Dr Emily - You, Me & Jealousy
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What is the main topic discussed in this episode?
Almost all of us feel it, yet almost none of us want to admit it.
It's an experience that arises when there is a perceived threat to a valued relationship.
In my mind at the time, I was like, how could you not realise that this would be a weird thing?
The thought that I was telling you was upsetting to you was awful.
Hearing you say that, like, I haven't gotten jealous in a long time, it's like, how?
Jealousy is a normal human emotion that, like any emotion, is information and a signal that we can tune into wisely if we're willing.
jam i saw was talking to someone in the fruit and veg section turns out it's harry bloody styles i wasn't jealous though because it's just harry styles how do i show up when this feeling is here what am i willing to stand for in the face of this feeling of jealousy
Quick, is anyone here a doctor? Yes, her name is Dr. Emily and she's a psychologist. Please welcome to The Imperfects, our very own psychologist.
Dr. M. Hello. Hello. Oh, she's back. She is. She is back. It's good to see you.
I'm here.
I feel I didn't do this last time, but just to remind everyone, Dr. Emily, our resident psychologist, everyone knows this by now. I mean, you know, you're bigger than the podcast at this point, I think. It's like you're your own planet and then we're orbiting planet Dr. M at this point.
Oh, no, that's a bit much. It's true.
We are but moons. It's true. We are but moons. But you've been coming to this podcast for years. Every time you come on, you bring on like you want to like focus in in a clinical sense on a previous episode and a topic that we talked about and go into it on a deeper level. And I'm assuming you're doing that again today.
Yes.
Not breaking format.
No.
You're not going to do your top ten plays of the week from the NBA?
No. There'll be so many to choose from. Yeah, it will be.
A lot of dunks. It's finals time. There's so much. Yeah, it's big. Yes. But anyway.
Yes.
Em.
Well, today I would like to talk about jealousy.
Oh.
Yes.
It's here. The day has arrived.
Yes. Yep. And you might remember that I have done an episode previously on envy.
Yeah.
And I've made them very distinct because they are very distinct experiences and emotions. Yeah.
It's weird that you would wear green today and not then.
One of the chances. One of the chances, yeah. Green with jealousy. Yeah. Yes. And to really kind of introduce this topic, I'm actually going to go back to, I think, a very well-known episode that you did with Hamish and Hugh. And you were there, of course, Josh, as well. I was, but I know what you're referring to. Where you were expressing your experience of jealousy.
Yes, I was.
I sure was. In a friendship context. Yeah, luckily I'm completely over it now. Exactly.
You all right? Pretty much. Okay. Pretty much. Yeah. Oh, good. Oh, good. I'm fine. I'm actually fine. I'm actually fine. Stop asking me. I'm actually fine.
Yes. So I thought we'd go back and listen to that to give a bit of context and then I'll spend.
Just trigger warning to future Ryan when you're listening to this. Great.
Yes. So let me get, I'll get that out for you guys.
Okay.
And I thought, well, here's a problem. I was sitting in the green room going, I've got an issue here because probably everyone's favorite story is about when I met Hamish. And part of it is going, oh, I love Hamish, incredible, blah, blah, blah. And then I'm like, oh, I can't have Ryan hear me say that. And so I had this huge panic before going on stage. Do I tell this story now? Or is it going to confirm all Ryan's fears? So it's been a... I'm happy to have this discussion, I have to say.
This is great to clear the air.
I don't have much to add, by the way. This is where I go, the main reason I want to be friends with Hugh was for Josh.
I still do have, and I wasn't sure whether I'd talk about this, but I do have a weird, I mean, we joked about me being a possessive friend, but there is a weird possessiveness that I do have with both of you in certain ways. And it's like there's a Seinfeld episode about don't let your worlds collide. And there is part of me that like the thought of you two becoming friends is
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