Are you making choices in love or fear? Take this self-assessment today to find out: https://seatofthesoul.com/cultivating-love-optin/ A new consciousness is reshaping the human experience - one that challenges everything we thought was "real." In this episode of The Gary Zukav Deepcast, Gary explores one of its most important skills: recognizing the difference between genuine support and unconscious projection. When a spiritual partner comments on what they believe they see in you - perhaps pointing to a frightened part of your personality - it can be a moment of clarity or a moment of misdirection. Gary reveals how offering observations to others requires deep self-awareness, and why our strongest emotional reactions often reveal more about ourselves than about anyone else. Gary goes deeper into how projection operates: the tendency to see in others what we cannot bear to see in ourselves. He shows how a sudden emotional charge - annoyance, anger, defensiveness - is the universe signaling a part of us needing healing. He shares a personal experience in which judging a friend’s spiritual shift revealed his own unrecognized rigidity. This examination of inner reactions becomes the path toward compassion, connection, and authentic power. Ultimately, the episode illuminates the truth that real support begins with self-honesty. We help others only when we’re not speaking from our own frightened parts. And we free ourselves from projection the moment we’re willing to look inward before we react outward. What You’ll Discover in This Episode: (00:02) — What “support” truly requiresWhy offering spiritual insight to someone else only helps when you’re aware of your own frightened parts - and how easily support turns into projection. (01:05) — How to recognize projection in real timeThe key sign that you’re projecting: a strong emotional reaction. Gary explains why irritation, anger, or defensiveness reveal something in you asking for attention. (03:09) — The anatomy of projectionHow unrecognized shame or pain gets pushed outward onto others, distorting how you interpret their behavior. If it triggers you, it’s in you. (04:10) — A personal story of healing through self-honestyGary shares how judging a friend’s religious conviction exposed his own rigid, fundamentalist parts - and how seeing them dissolved his judgment and restored compassion. (05:58) — The transformation that follows self-recognitionWhy compassion naturally replaces judgment once you identify the part of yourself that is reacting - and how this shift builds authentic power. Embrace the Soul Step Challenge This week, notice the moments when someone’s comment - or even a stranger’s expression - triggers a reaction in you. Before you respond, pause. Ask yourself: What part of me is reacting? Is this support or projection? Each time you choose to look inward before looking outward, you loosen the grip of a frightened part and strengthen your ability to create authentic power. Let’s Connect: Gary Zukav | Website Gary Zukav | Instagram Gary Zukav | Facebook Gary Zukav | Books Gary Zukav | YouTube Gary Zukav | X (Twitter)

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