The Experience Podcast
Episodes
What she's feeling vs what he's thinking
30 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode Sir Inq discusses 10 points of view from how a male views sex and performance to how women feels and connects to men through the entir...
Pay problems away!
16 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast Sir Inq discusses the advantages of paying for sex specially if you're in a sexless relationship, in a relationship and want sex o...
Message to younger men
12 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast Sir Inq discusses the importance of men specially younger men to have a singular focus and minimize the multitude of distractions and ...
Cracked cell phone screens reveal character
09 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode Sir Inq elaborates on a story he was told about a man engaging a woman at a bar and tried to exchange information with a potential dat...
The first moment men receive bad sex advice
05 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode Sir Inq discusses those first encounters with sex and the errors in who introduces us and the affects it carries on longterm
When doubling down goes foul!
15 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast Sir Inq responds to a listeners response to one podcast as the follower grapples with ED issues within a second time marriage to a ver...
Too early for a breast request!
08 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast Sir Inq dives into a conversation he had with Layla about her dating experience and how even 60yr old men who are thought to be mature...
Inq's 2026 Sexual resolutions
01 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode Sir Inq discusses his sexual resolutions for 2026 and how those resolutions are a continuation of the things he's been working on ...
Inq's Red Pill review
25 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode Sir Inq gives his review on the red pill content, whats missing, and how the conversation needs to graduate to less arguments and more...
The Seducer MINDSET
18 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast Sir Inq delves into how to seduce the woman of your desire, discusses how to set the mood and walk her into your world seamlessly.
Does she deserve to see the sky or stand outside in line to get into the lobby?
11 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast Sir Inq discusses his version of Curious Girls “pair and a spare” which he likens to dating tiers and uses rooms as an example to ...
Learning her while watching her touch herself
04 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast Sir Inq discusses how to look at the videos she sends not only for your viewing pleasure but its a good view into what pleases her and...
Why can't I last?
01 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast Sir Inq discusses why men suffer from erectile dysfuntion, the things we use to combat them ie ED pills and drinks, but also discusses...
Topping from the bottom
20 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode I discuss how men with good intentions that are overly negotiable end up suverting their leadership role to their wife or girlfriend a...
A space where you can be yourself
13 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast I discuss how seasoned men do not pursue women for sex but for true connection in a way that is healthy and is willing to provide an e...
Bj's and soul snatchers
06 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode I discuss the wonderful world of bj's, soul snatchers, the wrong way to do it and what makes it so awesome that most men can'...
The dating tool shed
30 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast Sir Inq discusses his latest observation on the dating game and so how many single people aren't fully equipped to date properly a...
Quotes that have impacted my life
23 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Sir Inq reminisces over quotes he’s heard since a young man until present time and how they have such deeper meaning today then when he first heard ...
Some come for the kink not the discipline!
16 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Sir Inq discusses the difference between those you like the bdsm lifestyle for just the kink not the discipline and relationship aspect of it. #domina...
Ways men crave to be desired beyond sex.
09 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Sir Inq responds to a follower’s question on “what are some non sexual things that make men feel desirable?”. #siriq #dominance #submission
How mentally bringing work home can ruin the sanctity of it.
09 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Sir Inq discusses why it’s important to find a way to decompress and compartmentalize your work stress for the sanctity of your home life. #sirinq #...
Men’s sexual evolution and the negative side of not evolving.
25 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast Sir Inq delves into how men grow in their sexual prowess and skills from being a young man into his more seasoned years of 40+, also h...
How did smart women became stupid?
18 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode Sir Inq questions the smart ladies on why they accept so much bs when they absolutely know better! Y'all read all the blogs, liste...
Dating out of desperation
11 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Sir Inq discusses that thin line between wanting a partner for love an companionship and needing a a partner for survival and future stability and gro...
Can a Dom only be a mentor?
21 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this talk Inq discusses if a Dom can be only a mentor to a sub without a loving relationship or claiming said submissive. Also discusses the import...
Laziness in relationships
06 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast Inq discusses laziness in relationships and the problems it leads to, and what you can do as a Dom to get out of that rut!
Is there love in BDSM?
06 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast Inq responds to a followers question of “is there love in BDSM?” and of course his answer is “yes” but hear why.
Is there a difference between bdsm and kink?
06 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast Inq discusses the difference between bdsm and kink and what are some of the ways you can tell the difference between the two and how o...
Can you become a Dom?
06 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast Inq discusses if a regular man can become a Dominant man within the lifestyle.
The hidden Dominant
06 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast Inq discusses how many Dominant men do not represent the lifestyle openly and many may not participate in many aspects of kink, role p...
Selfishness and the daydream phantom
17 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast Inq discusses how our own selfish wants and dream of love and relationships not only blinds us to certain realities but also binds us ...
Tis the season for endings?
16 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast Inq discusses why before the new year he takes inventory of his friends, relationships, business affairs etc and how he weeds the one ...
Practice!
12 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast Inq discusses the importance of practicing your side f the dynamic even when you're without a D or s.
Rejection
11 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast Inq discusses the reasons and causations behind being rejected, how to view rejection and why it isn't always a you issue.
The various versions of Dominants
10 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In the podcast Inq discusses the various differences in how some Dom's punish and think differently in their dynamics.
Dom down hard or no?
09 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast Inq discusses the difference in Dom's that are more flexible and those that "Dom down hard" and are less tolerant with the...
Are you the tortoise or the hare?
06 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast Inq compares the classic story of the tortoise and the hare to relationships and having life goals that keeps an individual focused an...
My guys tuck your shirt in!
05 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast Inc discusses the difference between men that have their ish together and the ones walking around with their shirts (swag) untucked an...
Calling out the ladies
04 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast Inq calls the ladies to the carpet on trying to fix a man that is set in his way but it's also a diversion for them to not focus o...
Who are you?!?
03 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this cast Sir Inq delves into the foundation of each Dom and sub as some mask who they are in the title and surface acts but who one truly is can n...
Investing into the lifestyle
11 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Let's discuss the importance of investing in the lifestyle as a way to expand your experience and avoid hitting a wall within your dynamic. There ...
Master timing and context
08 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast I briefly discuss why timing and context is important to avoid uncomfortable moments, arguments and public embarrassment. Many intimat...
Controlling the environment
06 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Let’s discuss why it’s important to control your environment to maximize on the experiences you desire and stay away from moments and people less ...
The importance of male mentorship
05 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Young boys need proper mentorship to become successful decent men without the hard knocks life can bring without prior knowledge of where the pitfalls...
Melt into her
04 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Too many of us men/ Doms try to pry or force our way onto a sub to have our way instead of taking the time to know her and tailor a relationship based...
How to become a Dom's perfect sub
03 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
How to become a perfect sub is a ridiculous notion that needs to be discussed in detail to qual false ideas and restore healthy ways to live within th...
When life and work gets in the way..
08 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses his own personal struggles with work and ambition and maintaining his creative edge and motivation for putting toge...
We played with fire and it was scary fun!
18 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast Sir Inq discusses his first time playing with fire in a session and the reaction from his sub who experienced a scary fun good time. H...
His actions exposes the masochist within him!
10 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses how a friend of his says one thing about women but chooses the opposite and his choices betray his words and expose...
Block the opinions of the masses!
05 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast Sir Inq discusses the importance of filtering the opinion of the masses and most time why blocking them out all together is the most i...
Should you force submission??
02 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Why do so many men use their dominance to force submission on a woman? Is this how it should go or no?
Out The Box?
11 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Sir Inq discusses his thoughts on thinking and living outside societal norms in an authentic or clandestine way seeking the same results.
What happened to the kings men?
07 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast Sir Inq discusses "where are the kings men" in a poetical way but touches on the reality of how many men have been feminized i...
Softly and aggressively, simultaneously!
05 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
She like's her pu$$y fckd aggressively and her clit touched softly!
The lost art of finessing
30 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq and his guest The Curious Girl discuss how many women have lost the art of finessing and how feminism has duped them into thi...
Where are we going?
28 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Where are we going with life and this lifestyle of kink, domination and submission? In todays times you can be whoever you want, have what you want an...
Dom's should have their own style!
26 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir inQ discusses how each Dom should have their own style and not chase the view of what a Dom is supposed to be thru imagery online...
When should you blow the lid off??
24 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Should you blow the lid off the secrecy of your interest and role in the lifestyle of Bdsm or should you still keep it to yourself?
Why must I chase the cat?
22 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir inQ discusses the issues men face wanting multiple lovers but not satisfying one, and do some men really care if even one is sati...
Know the rules, act accordingly!
18 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses when attending some bdsm parties normally there's a head master and mistress, more than likely they have house ...
Too good to be true?
16 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses the online games being played on dating sites to fool unsuspecting people into giving up their money and to string ...
Power exchange and mutual agreements
14 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses how relationships are based on mutual agreements and healthy relationships are not based only on what the Dominant ...
Should you break her?
09 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses if a Dom should break a sub and how the terminology has been tainted and needs to be reexamined for healthier outco...
Be bold, be confident in your Dominance!
01 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses how taking on a submissive with more experience than yourself is not a bad thing nor should you as a Dom avoid thos...
Innergy and attraction
17 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses how your innergy (energy) attracts situations and a further conversation of how relationships are a reflection of o...
Master yourself first
29 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses the importance of mastering ones life before trying to becomes someones Dom!
One was curios and the other wanted to watch
13 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq tells a short story of a girl who was curious about impact play and how her girlfriend wanted to watch.
The perfect play partner
23 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, sir Inq discusses the error in seeking out the perfect play partner and discusses what he thinks finding an other is about.
Do not disturb the sub zone groove!
16 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses how to react when your sub is in their zone, should i do something or nothing at all?!
Online to in line
11 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses pt 2 of taking things from online to meeting live and creating a D/s situation but also some safety guides before t...
When the student is ready..
08 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses the concept "when the student is ready the master shall appear" and relates it to our lifestyle of Bdsm.#do...
TRUST ISSUES!
04 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses trust issues and where they come from and how to manage them.
Im her Daddy but not her daddy
02 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast Sir Inq discusses how some view the daddy dom little girl dynamic the wrong way and clarifies what it is and what its not. #dominant #...
Supporting your submissive
30 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast Sir Inq discusses how the dynamics of relationships have changed and how to approach a self sustained/ assertive modern woman and how ...
Being distracted or being neglectful?
25 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq briefly discusses the difference between being distracted and neglect and the ramifications that neglect spawn.
Is there one size for all?
20 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq briefly discusses a moment of clarity he had during a session when using a paddle and how he found different ways to use the ...
Reasons why some women fake pleasure
18 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses are women conditioned to settle for less, fake orgasms and forgo their own sexual satisfaction for the sake of mens...
Save to play
13 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir inQ discusses how the most elaborate fantasy get away, session or apparatus is not out of your reach with proper planning and dis...
Rio and the Experience
10 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses his travel to Brazil and how to have the experiences you desire in those places you dream about through strategy an...
Give the punishment she deserves
14 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
When to punish and when to give a pass can be tricky but let's discuss it!
Slow roll pt2
14 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Pt 2 of rolling your buffet of protocols, requirements, rules etc in a methodical way.#dominant #submission
Are you 10 toes down or one foot out?
28 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir inQ discusses how being committed to the lifestyle will yield you the results you desire, but if you're one foot in and one f...
How to roll the D out!
20 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir inQ discusses how a dominant rolls out their dominance to a potential submissive first to earn the trust to delve deeper into a p...
A session that ran a foul
16 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses his trip to NY to see an erotic poetry show by the Punanny Poets and how they told a story of a how public spanking...
Making agreements and staying the course!
09 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses the importance with making agreements in relationships and how those agreements can be revised with open communicat...
Wanted but do you qualify?
07 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq briefly discusses if you know what your D/s talents are and if you're a good fit in a certain situation in a specific rol...
Exhausted Domination
24 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses why there's no need to chase the idea of being a dom in every and all situations, and how there will be moments...
Value vs what one brings to the table
22 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq briefly discusses the difference between your self worth to what you bring to a relationship.
The baby Dom
15 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses how alpha males from other relationship dynamics (vanilla, swingers etc) come into the world of Bdsm and some witho...
Adding to the dynamic
13 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses how we can get into a place where things become routine or redundant and we seek ways to spice things up and the pr...
We all eat lies when hungry
11 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Sir Inq discusses the concept of "eating lies when we're hungry" and how to stave off bad decisions by not controlling our carnal urges.#d...
Stuck in the dial up dating mindset
09 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses how many of us are still stuck in old dating views, habits, mindset, and most of all costly unfulfilling outcomes.
Swinging into the power exchange dynamic?
31 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir inq discuss some challenges the swinger community may face coming over into the world of bdsm beyond the kink aspects.#dominant#s...
Inq's anonymous NGL questions
28 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq answers anonymous questions and confessions posed to him the past week thru the NGL app and briefly touches on swinging into ...
The sheep in wolf clothing
13 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses how so many men allow sexual gratification and the pursuit of women make them disregard their responsibilities as t...
The attentive man makes her cum
04 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses how men cum each time but not so much for women and how we as men need to be more attentive to our partners body an...
When and how to say provocative things
01 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Sir Inq goes in on the subject of when and how to say provocative things and not ruin the mood with off kilter convo.
Can you afford two or more?
29 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses what the cost of polyandry is and how it's more than financial, though money is a factor not many discuss how y...
Understanding her
24 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses how Dominate men need to understand how the modern woman thinks and functions, and how many though assertive are wi...
She wanted a 3 some, he wanted phony matrimony
21 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses a funny situation his client had with a women he thought was a potential wife, when really what she wanted was a 3 ...