becky ask about first?
Towards the end of his life, he writes this letter that, where he sort of lays it out. I sort of compare it to like, Family Day at Rehab, where you finally talk about all the shit that you weren't, that are the secrets, and he writes this letter, and he gives it to his mom, and she of course doesn't give it to the dad. Which, it gives you an insight into the family dynamic. But it's like, it's a beautiful book, because he's such a great writer, and he just really captures like, that sort of, when there isn't that parent-child fit, like when the personalities don't line up and how tough that is for both parties, it's beautiful. Oh great, thank you.
I love Aliza too. Oh, she's been here.
I think about what are parenting books that people don't think of as parenting books, like the rope, have you read the rope? You've never read The Road? No, I'm embarrassed now. It's different once you have kids. But it's a father and a son at sort of the end of the world. And he's just trying, he's desperately trying to get his nine-year-old to the... to the coast. Everything's falling apart. He doesn't know. He has no plan.
What classic parenting titles does Ryan recommend (Siblings Without Rivalry, How to Talk So Kids Listen)?
He's just trying to get them away. And it's all this stuff along the way. It's heartbreaking and beautiful. And the famous image in the book is this. And a kid repeats it to him. He's like, we're carrying the fire. And the fire is goodness. Like in this world where people are eating each other and killing each other, it's like the parent's job is to help them that they're one of the good guys and they're carrying the fire. It's beautiful.
Why does Ryan recommend Kafka’s ‘letter to his father’ for understanding family dynamics?
So I think I like that. I love this. I give this book to a lot of people too. I don't know if you read that. I haven't yet. Because that's what I think we're trying to, we're trying to raise outdoor kids.
Definitely.
All right, so that's parenting.
Oh my god, that incredible book. So good, so interesting.
It's like when somebody writes about something that you could tell their publisher didn't want them to write about and they didn't think it would have any, but they are just so obsessed with it and that only they could have written that book.
He's amazing, I'm sure you've met him.
He's so impressive. Actually, Savannah just told me about your books.
Hi.
She's looking for a fiction recommendation.
Yeah. Oh, so nice to meet you. What kind of fiction? You know the last book I couldn't put down that was fiction was The Wedding People. Oh, I loved The Wedding People. It was so much fun. I loved the characters. I was sad to see them go at the end, you know, and it's over. The main character's journey.
That one really surprised me. I read the whole thing on a blank.
Did you? Yeah. Like, where'd you go, Bernadette? Is that what it's called? Like, that was like, it reminds me of that. I just didn't want to put it there. Have you read her new book? I actually haven't. I hope she does know. I haven't.
Is it great? Okay, so, yes. It's very good. She was just here. We have a sign. So the main character is a stoic philosopher. I got a call from Oprah's people to ask me to come, and I was like, how did you hear about my stuff? And they were like, well, we just did Maria's book, and she told us about it. So she just sort of blew my life up, which is very cool.
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Chapters
6 chapters
1
What is the main topic discussed in this episode?
0:00–0:51
2
Which parenting books does Dr. Becky ask about first?
0:51–1:56
3
What classic parenting titles does Ryan recommend (Siblings Without Rivalry, How to Talk So Kids Listen)?
1:56–2:20
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Why does Ryan recommend Kafka’s ‘letter to his father’ for understanding family dynamics?
2:20–3:59
5
How can Cormac McCarthy’s The Road be read as a parenting book?
3:59–8:25
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Which fiction recommendations does Ryan suggest for immersive character-driven stories?
8:25–10:05
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