The Great Love Debate with Brian Howie
Episodes
GLD 354 - Betting On The Wrong Horse
23 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Sometimes, is the only thing wrong...the outcome? Brian breaks down what it means to go all in and come up empty, why timing ultimately matters, how t...
GLD 353 - When Divorce Is The Answer
16 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Can the end of a relationship be the beginning of a better part of life? "Your Amazing Divorce" host Doreen Yaffa drops by to answer all the tough di...
GLD 352 - The Compliment Quandary
09 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Why are we in such a predicament when it comes to compliments? The Debate Team takes on what to say, when to say it, how to say it, and why it still m...
GLD 351 - Hooked On A Feeling
02 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Being a hopeless romantic..is it hopeless, or romantic? "Monarch for Love" host Michelle Hays stops by to talk about the importance of fairy tales, ho...
GLD 350 - Better Dates Ahead
25 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
What are the best things to do on a date to give you the best chance of finding a spark? "Real Housewives of Golf" co-hosts Tori Totlis and Sarah Held...
GLD 349 - Brian Buys A Ring
18 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
What's the best way to buy the best jewelry for that special person? Brian takes a trip to Anna Zuckerman Luxury Jewelry in Boca Raton to learn how to...
GLD 348 - One Big Mistake
11 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
How do we define our partner's - or a stranger's - imperfections? Brian takes a deep dive on the meaning of a mistake, which things matter, what shoul...
GLD 347 - The End of the Beginning
04 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Can your relationship be saved before it's too late? Matthew Fray returns to talk about his new book "This Is How Your Marriage Ends", and reveals the...
GLD 346 - The Positivity of Power
28 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Do you already have everything you need to get what you want? Brian breaks down the power of power - what it means, how to harness it, keeping it char...
GLD 345 - The Future of Love
21 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Where is the next generation of daters - and dating - headed? Author, researcher, and professor Dr. Aditi Paul drops by to talk about college dating t...
GLD 344 - One Thing Better
14 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Is your partner one step away from being...amazing? "Path to Passion" host Yael Lanciano stops by to help answer a fresh batch of Listener Letters com...
GLD 343 - America's Worst Cities To Find Love 2022
07 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
What are America's Worst Cities to find love for 2022? Our annual tradition is back! Surprise additions, who has gotten better, where to move away fr...
GLD 342 - The Four Most Important Words
28 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
When is the right time to say what you've waited too long to say? Brian breaks down when relationships really need to end, what can be done to get the...
GLD 341 - Getting Real About RomComs
21 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Can the heart of the matter be found in the heart of a romantic comedy? “The One with All The 90s” host Katie Gross returns to talk about what mak...
GLD 340 - A Boatload of Possibilities
14 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Is what you need to find romance and a relationship...a really big boat? Shelby Frenette - the world's leading travel expert for singles - returns to ...
GLD 339 - You Aren't Supposed To Be Single
07 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Thinking maybe it's better off to be alone? Think again! Brian breaks down why possibilities are possible, how to fight off dating fatigue, why we are...
GLD 338 - Is It Time To Play Hardball?
31 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
When is the right time to get what you want? Our longtime lead love expert Kimmie Seltzer returns to talk about how to express what you desire, why fl...
GLD 337 - How It Really Begins
24 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Where does the journey to a healthy, happy relationship really begin? Lisa Moler, host of "Just Go F Yourself", stops by to explain the power of self-...
GLD 336 - The Words That Mean The Most
17 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Why do feelings need to be expressed every day? Brian breaks down the importance of saying what you mean, why Valentine's Day might not matter, the wo...
GLD 335 - The Chlorine in the Dating Pool
10 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Are the waters in the 2022 dating pool too shallow, too deep, or just right? "Parenting Unfiltered" host Jenny Sosa stops by to help answer a fresh ba...
GLD 334 - The Dating Essentials
03 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
What are the fundamental lessons to lean on so you can move forward in your love life? Brian takes a look back at a dozen shows that made a lasting di...
GLD 333 - Book By Its Cover
27 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Can you size somebody up in a moment in a way that's meaningful? Comedienne Mariza Brussolo stops by to talk about the upside of a spicy Latina, mista...
GLD 332 - Too Much and Never Enough
20 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Do we ever get exactly what we need in the way we need it? Brian takes a deep dive on relationship balance - why it matters, how to know if it has a c...
GLD 331 - Fixing The Fellas
13 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Are men thisclose to figuring it all out? "The ManFixer" Heather Leigh stops by to make her case to save the males, how to find the beauty in conversa...
GLD 330 - The Lessons We Have Learned
06 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
What lessons have we learned from these strange two years? Brian breaks down the hidden benefits, what deserves our appreciation, the things we missed...
GLD 329 - Becoming Ex-Rated
29 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
GLD favorite (and WeDeepen founder) Christina Weber returns to talk about being part of a televised social experiment, confronting one's past, accepti...
GLD 328 - The Death of a Relationship
22 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Is it the little things that are fatal to a partnership? Matthew Fray, viral blogging sensation and author of "This Is How Your Marriage Ends," stops ...
GLD 327 - A Visit From The Sex Fairy
15 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Is your sexual health and wellness the key to relationship happiness? Dr. Kanwal Bawa - aka "Dr. Sex Fairy" - stops by to talk about all the stuff we ...
GLD 326 - Fa-La-La-La-Love
08 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Are the holidays a challenge for a whole lotta reasons? We open up our annual Mistletoe Mailbag to find out! "Crazy Rich Neighbors" co-hosts Mia & Tif...
GLD 325 - Marriage, Magic, and Mystery
01 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
What makes some couples last...for a really long time? "Elevate Love" host Arielle Leavitt stops by to explore what she's learned about happy, positiv...
GLD 324 - The Loveliest Virtue
25 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
How do you feel about...how you feel about them? Brian breaks down the importance of pride - why you should have it, what it means, how it benefits a ...
GLD 323 - Unbalanced Affection
18 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Are Love Languages just a bit...overrated? Brian breaks down what really matters in terms of what we need, when we need it, how to express it, learnin...
GLD 322 - Home Is Where The Heart Isn't
11 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
"Love, exciting and new...come aboard!" Is it time to get out of your house, your city, and even your country to find what you are looking for? "The S...
GLD 321 - Have Them At Hello
04 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Is your first impression always your best impression? Frank Favaro, host of "The People Business" podcast, stops by to talk about making the most of a...
GLD 320 - The Definitive Guide To Ghosting
27 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Is there a better way to say goodbye? Brian takes a look at the complex matter of ghosting - what it means, what it doesn't, why you should (and shoul...
GLD 319 - Are You Searching For A Sugar Daddy?
20 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Is there a different path to getting what you want out of a relationship? "Secrets of a Sugar Daddy" co-hosts Marcus & Amy stop by to explore the reas...
GLD 318 - Romantic Comedies Rule
13 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Are romantic comedies a good guide to love? "The One With All The 90s" host Katie Gross drops by to break down some of the best romantic comedies, why...
GLD 317 - Always Be A Master Dater
06 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
You get the dates...so why do you keep screwing them up? "Homanity" co-hosts Brad Kimmelman and Bree McCabe drop by to take on our listener's bad idea...
GLD 316 - The Winning Routine
30 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Is the key to a positive relationship experience...repetition? Brian takes a dive into partnership patterns, why habit-forming is crucial, the importa...
GLD 315 - Marriage...Year One
23 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Wondering if the honeymoon is the end of the honeymoon? Bridesmaid For Hire founder (and GLD fave) Jen Glantz is back to share what the first year of ...
GLD 314 - Getting The Milk For Free
16 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Do our listeners have a few things to say about a few things we've said? You bet! The "Farm Babe" Michelle Miller and Boca Raton Bon Vivant Julissa Ca...
GLD 313 - Let The Healing Begin
09 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Looking to take that first step towards being happy, healthy, and in love? "The Focus Within" creator Angela Marie joins Brian in-studio to break down...
GLD 312 - Mutually Beneficial
02 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Do the best relationships come from a common ground of understanding? Brian takes a look at unusual partnerships with greater possibilities - why they...
GLD 311 - The Apology Tour
26 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Why does sorry seem to be the hardest word? Brian dives into the art of apologizing - why it matters, when it's appropriate, who deserves it, what it ...
GLD 310 - The Juice Is Worth The Squeeze
19 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Don't you wanna just...go for it? "The Dating Concierge" host Andy Rudnick drops by to dish about male hesitancy, taking risks, making the right move,...
GLD 309 - Nice Guys Never Finish
12 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Are too many guys taking the wrong path to finding love? Brian breaks down why nice guys get nowhere, the dangers of the friend zone, the pop culture ...
GLD 308 - 2021 State of the Date
05 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Are we all ready for...everything? The Debate Team takes on the current love landscape, and examines the dating app reset, the places to find love, th...
GLD 307 - You Could Do Worse
28 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
If you really want to find love, do you need to just...lower your game? Brian reveals his Lesson of Less - why it makes you better, how you can balanc...
GLD 306 - The Science of Sex
21 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Do love and relationships come down to...basic human nature? Love Scientist Dawn Maslar-Biggie drops by to break down the biology that binds us, what ...
GLD 305 - The Relationship Referendums
14 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Maybe those happy, loving relationships aren't always what they seem? "Crazy, Rich Neighbors" co-hosts Mia Ferosh and Tiffany McDonnell stop by to spi...
GLD 304 - The Practice Swings
07 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Are all of our dating pasts...just an elaborate warm up routine? Brian breaks down his theory of Practice Swings - why they matter, how they can alter...
GLD 303 - Owning Who You Are
31 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Can young adults develop habits, practices, and a mindset to carry into their dating lives? Positive Presence Global founder Michelle Marie King joins...
GLD 302 - The Darker Side of Dating
24 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Ever been in a relationship that was...something else altogether? "The One That Got Away" author Brigitte Knowles joins Brian to reveal what all women...
GLD 301 - Why Did You Do It
17 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Did you pull the trigger on a relationship or marriage that you knew was doomed? Brian takes a look at the consequences of bad commitments - why stay ...
GLD 300 - Celebrating The Love
10 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
The Debate Team celebrates the 300th(!) episode of the podcast by taking a look back at the most memorable personalities, the most popular episodes, i...
GLD 299 - How Do You Know?
03 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
What's the difference between dating another one and discovering THE one? Brian breaks down how to recognize the right relationship, the criteria that...
GLD 298 - Happily Never After
26 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Are things rarely what they seem? Brian heads to the bar with "Three Questions, Three Drinks" host Chris Mikolay and "Blonde and Ordained" host Diane ...
GLD 297 - What Could Have Been
19 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
How many relationships end that really shouldn't? Brian takes a deep dive on the importance of staying together - finding relationships without regret...
GLD 296 - Eye Of The Beholder
12 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Want to know how to get it right, guys? Brian heads to the best place to get answers - the beauty salon! The keys to a lasting relationship, the probl...
GLD 295 - Why The Why
05 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Do our partners do things we just can't stand? Can those things be changed? Behavior Specialist Brittany LaCava joins The Debate Team to reveal the pa...
GLD 294 - The Great Dating Reset
29 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Is the dating world about to get shifted onto a wonderful new axis? "Charisma Quotient" host Kimmy Seltzer returns to The Debate Team to break down wh...
GLD 293 - So, What Do You Do?
22 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
How much does your career impact your dating potential? Can a job truly impact databiity, availability, and compatibility? Brian takes a look at Work/...
GLD 292 - No Closer To Closure
15 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Still want to have just one more word with your ex? Be careful what you wish for! Comedian Jill Kimmel returns as we fire up a fresh batch of "Exes & ...
GLD 291 - Brande Roderick Bounces Back
08 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Actress & model Brande Roderick drops by to dish about handling Hollywood, overcoming divorce, dealing with Donald Trump, finding strength, gaining co...
GLD 290 - Making It Big, And Making It Work
01 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
TV hosts Josh & Maria Cribbs join Brian to talk life in - and after - the NFL, sharing the spotlight, building a partnership, supporting your spouse, ...
GLD 289 - Who Knows Better Than Me?
22 Feb 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Who should you be listening to when it comes to your love life? Brian breaks down how to find the answers you need, identifying who you should trust, ...
GLD 288 - Happily, Ever And After
15 Feb 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Comedian Jill Kimmel drops by to dish on dating after divorce, growing up in a funny family, acceptable vices, finding love in the desert, the upside ...
GLD 287 - Win Some, Lose Some
08 Feb 2021
Contributed by Lukas
What's your definition of dating success? "The Bachelor" winner Jen Schefft Waterman and "Who Does She Think She Is" host Stephanie Llewellyn return t...
GLD 286 - It's Time To Make Your Move
01 Feb 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Are we ready to flip the script on the dating landscape? Best-selling author Jon Birger drops by to talk about his new book "Make Your Move: The New S...
GLD 285 - You Had Me At Last Call
25 Jan 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Are certain workplaces more conducive to romance and connection? Restaurant industry veterans Nicole Alverson and Emily Dunlap join The Debate Team to...
GLD 284 - The Jealousy Paradox
18 Jan 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Are jealousy issues the root of your relationship breakdowns? Brian takes aim at the "Green-Eyed Monster", and explores its primary causes, the kind t...
GLD 283 - Turning The Laughs Into Love
11 Jan 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Is laughter the key to relationship happiness? Brian invites the kids over for a playdate, and breaks down the joys of joking, what grownups get wrong...
GLD 282 - The Best Of The Worst
04 Jan 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Our listeners respond to our list of America's Worst Cities To Find Love! A few we left off, some strong contenders for the new year, and a couple tha...
GLD 281 - America's Worst Cities To Find Love 2020
27 Dec 2020
Contributed by Lukas
A GLD tradition unlike any other! Brian is joined by "The Bachelor" winner Jen Schefft Waterman to release our annual list of the worst places for fin...
GLD 280 - The Dating Resolutions
21 Dec 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Ready to wipe the slate clean and do better in the New Year? The Great Love Listeners send in their wishes, hopes, changes, and promises for moving fo...
GLD 279 - The Truth About Long-Distance Relationships
14 Dec 2020
Contributed by Lukas
How do you stay together when you are far apart? Brian breaks down the unique challenges of long-distance relationships - the three key types, the imp...
GLD 278 - Can You Change Your Love Life In One Week?
07 Dec 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Are you ready for a radical approach to dating? Author Greg Kelly drops by to talk about "The 1 Week Relationship" - why it can work, how it changes o...
GLD 277 - It All Comes Down To This
30 Nov 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Are you overlooking the two most important ingredients for better relationships? Brian breaks down what you need to focus on, the elements that matter...
GLD 276 - The Past Tense
23 Nov 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Is your partner's relationship with their ex a bit too close for comfort? Brian explores how much is too much, what's appropriate and what's a problem...
GLD 275 - Writing Your Best Chapter
16 Nov 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Are you not where you thought you would be in life...and in love? Brian is joined by "Smoke, Drink, F*#k" author Christine Dodd to talk about dating a...
GLD 274 - Crazy Shade Of Winter
09 Nov 2020
Contributed by Lukas
The Debate Team opens up a fresh batch of Listener Letters from the ladies! Second-thought breakups, frightening relatives, lustful best friends, sil...
GLD 273 - On To The Next One
02 Nov 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Are there better days ahead? Is this actually the best time to find The One? Brian breaks down the state of dating nation - where we are going, what m...
GLD 272 - Going The Extra Mile
26 Oct 2020
Contributed by Lukas
How far would you go to find the right one? Brian lays out a path to set and achieve your goals for love and life - how to get started, what we are mi...
GLD 271 - Get It Together, Guys
19 Oct 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Don't you think the boys could use a bit of improvement? Filmmaker and Scream Queen Sadie Katz pops in for a rollicking round of Listener Letters - fo...
GLD 270 - The Shallow End Of The Dating Pool
12 Oct 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Been a while since you waded into the murky waters of online dating? Brian heads to Dallas and dives into a lively round of Tinder Roulette with datin...
GLD 269 - The Patience Paradox
05 Oct 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Do the best things come to those who wait? Brian breaks down the paradox of patience - why it's so difficult, what it really means, how to harness it,...
GLD 268 - The 11 Exes You Date Along The Way
28 Sep 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Do some exes matter more than the rest? Brian breaks down the 11 significant exes that make up a dating history - the good ones, the problem ones, the...
GLD 267 - Everyone Is Full Of It
21 Sep 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Is the one ingredient you really need something you already have? Brian breaks down the thing that's stopping us, why it matters, where to find it, ho...
GLD 266 - Careful What You Wish For
14 Sep 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Still seeking satisfaction from your ex? Think again! The Debate Team unveils a fresh batch of "Exes & Uh-Oh's!" full of listener regrets, vengeful em...
GLD 265 - Why, And Everything Ever
07 Sep 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Is the most important question the one that never gets asked? The Debate Team takes a look at the root of all relationships, and revisits a classic GL...
GLD 264 - Handling The Highs
31 Aug 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Brian sits down with influencer and founder of The Social Vine, Stephanie Llewellyn, to dig into why we self-sabotage, what we need from our friends, ...
GLD 263 - Beyond The Bachelor
24 Aug 2020
Contributed by Lukas
"The Bachelor" winner and "The Bachelorette" star Jen Schefft Waterman joins Brian in her Ohio hometown to relive reality star memories, being thrust ...
GLD 262 - Grounds For Dismissal...Part 2!
17 Aug 2020
Contributed by Lukas
It's the ladies' turn to face the music! Brian reveals the 10 traits that will have him pointing her towards the relationship off-ramp. All the red fl...
GLD 261 - America's Best Cities To Find Love
10 Aug 2020
Contributed by Lukas
A tradition unlike any other! Brian reveals and runs down the GLD's Top 10 Places To Find Love For 2020 - all of America's best cities to recharge, ...
GLD 260 - The Parent Trap
03 Aug 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Having trouble navigating the single parent landscape? "Charisma Quotient" host Kim Seltzer returns to The Debate Team to dish on mama drama, daddy is...
GLD 259 - Grounds For Dismissal
27 Jul 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Are there things that immediately tell you he's got to go? Brian reveals the 10 traits that are total no-go's - the really bad habits, the really wron...
GLD 258 - The Bad Situations
20 Jul 2020
Contributed by Lukas
The Debate Team heads to Las Vegas and rewards you with a jackpot of Listener Letters! Angry roommates, overeating partners, unattractive antibodies...
GLD 257 - All The Good Gossip
13 Jul 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Have we all become...gossip columnists? Gossip great Ben Widdicombe stops by to talk about his brand new best-seller "Gatecrasher: How I Helped The Ri...
GLD 256 - The Memorable Ones
06 Jul 2020
Contributed by Lukas
After 6 seasons, do the fundamental tenets of the GLD still hold up? The Debate Team does a self-assessment on its most popular messages, core belief...
GLD 255 - The Opposite Question
29 Jun 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Do opposites really attract? Should they? Can they? Brian takes a deep dive on the science of sameness, how to bridge differences, the qualities that ...