The Great Love Debate with Brian Howie

GLD 255 - The Opposite Question

29 Jun 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Do opposites really attract? Should they? Can they? Brian takes a deep dive on the science of sameness, how to bridge differences, the qualities that ...

GLD 254 - Spouse Hunting

22 Jun 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Are you a relationship buyer...or seller? "Spouse Hunting" author Brian Belefant joins The Debate Team to talk about the similarities between great re...

GLD 253 - The State Of The Date

15 Jun 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Is there any part of the current dating landscape that is actually...hopeful?Brian gives his annual State of The Date address, and breaks down current...

GLD 252 - The Ex Smiles

08 Jun 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Isn't it time we all got along? The Debate Team breaks down a big batch of listener submissions on the one thing they miss most about their ex. All th...

GLD 251 - The Breakup Show

01 Jun 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever been in a really great relationship that suddenly just...ends? Brian takes you into the world of breakups - the real source of heartbrea...

GLD 250 - Winning The Blame Game

25 May 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever wanted to blame anyone and anything for...everything? Brian dishes out a healthy dose of how to blame!  What went wrong, why it's their...

GLD 249 - Our Dog Eat Dog Dating World

18 May 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Does dating bring out the animal in you? The Debate Team is joined by life coach, author, and renowned dog advocate Betsy Rosenfeld Vargas to shed lig...

GLD 248 - The Things That Will Get You Laid

11 May 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Guys, she might like you, but does she like you in THAT way? Brian sheds some light on the 10 things that will have her seeing you in a new light - ev...

GLD 247 - What You Really, Really Want

04 May 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Not quite sure what you even want out of a relationship? Brian has the answer, and he is sharing it on this special episode - what makes a relationshi...

GLD 246 - Jillian Barberie Bounces Back

27 Apr 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Our favorite FOX personality Jillian Barberie makes her triumphant return to the GLD pod to talk beating cancer, keeping confident, the importance of ...

GLD 245 - What Are You Doing?!

20 Apr 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Brian takes on the most important question of them all, and takes down all the barriers to answering it.  Everything you need to ask to make a change...

GLD 244 - The Quarantine Questions

13 Apr 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Are you having a hard time with the current challenges? The Debate Team takes on a fresh batch of Listener Letters, dealing with all things related to...

GLD 243 - Now Is Not The Time

06 Apr 2020

Contributed by Lukas

When does timing matter most? Right now! "You're Not Getting Any Younger" host Jen Glantz joins Brian to break down getting through tough times, enfor...

GLD 242 - The Dating Amendments

30 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Don't you think it's about time for something that's hopeful...and helpful?  The Debate Team unveils The Dating Amendments, the long-awaited and much...

GLD 241 - Capturing The Crazy

23 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Are you ready to take on - and embrace - the crazy? Brian takes love off lockdown, and runs through 6 years of GLD wackiness - the most memorable mome...

GLD 240 - The Truth And Nothing But The Truth

16 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

The GLD's favorite feature is back!  Radio personality Emily Makinzie returns for a rollicking round of "Exes & Uh-oh's", where listeners get a cold ...

GLD 239 - 13 Reasons Why You're A Lazy Dater

09 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Has modern dating become too convenient? Are Postmates and Netflix part of the problem? The Debate Team dishes out a baker's dozen reasons why you're ...

GLD 238 - When Fantasy Faces Reality

02 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever had a moment where it's time to confront your dreams? Brian breaks down the truth about crushes, what's real about reality romance, the ...

GLD 237 - The Ones With All The Answers

23 Feb 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Brian heads to Cleveland and discovers a very special group of people who have quickly realized the keys to life, staying focused on what really matte...

GLD 236 - 10 Things To Make Him Go Hmmm...

17 Feb 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Listen up, ladies! Have you ever wanted to be more dateable, approachable, or even noticeable? The Debate Team brings you 10 things you need to do to ...

GLD 235 - 100 Days To Fall In Love

10 Feb 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Ever you ever wondered when is the best time to find love? Brian has the answer - and charts your course to find love by Memorial Day. Everything you ...

GLD 234 - Tackling The Tough Part

03 Feb 2020

Contributed by Lukas

What's the best way to get over early relationship hurdles? "Don't Eat The Scraps" author Jules Price joins The Debate Team to take on some tough trut...

GLD 233 - What The Heck Is He Thinking?

27 Jan 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Ever wonder what's going on in his silly big head? "A Guy Thing Podcast" host Joe Mignone sits down with Brian to explore the muddled male mind - why ...

GLD 232 - Break Your Boring

20 Jan 2020

Contributed by Lukas

What is the current value of communication? Have you become the Mayor of Dullsville? Video Master Rick Gmitro joins The Debate Team to help step up yo...

GLD 231 - Come On Get Happy

13 Jan 2020

Contributed by Lukas

What did Meghan and Harry miss most? Brian delivers his unique take on the importance of happiness, why it's overlooked, the process of discovery, the...

GLD 230 - The Current Complaints

06 Jan 2020

Contributed by Lukas

The Debate Team takes a close-up look at listeners' concerns, complaints, and questions about the GLD!  What needs improving, the changes ahead, mist...

GLD 229 - Perfect 2020 Vision

30 Dec 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Ready to make this your best year ever? "Flirt Academy" host Kim Seltzer joins The Debate Team to map out the 12 things you need to do get out of your...

GLD 228 - Respecting Perspective

23 Dec 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Think it's our differences that are keeping us apart? Think again! Brian explains the importance of expanding your viewpoint, learning to listen, alte...

GLD 227 - A Dicey Decade Of Dating

16 Dec 2019

Contributed by Lukas

The Debate Team counts down the Top 10 dating developments of the past decade! What we got right, what needs improving, the disasters, the differences...

GLD 226 - The Commitment Quandary

09 Dec 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Is commitment always a good thing? Dr. Deena returns to The Debate Team to talk breaking habits, changing unhealthy routines, recognizing core issues,...

GLD 225 - Inside Temptation Island

02 Dec 2019

Contributed by Lukas

"Temptation Island" host Mark L. Walberg drops by to break down the behind-the-scenes of the hit reality show, the keys to a great social experiment, ...

GLD 224 - Seeking Southern Charm

25 Nov 2019

Contributed by Lukas

The Debate Team heads to Nashville to seek the truth about Southern Gentlemen, the downside of chivalry, why women are wily, southern style, the myste...

GLD 223 - Misery Loves Company

18 Nov 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Hurt a little, share a little, learn a lot! "Mama Said" Podcast co-host Jenna Parris joins The Debate Team to dish on what dating and parenting have i...

GLD 222 - America's Worst Cities To Find Love 2019

11 Nov 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Which cities are going the wrong way, have lost their way, and can't get out of their own way when it comes to love and relationships? The Debate Team...

GLD 221 - Listener Letters Strike Back!

04 Nov 2019

Contributed by Lukas

The Geek Goddess - and GLD fave - actress and TV host Alison Haislip returns to The Debate Team to take on a fresh and feisty batch of Listener Letter...

GLD 220 - Strangers, Friends, Lives, & Lovers

28 Oct 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Is the company you keep the key to your love life? The Debate Team is joined by "Love By Design" founder Traci Porterfield and past life regression th...

GLD 219 - The Hiding Of The Hurt

21 Oct 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Brian heads to Florida, where he discloses some painful distant (and recent) memories; and explores compartmentalizing pain, holding onto the hurt, le...

GLD 218 - The 23 Questions That Matter

14 Oct 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Don't you wish you had a sure-fire path to find love? Now you do! The Debate Team lays out the 23 Questions That Matter - everything you need to ask, ...

GLD 217 - Check Out Of Heartbreak Hotel

07 Oct 2019

Contributed by Lukas

In this special solo episode, Brian takes on the trickiest of topics - heartbreak. A unique and game-changing look at what it is, why we feel it, how ...

GLD 216 - Bring It Up...Or Bury It?

30 Sep 2019

Contributed by Lukas

When is the right time to ask - or share - all the who/what/where/why you want to know? The Debate Team is joined by "Charisma Quotient" host Kim Selt...

GLD 215 - Playing Out The Whole Hand

23 Sep 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Too many Late Bloomers? Peter Pans? Stunted Adolescents? Or does patience make perfect? Dr. Sharon Cohen joins The Debate Team to talk emotional avail...

GLD 214 - It Can Happen To You

16 Sep 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Think finding love is something that only happens to someone else? Think again! "You're Not Getting Any Younger" host - and GLD fave - Jen Glantz retu...

GLD 213 - Getting Candid with Candace Bushnell

09 Sep 2019

Contributed by Lukas

The always-entertaining Candace Bushnell goes one-on-one with Brian to talk sex, New York City, Sex And The City, alpha guys, dating over 50, chasing ...

GLD 212 - All For One...Or One For All

02 Sep 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Can one person satisfy one person? Does your definition of love differ? "The Manwhore Podcast" host Billy Procida battles The Debate Team on the meani...

GLD 211 - What It All Memes

26 Aug 2019

Contributed by Lukas

"Kinda Dating" podcast host Natasha Chandel joins The Debate Team for an honest and hilarious round of "Meme or No Meme," where we discuss, dissect, a...

GLD 210 - Tawdry Campfire Tales

19 Aug 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Ever wonder where, when, and how things went wrong - or even why they didn't? "Campfire Shtshow" hosts Beau Hufford and Meryl Klemow join The Debate T...

GLD 209 - The Spark Starters

12 Aug 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Think you've already tried everything to improve your love life? Think again! The Debate Team reveals 10 things you can do - right now - to jump start...

GLD 208 - The Exes Strike Back

05 Aug 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Our favorite fan feature "Exes & Uh-oh's" is back! The Debate Team lets loose on getting your freak on, family dysfunction, petty jealousy, moving on ...

GLD 207 - The Dog Days Of Dating

29 Jul 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Does your pet passion affect your dating decisions? The Pooch Cupid, Dogipack founder Megan O'Brien, and comedian Ryan Patrick join The Debate Team to...

GLD 206 - If They Only Had A Brain

22 Jul 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Does being intelligent truly matter when it comes to love and relationships? The Debate Team heads to Tel Aviv to break down the importance of brain p...

GLD 205 - Get Off The Height Thing

15 Jul 2019

Contributed by Lukas

The Debate Team heads to Bangkok for a little spicy Pod Thai, and takes on our unhealthy height obsession, why it's misguided, what we need to do bett...

GLD 204 - Doin' It Down Under

08 Jul 2019

Contributed by Lukas

The Debate Team heads to Australia for a special episode from Melbourne! We take a deep dive into hot accents, rugged men, dating differences, being p...

GLD 203 - A Tale Of Twelve Cities

01 Jul 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Brian reviews and dissects the first half of 2019 and reveals the places you need to go, the life changes you need to make, how to decide your future,...

GLD 202 - Single Parent, Summer Lovin'

24 Jun 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Divorced, and ready to dive into the deep end of the summer dating pool? “First World Mom Problems” host Rhonica Petty joins The Debate Team to ta...

GLD 201 - Stopping The Cheating

16 Jun 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Can't everyone just stop screwing around? "First Comes Us" author Anita Chlipala joins Brian in Chicago to break down why people stray, how to prevent...

GLD 200 - Seeking Arrangements

10 Jun 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Maybe we're doing nothing wrong, we're just doing everything...backwards? The Debate Team ponders the order of things, and explores arranged marriages...

GLD 199 - The Art Of The Dinner Date

03 Jun 2019

Contributed by Lukas

If you're gonna do it, do it right! "Charisma Quotient" host Kim Seltzer joins Brian and the two of them take on and break down everything you need to...

GLD 198 - A Man And A Therapist

27 May 2019

Contributed by Lukas

NY Times Best-Selling Author of "Maybe You Should To Talk To Someone" Lori Gottlieb joins Brian in-studio to dissect the benefits of therapy, professi...

GLD 197 - The Ties That Bind

20 May 2019

Contributed by Lukas

What makes a perfect partnership? Eliza Orlins from "Amazing Race"  and Erin Davis from "Bubbies Know Best" join The Debate Team to dive into what ma...

GLD 196 - Giving It All Up

13 May 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Does absence make the heart grow...stronger? Author Kacie Main joins Brian in Washington DC to dish on going without, growing within, tuning out the n...

GLD 195 - Just Do Better

06 May 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Is he not the man you want him to be? Are you not the man you think you can be? Spencer Burnett returns to The Debate Team to talk about his new book,...

GLD 194 - Now Or Never

29 Apr 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Are you letting your dating life pass you by? TV Personality Julie Alexandria and Love By Design founder Traci Porterfield return to The Debate Team t...

GLD 193 - The Cautionary Tales

22 Apr 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Are you looking for red flags at the expense of green lights? The Debate Team heads to Las Vegas and opens up a fresh batch of Listener Letters! Actio...

GLD 192 - Ten For The Trash

15 Apr 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Think you know what matters in the matters of the heart? Think again! The Debate Team breaks down, debunks, and deals the hard truth on what's importa...

GLD 191 - Planet Of The Apps

08 Apr 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Is there no turning back - and have we turned the corner - when it comes to online dating?  "Mom vs. Matchmaker" star Carmelia Ray and digital dating...

GLD 190 - The Beginning Of The Beginning

01 Apr 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Do you really wanna…get started? The Debate Team gives you everything you need to start down the road to love!  How to begin, the questions to rais...

GLD 189 - Flirt Academy

25 Mar 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Want to ignite the spark? Not sure how to fan the flame? Brian and GLD lead love guru Kim Seltzer launch "Flirt Academy" - everything you need to know...

GLD 188 - The Reality Of It All

17 Mar 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Brian heads to New Orleans to rendezvous with reality tv legend Trishelle Cannatella, and they explore kissing for public consumption, overcoming bad ...

GLD 187 - Survive & Advance

11 Mar 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Everything you need to know to not get voted off the relationship island! The Debate Team is joined by CBS' "Survivor" contestant Max Dawson to crack ...

GLD 186 - Going Gaga

04 Mar 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Brian heads to Florida and digs into the truth about Bradley Cooper & Lady Gaga, fantasy versus reality, chasing ghosts, facing truths, breaking down ...

GLD 185 - State Of Confusion

25 Feb 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Brian heads to New York City where he is joined by comedian Jason Salmon and "Millionaire Matchmaker" co-host Marisa Saks to dish on keeping it real, ...

GLD 184 - Making Mister Right

18 Feb 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Three wise men, one special podcast! "The Angry Therapist" John Kim and top guys' guru Spencer Burnett join Brian in the studio to break down modern m...

GLD 183 - Two Worlds Colliding

11 Feb 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Brian heads to Hong Kong, where he discovers - and reveals - the keys to merging lives, blending in, standing out, coming together, recognizing what's...

GLD 182 - Technically Dating

04 Feb 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Trying to engineer a new relationship? Are millennials overthinking things? Brainy blondes Sally Cotching and Sierra Sterling join The Debate Team to ...

GLD 181 - Spicy Pod Thai

28 Jan 2019

Contributed by Lukas

The Debate Team heads to Bangkok! We dish and discover the lay of the love land in Thailand, and sit down with locals and visitors to talk Asian datin...

GLD 180 - A Study In Contradictions

20 Jan 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Does your partner say one thing and do another? Think one thing and want another? Do one thing and not another? "Millionaire Matchmaker" co-host Maris...

GLD 179 - The Path Of The Perfect Partner

14 Jan 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Want to get better at compromising, navigating, communicating, and negotiating with your partner? "When You Least Expect It" author Jen Glantz returns...

GLD 178 - Et Tu, Julia Roberts?

07 Jan 2019

Contributed by Lukas

The Debate Team is joined by _Love Lies_ host Michele Russo to challenge conventional wisdom on what makes a relationship last, how to navigate choppy...

GLD 177 - LIVE at the Hollywood Improv w/ Johnny Bananas, Rachel McCord, Andrea Lowell & more!

31 Dec 2018

Contributed by Lukas

The GLD tour heads home to Los Angeles for another hilarious sold-out show at the world-famous Hollywood Improv!  Listen in for all the laughs, lunac...

GLD 176 - The Dawn Of A New Dating Day

24 Dec 2018

Contributed by Lukas

We wrap up, review, and recalibrate a crazy year in love! Our lead love guru Kim Seltzer returns to The Debate Team to dish on why things are (finally...

GLD 175 - The Return Of Exes & Uh-oh's!

17 Dec 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Our fan's favorite feature is back, as we tackle a fresh batch of revenge for those listeners who wanted one final word with their ex! As always, be c...

GLD 174 - Surviving The Holidays

10 Dec 2018

Contributed by Lukas

CBS "Survivor" fave Corinne Kaplan joins Brian to unwrap our annual Mistletoe Mailbag, and take on Santa fetishes, party impropriety, overindulging, u...

GLD 173 - Andrea Lowell Comes On Strong

03 Dec 2018

Contributed by Lukas

The luminous Andrea Lowell drops by to share her journey to enlightenment, making a relationship rock, changing your course, finding your purpose, own...

GLD 172 - The End Of Excuses

26 Nov 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Excuses, excuses, excuses…enough! Brian lays out the case for the elimination of lame excuses, ridiculous reasons, and imaginary obstacles that stan...

GLD 171 - Love In The Time Of Trump

19 Nov 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Does political discord damage dating? Is a voting record reflective of relationship red flags? Are today's turbulent times too much to overcome? Can t...

GLD 170 - Love, American Style

12 Nov 2018

Contributed by Lukas

In this very special episode, we take the podcast to the people! Brian heads to the heartland and hits the legendary Mall of America to discover what ...

GLD 169 - The Best & Worst Cities To Find Love 2018

05 Nov 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Our annual rundown of the best and worst cities in America to find love! We count down and rank the enthusiasm, the opportunities, the obstacles, the ...

GLD 168 - Fear & Loving

29 Oct 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Brian heads to Dallas to explore the relationship between fear, pain, redemption, and love. An honest and personal look into taking chances, overcomin...

GLD 167 - Basket Of Bad Decisions

22 Oct 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Just in time for the holidays, our listeners sent us a big basket of their bad decisions! "Charisma Quotient" host Kim Seltzer returns to The Debate T...

GLD 166 - Things That Make Her Go Hmmm...

15 Oct 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Guys, are you worried that you're not funny enough? Cool enough? Tall enough? Rich enough? Then this one is for you! Brian reveals his ten things guar...

GLD 165 - Time To Get It Together

08 Oct 2018

Contributed by Lukas

The very fun hosts of the #Adulting Podcast - recovering influencer Nikki Sharp and self-improvement addict Zack Peter - join The Debate Team to talk ...

GLD 164 - Why Mood Matters, w/ Dr. Larry Senn

01 Oct 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Best-selling author and Corporate Culture pioneer Dr. Larry Senn sits down with Brian to discuss his groundbreaking philosophy "The Mood Elevator," an...

GLD 163 - The Pursuit Of Happiness

24 Sep 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Author and Psychologist Dr. Jenny Taitz joins The Debate Team to talk about the importance of happiness, what prevents us from finding it, how to defi...

GLD 162 - Exes & Uh-Ohs: The Revenge

17 Sep 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Our fans' favorite feature is back!  Have one more question you need to ask your lost love?  Really dying to get the last word in? Just need to say ...

GLD 161 - Stop Settling For Single

10 Sep 2018

Contributed by Lukas

You aren't single because you refuse to settle, you are single because you have chosen to settle! Brian breaks it all down and lays out the definitive...

GLD 160 - Katy Perry Knows All

03 Sep 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Are California Girls truly something to sing about? Is a Southern Gentleman really what you want? The Debate Team returns to Charlotte to take on all ...

GLD 159 - Laying Down The Law

27 Aug 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Brian unveils and breaks down his revolutionary "Law of 20%" to get you out of the relationship you don't want and into the one that you do!  "Charis...

GLD 158 - The Tournament Of Terrible Choices, Part 2

20 Aug 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Think you went out with the worst woman ever? Think again! Good Eats & Meets founder Richard Gruica joins The Debate Team to judge the female side of ...

GLD 157 - Make Men Sexy Again

13 Aug 2018

Contributed by Lukas

What really makes a man appealing? Can any man become sexy? The Debate Team heads to Seattle to find out if funny really matters, how he can kickstart...

GLD 156 - The Questions That Matter

06 Aug 2018

Contributed by Lukas

The Debate Team heads to Charlotte to take on the most serious subjects - how to get on The Bachelor, whether your guy needs to get an iPhone, the key...