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'The Interview': Kristen Stewart Wants to Show Us a Different Kind of Sex

06 Dec 2025

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Chapter 1: What transformation has Kristen Stewart undergone in her career?

0.031 - 23.774 Andrew Ross Sorkin

This is Andrew Ross Sorkin, the founder of Dealbook. Every year, I interview some of the world's most influential leaders across politics, culture, and business at the Dealbook Summit, a live event in New York City. On this year's podcast, you'll hear my unfiltered conversations with Gavin Newsom, the CEO of Palantir and Anthropic, and Erica Kirk, the widow of Charlie Kirk.

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23.794 - 26.697 Andrew Ross Sorkin

Listen to Dealbook Summit wherever you get your podcasts.

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33.275 - 55.69 David Marchese

From the New York Times, this is The Interview. I'm David Marchese. When it comes to artists and celebrities, there are few things more exciting than change, when the person we thought we knew shows us something different. Kristen Stewart has shown us that a few times. She shot to stardom in big-budget Hollywood hits like the Twilight series.

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56.371 - 72.008 David Marchese

But by her mid-20s, she stepped away from popcorn movies in favor of independent films, including 2021's Spencer. She played Princess Diana, earning herself an Academy Award nomination. Stewart has undergone a pretty profound transformation off-screen, too.

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72.77 - 96.306 David Marchese

She used to be a frequent target of the tabloid press, both for her relationships, notably with her Twilight co-star Robert Pattinson, and also for her often sullen-seeming public appearances. Things seem different now. As I found out when we spoke, Stewart, who publicly came out in 2017 and earlier this year married the screenwriter and producer Dylan Meyer, is riding some entirely new energy.

96.775 - 110.754 David Marchese

At 35, she's just directed her first full-length feature, The Chronology of Water. The film is an adaptation of Lydia Yuknovich's intense memoir. She was a competitive swimmer who fought her way through various traumas in order to become the writer she needed to be.

111.695 - 135.744 David Marchese

Stewart has made a bold movie, one which raises questions about womanhood, sexuality, excess, and the stories we choose to tell about ourselves. Questions that set the stage for a pretty fun, freewheeling conversation. Here's my interview with Kristen Stewart. Hi, Kristen. How are you?

136.145 - 136.806 Kristen Stewart

Great. How are you?

137.146 - 161.106 David Marchese

I'm good. I'm good. Thank you for taking the time to come do this. I appreciate it. I am 100% honored, truly. All right. We'll just get right into it. Okay. So you've been trying to make The Chronology of Water for, I think it's close to 10 years. And it's a memoir that... involves a lot of really heavy stuff. You know, there's addiction, child abuse, the loss of an infant.

Chapter 2: How does Kristen Stewart describe her experience with the film industry?

337.406 - 341.01 Kristen Stewart

It's like, it's, it's all about how we're contextualized by the male gaze.

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341.328 - 360.643 David Marchese

I think an idea that I was thinking about as I was watching the film was the relationship between one's own experience and sort of the emotionally intense experiences of, in this case, the author. But I think kind of what I hear you saying is that my question is maybe a little bit irrelevant.

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361.905 - 384.948 Kristen Stewart

I think that question... is super necessary and interesting. And I do really appreciate it because what I want to say always is that if you get bogged down in the details and you pick this woman apart, you're not giving her a chance to be as genius as she is. So I think it's definitely important to talk about the fact that this is not a movie about this one woman.

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384.988 - 388.872 Kristen Stewart

It's a movie about women being allowed to speak for themselves and be people.

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389.473 - 396.607 David Marchese

That was a very elegant and impassioned way of... Saying, nice question, dummy. No, not at all.

396.627 - 409.338 Kristen Stewart

I literally don't mean, I don't mean to talk down to that question. Like, what else are you going to ask me? It does seem like what the movie is about. Like, I do not like, I'm a morning person. Yeah. Yeah, sorry.

410.199 - 429.243 David Marchese

This is a total naive question, but why does it take eight years to make a movie like this? It's not like a giant special effects movie or a bunch of locations all over the world or something. It seems like an unusually long time. Maybe it's not in your business, but what's going on?

429.263 - 450.582 Kristen Stewart

I was lucky to be allowed to make this movie at all. I don't know that this movie would have gotten financed by anyone if I wasn't me financially. I had to do a lot of kicking and screaming. I think it's a multi-tiered answer that I hope I have the sort of wherewithal to organize at this moment. You know, I had never made a movie before.

450.602 - 460.919 Kristen Stewart

It does not have a three-act structure that is easy to classify. And so most of the time it's difficult to pay for something that doesn't have an equatable success story.

Chapter 3: What themes does Kristen explore in her directorial debut, The Chronology of Water?

461.279 - 478.228 Kristen Stewart

You know what I mean? Like something that you go, oh, well, this is going to be great because we've seen it before. Yeah, exactly. It's like this meets this is always how you try and like sell and market a movie. It's like, I don't know what this meets. This meets anything. But this had to be the first thing I said. It just had to be because it's about saying things.

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478.569 - 497.222 Kristen Stewart

But it took a long time because it is unsavory, unpalatable because it is about violation and repossession. And also how fun it is to watch someone do that because she is just a force. She's like a tsunami. And also there's a sexuality in it that just feels like fucking delicious.

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497.557 - 515.65 David Marchese

I think you were just talking about, in a way, the idea of Lydia's sense of abandon. That could be sexual abandon, creative abandon, abandon when it comes to drinking or drug use, abandon with relationships. You know...

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Chapter 4: What insights does Kristen Stewart share about womanhood and sexuality?

515.63 - 538.278 David Marchese

I think abandon in one's life is important. There's sort of a concentric circle or an overlapping circle with transcendence in a certain way. And I think abandon does require... some degree of anonymity or you don't want like a voice over here while you're trying to really lose yourself.

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538.938 - 549.83 David Marchese

And I wonder if given that you're a public figure in some way, if it's hard for you to feel abandoned or have moments of transcendence.

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550.21 - 569.383 Kristen Stewart

Yeah. I don't self-censor. I don't fixate on kind of how things are going to land on other people because I'm not smart enough. it would just be so inauthentic. I mean, I guess it just, do you think it's a matter of intelligence? Um, some people are mastermind, crazy control freak. And like, I just don't have that.

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569.423 - 595.123 Kristen Stewart

Like ultimately I think those people are probably going to like die young and like, you know, I don't know. That's like, I think it would take years off your life to try and think in those terms. But, um, I've, um, I've been lucky enough to sort of find the moments that I fell on my face in public or, you know, uh, A nice healthy amount of humiliation is really humbling. You know what I mean?

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595.143 - 613.734 Kristen Stewart

Like, and it also makes you realize too that like, you know, that first scratch, who cares? Like after that first scratch, you just go like, okay, so crash the car. You know what I mean? Like we can fix it. Like the way that I've been allowed to bounce off of people has felt so fruitful and Largely.

613.994 - 614.454 David Marchese

Yeah.

614.474 - 615.395 Kristen Stewart

Yeah. On the whole.

615.635 - 642.141 David Marchese

On the whole. Sorry. But the way that people who don't know you have a relationship with you, it's a very rare mode of human existence. So what have you sort of taken away from being one of these few people who can actually like witness what it's like to become a character in a story not of their own making?

642.562 - 666.043 Kristen Stewart

Mm-hmm. Yeah, I mean, sometimes you find yourself on something that doesn't really know what it's saying. And so then the sort of subsequent conversation is confused and sort of ambiguous and becomes like very sell-y. Like it feels like really like you're just like a capitalist cog. Yeah. Um, which we all are. I mean, like, that's like what it is.

Chapter 5: Why does Kristen believe the film industry needs a 'full system break'?

683.405 - 700.009 Kristen Stewart

But then when you're trying to sell something, it does sort of inherently get bizarre. I was working with a director that was like talking about an actress who was thinking about whether or not they should do a film. And they were like, well, I think the market right now is—and I was like, I don't think I've ever said the word market unless I was going to buy some oranges—

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699.989 - 719.874 Kristen Stewart

And that is just how I function. And even if that's naive, I am willfully like honestly tunnel vision. And I know you did ask a slightly different question. Like if I'm telling someone else's story, what it feels like to do that on maybe such like a large scale and is part of a business. Maybe that was that your question? I think you should just let it rip.

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720.795 - 721.997 David Marchese

Just go with where you were going.

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721.977 - 750.278 Kristen Stewart

Yeah, you're like, not at all. Yeah, I don't know. I think it's just a – it's a funny thing to find yourself – kind of desperate to have people come see what you worked on, but then also have that wrapped up in whether or not, you know, it's worthwhile. Yeah. And I don't think I answered your question, but I, you know, maybe the next one I'll get closer to.

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750.378 - 758.629 David Marchese

No, you know, sometimes people say, like, I don't think I answered your question, but every answer is revealing in its own way, even if it's not... The answer to the question I explicitly asked.

758.649 - 760.713 Kristen Stewart

But now I'm like so curious about what you're asking, but it's okay, we can move on.

760.733 - 780.87 David Marchese

No, I was just asking, it's like, you know, you became, at some point you became a character in the tabloids. Right. And I was curious about what do you learn from like seeing this character, Kristen Stewart, out in the world, in that world specifically. Oh, interesting. And you know it's not you. It's this character, Kristen Stewart, that has been created.

781.11 - 782.113 Kristen Stewart

Sometimes it is.

782.233 - 784.458 David Marchese

I said it like, I know you. I don't know you. Maybe it was you.

Chapter 6: What challenges has Kristen faced while making her film?

1619.062 - 1636.375 Kristen Stewart

Do you know what I mean? It's like it's just so difficult to make movies. It just doesn't need to be. So, yeah, I'm just trying to think of some sort of weird like Marxist communist like situation that other people can definitely think like, of course, this psycho is saying that. But I think it's possible, especially in these kind of narrow situations. and exclusive environments.

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1636.395 - 1643.807 Kristen Stewart

I'm not talking about the world at large, but for us, we've just made it, the system has barred people and made it too difficult, to be honest.

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1644.869 - 1660.855 David Marchese

I'm not sure if you were using this example sarcastically or not, but when you said you want to basically make a movie for nothing, that's a huge hit. Do you think you, Kristen Stewart, could make a movie that's a huge hit, that is the movie that you want to make?

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1661.729 - 1680.446 Kristen Stewart

Well, I mean, I guess it depends on what you mean by like huge hit. You know, if the target is like, you know, I know everyone says this. Marvel is like the tentpole reference for like big movies. But like, you know, pick another one because I'm not coming for that specifically. But if that's the goal, no. I mean, no, probably nothing like that.

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1680.606 - 1693.28 Kristen Stewart

Because again, I do think that that requires a little bit of like homogeny. But if you do something for nothing and you reach even just a small number of people, that's enough for me. Do you know what I mean?

1693.38 - 1707.514 Kristen Stewart

A huge hit in terms of it got a theatrical release, that we did a few interviews about it, that we had a couple screenings, that some people watched it, that some person on Letterboxd said, oh, wow, that changed me. Do you know what I mean? Like that truly is a hit.

1707.798 - 1717.6 David Marchese

You know, it's sort of underneath the conversation has been this idea of sort of like who... Oh, and also... Oh, yeah?

1718.161 - 1725.317 Kristen Stewart

We could totally make a huge hit. Do you know what I mean? Like, I just realized that your question was like, do you think that left to your own devices...

1725.297 - 1728.483 David Marchese

I wonder about your sensibility. Totally, my sensibility.

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