The Great Love Debate with Brian Howie

GLD 454 - Real Love vs Reality Love

23 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Are things on TV not always what they appear? "Charisma Quotient" host (and GLD Lead Love Guru!) Kimmy Seltzer returns to break down why The Bachelor ...

GLD 453 - The Decision Of A Lifetime

16 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Are you more in control of your dating fate than you believe? "Monarch For Love" host Michelle Hays stops by to reveal how to recognize love, ways to ...

GLD 452 - Should We Just Get Back Together?

09 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Is there value in reconsidering your ex? Brian breaks down the Boomerang Effect, why sometimes situations change, how growth is possible, why red flag...

GLD 451 - The Greatest Romantic Comedies

02 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Why do we like our love mixed with laughs? "Film Fury" host Alan Zeitlin drops by to talk about what makes a leading man, the ladies who made us laugh...

GLD 450 - Your Diagnosis From The Love Doc

26 Mar 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Want to know what's really going on with you...and everyone you date? MTV's renowned "Love Doc" Dr. Gilda Carle stops by to talk about how to strategi...

GLD 449 - The Short End Of The Stick

19 Mar 2024

Contributed by Lukas

How much does height matter in 2024?  Brian breaks down what's missing from the conversation, the true statistics, why playing the odds matters, bein...

GLD 448 - Premature Jocularity

12 Mar 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Can jumping the gun shoot down a possible romance? The Debate Team cracks open a fresh batch of Listener Letters, and takes on relationships that went...

GLD 447 - Finding Your Smile Again

05 Mar 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Are certain decades of dating more challenging than others? "50s AF" host Nicole Chaness stops by to talk about the unique challenges of finding love ...

GLD 446 - Where Have All The Brave Men Gone?

27 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Is there something lacking from so many current guys when it comes to dating? Brian breaks down where it all went wrong, why the women have the domina...

GLD 445 - America Needs An Attitude Adjustment

20 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Is everyone taking love - and life - way too seriously? Brian revisits what we all need to focus on, what to look for in a city, how to get the girl i...

GLD 444 - Opposites Distract

13 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Do we overreact to what we left behind? Brian breaks down why the next one isn't already the right one, what we can learn from our breakups, what we r...

GLD 443 - A Match Made In Purgatory

06 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Is there a stalemate in the current state of the date? Legendary matchmaker and "Cupid's Coach" host Julie Ferman returns to break down how the dating...

GLD 442 - Restoring Relationship Sanity

30 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Is your relationship irrevocably broken? "Slightly Sane" co-hosts Dr. Laura and Dr. Kristie drop by to share how you can tell if it's too late, the da...

GLD 441 - The Answer You've Been Waiting For

23 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Why is everyone still single? Brian FINALLY reveals the answer, and looks back on a decade of the GLD - what's changed, what are the five seismic soci...

GLD 440 - You Need To Get Divorced

16 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Has your relationship reached its expiration date? Brian breaks down why we stay together when we probably shouldn't, how to draw a line in the sand, ...

GLD 439 - The Look Of Love

09 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Isn't it time to discover your best and most confident self? "Slimming Surgeon" host Dr. Kandace Kichler drops by to talk about the latest techniques,...

GLD 438 - 2024 America's Worst Cities To Find Love

02 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

It's that time again...our annual unveiling of America's Worst Cities To Find Love! Brian breaks down our listeners' submissions of the places where d...

GLD 437 - Knowing What You Don't Know

26 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Is there a difference between knowing something is right and believing something is right? Brian breaks down the power of recognition, owning your lim...

GLD 436 - Working For The Love

19 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Is it time to go back to work...to find romance? We dive back into workplace love with "Worked Up" host and business strategist Jaclyn Beck, and give ...

GLD 435 - Til Death Do Us Part. Probably.

12 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

What is the true meaning of commitment? Brian breaks down the purpose of our vows, how to navigate partnership challenges, what happily ever after mea...

GLD 434 - Picking Up The Pieces

05 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Is it "third time's the charm" or "three strikes and you're out"? Piece of Work author Danielle Tantone stops by to talk about the meaning of a memoi...

GLD 433 - Fighting The Fear Factor

28 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

What are we all afraid of when it comes to our relationships? "Bravo Unscripted" host Suzette Bravo stops by to break down the barriers to lasting lov...

GLD 432 - Saying What Needs To Be Said

21 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Is clear (and timely) communication the key to everything? Brian breaks down why we need to speak up, how body language can let you down, learning how...

GLD 431 - Lead Us Into Temptation

14 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Are seemingly happy couples off-limits for dating possibilities? "Temptation Island" cast member Marjorie Guaracho stops by to reveal the truth about ...

GLD 430 - She Needs To Be Heard

07 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

How important is it to simply listen? Brian revisits why hearing her out is so important, the real reason it matters, how to handle difficult conversa...

GLD 429 - The Space Between Us

31 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Can a long distance relationship last? Brian breaks down what makes it work, how to bridge the gap, the best ways to communicate, what matters during ...

GLD 428 - Turned On By The Things They Do

24 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Does somebody's occupation make them more attractive? "The Farm Babe" Michelle Miller returns to talk about what jobs make a man appealing, the work c...

GLD 427 - The Grass Is Never Greener

17 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Ever look at a couple and think, "I want what they have!"? Think again! Brian breaks down why we get fooled by famous relationships, the truth about y...

GLD 426 - Getting What You Deserve

10 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

What, if anything, are we entitled to from our partner? "Secrets of a Sugar Daddy" co-hosts Marcus and Lily stop by to help us answer our listeners' d...

GLD 425 - The New Dating Storm Arrives

03 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Has there been a seismic shift in our dating lives? Brian breaks down the effect of AI on our relationship realities - the plusses and possibilities, ...

GLD 424 - Why Are You Still Doing That?

26 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Have you learned nothing from the GLD? Brian revisits the things you should definitely NOT be doing! Why they make no sense, what's getting in the way...

GLD 423 - Does Dating Improve With Age?

19 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Does the love landscape get smoother after 50? "The Geezer Proofer" Nancy Shenker drops by to talk about the unique challenges of dating later in life...

GLD 422 - Second Look At First Impressions

12 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

What have we gotten wrong during the past 10 seasons of the Great Love Debate? Our listeners share their thoughts on where we need to give a second lo...

GLD 421 - The Joy Of Being Wrong

05 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Can being wrong sometimes feel so right? Brian breaks down the benefit of rethinking a position - what it does for the spirit, how it improves the rel...

GLD 420 - What Does Love Look Like?

29 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Would you recognize love if you found it? "Switching Teams" host Sarah Held returns to answer a hot batch of listener letters where they reveal what l...

GLD 419 - Your Best Day Ever

22 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Looking for a better way to make your biggest day the best day? Host of "The Wedding Buzz" Sydney Whidden stops by to dish about how not to get overwh...

GLD 418 - Love, London Style

15 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

What's the love lowdown on the other side of the pond? Brian heads to London to get a glimpse at British dating and social habits. What we can learn ...

GLD 417 - Taylor, Barbie, and A New Dating Dawn

08 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Did special forces come together to put dating back on its proper axis? Brian breaks down this Summer of Love - why it happened, what we can learn fro...

GLD 416 - Bitten By The Love Bug

01 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Does love really affect our physiology? "Sugar Crush" author Dr. Rick Jacoby stops by to talk about how to increase attraction, the science behind des...

GLD 415 - Having Them At Hello

25 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

How much does how you meet really matter? Brian breaks down the concept of a cute meet, why we need a narrative, the keys to a great beginning, lookin...

GLD 414 - What Do We Want, Why Do We Want It

17 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

What are we really seeking from our relationships? "Miss Understood" host and "Celebrity Rehab with Dr. Drew" alum Rachel Uchitel drops by to talk abo...

GLD 413 - Is Dating The Ultimate Sport?

11 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Is all fair in love, war, and summertime dating? "Sports Will Save Us All" host Sasha Graham drops by to help us with our annual Summer Loving mailbag...

GLD 412 - Stop Chasing Those Ghosts

04 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Are you a little too hung up on what went wrong, and where they went? Brian revisits the significance of ghosting - why it's an obsession, what it rea...

GLD 411 - So Now What Do We Do?

27 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

You take a leap of faith, go for it, throw caution to the wind...and then what? Reality TV veteran (and professional wingwoman!) Erin Davis returns to...

GLD 410 - The Poison Drips Through

20 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Are you letting your own issues take your present and past relationships into a dark place? Brian breaks down taking control of your emotions, the val...

GLD 409 - The Art of Managing Expectations

13 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Did things not go exactly as planned? "Can't Shovel Hurricanes" host Ronen Fishman and "Hashtag No Filter" host Julie Lauren drop by to talk about how...

GLD 408 - Bachelor and Bachelorette Parties Gone Wild

06 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Can that last wild night get a bit too wild? "Secrets of a Sugar Daddy" co-hosts Marcus & Amy stop by to unpack our listeners' most memorable bach...

GLD 407 - She Finds Herself In Her Forties

30 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Do women get better with age? "Spoiled Milk" host Brooke Rash pops in to reveal her midlife survival guide, how to navigate the forks in the road, tri...

GLD 406 - Heart Is Where The Home Is

23 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Are you two going to move in together? Buy a house? South Florida Real Estate experts, and hosts of "The Sunny Side" Podcast, Scott Gerow and Rachelle...

GLD 405 - Words To Not Live By

16 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

When it comes to dating, are there three words that you should never say again? Brian breaks down breaking free from your comfort zone, the benefit of...

GLD 404 - The Badass Woman Always Wins

09 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Is there a better way to listen to - or tune out - your biological clock? "Badass Fertility" host Kathryn Bregman drops by to talk about the realities...

GLD 403 - American Men Have Lost Their Balls

02 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Is there something lacking from the guys' approach to dating? Brian breaks down where it all went wrong, why the women have the dominant hand, why the...

Ep. 402 - Written In The Stars

25 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Is your dating path predetermined by fate? "Stars About Stars" host Iryna Kutsenko joins The Debate Team to break down why birth dates matter, how to ...

GLD 401 - Practice Makes Perfect

18 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

What is the key to becoming a really good dater? Brian breaks down the path to proficiency - why repetions matter, how routine can shape a relationshi...

GLD 400 - Your Dirty Thirties

11 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Our 400th episode! The lovely and lively ladies from the "30 And..." podcast drop by to take on that most challenging of decades - what women need to ...

GLD 399 - Breaking Up Is Hard To Do

04 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Is there a better way to go about breaking up? "Path to Passion" host Yael Lanciano returns to The Debate Team to break down a disheartening batch of ...

GLD 398 - Clearing The Cache

28 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Does the straightest path to love involve getting rid of a problematic past? Brian breaks down what it means to clear your cache - how to come to grip...

GLD 397 - Surrender To The Silly

21 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Is everyone taking love - and life - way too seriously? Brian breaks down what we need to focus on, what to look for in a city, how to get the girl if...

GLD 396 - 2023 State of the Date

14 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

What the heck is going on out there? "Hashtag No Filter" host Julie Lauren and "The Sebas Perspective" host Sebastian Penaranda join The Debate Team t...

GLD 395 - The Straw That Stirs The Drink

07 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Is there one ingredient to love that matters more than all the others? Brian breaks it all down - figuring out what you want, how to read the other pe...

GLD 394 - The Grass Can Get Greener

28 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Is there any reward without a bit of risk? "Switching Teams" host Sarah Held returns to discuss what it means to take a chance, exploring the unfamili...

GLD 393 - Forgetting The Familiar

21 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Should there be a separation of church and...love? Brian breaks down why faith-based dating is a recipe for disappointment, why we overrate certain co...

GLD 392 - 2023 Worst Cities In America To Find Love (Listeners List!)

14 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

The GLD listeners strike back with their list of the worst cities in America to find love for 2023! Some repeat offenders, shocking submissions, overr...

GLD 391 - The Path To Your Best Relationship

07 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Is there a better approach to love and life? "Fit Mom Living" host Shannon Jay Dougherty stops by to deliver the goods on discovering your best self, ...

GLD 390 - The Money Matters

31 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

How big a part do finances play in your dates - and relationships? Personal Finance Coach and "Where's My Money" host Jason Rash stops by to break dow...

GLD 389 - The New Rules For Love In The Workplace

24 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Is it once again safe to pursue romance at the office? "Worked Up" host and business strategist Jaclyn Beck stops by to give the lay of the land when ...

GLD 388 - A Royal Pain In The Ass

17 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Did Prince Harry and Megan Markle make a royal mistake? Mia and Tiffany from "Crazy, Rich Neighbors" drop by to take a deep dive into what went wrong,...

GLD 387 - What You Know And When You Know It

10 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

What is important about simply...knowing? Brian breaks down why it matters, how you know what you know, the information you need to be chasing, how to...

GLD 386 - The Excitement Never Ends

03 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Is this the year everything comes together? Brian breaks down the importance of normalcy, overcoming roadblocks, how to find excitement, where things ...

GLD 385 - The Return Of The Alpha Men

27 Dec 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Are masculine men making a comeback? "Skulls & Stillettos" host Janine Stella stops by to break down the need for ballsiness, where society has go...

GLD 384 - The 5 Things We Need To Hear

20 Dec 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Do certain comments mean...just a little bit more? Brian breaks down the 5 Things We Need To Hear, why they matter, what they symbolize, the importanc...

GLD 383 - When You Come To The Fork In The Road

13 Dec 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Are there moments - and challenges - that bring a partnership together...or pull it apart? "To Be Continued" host Romy Wightman joins The Debate Team ...

GLD 382 - And To All A Good Night

06 Dec 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Our annual tradition returns! The Debate Team gathers to raise some cheer and crack open our year-end Holiday Mailbag. Nervous new daters, awkward gi...

GLD 381 - All A Girl Wants

29 Nov 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Is there one thing men can do to change everything about how she feels...and feels about him? Brian breaks down the most important thing he's learned...

GLD 380 - Going Out And Getting After It

22 Nov 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Have men lost their mojo when it comes to going after what they want? Brian brings in the boys to talk about bouncing back from a breakup, making the ...

GLD 379 - Generation Lost

15 Nov 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Are the young daters of America wandering aimlessly through the dating wilderness? Brian is joined by 3 members of Generation Z to talk about their un...

GLD 378 - How To Get Lucky

08 Nov 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Do you want to control your dating fate? Brian breaks down how luck plays into it, what it really means, how to change it, where to discover it, what ...

GLD 377 - The Art of Overthinking

01 Nov 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Do we overthink, underthink, or think just the right amount? "Food For Thought" host Ashley Gersh drops by to talk about how to prepare for a date, wh...

GLD 376 - Amending The Past

25 Oct 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Have things really changed so significantly over the last two years? Brian takes a look back at his groundbreaking "Dating Amendments", and reflects o...

GLD 375 - Just When You Thought It Was Safe To Go Back In The Dating Pool

17 Oct 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Has dating in 2022 gone completely off the rails? "Charisma Quotient" host Kimmy Seltzer returns to talk about the storm clouds forming, why men and w...

GLD 374 - Or Maybe We All Just Suck

11 Oct 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Are we sometimes our own worst enemies? "The Connector" Arielle Leavitt stops by to talk about getting in our own way, overthinking our options, missi...

GLD 373 - Better The Second Time Around

04 Oct 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Do our early dating failures benefit us down the road? "Mom Esteem" host Jamie Levine stops by to talk about her dating evolution, shares her theories...

GLD 372 - Can You Care Too Much?

27 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Should we care more about...caring? Brian breaks down his quest for answers, the root of all questions, why being passionate matters, how to harness ...

GLD 371 - Dating In Your Current State

20 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Does anyone really know what's going on out there? "Millionaire Matchmaker" star Marisa Saks returns to break down the current state of the date, why ...

GLD 370 - Being Your Best Self

13 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

What changes can change everything for your love life? Andrea Barkley from "The Andrea Barkley Show" stops by to give plenty of motivation, steps we c...

GLD 369 - The Return of The Sex Fairy

06 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Have we collectively lost our what when it comes to sexual confidence? "Dr. Sex Fairy" host Dr. Kanwal Bawa returns to take on all your bedroom challe...

GLD 368 - The One That Got Away

30 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Do you still think about that special someone who you're no longer with? The gang from "Secrets of a Sugar Daddy" stop by to help unpack a fresh batch...

GLD 367 - The Single Most Important Thing

23 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Is the simplest gesture often the most meaningful? Brian breaks down the reaction you need to look for, why laughter only goes so far, the importance ...

GLD 366 - A Matter Of Trust

16 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Can a great relationship be formed from differing perspectives, opinions, and life experiences? "Ask The Rabbi" host Rabbi Leonid Feldman stops by to ...

GLD 365 - Your Ex Was Not A Narcissist

08 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

What is the real reason things didn't work out? Brian dives into the heart of the madness, and breaks down two of the most common obstacles to dating ...

GLD 364 - The Dating Drought

01 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

How long is too long to go without a date? "Single Mom Success" host Becky Skeba-Mancini drops by to talk about her unique dating history, how things ...

GLD 363 - The Very Best Question

25 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Can a great question lead to an answer that means...everything? Brian breaks down the best question ever - why it matters, what it means, the importa...

GLD 362 - The Fixer Uppers

18 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Do other people really know what's best for your love life? Brian breaks down the societal ritual of finding people a mate - why it rarely works, how ...

GLD 361 - Summer Sucks

11 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Does warm weather bring in a new slew of hot dating problems? We open up our annual "Summer Lovin'" mailbag...with a twist! "Path to Passion" host Yae...

GLD 360 - The 45 Year Old Virgin

04 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Is there more than one path to personal fulfillment? Author and mindfulness advocate Barbara Heller stops by to talk about her unorthodox search for l...

GLD 359 - Please, Don't Do That!

27 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

What are the things you need to stop doing...immediately? Brian runs down a list of what you should never do, why they make no sense, what's getting ...

GLD 358 - Love Where You Least Expect It

20 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Do you still need to get your head out of your apps? Brian is joined by "Housewives of Golf" co-host Sarah Held to discover what's really going on the...

GLD 357 - America's Best Cities To Find Love 2022

13 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Our annual list is out! Brian counts down our 2022 Top 10 Best Cities in America for LOVE! New surprises, a few holdovers, geographic tendencies, plac...

GLD 356 - The Hopeful Romantics

06 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Does the road to a relationship begin with an attitude adjustment? "You're Such A Catch" host Erin Ramsey stops by to talk about reclaiming your datin...

GLD 355 - A Dozen Dumb Reasons Not To Date

30 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

What are the worst reasons people give not to date someone? Brian unveils his list of the Dumb Dozen - the excuses that prevent positive relationships...